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  • ‘I couldn’t breathe’: York drag artist says they were choked after anti-queer taunting

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    Two days after an encounter that began as verbal anti-LGBTQ taunting in the beer garden at Gift Horse Brewing Co. and ended in alleged violence outside the York County courthouse, three members of York’s queer community were shaken and still processing the incident – but also buoyed by the support they’ve received from the community.

    Vayne Disharoon, 31, of York, a veteran local drag performer, described the Aug. 22 incident that they said resulted in them being choked unconscious by a man in near they alley just south of the county judicial center on George Street.

    Vayne Disharoon, left, and Brady Pappas, were at Gift Horse Brewing Company in York with another friend Tragedy Stackhouse when they said a group began taunting them with anti-queer slurs. Disharoon said they were later strangled and lost consciousness.

    Disharoon and friends Brady Pappas, 28, of Wrightsville and Tragedy Stackhouse, 28, of York said they were having drinks in the beer garden Friday evening when a group of five, two men and three women, seated near them started directing anti-queer slurs their way.

    (Disharoon uses they/them pronouns. Pappas uses they first and she second. Stackhouse uses she/her.)

    Reported earlier: York police commissioner orders review of reported anti-LGBTQ incident downtown

    “They were saying some disrespectful things that I had heard. So I had kind of looked over, gave them like a little bit of a look,” Disharoon said. “And it was an immediate, like, two of them jump up, like, oh, do you have a problem? Do you want to do something? And I was like, no, not at all, actually. Like, I just don’t want you to talk bad about my friends.”

    Disharoon said as their group was leaving, the group of five started screaming at them, “and then I started screaming back at them a little bit. I was drinking. And I’m not going to let people talk to me and my friends that way.”

    ‘White trash’

    “I called them white trash,” Disharoon said. “I called them trashy. That was kind of it. I mean, they were calling us faggots and trannies, so I figured calling them white trash probably isn’t as insulting, but apparently I was wrong.”

    Disharoon and Brady said the group followed them when they left, and a violent encounter ensued near the alley between the courthouse and the former Revival Social Club. They said one of the men in the group “came straight to me and tried to grab me and tried to grapple me.”

    Vayne Disharoon, right, describes the moment they were knocked over the bench in the foreground at the York County Judicial Center and strangled while and Brady Pappas, who was there, looks on.

    Vayne Disharoon, right, describes the moment they were knocked over the bench in the foreground at the York County Judicial Center and strangled while and Brady Pappas, who was there, looks on.

    “And I just kept backing away from him, telling him I didn’t want to fight him and that he needed to calm down and relax and breathe because that’s not what we were doing,” Disharoon said. “And he just wouldn’t stop. So when he got too close, I swung my bag at him for distance. And then I had fallen over a bench. And that’s when he got on top of me and started choking me until I couldn’t breathe.”

    Disharoon said they were briefly unconscious.

    ‘Fists swinging’

    That’s when a bartender from Gift Horse, Davy O’Leary, and another bartender, Gavin Flinchbaugh, intervened. O’Leary said he’d been alerted that the group of five was harassing the three friends, and he kept an eye on them as they walked up the street. He said the two groups were “chirping” at each other as they walked. When he saw a member of the group of five head toward the three friends, he got involved.

    Bartender Davy O'Leary ran down the street and got there in time to stop the choking of Vayne Disharoon.

    Bartender Davy O’Leary ran down the street and got there in time to stop the choking of Vayne Disharoon.

    “One of the boys in the group of five just turns and full pelts across the street,” said O’Leary in his Irish accent. “There was purpose in that run, so I tapped Gav and said come on we’re going. … You could just see swinging, fists swinging, something swinging, someone’s hat goes 20 foot in the air. … So we got down there and Vayne’s on the ground with the other gentleman on his back with a … chokehold on him. … Vayne’s face was turning a little bit purple. So I grabbed the man’s hand from behind his head to release the pressure and grabbed his other arm to get it off his throat. By the time I did that, Vayne was already unconscious.”

    O’Leary said he held the man until Disharoon regained consciousness – and then until police arrived.

    “The police came and talked to (the group of five), mostly,” said Disharoon. “And then they had come and they had taken my statement, but they didn’t talk to Brady or our friend Tragedy.”

    Disharoon said police told them it seemed like a case of mutual aggression, that they were “antagonizing them to get that outcome.”

    Police reportedly issued a disorderly conduct citation to Disharoon and to the man Disharoon alleges choked them.

    “So I got fully choked unconscious,” Disharoon said. “How am I going to get charged for something that I didn’t do when all we were doing was defending ourselves?”

    Police review of incident

    Police have not released charging documents. The man in the group of five has not been identified by police. Capt. Daniel Lentz said Sunday afternoon there were no updates on the investigation of the incident.

    In the wake of extensive social media fallout that came after Pappus posted an account of the incident, York City Police Commissioner Michael Muldrow ordered his detectives to do a thorough review of an incident. “ANY incident where “Hate Fueled Violence” is alleged (in this community) will ALWAYS be a priority to myself, this Department, and York City Government as a whole,” wrote Muldrow.

    A sign at the entrance of Gift Horse Brewing says, 'HATE is NOT Welcome Here."

    A sign at the entrance of Gift Horse Brewing says, ‘HATE is NOT Welcome Here.”

    Disharoon said as of the morning of Aug. 24, charges had not been dropped. They said several lawyers have reached out offering to represent them.

    Disharoon said they had minor injuries from the incident and were taken to York Hospital for a CAT scan.

    No regrets

    “Seeing the amount of people that are standing up and defending us and supporting us has really made me feel a lot better about the situation as well,” Disharoon said. “At first it felt like we were just kind of swept under a rug and that nobody cared.”

    On Saturday, Aug. 23, allies chalked a rainbow onto the crosswalk near where the incident happened.

    Vayne Disharoon, left, describes how a group crossed over North George Street and then ran back across to intercept the three friends in front of the York Judicial Center. Brady Pappas, who was there, looks on.

    Vayne Disharoon, left, describes how a group crossed over North George Street and then ran back across to intercept the three friends in front of the York Judicial Center. Brady Pappas, who was there, looks on.

    Disharoon, Pappus and Stackhouse said they’re part of a vibrant community of queer people and allies in York. “I see a lot of people saying, ‘I can’t believe this is happening in our city,’ but this happens all the time and we are so lucky in a way that it was people who are so ingrained in this community that there was no way that this wasn’t gonna be amplified the way that it is.”

    They said the current anti-trans, anti-queer political climate locally and nationally is worrisome.

    But Disharoon said they didn’t regret pushing back against bigotry.

    “I would rather stand for what I believe and defend myself and have that outcome happen than to let them leave thinking that they’re better than us, you know?” Disharoon said. “Because that’s why they talk to us like that. That’s why they treat us like that. In their head, they’re superior. And I’m not going to be talked down to. And I will get my ass beat. And I will still get up with a smile on my face because I still defended myself.”

    No hero

    Mick Knaper, co-owner of Gift Horse, said the anti-LGBTQ harrassment that sparked the incident was completely unacceptable. He pointed to a sign in the bar’s front window saying hate has no place in the establishment.

    For his part, O’Leary shrugged off his actions as not heroic but simply the kind of thing any decent human being would do. He said that after the incident, “I just went back to work” with no adrenaline rush.

    “It’s just the bar life,” he said.

    Gift Horse Brewing Company co-owner Mick Knaper said that such incidents will not be tolerated as he describes an incident on Aug. 24, 2025.

    Gift Horse Brewing Company co-owner Mick Knaper said that such incidents will not be tolerated as he describes an incident on Aug. 24, 2025.

    Drag performance fundraiser

    The group of three said their next drag performance will be Thursday, Aug. 28 at Archetype Pizza on West Market Street in York.

    “It was supposed to be karaoke,” Disharoon said, “but I think we’re actually going to restructure it to make it a fundraiser and donate the money to an organization that deals with violence in the LGBTQ community specifically.”

    Also, allies are reportedly planning to hold a demonstration outside of Gift Horse Friday, Aug. 29 at 8 p.m.

    This article originally appeared on York Daily Record: York PA drag artist alleges they were choked after anti-queer exchange

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  • The FDA’s New ‘Don’t Say Gay’ Policy for Blood Donation

    The FDA’s New ‘Don’t Say Gay’ Policy for Blood Donation

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    For decades now, gay men have been barred from giving blood. In 2015, what had been a lifetime ban was loosened, such that gay men could be donors if they’d abstained from sex for at least a year. This was later shortened to three months. Last week, the FDA put out a new and more inclusive plan: Sexually active gay and bisexual people would be permitted to donate so long as they have not recently engaged in anal sex with new or multiple partners. Assistant Secretary for Health Rachel Levine, the first Senate-confirmed transgender official in the U.S., issued a statement commending the proposal for “advancing equity.” It “treats everyone the same,” she said, “regardless of gender and sexual orientation.”

    As a member of the small but honorable league of gay pathologists, I’m affected by these proposed policy changes more than most Americans. I’m subject to restrictions on giving blood, and I’ve also been responsible for monitoring the complications that can arise from transfusions of infected blood. I am quite concerned about HIV, given that men who have sex with men are at much greater risk of contracting the virus than members of other groups. But it’s not the blood-borne illness that I, as a doctor, fear most. Common bacteria lead to far more transfusion-transmitted infections in the U.S. than any virus does, and most of those produce severe or fatal illness. The risk from viruses is extraordinarily low—there hasn’t been a single reported case of transfusion-associated HIV in the U.S. since 2008—because laboratories now use highly accurate tests to screen all donors and ensure the safety of our blood supply. This testing is so accurate that preventing anyone from donating based on their sexual behavior is no longer logical. Meanwhile, new dictates about anal sex, like older ones explicitly targeting men who have sex with men, still discriminate against the queer community—the FDA is simply struggling to find the most socially acceptable way to pursue a policy that it should have abandoned long ago.

    Strict precautions made more sense 30 years ago, when screening didn’t work nearly as well as it does today. Patients with hemophilia, many of whom rely on blood products to live, were prominent, early victims of our inability to keep HIV out of the blood supply. One patient who’d acquired the virus through a transfusion lamented to The New York Times in 1993 that he had already watched an uncle and a cousin die of AIDS. Those days of “shock and denial,” as the Times described it, are thankfully behind us. But for older patients, memories of the crisis in the ’80s and early ’90s linger, and cause significant anxiety. Even people unaware of this historical context may consider the receipt of someone else’s blood disturbing, threatening, or sinful.

    As a doctor, I’ve found that patients tend to be more hesitant about getting a blood transfusion than they are about taking a pill. I’ve had them ask for a detailed medical history of the donor, or say they’re willing to take blood only from a close relative. (Typically, neither of these requests can be fulfilled for reasons of privacy and practicality.) Yet the same patients may accept—without question—drugs that carry a risk of serious complication that is thousands of times higher than the risk of receiving infected blood. Even when it comes to blood-borne infections, patients seem to worry less about the greatest danger—bacterial contamination—than they do about the transfer of viruses such as HIV and hepatitis C. I can’t fault anyone for being sick and scared, but the risk of contracting HIV from a blood transfusion is not just low—it’s essentially nonexistent.

    Donors’ feelings matter, too, and the FDA’s policies toward gay and bisexual men who wish to give blood have been unfair for many years. While officials speak in the supposedly objective language of risk and safety, their selective deployment of concern suggests a deeper homophobia. As one scholar put it in The American Journal of Bioethics more than a decade ago, “Discrimination resides not in the risk itself but in the FDA response to the risk.” Many demographic groups are at elevated risk of contracting HIV, yet the agency isn’t continually refining its exclusion criteria for young people or urban dwellers or Black and Hispanic people. Federal policy did prohibit Haitians from donating blood from 1983 to 1991, but activists successfully lobbied for the reversal of this ban with the powerful slogan “The H in HIV stands for human, not Haitian.” Nearly everyone today would find the idea of rejecting blood from one racial group to be morally repugnant. Under its new proposal, which purports to target anal sex instead of homosexuality itself, the FDA effectively persists in rejecting blood from sexual minorities.

    The planned update would certainly be an improvement. It comes out of years of advocacy by LGBTQ-rights organizations, and its details are apparently supported by newly conducted government research. Peter Marks, the director of the Center for Biologics Evaluation and Research at the FDA, cited an unpublished study showing that “a significant fraction” of men who have sex with men would now be able to donate. But the plan is still likely to exclude a large portion of them—even those who wear condoms or regularly test for sexually transmitted infections. An FDA spokesperson told me via email that “additional data are needed to determine what proportion of [men who have sex with men] would be able to donate under the proposed change.”

    Research done in France, Canada, and the U.K., where similar policies have since been adopted over the past two years, demonstrates the risk. A French blood-donation study, for instance, estimated that 70 percent of men who have sex with men had more than one recent partner; and when Canadian researchers surveyed queer communities in Montreal, Toronto, and Vancouver, they found that up to 63 percent would not be eligible to donate because they’d recently had anal sex with new or multiple partners. Just 1 percent of previously eligible donors would have been rejected by similar criteria. The U.K. assumed in its calculations that 35 to 50 percent of men who have sex with men would be ineligible under a policy much like the FDA’s, while only 1.4 percent of previous donors would be newly deferred. If the new rule’s net effect is that gay and bisexual men are turned away from blood centers at many times the rate of heterosexual individuals, what else can you call it but discrimination? The U.S. guidance is supposed to ban a lifestyle choice rather than an identity, but the implication is that too many queer men have chosen wrong. The FDA spokesperson told me, “Anal sex with more than one sexual partner has a significantly greater risk of HIV infection when compared to other sexual exposures, including oral sex or penile-vaginal sex.”

    If the FDA wants to pry into my sex life, it should have a good reason for doing so. The increasing granularity and intimacy of these policies—specifying numbers of partners, kinds of sex—gives the impression that the stakes are very high: If we don’t keep out the most dangerous donors, the blood supply could be ruined. But donor-screening questions are a crude tool for picking needles from a haystack. The only HIV infections that are likely to get missed by modern testing are those contracted within the previous week or two. This suggests that, at most, a couple thousand individuals—gay and straight—across the entire country are at risk of slipping past our testing defenses at any given time. Of course, very few of them will happen to donate blood right then. No voluntary questionnaire can ever totally exclude this possibility, but patients and doctors already accept other life-threatening transfusion risks that occur at much greater rates than HIV transmission ever could. When I would be on call for monitoring transfusion reactions at a single hospital, the phone would ring a few times every night. Yet blood has been given out tens of millions of times across the country since the last known instance of a transfusion resulting in a case of HIV.

    Early data suggest that the overall risk-benefit calculus of receiving blood isn’t likely to change. When eligibility criteria were first relaxed in the U.S. a few years ago, the already tiny rate of HIV-positive donations remained minuscule. Real-world results from other countries that have recently adopted sexual-orientation-neutral policies will become available in the coming years. But modeling studies already support removing any screening question that explicitly or implicitly targets queer men. A 2022 Canadian analysis suggested that removing all questions about men who have sex with men would not result in a significantly higher risk to patients. “Extra behavioral risk questions may not be necessary,” the researchers concluded. If there must be a restriction in place, then one narrowly tailored to the slim risk window of seven to 10 days before donation should be good enough. (The FDA says that its proposed policy “would be expected to reduce the likelihood of donations by individuals with new or recent HIV infection who may be in the window period.”)

    As a gay man, I realize that, brief periods of crisis during the coronavirus pandemic aside, no one needs my blood. Only 6.8 percent of men in the U.S. identify as gay or bisexual, so our potential benefit to the overall supply is inherently modest. If we went back to being banned completely, patients would not be harmed. But reversing that ban, both in letter and in spirit, would send a vital message: Our government and health-care system view sexual minorities as more than a disease vector. A policy that uses anal sex as a stand-in for men who have sex with men only further stigmatizes this population by impugning one of its main sources of sexual pleasure. There is no question that nonmonogamous queer men have a greater chance of contracting HIV. But a policy that truly treats everyone the same would accept a tiny amount of risk as the price of working with human beings.

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    Benjamin Mazer

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