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One of the most common things I hear from people is this:

“I’m tired of starting over with fitness.”

They feel like they’re stuck in a loop:

1. Get motivated to make a change
2. Go all-in with a new plan
3. Life throws a curveball
4. Fall off track and feel like they “failed”
5. Eventually muster up the energy to try again

This cycle is exhausting. And while many people blame it on “laziness” or “discipline”, I haven’t found that to be true.

It’s usually about a lack of clarity and support.

So I built something to help break that loop.
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I lovingly named it The “Stop Starting Over” Workout (I know, super creative. 😂)

It’s a short, full-body routine you can do 2-4 times per week, with built-in options for:

• Days when you have plenty of time and energy

• Days when things feel fine

• Days when everything is on fire

Same workout.

Different dials you can turn up or down.

You can grab the workout here:

Your mission (should you choose to accept it):

Try the workout sometime this week. 💪

Then, email back and tell me how it went. I read every response.

-Matt

I want to tell you about something a client said to me recently, because I think a lot of people quietly feel this way:

“I’ve struggled to ​lose weight​ my entire adult life. I feel like I’m failing at something that should be easy.”

If you’ve struggled to get in shape before, you might know that same feeling.

It can sneak in and make the whole thing feel personal.

Like you’re the problem. Like “if I just had more willpower”, things would be better.

But here’s the thing:

You’re not failing at something that should be easy.

You’re striving to do something that’s hard for basically everyone.

And that distinction makes a world of difference.

The Mismatch

When you zoom out and look at the actual evidence, getting in shape is not simple.

Not losing weight.

Not building muscle.

Not sticking to habits.

Why? Because we’re doing all of it inside a system that stacks the deck:

And that’s just our external environment.

When we look under the hood, each person has different levels of ​food noise​, ​enjoyment from exercise​, injury history, etc.

We aren’t all playing on a level playing field – and that playing field was already challenging to begin with!

I’m not saying any of this to make you feel hopeless.

Quite the contrary:

It’s only by acknowledging the very real constraints that we can make a plan for how to get unstuck.

Here’s a simple 2-step approach you can use to do just that.

Step 1: Collect Evidence

An important part of rewriting the narrative is collecting evidence to the contrary.

That you are the type of person who shows up.

Take a few moments each day to highlight whenever you take an action that’s aligned with your goals.

✅ When you do a ​short workout​ instead of no workout on a crazy day

✅ When you build a ​balanced plate​ at dinner time

✅ When you add a few more reps to your workout

Jot it down in a notebook. Text a friend. Drop a marble in your ​jar of awesome​.

This is one of the most critical aspects of our ​coaching program​.

People need to see signs of progress. They need reinforcement that what they are doing is working.

That starts by highlighting the actions you take that move you towards your goals.

From there, we can narrow in on the target.

Step 2: Shrink the Target

When you’re feeling stuck and like nothing is working, it’s natural to want to try to change all the things, all at once!

I encourage you to resist that urge.

Instead, get more laser-focused.

In my 15 years of coaching, the most progress comes from ​reducing the number of things​ someone has to worry about. Not adding more to their to-do list.

Because focus creates consistency.

If you know what the number one goal for the day is, you’re way more likely to tackle it than if you have a laundry list of 10 things that all feel important, all the time.

If they are all the most important, then none of them are important.

Narrowing your focus not only improves consistency and reduces overwhelm, it helps you learn what actually moves the needle for you.

You don’t have to guess if something is working or not – you’ve consistently done it and you can see the results for yourself!

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So here’s the thought I want you to practice:

Instead of:

“I’m failing at something that should be easy.”

Try:

“I’m striving to do something that’s hard for almost everyone – and I’m still showing up.”

That reframe isn’t fluffy.

It’s practical.

It pulls you out of shame and into problem-solving. It lets you notice the progress you are making. And it clears space to decide what your next step actually is.

And that’s the whole game:

Show up.

Collect evidence.

Narrow the focus.

Repeat.

You do that long enough, and the identity you’re building becomes the thing that carries you forward.

If you want help figuring out your “one thing” for this week, reply to this email. I’m here.

-Matt

We’re officially in that stretch of the year where it feels like someone hit the chaos button: work deadlines, school events, holiday travel…all happening at once.

And in the middle of that, trying to follow a “normal” workout routine can feel impossible.

Luckily, you don’t need to!

Here are three strategies we use with busy coaching clients to get great results without workouts having to take over their lives.

Pick one and plug it in whenever your schedule tightens up. 💪

Strategy 1: Focus on the “Big Rocks”

Pick exercises that give you the biggest return:

• One lower body exercise (squats, deadlifts, lunges)
• One upper body “pushing” exercise (push-ups, bench press, overhead press)
• One upper body “pulling” exercise (rows, pulldowns, assisted chin-ups)

This little “push-pull-legs” triangle works with ​dumbbells​, machines, bodyweight, whatever you’ve got.

Take our ​Beginner Bodyweight Workout​, for example.

You can delete the lunges, planks, and jumping jacks and focus on the squats, push-ups and rows and boom! You’ve cut your workout time in half and still get a great workout in.

Three movements. Full body. Massive bang-for-your-buck.

Strategy 2: Fewer Rounds, Higher Effort

I hear a lot of people say, “If I don’t do the full workout, it doesn’t really count.”

Not true.

Even one solid round still gives your muscles enough stimulus to maintain strength – and often to build it.

Here’s an approach we use all the time with busy clients.

Matching Sets

1. Pick a challenging weight or version of the exercise.
2. After a warm up, do as many good reps as you can with solid form.
3. Rest briefly.
4. Do one more set and try to match that number – even if you need a few mini-breaks to get there.

Two high-effort sets and you’re done in minutes.

Strategy 3: The 10-minute Time Box

Sometimes life is so slammed you feel like you barely have 5 or 10 minutes to squeeze a workout in.

So let’s build a workout that you know will take EXACTLY that long!

Here’s how to do it:

1. Set a timer for your allotted time box. (5 minutes, 10 minutes, 15 minutes, etc.)
2. Choose 2-4 exercises.
3. Cycle through them one after the other, resting as needed.
4. Get as many total reps as you can before the timer hits zero.

If you get one round: great.

If you get four rounds, also great.

You worked hard inside the window you had, which is what counts.

One Last Thing

Even if none of these strategies happen and the day is a complete whirlwind…a two-minute walk, a quick stretch, or a single set of squats still matters.

It keeps the “workout space” open in your life.

It reinforces your identity as someone who moves.

And it makes sliding back into a routine in January so much easier.

You don’t need a perfect plan.

You just need a plan that works today, with the time and energy you actually have. ❤️

-Matt

P.S. If you want help building a plan that fits your life, and the accountability and support to implement it, that’s exactly what we do in our ​Coaching Program​.

It’s Thanksgiving week here in the States, so I want to talk about something that trips people up every single year:

How do you navigate a holiday week without feeling stressed, restricted, or like you “messed up” your progress?

First thing’s first:

There is no one “right” answer that works for everyone, all the time, forever.

Instead, our goal is to practice making proactive choices that feel good to YOU.

Let’s break it down.

Option 1: “I want to stay on my current plan.”

Some people are on a roll going into a holiday week. They’ve found momentum. They feel great. And sticking to the plan – even if it will be more challenging – feels worth it.

This often looks like:

• Making deliberate choices around alcohol, desserts, portion sizes, etc.
• Planning ahead so you have options available that fit your plan. (like bringing extra veggies or sparkling water to drink)
• Being ready to set boundaries with loved ones

And if that’s you: great!

You don’t have to apologize for wanting to keep a good thing going.

Option 2: “I’m taking this week off from thinking about food and workouts.”

For others, taking a break on a holiday week is a better decision.
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They know that things are already going to be hectic, and the added stress of trying to adhere to their routine isn’t worth the tradeoff.
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Sure, progress may slow for a few days, but it’s OK to not always optimize for “fitness”.
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Instead, we put a plan in place so they can get right back into their routine after the holiday break. 😃

Option 3: “I want a flexible middle ground.”

In my experience, this is the sweet spot for most people.

Sticking to a few strategies that feel good without being overly restrictive helps you maintain momentum through the holiday week.

Here are some of the ones we’ve found to be most successful. Think of this like a “Choose your own adventure” menu.

Strategy: Protein and veggies first

As much as possible, focus on getting a serving of lean protein and a fruit or veggie on your plate with each meal (in addition to anything else you’d like to eat!) Eating protein and fiber will help you feel fuller and make sure you are prioritizing some awesome nutrient-dense foods.

Strategy: Increase your water intake

Keep a water bottle, sparkling water, or other low-calorie beverage on hand. If you are drinking alcohol, try to alternate with a glass of water. This can help you find a better balance throughout the night.

Strategy: Scout out options ahead of time

It’s easier to make a choice ahead of time than in the spur of the moment. Scan the menu (if you’re at a restaurant) for some buzz words, and see what you can find that still sounds delicious!

Strategy: Put it on a plate

When possible, put food on a plate first before eating it. Using smaller plates at a buffet can naturally help you regulate portion sizes while also registering how full you actually feel.

Strategy: To-go box

Ask for a to-go box right at the start of your meal (or bring a container if you’re visiting friends or family.) This takes pressure off of picking at the food more if you really don’t want it. You have it, and you can easily put some away from later to enjoy.

Strategy: Treat Yo’self

Striking a balance between treating yourself on a special occasion and going off the rails can be tricky. One way I like to think about treating myself is not only enjoying the food and the company, but also feeling good when I wake up the next day (physically.)

Strategy: Balance across the day

Consider having a lighter meal to balance out a dense meal. If you know you’ll be having a bigger-than-normal meal at some point in the day, try prioritizing protein, fruits, and veggies in your other meals.
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Big meals tend to have rich foods with plenty of delicious carbs and fats, so you don’t have to worry about getting enough of those in and can still balance your day on the whole.

Strategy: Fork down between bites

Putting your fork down between bites gives you a moment to enjoy your food, not speed through a meal, and to be more aware of your appetite. Easy money!

Strategy: Snack pack

If traveling, consider packing some easy snacks to take with you. Fruit, packs of nuts, protein bars, and jerky all travel really well and are great in a pinch or to supplement your meals!

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Not all of these strategies will fit your needs – and that’s kind of the point! They don’t need to.

If you can move from reactive decision-making to proactive, you’ll be able to enjoy your holiday however you choose to do so, without all the stress around if you’re “doing it right” – even if that means taking a break from optimizing for “fitness” entirely!

I do want to note that not all holiday stress comes from food.

The holidays can be an extremely charged or lonely time for many, so if that’s you, please know that I know how that feels, and I’m thinking of you. ❤️

-Matt

P.S. If you want a downloadable “menu” of these options, here’s one we put together for our coaching clients and I’d love for you to have it.