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  • State Senate plans another sex education reform vote

    State Senate plans another sex education reform vote

    BOSTON — Senators next week will vote again on a bill to update the state’s sex education guidelines, something the chamber has already approved four times without getting buy-in from the House.

    The Senate Committee on Ways and Means polled the so-called Healthy Youth Act (S 268) this past Thursday, getting it ready for action this Thursday in the Senate’s first formal session in four weeks.

    The bill would update Massachusetts’ sexual health laws and create guidelines for districts that opt into teaching sex education to go over human anatomy; how to prevent sexually transmitted diseases, HIV, AIDS and unwanted pregnancy; effective use of contraceptives; how to safely discuss sexual activity in a relationship; skills to identify and prevent sexual violence and relationship violence; and age-appropriate and affirming education on gender identity and sexual orientation.

    “As I said on the floor the last four times, we know our students are talking about these issues in the classroom or not,” Sen. Sal DiDomenico, the lead sponsor of the Senate bill, said. “If they’re not learning medically-accurate information taught in our classrooms, they’re getting bad information that could have long-term consequences.”

    Though the Senate has voted to remodel the education frameworks four times in the last decade, House Democrats have never taken it up. On the House side, Rep. Jim O’Day has sponsored the bill for the last 10 years.

    “When I started on this bill, the last time a framework for healthy youth, for sexual education, was addressed was in 1999,” O’Day said last month as a guest on former Senate President Harriette Chandler’s local cable show. “So here we are now in 2024, where we at least now have a good, solid, well-rounded, medically-accurate, age-appropriate, evidence-based (bill) … and this is not a mandate for this bill.”

    “That’s a disgrace,” Chandler, a supporter of the bill, said when O’Day initially raised the subject.

    The Board of Elementary and Secondary Education updated its sexual health education standards on its own accord last year to mirror some of what the so-called Healthy Youth Act calls for, after Gov. Maura Healey threw her support behind the controversial measure.

    Under the board’s new physical and sex education guidelines, students will receive sex and health education that is intended to be more inclusive of the LGBTQ+ community and teach about bodily autonomy, mental and emotional health, dating safety, nutrition, sexually transmitted infections and consent.

    Neither the guidelines nor DiDomenico and O’Day’s bill would change the Massachusetts law that allows districts to opt-in to teaching sex education. The bill before senators would also require that parents get a letter at the beginning of the school year with details about the sex ed curriculum and the opportunity to opt their child out.

    Asked by the News Service how the bill differs from the updated frameworks the board of education adopted, DiDomenico said passing the Healthy Youth Acts would codify the new guidelines.

    The bill would require data collection on what’s being taught in schools, reported to the Department of Elementary and Secondary Education every two years. It would also require that the state revisit the framework every 10 years, as it took 24 years this time around to update the guidelines.

    “Lastly, the framework is more of a suggestion for schools. Healthy Youth is an actual curriculum. and so there’s a lot more flexibility with the framework. Theoretically ‘abstinence only’ can still be taught with the framework,” DiDomenico said. “Under this bill, sex ed would talk about consent, LGBTQ language and healthy relationships as well. It’s a lot more detailed, unlike a suggestion.”

    The senator added that 17 states require sex education to be medically accurate and 26 require it to be age appropriate. Massachusetts is not on either of those lists.

    “I think that’s a pretty compelling argument. Many states across the country have seen the value of this education,” DiDomeinco said. “This bill will give students information they need to protect their health, have respectful relationships, and have a better future for themselves. In my mind, it’s just as important as math and science and English.”

    By Sam Drysdale | State House News Service

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  • Lawrence man found guilty of rape again

    Lawrence man found guilty of rape again

    LAWRENCE — A Lawrence man convicted of rape four years ago was found guilty again of rape, extortion and photographing an unsuspecting nude person.

    Angel Mateo, 27, previously of 76 Phillips St., was already serving 7 to 9 years in state prison on the previous rape conviction.

    On Wednesday, Superior Court Judge Sal Tabit sentenced Mateo to another 12 to 14 years in state prison after a jury found him guilty of five rape and related charges after a trial in Lawrence Superior Court, according to court records.

    The court docket indicated jurors deliberated for 90 minutes before handing down guilty verdicts against Mateo for two counts of rape, two counts of extortion and photographing a nude person without consent, according to court records.

    Tabit also sentenced Mateo to 2 1/2 years in the county jail. That sentence is to be served concurrently with the state prison sentence, court records indicated.

    Mateo was also ordered to three years on probation following his prison release, and he must register as a sex offender with the state, undergo special programs for sex offenders and have no contact with any witnesses, according to court documents.

    The case centered around Mateo threatening an ex-girlfriend, saying if she did not perform a sex act that he would post a sex video of her online and “ruin her image,” according to police.

    In February 2020, Mateo was convicted by a Salem Superior Court jury of on statutory rape, indecent assault and battery on a child and assault and battery charges. The crimes involved four female victims, including a 13-year-old girl. Two of them testified during that trial.

    In October, 2023, Mateo was found not guilty in a third case involving allegations of breaking and entering and strangulation.

    During the break-ins, Mateo was accused of removing a small child from her bed and attempting to take her out of the house and in the other break, the victim woke up and found a man standing over her.

    The jury found Mateo not guilty of two counts of breaking and entering into a building in the nighttime to commit a felony, attempting to commit a crime, two counts of assault and battery and strangulation or suffocation.

    Mateo’s defense attorney Jeffrey Sweeney could not be reached for comment for this article.

    The case was prosecuted by Assistant District Attorney Jessica Strasnick.

    Follow staff reporter Jill Harmacinski on Twitter/X @EagleTribJill.

    By Jill Harmacinski jharmacinski@eagletribune.com

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  • BEST OF 2022: Supermom In Training: Why you NEED to talk to your kids about sex

    BEST OF 2022: Supermom In Training: Why you NEED to talk to your kids about sex

    Want to know why you need to talk to your kids about sex?!

    Just Google “what is sex?”. If you don’t tell them what sex is, this is what they will think it is.

    Scary, no?

    About a year ago, I had the full “sex talk” with my 8-year-old. He’s always been a pretty mature kid so I knew he was ready to hear it. Now, in third grade, he and his friends are doing a lot of joking around that centres around sexuality. The difference is, I know my son understands these jokes… but I also know the kids who are throwing around these terms and sound effects, and they most definitely don’t know or understand the depth of what they are saying.

    Yes, sound effects. Moaning, to be precise.

    There are lots of jokes about penises. Doodles of dinkies. Mentions of “humping” and more. So much more.

    Perhaps it’s better that your kids hear about sex and sexuality not from their friends, who are tossing around words without really knowing what they’re talking about. Sure, it might seem uncomfortable to say certain things about sex to your kids. After all, they’re so innocent, right?

    Trust me: Coming from a mom whose son trusts her enough to divulge all the on-goings of 8-, 9-, and 10-year-old kids, you want to help them out on this one. Because if you don’t fill in the blanks, Google or Siri or the kid in the schoolyard will. 

    A full-time work-from-home mom, Jennifer Cox (our “Supermom in Training”) loves dabbling in healthy cooking, craft projects, family outings, and more, sharing with readers everything she knows about being an (almost) superhero mommy.

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