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Tonishea Harris was a fashionista with a unique laugh, always put together and a mother of two young children expecting her third child.
She hoped to pursue interior design using her skill for organizing, family members said. Tonishea was shot and killed last month in a case of domestic violence. She leaves behind a toddler daughter and son.
The 36-year-old mother was about four months pregnant with a girl when she was shot Oct. 10 in the 5200 block of Cross Plains Court, in southwest Fort Worth near Benbrook, police have said. She arrived in a private vehicle at Texas Health Harris Methodist Hospital, where she died.
The father of her children, 21-year-old Joseph Weathered, was arrested and faces a charge of capital murder of multiple people in the deaths of Tonishea Harris and her unborn baby. He’s in the Tarrant County Jail with bond set at $500,000.
“I called Tonishea, ‘Mama’ when she was a baby,” her father, Antonio Harris, said in an interview with the Star-Telegram. “I told her, ‘I’m gonna teach you how to take care of me.’ And she took care of the world and everybody around her.”
Harris said his daughter was the type of person who always paid attention to others, and made sure that everything and everybody was all right around her. “She was just one that brought about the order and made sure that everybody else was enjoying where they were at that time,” he said.
“I learned what love at first sight was with my daughter. When I saw her, something told me, ‘Man, you have to take care of this for the rest of your life,’” Harris said. “She was the same way — it was instant love for those babies.”
Harris said his daughter was always prepared, ready for motherhood and nurturing to the fullest. “Her life was wrapped around who they (her children) were — that’s all she wanted, to be a mother,” he said.
Father and daughter’s last conversation
Three days before the shooting, on Oct. 7, Tonishea called her father and said, “Daddy, I’m through with him (Joseph).”
Antonio Harris said this was the first time he heard about problems in their relationship. Tonishea told him she wanted Weathered to sign papers regarding custody of the children.
“Something just told me like this was a strange conversation, so in my mind I was going to revisit that conversation,” he said.
At the end of the call, Harris heard his favorite words one last time: “I love you, Daddy.”
“Daddy was the word that meant everything in the world to me,” he said.
Coping with loss that’s ‘really unbelievable’
Antonio Harris and his twin brother were celebrating their birthday when he got a call from Joseph’s father, who told him Tonishea had been shot, he said.
“I was like, wait a minute — you know how you take a look at the phone, and make sure that you know this person, first of all, and then you’re trying to figure out what in the world did he just say,” he said.
At the hospital, a doctor came out and told Harris that they tried to stop the bleeding, but Tonishea lost too much blood and she died. When he heard those words, he was in disbelief.
“The breeze of reality slowly sinks in, and that’s where I am now. It’s really unbelievable, but I’m a realist,” Harris said. “I take with me from my baby the fact that she was one that created her own path and did what she thought was necessary.”
“I’m still in a state of, ‘Is this really happening’? And I think everybody probably goes through that stage,” Harris said. “But I’m at rest with who she is, because I can’t do anything about it.”
Harris said he did not know about the pregnancy until he was at the hospital.
If he could talk to Joseph, he would tell him, “You had the best thing in the world. I can only imagine your world without it.”
Tonishea’s two children are now with her mother, Djuana Bullard, Harris said. “My soul responsibility is to ensure the happiness and the joy of those babies in this lifetime,” he said.
Two families affected by tragedy
Taviana Weathered, Joseph’s sister, said Tonishea and her children always came to family events looking well put-together and healthy.
She said Tonishea was the best mom to her babies. “That just makes me tear up because she was truly a good mom, and she really pushed us to be aunties,” Taviana said, with her voice shaking.
“I love her so much,” Taviana said. “I don’t think this is the way she should be remembered and this is not the way that she should have gone.”
Taviana never knew what was going on with her because Tonishea was private, she said.
And as Joseph’s elder sister, she said she hadn’t spoken much to her brother since she moved out of the family home.
“I love you (Joseph) but I can’t condone anything if you are doing anything that may put you in a bad way,” she said.
Taviana said it was sad, but she and her sister felt accepted at Tonishea’s funeral. “We were able to be there for our family, which is our niece and nephew. We love you, Miss Tonishea, and it broke our hearts,” she said.
As the case moves forward, both families are focused on what’s best for the children.
“I hope the facts come out. That’s all we can say — everyone wants the facts to come out,” Taviana said. “I always pray that he’s the best version of himself … We don’t have any expectations for him outside of being the best man for himself and his kids. I really do stand on that. Even if things go left or right, he should be the best man for those kids, even if it starts today.”
Urging domestic violence victims to seek help
In December 2023, Joseph Weathered pleaded guilty to the offense of continuous violence against a family member and was sentenced to three years in prison. In that case in July 2022, Weathered, who was then 18 years old, hit a person he was dating and dragged her across the ground and separately pushed her, causing her to hit a window, according to court records. The victim in that case was not Harris.
“If you’re in that type of environment, whether you’re the perpetrator or the one who’s the victim, help yourself. Get out of it, because it may lead to death or a prison sentence,” Antonio Harris said.
“Understand what domestic violence is,” Harris said. “Our problem is that we don’t know when it becomes what that is. It sneaks up on us.”
Taviana Weathered said she also dealt with domestic violence in a previous relationship and, “I think it’s best to advocate for yourself.”
“If you’re not going to stick up for you, stick up for those babies, because they don’t deserve to see their parents go through anything,” she said. “You don’t deserve to be stalked or harassed or anything. You have to stick up for yourself and get away from it.”
If you’re experiencing domestic abuse or partner violence locally and need help, you can call The Archway’s hotline number at 1-877-701-7233 or call One Safe Place at 817-916-4323.
This story was originally published November 26, 2025 at 5:15 AM.
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