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  • ‘Something weird is going on here’: NYC woman says server told her sushi restaurant doesn’t sell alcohol. Then she takes one look around

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    Have you ever had such a bad experience with a server that you wonder if you did something wrong?

    That’s what recently happened to TikTok user Livee DeVita (@liveedevita). In a video with over 10,000 views, DeVita recounts “the strangest experience” she says she recently had in a New York City sushi restaurant.

    According to DeVita, she planned to meet friends at the restaurant. When she arrived, she says the hostess looked at her “like I have no business being in this restaurant.”

    “She’s like, ‘Can I help you?’ And I’m like, ‘Yeah, I have a reservation with my friends. I’m the first one here. It’s under this name,’” DeVita explains. “She obviously sees the name in the computer, looks over at a girl at the bar, and goes, ‘Is that her?’”

    “I’m like, ‘No. Like I just said, I’m the first one here,’—but what the [expletive]?” DeVita continues.

    Things Get Confusing

    After DeVita was seated, she spotted two people at the bar sharing a glass of wine. Knowing that her friends were running late, she asked for a drink menu. The server returned with a drink menu, telling DeVita that the restaurant “just [has] cocktails.”

    “Whatever. Maybe they’re out of wine. But I literally see two people drinking wine,” she says.

    After looking over the menu, DeVita says she was unable to locate any cocktails, as the menu only had mocktails.

    “So I go, ‘Sorry, where are the cocktails?’” DeVita says. “She grabs the menu from me, like I’m stupid, and points and goes, ‘They’re right here.’”

    “And I go, ‘Those all say mocktails,’” she continues. “And I kid you not, she looks at me and she goes, ‘Oh, yeah, we don’t sell alcohol here.’”

    This whole experience put DeVita off from eating at the restaurant.

    “I text my friends. I’m like, ‘Dude, this restaurant is, like, wacko. We’re either in a money laundering front or something weird is going on here. So, I never ended up eating there,” she explains. She later adds, “Genuinely one of the strangest experiences of my life. I felt like it was either that girl’s first day on earth or she thought it was my first day on earth.”

    What’s Going On Here?

    The Mary Sue was unable to find any sushi restaurants in New York that match this description. All sushi restaurants on Google Maps in the Lower East Side of Manhattan appear to offer alcohol, and the ones that offer mocktails seem to do so on the same menu in which the cocktails are offered.

    Given this, it’s difficult to verify DeVita’s story and figure out the restaurant’s exact policy on alcohol. That said, there are some reasons why this could have happened.

    First, the server could have been correct that the restaurant genuinely does not serve alcohol. While DeVita says she saw people drinking a glass of wine, she could have simply misidentified the drink.

    Second, it could be that the server was simply unaware of the restaurant’s alcohol offerings. Although unlikely, it’s possible that the server was new to the job and was unaware of a separate menu containing alcoholic drinks.

    What Else Could It Be?

    Finally, this could be a quirk of the restaurant’s liquor licensing. Liquor licensing can get fairly complex, and it’s possible that the server simply didn’t understand what the restaurant’s licensing allowed. For example, some restaurants with street dining may not have permission to serve alcohol in their outdoor area.

    While some commenters suggested that the restaurant was simply BYOB, New York does not allow unlicensed BYOB restaurants. This means that, if a restaurant is BYOB, it also has a license to serve alcohol (and likely does so).

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    like what was this genuinely about

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    In the comments section, users were equally stunned by DeVita’s story.

    “Power trip final boss is a hostess in a nyc restaurant,” wrote a user.

    “Idk why but like what if she’s just new and doesn’t know the menu (granted these are the vibes of a ton of people in this role like giving bouncer energy),” suggested another.

    “She out here just bored and causing havoc,” stated a third.

    The Mary Sue reached out to DeVita via email.

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  • New York woman says her first date wanted to cancel over ‘low energy.’ He didn’t know she’d already pushed through worst to show up: ‘Figure it out’

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    We all need to collectively get it together in the dating sphere. It’s time. Actually? It’s beyond time.

    It’s no secret that everyone’s dating lives and experiences have gone significantly downhill since the pandemic (understandable, considering it was a mass traumatic event), but come on, gang. At some point, we’re going to have to stop being generally unhinged.

    Unfortunately, it looks like that’s not going to happen anytime soon as the spirit of the “I don’t owe anyone anything” mentality lives on. One woman in New York City has gone viral for sharing a dating disaster showcasing this very phenomenon.

    What happened to her first date?

    On Jan. 5, Olivia Barbulescu (@theoliviabarbulescu on TikTok) posted a video detailing a truly ridiculous message she received from a guy with whom she was supposed to go on a first date. Since posting, the video has received over 300,000 views.

    Barbulescu doesn’t mince words: she cuts right to the chase.

    “I just left my house to go on a date to see that the guy texted me asking if we can reschedule because he’s feeling low energy,” Barbulescu begins, pausing in outrage. “Honey, we’re meeting in 25 minutes.”

    Indeed, Barbulescu is literally en route to the date as she receives the text. Fully dressed up and with makeup on, she gives the camera a piece of her mind.

    “Drink a coffee or a sugar-free Red Bull and wake the [expletive] up,” she orders.

    Not an unreasonable request, as it turns out, Barbulescu herself has had to rally to make it to this apparently doomed date.

    “I’m on day two of my period,” she reveals. “It’s 25 degrees out and I’m here. So you can get out of bed and chug a little bit of caffeine and figure it out.”

    Not how anyone wants to be treated by a prospective partner, to be sure. This is what happens when people stop being thought of as people, but rather as depersonalized, anonymous entities on the other side of a screen.

    @theoliviabarbulescu Will I regret posting this? Maybe. But drink a Red Bull and wake up! Men are babies #dating #nyc ♬ original sound – Olivia Barbulescu

    Barbulescu’s viewers have absolutely zero patience for this mystery man. The vast majority seemed to be pro-Barbulescu never speaking to him again.

    “Don’t even reply, just block & delete,” wrote one viewer in the comments section. Another commenter agreed, saying, “Whenever somebody asks to reschedule the first date on the same day, immediately blocked.”

    Many people seemed to take particular ire with his request to “reschedule.” They had choice words for this audacious ask.

    “Reschedule for: never,” wrote one commenter simply.

    “I have said ‘I totally understand, no big deal, but I don’t reschedule first dates so wish you all the best!’ wrote another. ‘Then they can make it.”

    Some viewers thought something more nefarious was at play, whether that’s another girl in the picture or some good-old-fashioned insanity.

    “He just got an answer from.the girl he really wants,” one theorized.

    “Cancelling 25 minutes before for anything other than an emergency is crazy,” said another.

    However, there’s one comment that definitely takes the cake. One especially sassy viewer clowned this guy using the language of notoriously cringe manosphere influencers.

    “How is going to spread his seed if he is low energy?” the viewer mocked. “Asking for the red pilled CEO who has a podcast.”

    Barbulescu responded to The Mary Sue’s request for comment via email and had no comment to add.

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  • Georgia woman receives ‘extremely hard to find’ $180 Viktor & Rolf perfume from Ulta as gift. Um… is it used?: ‘Might be old’

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    A woman from Georgia just got a chance to see a Viktor & Rolf perfume she received for Christmas. But wait—it’s already been used by an Ulta customer?

    In a video with over 38,000 views, Teagan Alexandra (@missteaganalexandra) explained how she ended up with a hard-to-find bottle of Viktor & Rolf’s Bon Bon women’s perfume that a customer might have used. But worse, her mother had already spent $200 on the bottle and gave it to her for Christmas.

    So, how did Teagan receive a bottle that’s already been sprayed from or used, especially considering her mother already spent more for the perfume?

    Did she purchase a used bottle from Ulta?

    Teagan noticed while unwrapping her bottle of Viktor & Rolf’s perfume for Christmas that it came with no plastic covering—an obvious sign, she says, that the bottle had been tampered with or used. 

    Commenters generally agreed, saying that Bon Bon usually comes with a plastic wrapping that customers have to take off. Teagan didn’t mention just how much of the bottle seemed used, but her video indicated that she thought an Ulta employee sold her a used product, and the bottle was visibly not filled up. 

    As one viewer stated, “So logically, physically, scientifically it can’t be [100-percent] full. The bow corners are higher than the opening for the atomizer.” 

    It’s possible that the perfume bottle was a tester that accidentally got repackaged for general sale. Ulta offers many of its perfumes for customers to spray in-store and test, including Viktor & Rolf perfumes. 

    It’s also a possibility that someone returned the bottle, leading to an employee repackaging it and selling it at full price. Ulta also processes returns for barely used items within 30 days. A customer may have returned the perfume bottle, leading to it being resold.

    “Ulta employee here….if it was still wrapped in plastic then it was not used,” said one commenter. “If the box was unwrapped then there’s a huge chance it was returned and resold.”

    Is the bottle just made to look slightly emptier despite being full?

    Some commenters offered an alternative theory as to what happened to the bottle: nothing. They figured that the odd shape of Viktor & Rolf’s Bon Bon perfume was the reason why the bottle looked somewhat empty, not any sort of malicious usage. 

    “Looking online, it looks like they all come like that. Since the bottle is an odd shape, it probably holds more than the amount they put in it. So you are still getting the amount of liquid on the box…” said one viewer. 

    Ultimately, if the bottle did get returned, it doesn’t seem as though a large amount of the product ended up getting used. Still, many viewers questioned Ulta’s business practices and the lack of plastic wrapping around the package. 

    How much does Bon Bon ladies’ perfume cost? 

    Bon Bon, a famous scent by Viktor & Rolf, does not actually appear on Ulta’s website. The perfume has apparently appeared less and less in retail spaces or online, thus making it a relatively rare scent for consumers.

    But, Teagan’s mother said she got the perfume in a three-ounce bottle for $200 at an Ulta location that still carries it. That price is more than that of other stores that currently carry it. Victor & Rolf lists the perfume for $20 less than what her mother purchased it for at Ulta. Amazon lists the perfume as $180 as well, which is cheaper than Ulta’s price. 

    Then, there are platforms like Fragrance.net that reportedly sell three-ounce bottles of the perfume for $149.99, which is $50 less than Ulta’s reported price. 

    Should she return the Ulta product?

    Viewers generally urged Teagan to return the perfume and buy it from different sources in the future. 

    One commenter specifically warned Teagan to return the bottle, considering the potential risks that could occur when using a tampered product.

    “I’d return it regardless. It’s used… tampered with. I’ve worked there and Nordstroms and people refill bottles with other perfumer and tamper when returning,” a viewer shared. “I’ve seen it all. I wouldn’t mess with it. One lady got a bad infection from a used [perfume because] someone put a different chemical in a bottle of [perfume]. [The] customer called corporate on us.” 

    So, it may be worthwhile for Teagan to replace the bottle while she has an opportunity. But, with the Christmas return window closing, it may not be possible to do so.

    @missteaganalexandra @Ulta Beauty please help me!!!! #ultabeauty #ulta #viktorandrolf ♬ original sound – missteaganalexandra

    We’ve reached out to Viktor & Rolf and Ulta via email. We also sent a TikTok direct message to Teagan Alexandra regarding her bottle of perfume.

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  • Austin baker turns her back while setting up wedding cake. Then the mother of the bride grabs a spatula: ‘This is super insulting’

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    When you’re involved in the wedding business, there’s no doubt you’ll find yourself in the middle of some kind of dispute. It’s a high-stress event, where emotions also tend to run high.

    That’s exactly what happened for one wedding baker based in Austin, who got into an argument with the mother of the bride, and ended up losing her spatula in the process.

    What Happened at the Wedding?

    TikTok creator and wedding cake baker Malina (@sweetgracedessertco), shared a storytime video about the incident that transpired about a year before.

    “There is a video circulating around on TikTok right now,” she says. “I kind of hoped that this was never gonna happen, but it has. So I’m gonna make a really long story short.”

    Malina explains that a year ago, she was hired to bake a wedding cake, and was in the process of setting it up at the venue when the situation unfolded.

    “I’m setting the cake up. It’s a beautiful cake. Everything’s going well,” she says. “If you’ve ever worked with me, you know I pride myself on kindness and professionalism.”

    Malina says she propped her phone up against her cake kit and turned around to finish the cake. Then she got a visitor.

    “An older woman comes up, she grabs gloves out of my cake kit, puts the gloves on, grabs my offset spatula out of my cake kit,” she says. “She sets her phone up next to my phone, walks up behind me, and she starts talking to her phone.”

    Malina says the woman began using her tools on the cake itself.

    “She’s making a video, and she’s using my offset spatula on the wedding cake,” Malina says. “It was damaging the wedding cake design.”

    Malina says the woman told her she had found and hired her through TikTok, and now wanted to film a joint video.

    “She wanted to make a video of us setting up her daughter’s wedding cake together,” Malina says. “She did pay for the cake. It was her daughter’s cake. However, the fact remains that she was damaging the cake while I was in the middle of setting it up.”

    Malina says she asked her to stop. “I very kindly and very calmly told her, ‘I’m so sorry, ma’am. I’m not really comfortable having you help me set it up,’” she says. Instead, she says she offered to let her help with florals or the topper instead.

    The Mother of the Bride Got Angry

    The woman didn’t like the response. “She told me that she paid me, and she gets to do whatever she wants,” Malina says. “So I had to set a little bit of a boundary.”

    She reiterated to her that she could help with decorations at the end, but the cake itself was off-limits.

    “Or I can just stop my setup right now and leave the premises,” she says. “You can keep the gloves, you can set the cake up however you would like.”

    According to Malina, the woman got “really mad,” “really, really mad.” So upset she wouldn’t give her her tools back.

    “She wouldn’t give me my offset spatula back,” Malina says. “She said ‘No, that was the least I could do.’”

    The woman reportedly later asked for a refund of the setup fee. “I did not refund the fee,” Malina recounts. “I did what I was contractually supposed to do with a kind heart and professionalism.”

    She says she only decided to speak publicly after the woman posted a TikTok about the incident a year later.

    “She only posted the portion where I very kindly told her she could not help me set the cake up,” Malina says. “But her caption was that I ruined her daughter’s wedding.”

    Malina pushed back on that claim.

    “I have spoken to the daughter. We are all good,” she says. “I did not ruin her wedding. She loved her wedding cake.”

    She concludes by explaining why she didn’t share the story at the time.

    “I did not feel like that was the time to make a loud, performative TikTok for her channel,” Malina says. “That’s all I have to say.”

    In the comments section, most viewers thought the mother of the bride was in the wrong.

    “Do not refund the set up fee, send her a bill for the offset spatula,” one commenter advised.

    “I am starting to think weddings are more for the mothers than the bride,” chimed in another.

    Others shared personal stories. “I wish the lady we used for my wedding cake yelled at my mom when my mom decided to put the ugliest fake flowers on top as a topper without my permission,” one wrote. “They weren’t even meant to go on the cake. She just decided to stab a hole in the top.”

    Many commenters also wanted to see the original video that the mother of the bride posted. However, Malina shared in a follow-up post that the mother deleted her post shortly after, without it ever taking off.

    How to Handle Client Disputes as a Wedding Cake Baker

    In a high-stress situation like the one Malina described, the best thing any vendor can do is remain calm throughout.

    According to an article by Wedded Wonderland, it’s also a good idea to let the client feel heard and acknowledged. After all, you’re building relationships meant to last, so it’s not in your interest for a client to walk away unsatisfied.

    The guide also advises providing clients with realistic next steps so they feel their situation has been resolved.

    Wedding vendor communities are tight-knit, so the goal is for clients to leave as satisfied as they can reasonably be.

    @sweetgracedessertco She kept my offset spatula ?? #weddingcake #storytime ♬ original sound – sweetgracedessertco

    The Mary Sue has reached out to Malina via TikTok messages for comment.

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  • The Cream Cheese TikTok That’s Blowing Up

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    The internet can’t stop watching Janet Marie, a TikTok creator who unintentionally became viral after posting an epic, dead-serious review of a tub of cream cheese — and then calmly reacting to thousands of comments about it.

    While the review itself is about something as ordinary as cream cheese, viewers quickly realized the real magic wasn’t the spread — it was Janet Marie’s delivery, confidence, and unforgettable hairstyle, which frames her face in what many viewers lovingly describe as the shape of a pumpkin.


    What Is Janet Marie’s Cream Cheese Review?

    In her original TikTok video, Janet Marie reviews a tub of cream cheese with total sincerity and surprising intensity. There’s no background music, no flashy editing, and no wink to the camera.

    She talks texture.
    She talks flavor.
    She talks expectations.

    It’s the kind of review usually reserved for wine, cheese boards, or Michelin-star restaurants — except this is cream cheese from a grocery store refrigerator.

    And that’s exactly why it works.


    Why Did the Cream Cheese Video Go Viral?

    The video went viral not because it’s trying to be funny, but because it isn’t trying to be funny at all.

    • The absolute seriousness of the review
    • The way Janet Marie speaks with total confidence
    • The oddly calming, hyper-focused energy
    • And the visual contrast of an everyday product paired with a delivery that feels deeply important

    Viewers immediately started commenting that the video felt like something they didn’t know they needed, describing it as soothing, hilarious, and strangely relatable.


    What’s the Deal With Her Hair?

    Let’s talk about the hair — because the internet definitely has.

    Janet Marie’s hairstyle softly surrounds her face in a rounded shape that many viewers have compared to a pumpkin, a helmet, or a perfectly sculpted halo. The look became an instant visual hook, with commenters lovingly fixating on it almost as much as the review itself.

    Importantly, the attention hasn’t been mean-spirited. Most comments are playful, affectionate, and curious, with viewers openly admitting that the hair is part of what made them stop scrolling — and stay.

    In a platform built on fast cuts and filters, her hair is:

    • Distinct
    • Unapologetic
    • Instantly recognizable

    What Happens in the Second Video?

    After the first video blew up, Janet Marie posted a second TikTok reacting to the comments — and this is where the moment fully crystallized.

    Instead of getting defensive or changing her tone, she calmly reads and responds to the jokes, observations, and praise with the same steady confidence she brought to the cream cheese review.

    She doesn’t explain herself.
    She doesn’t over-correct.
    She doesn’t try to be “in on the joke.”

    And that restraint only made people like her more.


    Why Are People Rooting for Her?

    The internet loves Janet Marie because she represents something rare online: unfiltered sincerity.

    She isn’t performing irony.
    She isn’t chasing trends.
    She isn’t trying to go viral.

    She reviewed cream cheese because she felt like reviewing cream cheese — and stood by it.

    In a space full of exaggerated personalities and manufactured moments, Janet Marie’s confidence, calmness, and authenticity feel refreshing.


    What Does This Say About TikTok Right Now?

    Janet Marie’s viral moment is a reminder that TikTok doesn’t just reward polish — it rewards presence.

    Sometimes the algorithm favors:

    • Someone who knows what they like
    • Someone who speaks plainly
    • Someone who doesn’t apologize for their vibe

    Her videos prove that you don’t need a punchline, a trend, or a hook if you have conviction.


    Why Are People Still Watching?

    People aren’t watching Janet Marie for cream cheese tips.

    They’re watching because:

    • She’s comfortable being herself
    • Her confidence feels contagious
    • And her videos feel like a break from noise

    The hair.
    The tone.
    The cream cheese.

    Together, they’ve created one of those rare internet moments that feels oddly wholesome, unintentionally funny, and genuinely charming.


    Final Takeaway

    Janet Marie didn’t set out to become a viral TikTok personality.

    She reviewed cream cheese.
    She showed up exactly as herself.
    And the internet said, “Yes. More of this.”

    Sometimes that’s all it takes.

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  • Denver man helps girlfriend with dinner. Now people are urging her to dump him after what he did: ‘I’d be so irritated’

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    The internet often debates how the bar for men nowadays couldn’t sink any lower, but if this man’s TikTok comments section is anything to go by, there’s a new record. Dakota (@dak2official5) was helping his girlfriend in the kitchen when a trick he attempted drew the ire of seemingly all the women on TikTok. Now, people are urging his girlfriend to dump him, but is it really that serious?

    One chaotic toss, one very fed-up girlfriend yelling his name, and suddenly TikTok is treating this man like a walking red flag with a frying pan.

    What Did Dakota Do?

    If there’s one thing TikTok likes doing is dishing out judgments. Now, Dakota’s clip might only be seven seconds long, but it already has 8.7 million views and almost 4,000 comments.

    The text overlay in his video reads: “POV your girl cooking dinner n u come out to help.” Dakota then grabs a pan of sautéeing potatoes off the stove burner, and he begins tossing them into the air. On his third toss, half of the potatoes miss the pan and fall onto the kitchen floor. Immediately, his off-screen girlfriend yells, “Dakota!” The TikTok ends in a cliffhanger. 

    @dak2official5 The way I put the pan down right away?? #cooking #cookingtiktok #relationships ♬ original sound – dak2official

    Is it Really That Deep?

    While some viewers are yelling weaponized incompetence, others are saying Dakota’s pulling some major ragebait. Countless viewers fully believe Dakota did it on purpose, despite his adamant response that he didn’t. However, he does seem to agree that everyone is taking it too seriously. Many comments call Dakota childish, irritating, and rude. His response? “How explain.”

    As viewers kept writing their rage in the comments, Dakota kept giving one-worded quips. As for why he did what he did, his explanation was “intrusive thoughts.”

    In an Instagram direct message to the Mary Sue, Dakota revealed he was indeed helping his girlfriend cook, an activity he says they often do together as “we both feel like it helps build our relationship better.”

    As for the potato-toss-fail, Dakota shared, “My brother had asked me if I knew how to flip the potatoes so I recorded to show him and that’s what had happened.”

    When asked about the comments urging his girlfriend to dump him, Dakota took it in stride.

    “Me and my girl ignore the people in the comments!” he said. “They could never get under our skin we know what comes with a viral video and how the comments will be.”

    Despite not being used to going viral, Dakota assures that it’s “okay” and that his girlfriend is handling the online fame pretty well.

    Still, despite the couple being ubothered, folks didn’t hold back in giving unsolicited relationship advice.

    ‘Dump him’

    As usual, viewers aren’t afraid to share their opinions. One viewer says, “This is genuinely childish.” While another states, “Nah cause what’s funny.”

    Someone states, “Was the funny part you creating more work for her, or..?” Dakota responds with, “Ion mean to.”

    Someone else says, “So thankful my bf doesn’t act like that.” Dakota replies, “What!?? Helpful.”

    Others obviously share their thoughts on the relationship on a whole. “This is break up worthy,” says a viewer. Another simply writes, “#breakup.”

    Another goes as far as to say, “I want to break up with you and i dont even know u.”

    Dakota is certainly far from the first boyfriend to get an earful from online relationship investigators on what is breakup-worthy. Last year, a woman shared how her husband packed her lunch and included dog food in it. Despite her saying it was a “joke,” people side-eyed her hard. Needless to say, it’s quite strict over there on TikTok.

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  • ‘It was my husband’s favorite cake’: Texas woman appeals to H-E-B workers when she learns iconic dessert is discontinued. Then an ex-worker steps in

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    There is truly nothing worse than your favorite product getting discontinued.

    Favorite brand of dish soap. Favorite place for Mexican food. Favorite cocktail at a favorite bar. Normally, it can take years to find your true “favorite thing,” and it’s beyond disappointing to have those years go down the drain when a brand or company shuts down or discontinues your beloved product.

    One woman is dealing with this exact phenomenon and has gone viral for telling her story. She’s also inspired a certain hero to rush to her aid.

    A cry for help: H-E-B cake

    It all started when a woman named Ashley (@thetalltok on TikTok) posted a video on Jan. 16, which now has over 235,000 views. In her video, Ashley sent out a plea to H-E-B workers regarding her husband’s favorite cake.

    “OK, this video is for anyone that works at an H-E-B bakery,” Ashley begins in her TikTok. “There used to be a cake that was like a banana pudding cake, OK? It was amazing. It was like a custardy, delicious, I don’t even know how to explain it … It was my husband’s favorite cake.”

    Ashley proceeds to impress upon her viewers just how much her husband loved that cake, saying he “would look for it and spend whatever amount of money he could on this cake.”

    But now, Ashley has learned something devastating

    “I went to H-E-B today to ask them if I could pre-order one for his birthday, which is in a couple weeks,” Ashley continues in the video. “H-E-B said they have discontinued it because of some ingredient that was needed to be in it, and the company does not make that ingredient anymore, so they can no longer make it.”

    At this point, Ashley begs her TikTok audience to help her in some way find or replicate the beloved cake.

    “This is my plea for anyone that knows how to make it or anyone that has a recipe for any kind of, like, banana pudding cake that’s, like, custardy and delicious,” Ashley says. “Please share, because I really want to get this for him for his birthday.”

    To make things worse, Ashley reveals she’s even more in a bind because this cake is virtually the only thing she can get her husband for said birthday.

    “I don’t know what else to get him,” she despairs. “He has everything he needs. I can get him more golf balls. He always needs those. But I really want to get him this cake. Please help me out. Somebody, somewhere, please.”

    And wouldn’t you know it? Someone did indeed answer the call.

    @thetalltok Please help me make my husband’s birthday special! #heb #hebbakery #birthday #bananapudding @H-E-B ♬ Banana Pancakes – Jack Johnson

    Former H-E-B workers to the rescue

    Ashley posted a follow-up video on TikTok a couple of weeks after her initial video went viral. Apparently, in the interim, not just one but multiple former H-E-B workers swooped in to save Ashley from her cake predicament.

    “H-E-B never responded, but some wonderful people that have worked for H-E-B did,” Ashley reveals. “And they shared with me the recipe, at least as they know it.”

    Ashley shares she does “not cook or bake,” as her husband is the resident cook and baker, but that she “really [wants to] do this for him.”

    Ashley says she went to H-E-B, braving “H-E-B the day before a winter storm in Texas,” and got herself all the required ingredients, listing them off in the video.

    “I am just trying to make it here, so wish me luck,” Ashley finishes. “If you don’t hear from me again,
    I might have burned down my house.”

    The Mary Sue has reached out to Ashley via TikTok comment and H-E-B via email to request additional comment.

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  • ‘This could be happening anywhere’: Phoenix Uber, Lyft driver says ICE agents are signing up to be drivers. Then she shares how to tell

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    A driver who works for both Lyft and Uber has a warning regarding Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) agents. They may be pulling people out of Lyft, Uber, and other ride-share programs to detain them in the near future. And, according to other videos that she cited, they may actually be signing up to be drivers. 

    In a video with over 195,000 views, TikToker Centearious (@coachcentearious) discussed what Phoenix ICE agents are doing to detain undocumented immigrants in the area. According to her, the viral claim that Lyft and Uber are co-opting “ICE agents becoming drivers” is unfounded, as both platforms would not know the agent’s employment through their approval process. 

    What did Centearious discuss in her TikTok video?

    In Centearious’s video, she described a situation where a passenger was detained from her vehicle and taken away by an unmarked police cruiser. In this situation, actual law enforcement officials took away the passenger, not ICE. But, Centearious noted that this was an incident that could happen to undocumented citizens or non-citizens targeted by ICE agents. 

    She also noted that ICE agents don’t have to report their employment to Uber or Lyft. That effectively makes both platforms essentially blind to any “covert” ICE operations that may be occurring. Centearious emphasized that people shouldn’t blame the platforms, but rather, ICE agents themselves, saying, “If ICE agents are truly operating Lyfts and Ubers, it may hurt the bottom line for regular drivers.”

    How does Lyft and Uber’s approval process work?

    Lyft and Uber have incredibly similar approval processes for new drivers. 

    Both companies request a criminal background check and for drivers to provide identification for themselves. These processes don’t necessarily ask drivers for previous places of employment or additional information about current obligations. 

    Drivers have to fit Lyft and Uber’s individual requirements, but these are also incredibly similar. Both driving platforms have an age requirement, although Lyft’s driving age requirement changes depending on the area. Both require insurance checks and a minimum amount of driving experience (one year). Both platforms have zero stipulations regarding employment background. 

    That means that technically, ICE agents could apply to be Lyft or Uber drivers. But that doesn’t mean they can start detaining passengers from within the car. Rather, if this information is true, then agents are most likely engaging in long “ruses.” ICE agents are told to lie about their legal capacity and jurisdiction in order to gain entry and push forward on certain key points. 

    Considering ICE agents have lied about their identity before, it wouldn’t be surprising for an agent to sign up for a platform like Lyft or Uber to try to draw out information about a person’s residency. ICE agents usually show identification during arrests or detainment. Based on publicly available information, they don’t necessarily have to before. 

    How should people stay safe?

    Centearious recommended checking any driver’s information before getting inside a vehicle. For instance, a brand-new driver may not be the safest person to ride with currently, especially if ICE agents are choosing to use the platform to gather information. Centearious recommended looking for seasoned Uber and Lyft drivers with thousands of rides rather than a few. 

    “ If it’s a brand new driver, cancel. You have up to the first two minutes. After two minutes, it charges you a cancellation fee,” Centearious said. 

    Vehicles owned by federal agencies may have unique license plates and identifiers or none at all. According to sources like OPB, agents commonly try to camouflage their license plates or hide identifiers. If you see a vehicle with a hidden identifier, then it may be best to avoid entering it. 

    There are also vehicles that ICE agents commonly operate, such as the Ford Police Interceptor Utility, certain Chryslers, and brands of Dodge vehicles. While it’s not necessarily proven that ICE may be driving one of these vehicles, there have been reports that they’re more likely to appear in them. 

    @coachcentearious WARNING | ICE is apparently getting approved to drive for Uber and Lyft and are harassing and detaining the riders in Phoenix Arizona. #centearious #FYP #UBER #LYFT #ICE ♬ original sound – Centearious ?

    The Mary Sue reached out to Lyft, Uber, and the Immigration and Customs Department via email. We Centearious via TikTok direct message for more information.

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  • ‘It’s always Walmart’: Kentucky woman spots Dove Crumbl deodorant. Then she takes a closer look

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    Throughout the years, Walmart has earned a reputation not only for being one of the largest retail giants in the world but for attracting a specific niche of people. Chances are you’ve witnessed a (or several) bizarre customer behaviors during a shopping trip. When something strange happens, almost nobody is phased. That’s how one woman felt after she stumbled across the aftermath of a customer giving into their curiosity with a Dove x Crumbl deodorant.

    What Is The Dove x Crumbl Collab?

    In 2024, the unlikely duo sent the internet into a frenzy after collaborating to launch a Walmart-exclusive dessert scented line of skincare products. For a limited time, fans could smell like their favorite cookie in the form of body wash, body scrub, deodorant, and hand wash. Fans rushed to their nearest Walmart just in time for the holidays which sold like hotcakes. Now, the pair has returned with a new sugary fragrance: Tres Leches. 

    What Did This Woman Notice At Walmart?

    In a six-second clip, Kentucky-based TikTok creator MaryJo Payne (@maryjomj) stares stoically at the shelf in the clearance aisle. Then, she flips the camera to unveil the pink 2.6 oz Dove x Crumbl deodorant standing alone. However, it’s not where the deodorant is located that’s peculiar: it appears like the person in question decided to taste test it. When she zooms in on it, a large bite mark is seen on half of the waxy white powder stick. 

    “It’s always Walmart,” the content creator writes in the text overlay.

    Viewers Were Not Surprised Either By The Walmart Incident

    The video amassed 5.6 million views. Like Payne, many didn’t bat an eye, believing this is typical Walmart customer behavior.

    “That person was either 8 years old, or mid 30s,” one viewer remarked.

    “Intrusive thoughts won today,” another stated.

    “I’m not dying it’s ONLY Walmart but it’s ALWAYS Walmart,” a third said.

    “Walmart is like the Florida of stores,” a fourth echoed.

    “Literally ALWAYS WALMART,” a fifth agreed.

    What Happens If You Consume Deodorant?

    There is a reason why deodorants have an only for external use’ warning on them. Even Dove’s website warns, “It’s so good that it comes with a warning: You’ll smell deliciously sweet, but please don’t eat.”  Although these may smell delicious, there are serious consequences. According to UF Health, deodorant contains two poisonous ingredients: Aluminum salts and Ethyl alcohol. Anyone who exhibits these symptoms of deodorant poisoning listed by MedlinePlus must seek medical attention:

    • Abdominal pain
    • Blurred vision
    • Breathing difficulty
    • Burning pain in the throat
    • Collapse
    • Coma (decreased level of consciousness and lack of responsiveness)
    • Diarrhea (watery, bloody)
    • Inability to walk normally
    • Lack of alertness 
    • Low blood pressure
    • No urine output
    • Rash
    • Slurred speech
    • Vomiting
    @maryjomj ♬ original sound – MaryJo Payne

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  • Woman takes advantage of Bath & Body Works sale. Then the package arrives—and she realizes she may’ve been scammed: ‘Where’s the rest?’

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    An Australian woman splurges on several items during Bath & Body Works’ online sale. However, she instantly has a plethora of issues with the order. Her final straw was when some of her items didn’t show up after weeks of waiting.

    TikToker Abbey Coquillon (@abbeysworld) says she placed an order in late December for two full-priced items and two heavily discounted items. While she received a confirmation email instantly, she realizes a week later that she hadn’t seen a shipment email and reaches out to Bath & Body Works.

    “They said they were having high demand and it was taking a while,” she explains in the video with over 18,000 views. Then, another two weeks go by without any word on her order.

    “I had to email them again. They’re like, ‘Rest assured, your order is with us and it will get sent out soon,”” Coquillon recounts.

    Did she eventually receive her order?

    She finally received her order more than three and a half weeks later, which took way longer than she expected. But she can’t believe what she sees when she opens the box.

    “It was only two items. Where’s the rest of my order?” Coquillon says. She reaches out to the brand again and it informs her that some of her order items were out of stock. It offers her a refund on the items that didn’t come.

    “I never got an email or anything to say that something was out of stock,” she continues, noting that the delivery email listed all of the items in her original order.

    Coquillon notes that the missing items were the discounted ones.

    “So, I paid full price for no [expletive] reason,” she laments. “Is that not like scamming lowkey?” Her total refund was around $8.

    In the caption, she writes, “And I tried to explain this and I just got a bot response…. Guys I feel like this is a rip off?? At least TERRIBLE communication on their part.”

    According to Bath & Body Works’ Australian site, the brand assures customers that items may be sent in multiple orders. However, it suggests that it would send multiple tracking numbers in this case.

    Have other customers had issues with Bath & Body Works orders?

    Other Bath & Body Works customers report repeated issues with trying to get all the items in their online orders on social media.

    One shopper on the r/bathandbodyworks subreddit placed two consecutive orders in 2024, both of which were missing some of the items despite being “charged for the full order.”

    “I feel like bath and body works has scammed me. I ordered 8 of the same gift set to give to friends and 3 lip products. And for some reason only 1 of the sets and 2 of the lip products arrived,” they explain. “I placed another order. But for some reason again only one set arrived.”

    Another shares a similar experience. They comment, “Same thing happened to me ,I ordered 17 items during the $5.95 one wick candle sale and only received 6 items ,customer service rep reordered what was missing but when the new package arrived out of the 11 products I was still missing 5 items.”

    “This same thing has happened to me on my last several orders. I was shorted 6/10 candles from the candle day sale. I am so disappointed,” a third commenter adds.

    Her viewers have the same problem, too

    In the comments of Coquillon’s video, other customers share more recent frustrations with the brand. Some suggest reporting Bath & Body Works to “fair trading.”

    “I ordered on the 28th of December. It arrived today and I’m missing an item so I’ve had to email them today,” one comments.

    “Girl same, so I ordered on the 24th 4x body sprays, 1x lip balm, 1x hand cream & one lavender spray got everything BUT the sprays,” another writes, saying that they also never received a refund promised by Bath & Body Works after calling customer service.

    A third says she no longer shops at Bath & Body Works for the same reason. “Everytime I’ve done a order it’s taken forever to ship and had the same issue with things being ‘out of stock’ but they don’t say anything,” she says.

    @abbeysworld

    And I tried to explain this and I just got a bot response…. Guys I feel like this is a rip off?? At least TERRIBLE communication on their part

    ♬ original sound – ABBEY COQUILLON

    The Mary Sue reached out to Coquillon via Instagram and TikTok direct message and to Bath & Body Works via email for further comment.

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  • TikTok is now in U.S. hands. Here’s what the app wants to know about you.

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    TikTok — now in U.S. hands after the social media service split from China-based ByteDance earlier this year — is raising concerns among some users about its new privacy policy, prompting questions about the scope of its data collection.

    TikTok on Jan. 22 confirmed that a new U.S.-based entity was in control of the app, with the venture formed to sidestep a federal law that forced ByteDance to either sell its stake in the platform or be cut off from the U.S. market. That same day, the company posted its new user terms and conditions and privacy policy.

    Backlash to the new policies quickly spread on social media, with some users saying they deleted the app over privacy fears, while others flagged the changes for their followers. One complaint: a new provision stating that TikTok may collect “precise location information” from users’ devices if they enable location services in their device settings.

    Some social media users attacked the new privacy policy as “beyond invasive and predatory,” while others decried the app’s “surveillance.” 

    A shift under U.S. owners

    TikTok’s new geolocation practices are a change from its previous policy under ByteDance, experts said.

    “The change in location data is the most stark because the previous privacy policy had explicitly said that the current versions of the app do not collect precise GPS information,” Caitriona Fitzgerald, deputy director of the Electronic Privacy Information Center (EPIC), a public interest research center focused on data privacy.

    She added, “Folks should be concerned about that. Your precise location data can be down to your address or even what floor you’re on in an apartment building.”

    TikTok updated its privacy policy to include clearer language about location information, and plans to soon allow U.S. users to share their precise location with TikTok or opt out of that feature, according to a TikTok official. The company plans to use the precise location data to provide new services and features to users, the official noted.

    TikTok’s new ownership includes software maker Oracle, private equity firm Silver Lake and Abu Dhabi-based investment firm MGX, which will own a combined 45% of the company. 

    Another 35% stake in TikTok will be owned by eight other investors, including Dell CEO Michael Dell’s personal investment office. ByteDance will retain 19.9% of the business, just below the 20% ownership cap allowed under federal law.

    What TikTok collects under its new privacy policy

    Some TikTok users are also expressing concern about the types of personal information the app says it may collect, although its previous privacy policy disclosed that it might collect the same types of data. Under both the new and previous policies, TikTok said it may collect users:

    • Racial or ethnic origin
    • National origin
    • Religious beliefs
    • Mental health diagnosis
    • Physical health diagnosis
    • Sexual life
    • Sexual orientation
    • Status as transgender
    • Status as nonbinary
    • Citizenship status
    • Immigration status
    • Financial information
    • Government-issued identification numbers, such as a driver’s license number

    But the new policy also changes how TikTok describes its handling of sensitive data. The company now states that it “processes such sensitive personal information in accordance with applicable law.”

    The earlier policy framed this more narrowly, saying it used sensitive information only when needed to run the service or to comply with legal requirements — for example, using payment details to process a purchase or a driver’s license to verify a user’s identity.

    The new language mirrors that of the California Consumer Privacy Act, a law that requires businesses to disclose what types of information they collect, including race and ethnic origin, religious or philosophical beliefs, and their sex life.

    What about geolocation tracking?

    The biggest change between TikTok’s current and previous privacy policies lies in their treatment of location tracking, which is now explicitly classified as sensitive data in the 2026 version.

    “We may also collect precise location data, depending on your settings and as explained below,” the latest privacy policy states.

    Both the older and newer versions note that TikTok may determine a user’s “approximate location” based on signals such as their SIM card region or IP address. But the new policy adds that TikTok is also allowed to collect a user’s “precise location” if the person has enabled location services for TikTok.

    The new policy notes that users can “turn off location services from your device settings at any time.”

    By contrast, the pre-2026 privacy policy explicitly stated that current versions of the app do “not collect precise or approximate GPS information from U.S. users.”

    TikTok doesn’t yet have a toggle to allow people to switch off their precise location data because the company hasn’t yet added that tracking functionality to the app, the TikTok official said.

    When the app rolls out the feature, users will see a prompt that asks whether they want to share their location, the TikTok official said. 

    Consumer advocates generally recommend that people turn off precise location tracking within the apps they use. For instance, X users can go to their “privacy and safety settings” and then click “location services” to see if they have enabled the app to track their exact location. It can be disabled by toggling the switch off.

    However, even if precise location tracking is disabled, apps can still narrow down your general location through your IP address, according to Consumer Reports.

    Can users opt out of TikTok’s new policies?

    Since Jan. 22, when TikTok officially came under U.S. ownership, the app has presented users with a pop-up screen alerting them to the new terms of service and privacy policies. To continue to use the service, users must click “agree,” or else they are blocked from using TikTok. 

    Since splitting from its Chinese parent company in January 2026, TikTok has introduced new terms of service and privacy policies, including some changes that are sparking concerns among users. 

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    “If the only choice is to accept the unnecessary collection and use of your location data, your citizenship data and other sensitive data, or not use the app at all, that’s not a real choice,” EPIC’s Fitzgerald told CBS News.

    Do other social media apps track personal data?

    Other social media apps also track personal data, including Meta and X. The latter’s privacy policy specifies that users can “choose to share your current precise location or places where you’ve previously used X by enabling these settings in your account.”

    Americans are notoriously lax about providing apps with access to their personal data, although about 8 in 10 say they’re concerned about how corporations use the data they collect about them, Pew Research Center found in a 2023 survey

    Still, more than half of consumers agree to companies’ privacy policies without reading them, the study found.

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  • ‘It’s still going on’: New York woman goes on family trip to Disney—then she receives a suspicious call from her husband. So, she Googles his location

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    If there’s one thing few can resist, it’s a salacious cheating story.

    From the mega-viral cheaters at a Coldplay concert to cheating apology meals at Olive Garden, cheating scandals are the ultimate car crash we can’t look away from. Now, there’s a new viral story making the rounds in the form of one woman’s video on TikTok.

    And it all started with a trip to Disney.

    What happened at Disney?

    In a video posted on Jan. 20 that has since racked up over 175,000 views, TikTok user Krys Lyn (@krystle_lyn) details how she methodically investigated her husband’s infidelity. This video is apparently the first installment of more videos to come.

    “Let me tell you how I caught my husband cheating,” Lyn begins in her video. “Not just a moment. It’s been a whole freaking season.

    Lyn says the whole thing is “still fresh,” and she and her husband first became engaged in May 2025.

    “In September, he goes to jail,” Lyn says without elaborating. “October, he goes to rehab. Straight from jail to rehab. He gets out of rehab, he completes it. Everything’s perfect. We eventually elope, we get married.”

    Two weeks later, Lyn and her husband have a family Disney trip planned “on [her] dime, since [she] was the only one working ‘cause he was in jail and rehab.”

    Unfortunately, Lyn says his probation officers forbade him from going, so she went on the Disney trip just with their kids while he stayed home.

    This was the first time Lyn got an inkling that something was up.

    ‘My gut…ain’t lying’

    “He’s supposed to pick me and the kids up from our flight home,” Lyn says. “The night before, I get a phone call from him saying that my car was totaled. He hit a deer. He tells me what road he’s on, where he hit the deer. But then he made the mistake of sending me a picture of my totaled car with a porch in the background.”

    Lyn says she immediately had a gut feeling that there was something fishy about that porch. Sure enough, some research yielded confirmation of her instincts.

    “I Google the road that he was on,” Lyn recounts. “And I looked at every single house address on that road, and I found the matching porch. Guess what? Happened to be his ex-girlfriend’s mom’s house.”

    The observation begins and she confirms his cheating

    Lyn’s husband, who she says works as a car salesman, claimed he was just “delivering a title for work with the dealership,” but Lyn didn’t buy it. Then, the suspicious activity increased.

    “It gets worse,” Lyn says. “After my car’s towed away, and I’m in Disney and he’s home, my Alexas and the cameras are unplugged. This is like 9:30 at night.”

    Then, Lyn says he texted her randomly at four in the morning, which she says was “unlike him” due to him being on “sleeping meds.”

    But Lyn lay low. She says after she and the kids returned, she decided to “play it off.”

    “For a whole week, I continue to be wifey, I continue to be mom,” Lyn says. “I go to work, I’m home, acting like everything is normal … Throughout the week, I’m paying attention to him, his behavior … his texts, how often he’s picking up his phone. All of it. Because he was at his ex-girlfriend’s mom’s house.”

    While she was keeping tabs on her husband, she noticed the ex-girlfriend’s mom in question comment on one of his Facebook posts.

    “My intuition was right,” Lyn says.

    Things get worse

    Things only escalated from there. Lyn tells us she monitored his “nonstop” texts with two female co-workers, noticing he would pin those conversation threads to his “favorites” and then delete them days later. She says the continuously vanishing texts “didn’t add up.”

    “They’re disappearing like he’s in the witness protection program at this point,” Lyn half-jokes. “This is a week and a half after I got home. I’ve been quiet. I’ve been silent this whole time, OK? It’s like a crime scene on a Netflix documentary. He just doesn’t know it yet. And neither do the women, the mistresses.”

    But Lyn stayed patient. Ultimately, her husband grew careless, getting “tipsy” and forgetting to delete some of his incriminating texts.

    “I didn’t drink at the time,” Lyn says. “So I wait till he passes out. I get on his phone, I see some messages … I take a picture of them from his phone on my phone, so then they’re still there.

    So he can see that I haven’t done anything with them, didn’t send them to myself, nothing. But I have them on my phone. I also marked them as unread.”

    She finds out more about his cheating

    Later, Lyn’s husband accidentally revealed he’d been messaging a woman on TikTok when he tried to show Lyn a TikTok.

    “And I just look at him, and he makes eye contact with me,” Lyn recounts. “And he knows. He knows.”

    Lyn and her friends waste no time in cracking down on a more intensive investigation at this point, calling Lyn’s husband’s dealership and getting information about the women Lyn suspected he was cheating with, one emotionally and one sexually—both of which, according to Lyn, had boyfriends at the time.

    “One [of the women], the one with the emotional affair, gets wind of it, spazzes out, and then reaches out to me,” Lyn says. “She denied everything. Mind you .. I have on my phone, the pictures of their—him and her conversation.”

    The woman, whom Lyn calls “M,” maintained that nothing happened between her and Lyn’s husband. Lyn also says M is “best friends” with the other suspected woman, who came up on her husband’s TikTok, Willow.

    More denial

    “I have proof,” Lyn says. “Willow, [M] sends screenshots of my husband having the affair with Willow, sexual affair with Willow. But M denies everything.”

    But Lyn says she already has proof of M and her husband having an “emotional affair” via text message.

    “They all work at the same dealership,” Lyn says. “This is when their jobs start disappearing. Stay tuned for part two. It gets juicy.”

    @krystle_lyn Story time! ?? How I caught my car salesman husband cheating with the BDC homewreckers at his work. #fyp #viral #cheatinghusband #homewrecker #fypシ゚viral ♬ original sound – Krys Lyn ?

    Viewers are shocked at the story

    As of the writing of this article, Lyn has yet to upload a formal “part two” to this saga, though multiple videos of hers reference dealing with a cheater.

    Viewers, for their part, are sipping proverbial tea in reaction to Lyn’s wild tale. Many are positively fiending for a part two, even commenting on her later videos, begging for an update.

    Some commenters wanted more details, specifically about the dealership. One cheekily asks, “So what dealership am I NOT shopping at?”

    Lyn responded with a glowing review of the dealership itself.

    “Oh the dealership handled it all beautifully,” she wrote. “I actually was very impressed. Highly suggest giving them all the business.”

    Other commenters were dying laughing at the all-too-relatable phenomenon of undergoing FBI-level investigations with your girls.

    “LOVE the friend investigation,” one viewer wrote. “My friends helped me as well.”

    Still others were outraged that Lyn was dealing with this at all, with many offering words of support and encouragement.

    “You are way too beautiful too be dealing with this!!!” wrote one commenter. Another agreed, saying, “You deserve so much better than this!”

    The Mary Sue has reached out to Lyn via TikTok comment to request additional comment.

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  • Free AI training for UK population, TikTok settles ahead of social media addiction trial – Tech Digest

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    is being made available to everyone in the UK as the government steps up efforts to prepare the workforce for rapid technological change. However, ministers acknowledge the programme will only succeed if businesses and workers choose to adopt it. From today, adults can access short, practical courses through the government’s upgraded AI Skills Hub, designed to help people use AI tools in the workplace. The training covers everyday tasks such as drafting text, creating content, and automating administrative work – with some courses taking less than 20 minutes to complete. Sky News 

    TikTok has reached a settlement to avoid it being involved in a landmark social media addiction trial – a matter of hours before jury selection was due to begin in California. The plaintiff, a 20-year-old woman identified by the initials KGM, alleges the design of platforms’ algorithms left her addicted to social media and negatively affected her mental health. “The parties are pleased to have reached an amicable resolution of this dispute,” the Social Media Victims Law Center said of the TikTok settlement, adding the terms were confidential. BBC 

    Mark Zuckerberg, Meta’s chief executive, approved allowing minors to access artificial intelligence chatbot companions that safety staffers warned were capable of sexual interactions, according to internal Meta documents filed in a New Mexico state court case and made public on Monday. The lawsuit – brought by the state’s attorney general, Raul Torrez, and scheduled for trial next month – alleges Meta “failed to stem the tide of damaging sexual material and sexual propositions delivered to children” on Facebook and Instagram. Guardian 


    Huawei has officially confirmed that a new Runner smartwatch is in the making and will debut soon. It has recently announced its partnership with the Swiss-Dutch global company, DSM Firmenich, for its upcoming flagship wearable creation. With the onset of this month, Eliud Kipchoge – a Kenyan distance runner, shared a post on Weibo, suggesting that Huawei and DSM are cooking something new for consumers. Now both companies have confirmed their iconic partnership. Huawei Central

    Gavin Newsom has launched an investigation into claims that TikTok’s US arm is censoring content criticising Donald Trump. The Democrat governor of California has tasked officials with reviewing the app’s content moderation policies, just days after its American operations were taken over by a consortium of bidders backed by the US president. Thousands of users have experienced problems with the site in the wake of the takeover, prompting unverified claims that Trump-critical posts are being suppressed. Telegraph


    Midway through the seventh paragraph of its press release about the new AirTag, Apple reiterates its surprisingly unambiguous position on the device’s intended usage. “Designed exclusively for tracking objects,” the company writes, “and not people or pets, the new AirTag incorporates a suite of industry-first protections against unwanted tracking…” It may have got a louder speaker and longer effective tracking range, but the updated AirTag still doesn’t have “tracking anything with a pulse” on its feature list. MacWorld 

    This is interesting and new. The latest twist in the ongoing battle between regulators, lawmakers and adult websites will shock millions of users. Access to sites will be blocked from Feb. 2 for any users not yet registered and verified. This affects U.K. users for now and the country’s Online Safety Act — albeit Pornhub, the world’s largest operator, has taken broad issue with the way regulatory restrictions have been implemented. This is likely just the start of a campaign to change minds. Forbes 


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  • Looks Like American TikTok’s Problems Are Sending Users Flocking to Alternatives

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    According to Appfigures, the top five free iPhone apps right now in the U.S. are:

    1. ChatGPT
    2. JumpJumpVPN
    3. V2Box
    4. UpScrolled
    5. Threads

    Yesterday, Apple blogger John Gruber of Daring Fireball posted the overall most popular iPhone apps for all of 2025, and the top five were:

    1. ChatGPT
    2. Threads
    3. Google
    4. TikTok 
    5. WhatsApp

    I’m not the first person to point this out, but it’s not exactly a stretch to infer that the three apps that have suddenly squeezed in between ChatGPT and Threads are on the list due to dissatisfaction with TikTok. Two are VPN apps, which can theoretically be used to access TikTok from a virtual network in a country where the U.S. version of TikTok is unnecessary, and one, UpScrolled, is an Australian video and text sharing app that recently went viral.  

    To refresh your memory on what’s going on with TikTok, after years of trying to force Chinese-owned ByteDance to relinquish ownership and let a U.S.-friendly buyer take over, a legal entity was created earlier this month that can take ownership of TikTok, with Adam Presser as its new CEO. This allows TikTok to comply with a new U.S. law essentially requiring TikTok to be run by a U.S. company or be banned.

    But this entity, a complex joint corporate venture in charge of U.S. operations for TikTok, appears from the outside to be struggling to keep everything in order, amid the handoff from TikTok’s Singapore base of operations (U.S. TikTok data was already largely housed in the U.S., so it’s not clear if this transition actually involves any large, burdensome data transfers).

    According to an X post from TikTok, the problem is that there’s been “a major infrastructure issue triggered by a power outage at one of our U.S. data center partner sites,” and there may be various glitches, service slowdowns, failures, and issues with user metrics. Oracle has further clarified that the TikTok issue stems from a weather-related blackout at one of its data centers. Oracle owns 15 percent of the new TikTok U.S. venture.

    The issues TikTok is referring to dovetail nicely with the descriptions of problems described by users likw videos that sit in review indefinitely, and posts that get low or zero view counts, often despite high numbers for other engagement metrics like comments or shares. Other general issues that fit with a data center interruption include a possible lack of analytics in TikTok Studio, livestreamers apparently getting random messages saying they need to stop streaming immediately, and irrelevant search results.

    However, the hiccups at TikTok are, at least in part, being perceived as the technical consequences of a right-wing takeover. That’s in part because that 15 percent of TikTok U.S. now held by Oracle is controlled by the right-wing billionaire Larry Ellison, and the ownership transition is of course being shepherded along by the Trump Administration. And that’s not to mention the fact that the Biden-era push to ban TikTok emerged amid paranoia that it was turning the youth into Maoist, Hamas-supporting terrorists.

    But have the rules on TikTok tangibly changed? For all anyone knows, no. It has re-emerged in the past few days that at some point in the past, new TikTok CEO Adam Presser talked publicly about an idiosyncratic and clunky moderation practice around Israel—treating the word “Zionist” as hate speech if it carries negative connotations. But this isn’t some new TikTok policy rolling out to coincide with the transition to U.S. ownership (although, rather troublingly, at least one answer on X from Grok strongly implies that it is). It’s more likely part of a rule change around Zionism that apparently rolled out in 2024.

    Gizmodo reached out to TikTok’s U.S. joint venture for clarification about the causes of the platform’s recent problems. In a reply, we received links to statements on X, including the one from Oracle. We followed up, specifically asking if any content rules had been changed since the ownership transition. We will update if we hear back.

    Around Sunday, TikTok users started writing that they felt like their political posts were being censored.

    “TikTok has been under new leadership for like a day and I made a slideshow with posts from the ICE rally today and it immediately got out under review and is not being published,” wrote Bluesky user @pnwpolicyangel.bsky.social.  

    Instagram user erinmayequade wrote:

    “TikTok is cooked. They won’t even post my last two videos — I can see them, but anyone else who goes to my profile won’t even see them. Overnight, our federal government has silenced and suppressed dissent [on] one of our largest platforms. Not just content, but everything from certain people.”

    It would be corporate malpractice to roll out such insidious and restrictive policies right out of the gate like this, particularly amid the present backdrop of political upheaval. Once again, TikTok still has not commented on this speculation from some of its users.

    But if it’s true that users are flocking to other options for political reasons despite no hard evidence that the new TikTok U.S. joint venture has already begun some kind of crackdown on political speech, that also doesn’t necessarily mean they’re misled. They might just expect changes along the lines of what happened at Twitter when Elon Musk took over. Content standards there took a hard right turn very quickly. So with that in mind, some TikTok users might just be leaving preemptively at the first sign of an annoying glitch in order to avoid enduring even worse changes that they perceive to be on the horizon. 

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  • Chicago woman’s new Aritzia Super Puff becomes busted. Now she’s de-influencing people who were eyeing the $450 coat: ‘Never an issue with North Face’

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    A woman owned a $450 Aritzia Super Puff for less than a year. Then, the zipper broke, and the company did not assist her with repairs or replacing the jacket. 

    “How I have to get out of my less than one year old Aritzia Super Puff jacket because my zipper is busted and Aritzia doesn’t want to send a new one for free,” said Olive (@livmaranan), a TikTok content creator whose video has generated over 878,000 views since posting.

    In her video, she shows how she currently gets out of her jacket due to its broken zipper. The woman, unfortunately, stepped over a stuck zipper instead of simply taking the jacket on and off. 

    Should Aritzia replace the jacket?

    Unless the company had an extended, one-year or longer warranty for the Super Puff Jacket, it technically has no reason to replace Olive’s gear. Once an item is purchased from a major retailer without a warranty, it’s usually the customer’s responsibility to handle repairs or any issues with the product. 

    Aritzia has a short 14-day window for returns on in-person items, meaning that it was incredibly unlikely Olive would receive credit for her jacket. If she ordered the jacket online, that return window only expands to 30 days. 

    Are Artitzia’s jackets actually high quality?

    For a company like Aritzia, the quality of a Super Puff jacket should theoretically be high. Super Puffs normally sell for $200-450, and Artizia itself describes itself as an “everyday luxury” brand. But, everyday luxury doesn’t always translate to high quality. 

    In this case, Artizia has apparently been decreasing in quality in recent years. Some shoppers noticed a sharp decline after 2016, while others say the company’s core values shifted to create trending, everyday clothing that doesn’t last very long.

    “Based on what I am seeing in stores, the focus is on super puffs, sweats and the contour line. Quality has gone down drastically and their styles are simply a repetition of the year before with uglier patterns and cheaper fabrics,” one person stated in a discussion post. 

    In the fashion world, this means more people buying Artizia regularly, rather than people switching to other brands and companies. 

    How bad is Aritzia’s customer service?

    Aritzia has notably bad customer service, at least according to online blogs, Reddit threads, and discussion posts. 

    One Reddit user created an AITA about Aritzia’s customer service on r/Aritzia. In the post, the customer explained that they placed an order for $1,000 worth of items, but accidentally sent those items to the wrong address. The customer immediately notified an Artitzia representative regarding the mix-up. They provided a new delivery address to send the items to. But the Artizia representative did not update the order, leading to those items getting sent with the wrong attached address. 

    In a later update, the customer clarified that the “situation resolved as the package has been refused.” Still, they had an “abysmal” customer experience with Artizia.

    What is the consensus on Aritzia Super Puffs?

    Generally, commenters shared that they dislike Aritzia’s Super Puffs. They recommended that Olive switch to North Face or another company in the near future to avoid any issues with material or zippers. 

    “For the record: never an issue with North Face. I have bought their coats for years, including for my three kids. Warm and dependable!” said one commenter. 

    “All the Super 2.0 have the worst zippers,” said another commenter, referring to Olive’s jacket. 

    Olive agreed while expressing some disappointment that she found out after purchasing her very own Artizia coat. 

    @livmaranan going to have to go full karen mode in store this weekend unless @Aritzia sees this and sends me a new one #fyp #aritzia #superpuff #superpuffo2 ♬ Fire the Cannons (1812 Overture) – Jochen Flach & Peter Ilych Tchaikvsky & Thomas Hewitt Jones

    The Mary Sue reached out to Aritzia via email and Olive via TikTok direct message for comment.

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  • NYC woman gets an email from ‘Skims’ asking for bikini pics. It’s not from Skims: ‘There’s no way y’all are falling for this in 2026’

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    Making it as a fashion influencer nowadays isn’t easy. With millions of creators worldwide trying to break into the scene, the market is saturated.

    Pair that with the glitz and glam audiences have grown to expect from these types of creators, and you realize you not only need good storytelling and consistency, but also a decent budget to start.

    The ultimate goal for fashion influencers, of course, is for big brands and creator programs to sponsor their career.

    If you’re new to the game and a brand such as Kim Kardashian’s Skims reaches out, that’s when you know you’ve made it. That’s what one creator on TikTok thought happened, but the reality was much more sinister.

    TikToker Shares PSA About a New Skims Scam

    In a recent trending video, which garnered over 207,500 views, Julia Santucci (@notjuliasantucci) shared the full storytime.

    “On January 13th, 2026, I was almost sextorted by Skims,” she begins. “Or rather, by someone who is pretending… to be an influencer coordinator at Skims over email.”

    For context, sextortion is a common form of coercion where the abuser attempts to extort money or sexual favors from the victim by threatening to reveal their sexual activity, nude photos or clips, and more.

    Santucci clarifies that she wants to share the story so she can warn fellow aspiring content creators “who would do anything to work with a brand like Skims.”

    Upon receiving the email, Santucci says she immediately did her due diligence.

    “The first thing I checked when I received this very exciting email was the email domain itself, and it said ‘[email protected],’” she says. She also explains that she looked out for the “@gmail.com” server name, as she understands brands don’t usually use that for official communications.

    “It passed the first test,” she says.

    Then, she proceeded to check if there were any typos or grammatical errors in the body of the email. “Nope, passed all the tests,” she says. “It felt like an advertising girly to another advertising girly.”

    She says she looked up the woman’s name on LinkedIn and saw she had Skims as part of her corporate history. “However, she was currently the CMO at J. Crew,” she explains. “And I think I excitedly overlooked this.”

    The Skims ‘Collaboration’ Begins

    Not paying attention to that first red flag, she continued communicating with the impersonator.

    “What was required seemed very reasonable,” Santucci explains. “They were picking 50 influencers for this campaign, and in exchange for two videos, you would get two Skims swimwear sets and a small sum of money.”

    To enter, Santucci explains, they asked for three digital images: a photo of her in a bikini from the front, the side, and the back. Additionally, they asked for a 30-second talking video of her in a bikini, explaining the fit.

    “All these things made sense to me, especially for a brand like Skims,” she states.

    The Situation Takes a Concerning Turn

    After sending the materials, things immediately got fishy, prompting Santucci’s mom to call her upon seeing a screenshot of the email reply.

    She attaches the screenshot to the video as well, and it reads, in part, “One small note regarding the swimwear used, the bottoms are great, but the top provides quite a bit more coverage than the triangle styles in our new line. To help us best assess the fit, could you reshoot the front angles with slightly less coverage?”

    It continues, “If you do not have a more minimal top, that’s totally ok, you may adjust your current one or use pasties if you are comfortable doing so.”

    “This was the final red flag that it took for me to realize, ‘Oh [expletive], I just sent pictures of myself and a video to someone that is not Skims. A complete creep on the internet,’” she explains.

    Santucci says that although these photos of her can already be found on her Instagram, she feels violated and unsettled.

    “This bothers me because where are these materials going?” she asks. “And god forbid a minor fell for this.”

    She theorizes how this material might be used by the extorters. “You would have kept undressing to a point where they would use these photos that were so scandalous against you in return for you to pay them,” she says.

    Santucci says she has reached out to the woman they’re impersonating, as well as the Skims legal team.

    “If this has happened to anyone else, please feel free to message me or to comment on this video,” she concludes. “Experiencing this alone, it is so insanely violating.”

    Is This a Well-Known Scam?

    In the comments, a couple of users said the same thing happened to them recently.

    “THIS HAPPENED TO ME!” one person exclaimed. “Skims x youngla collab. I made a post about this.”

    Another commenter said they experienced a similar job scam. “Omg this is so scary this happened to me for a job at meta they were impersonating a hiring manager who had a very real LinkedIn page that worked there,” they wrote.

    A user on r/scams posted their story about a year ago. They say an impersonator pretending to be someone from Boutine LA convinced them to model in lingerie and a bikini via Zoom. “I don’t know what to do if he happened to be recording my entire life would literally be over,” they wrote.

    @notjuliasantucci ⚠️WARNING!!! DO NOT FALL FOR THIS SKIMS EMAIL SCAM ASKING FOR BIKINI PHOTOS TO BE CONSIDERED FOR AN UPCOMING SKIMS SWIM CAMPAIGN⚠️ @SKIMS @Kim Kardashian #skims #skimsswim #scam #emailscam ♬ original sound – Jules

    How To Protect Yourself Against Sextortion?

    According to a guide by the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI), it’s never a good idea to send compromising photos of yourself to anyone, no matter who they are.

    They also advise against opening attachments from people you don’t know, since it exposes your electronic devices to a hack that gains access to your private information, including photos.

    Additionally, they suggest turning off your electronic devices and web cameras when not in use.

    If you’re a victim of sextortion, the FBI encourages you to file a complaint with the Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3).

    The Mary Sue has reached out to Santucci and Skims via email for official comment.

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  • California Gov. Newsom launches probe into whether TikTok is suppressing content

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    The new American version of TikTok is under scrutiny as some users claim the app is suppressing anti-ICE or anti-Trump content. Now, California Gov. Gavin Newsom is launching an investigation into the complaints. CBS News MoneyWatch correspondent Kelly O’Grady reports.

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  • Newsom Opens TikTok Censorship Investigation After Complaints

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    The inquiry comes less than a week after a coalition of Trump-aligned investors took control of the platform’s U.S. operations

    California Gov. Gavin Newsom is launching an investigation into TikTok’s censorship practices after users reported being unable to post content critical of the Trump administration.

    The inquiry comes less than a week after TikTok struck a deal with a group of non-Chinese investors to create a U.S. TikTok, ending a six-year legal saga that saw Congress ban the popular social media app over national security concerns.

    U.S. TikTok’s new owners feature several Trump-aligned companies, including Oracle, run by longtime Trump ally Larry Ellison, and MGX, an Emirati investment firm, heightening concerns about censorship.

    Some TikTok users reported being unable to mention Jeffrey Epstein in direct messages, while others, including Hacks star Megan Stalter and singer-songwriter Billie Eilish, said content criticizing U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement was barred on the platform.

    “TikTok is under new ownership and we are being completely censored and monitored,” Stalter wrote. “I’m unable to upload anything about 🧊 even after I tried to trick the page by making it look like a comedy video.”

    Stalter has since deleted her TikTok account and encouraged her followers to delete the app in protest.

    Journalist David Leavitt wrote on X that “TikTok had begun censoring anti-Trump and anti-ICE content,” sharing a screenshot of videos on his profile that had been flagged as “Ineligible for Recommendation.”

    Another user saw his comments on videos removed for expressing anti-Nazi rhetoric and pro-Palestine viewpoints.

    None of the users’ claims could be independently verified by Los Angeles Magazine.

    Conversations surrounding social media censorship have risen in prominence since Elon Musk bought Twitter in 2022 and rebranded the platform as X.

    Musk, a self-described “free speech absolutist,” fired the platform’s content moderation team soon after taking control of the company, accusing the department of silencing conservative voices.

    “For Twitter to deserve public trust, it must be politically neutral, which effectively means upsetting the far right and the far left equally,” Musk wrote on the platform shortly after the acquisition

    Despite the tech billionaire’s claims of transforming X into a “free speech app,” Musk has been accused of “silencing his critics” on the site by banning journalists and political commentators while tweaking the platform’s algorithm to promote conservative viewpoints.

    Many Democrats fear Oracle and MGX could reshape TikTok in ways similar to Elon Musk’s changes at X.

    “I know it’s hard to track all the threats to democracy out there right now, but this is at the top of the list,” Sen. Chris Murphy (D-CT) wrote on X.

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  • Meta, YouTube face trial over allegations their tech is addictive, as TikTok settles

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    Meta and YouTube are in court this week over allegations that their social media platforms can be addictive and harmful to children, while TikTok on Tuesday chose to settle the closely watched case. 

    At the heart of the case are allegations by a 19-year-old plaintiff, identified only as “KGM,” who claims that using social media from a young age caused her to become addicted to the technology, which led her to develop depression and suicidal thoughts. 

    TikTok was also scheduled to be part of the trial, but it has settled with the plaintiff, according to Matthew Bergman, the founding attorney of the Social Media Victims Law Center, which is representing KGM. 

    TikTok did not immediately respond to a request for comment.

    A fourth company named in the lawsuit, Snapchat parent company Snap, also settled the case last week for an undisclosed sum.

    Potential bellwether

    Legal experts have said the trial could be a bellwether for more than a thousand similar cases brought against social media players in recent years. Depending on the outcome, tech giants could be forced to overhaul their platforms, CBS News Philadelphia reported.

    The trial will also serve as a test case to see what damages, if any, may be awarded to plaintiffs, said Clay Calvert, a nonresident senior fellow of technology policy studies at the nonpartisan American Enterprise Institute.

    The trial, which kicks off this week in Los Angeles County Superior Court, is the first time major social media companies will argue their case before a jury. The jury selection process is expected to take several days, with 75 potential jurors questioned each day. 

    KGM’s lawsuit alleges that the social media addiction and mental illness she suffered were caused by deliberate design choices made by companies that sought to make their platforms more addictive to children to boost profits. This argument, if successful, could sidestep the companies’ First Amendment shield and Section 230 of the Communications Decency Act, which protects tech companies from liability for material posted on their platforms.

    “Borrowing heavily from the behavioral and neurobiological techniques used by slot machines and exploited by the cigarette industry, Defendants deliberately embedded in their products an array of design features aimed at maximizing youth engagement to drive advertising revenue,” the lawsuit says.

    A Meta spokesperson said in a statement Monday that the company strongly disagrees with the allegations outlined in the lawsuit and that it’s “confident the evidence will show our longstanding commitment to supporting young people.”

    José Castañeda, a Google spokesperson, said Monday that the allegations against YouTube are “simply not true.” Google is the parent company of YouTube.

    “Providing young people with a safer, healthier experience has always been core to our work,” Castañeda added. 

    Zuckerberg expected to testify

    Executives, including Meta CEO Mark Zuckerberg, are expected to testify at the trial, which will last six to eight weeks. Experts have drawn similarities to the Big Tobacco trials that led to a 1998 settlement requiring cigarette companies to pay billions in healthcare costs and restrict marketing targeting minors.

    “Plaintiffs are not merely the collateral damage of Defendants’ products,” the lawsuit says. “They are the direct victims of the intentional product design choices made by each Defendant. They are the intended targets of the harmful features that pushed them into self-destructive feedback loops.”

    The tech companies dispute the claims that their products deliberately harm children, citing a bevy of safeguards they have added over the years and arguing that they are not liable for content posted on their sites by third parties.

    “Recently, a number of lawsuits have attempted to place the blame for teen mental health struggles squarely on social media companies,” Meta said in a recent blog post. “But this oversimplifies a serious issue. Clinicians and researchers find that mental health is a deeply complex and multifaceted issue, and trends regarding teens’ well-being aren’t clear-cut or universal. Narrowing the challenges faced by teens to a single factor ignores the scientific research and the many stressors impacting young people today, like academic pressure, school safety, socio-economic challenges and substance abuse.”

    School lawsuits

    The case will be the first in a slew of cases beginning this year that seek to hold social media companies responsible for harming children’s mental well-being. A federal trial beginning in June in Oakland, California, will be the first to represent school districts that have sued social media platforms over harms to children.

    In addition, more than 40 state attorneys general have filed lawsuits against Meta, claiming it is harming young people and contributing to the youth mental health crisis by deliberately designing features on Instagram and Facebook that addict children to its platforms. The majority of cases filed their lawsuits in federal court, but some sued in their respective states.

    TikTok also faces similar lawsuits in more than a dozen states.

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  • Is social media harmful for kids? Meta and YouTube face trial after TikTok settles suit

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    TikTok has agreed to settle the first in a series of closely-watched product liability cases, bowing out on the eve of a landmark trial that could upend how social media giants engage their youngest users and leave tech titans on the hook for billions in damages.

    The settlement was reached as jury selection was set to begin in Los Angeles County Superior Court on Tuesday and comes a week after Snap reached a deal with the same plaintiff, a Chico, Calif., woman who said she became addicted to social media starting in elementary school.

    “This settlement should come as no surprise because that damning evidence is just the tip of the iceberg,” said Sacha Haworth, executive director of the Tech Oversight Project, an industry watchdog. “This was only the first case — there are hundreds of parents and school districts in the social media addiction trials that start today, and sadly, new families every day who are speaking out and bringing Big Tech to court for its deliberately harmful products.”

    TikTok did not immediately respond to requests for comment about Monday’s settlement.

    “The Parties are pleased to have been able to resolve this matter in an amicable manner,” Snap spokeswoman Monique Bellamy said of the settlement.

    The remaining defendants, Instagram’s parent company Meta and Google’s YouTube, still face claims that their products are “defective” and designed to keep children hooked to apps its makers know are harmful.

    Those same arguments are at the heart of at least 2,500 cases currently pending together in state and federal courts. The Los Angeles trial is among a handful of bellwethers meant to clarify the uncharted legal terrain.

    Social media companies are protected by the 1st Amendment and by Section 230, a decades-old law that shields internet companies from liability for what users produce and share on their platforms.

    Attorneys for the Chico plaintiff, referred to in court documents as K.G.M., say the apps were built and refined to snare youngsters and keep them on the platforms without regard for dangers the companies knew lurked there, including sexual predation, bullying and promotion of self-harm and even suicide.

    As the claims against Meta and YouTube head to trial, jurors will be asked to weigh whether those dangers are incidental or inherent, and if social media companies can be held responsible for the harm families say flowed from their children’s feeds.

    Scores of potential jurors filled the beige terrazzo hallway outside Judge Carolyn B. Kuhl’s courtroom downtown Tuesday morning, most passing the time on social apps on their phones. Some watched short-form videos while others thumbed through their feeds, pausing every so often to tap a like on a post.

    Roughly 450 Angelenos will be vetted this week for spots on the jury. The trial is expected to last through March.

    Instagram is 15 years old, YouTube almost 21. Finding Angelenos unfamiliar with either is likely impossible. The trial comes at a moment when public opinion around social media has soured, with a growing sentiment among parents, mental health professionals, lawmakers and even children themselves that the apps do more harm than good.

    The judge told prospective jurors that lawyers on the case could not review their online profiles. “We know many of you use defendants’ social media and video-sharing platforms, and you’re not being asked to stop, but until you’re excused, you should not change how you use social media and you should not investigate features you don’t usually use,” Kuhl said in court.

    Phones are now banned in California public school classrooms. Many private schools impose strict rules around when and how social media can be used.

    In study after study, pluralities of young users — among them the youngest of “Anxious Generation” Zoomers and the oldest Gen Alpha’s iPad kids — now say they spend too much time on the apps. A disputed but growing body of research suggests some portion are addicted.

    According to a study last spring by the nonpartisan Pew Research Center, roughly half of teens say social media is bad for people their age, that it interferes with their sleep and that it hurts their productivity. Almost a quarter say it has brought down their grades. And 1 in 5 say it has hurt their mental health.

    Experts say social media has also helped drive the increase in suicides among teen girls, and a post-pandemic surge in eating disorders.

    K.G.M., the first bellwether plaintiff, said she started watching YouTube at age 6, and was uploading content to the site by age 8.

    Today, about 85% of children under 12 watch YouTube and half of those watch it daily, according to Pew.

    At 9, according to K.G.M.’s lawsuit, she got her first iPhone and joined Instagram.

    By the time she joined Snapchat at age 13, she was spending almost every waking hour scrolling, posting and agonizing over her engagement, despite bullying from peers, hate comments from strangers and sexually explicit overtures from adult men.

    “When I was in middle school, I used to go and hide in the counselor’s office … just to go on my phone,” she said in a deposition last year.

    Around that time, she said Instagram began serving her content about self-harm and restrictive eating.

    “I believe that social media, her addiction to social media, has changed the way her brain works,” the plaintiff’s mother, Karen, said in a related filing. “She has no long-term memory. She can’t live without a phone. She is willing to go to battle if you were even to touch her phone.”

    “There became a point where she was so addicted that I could not get the phone out of her hand,” she said.

    K.G.M.’s sister was even more blunt.

    “Whenever my mom would take her phone away … she would have a meltdown like someone had died,” the sister said. “She would have so many meltdowns anytime her phone was taken away, and it was because she wouldn’t be able to use Instagram.”

    “I wish I never downloaded it,” the plaintiff later told her sister, according to the deposition. “I wish I never got it in the first place.”

    Boosters of the litigation compare their quest to the fight against Big Tobacco and the opioid-maker Purdue.

    “This is the beginning of the trial of our generation,” said Haworth, the tech industry watchdog.

    But the gulf between public opinion and civil culpability is vast, attorneys for the platforms say. Social media addiction is not a formal clinical diagnosis, and proving that it exists, and that the companies bear responsibility for it, will be an uphill battle.

    Lawyers for YouTube have sought to further complicate the picture by claiming their video-sharing site is not social media at all and cannot be lumped in with the likes of Instagram and TikTok.

    Attorneys for the plaintiffs say such distinctions are ephemeral, pointing out that YouTube has by far the youngest group of users, many of whom say the platform was an on-ramp to the world of social media.

    “I am equally shocked … by the internal documents that I have seen from all four of these defendants regarding their knowing decision to addict kids to a platform knowing it would be bad for them,” said attorney Matthew Bergman of the Social Media Victims Law Center. “To me they are all outrageous in their decision to elevate their profits over the safety of kids.”

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