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Two days after an encounter that began as verbal anti-LGBTQ taunting in the beer garden at Gift Horse Brewing Co. and ended in alleged violence outside the York County courthouse, three members of York’s queer community were shaken and still processing the incident – but also buoyed by the support they’ve received from the community.
Vayne Disharoon, 31, of York, a veteran local drag performer, described the Aug. 22 incident that they said resulted in them being choked unconscious by a man in near they alley just south of the county judicial center on George Street.
Vayne Disharoon, left, and Brady Pappas, were at Gift Horse Brewing Company in York with another friend Tragedy Stackhouse when they said a group began taunting them with anti-queer slurs. Disharoon said they were later strangled and lost consciousness.
Disharoon and friends Brady Pappas, 28, of Wrightsville and Tragedy Stackhouse, 28, of York said they were having drinks in the beer garden Friday evening when a group of five, two men and three women, seated near them started directing anti-queer slurs their way.
(Disharoon uses they/them pronouns. Pappas uses they first and she second. Stackhouse uses she/her.)
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“They were saying some disrespectful things that I had heard. So I had kind of looked over, gave them like a little bit of a look,” Disharoon said. “And it was an immediate, like, two of them jump up, like, oh, do you have a problem? Do you want to do something? And I was like, no, not at all, actually. Like, I just don’t want you to talk bad about my friends.”
Disharoon said as their group was leaving, the group of five started screaming at them, “and then I started screaming back at them a little bit. I was drinking. And I’m not going to let people talk to me and my friends that way.”
‘White trash’
“I called them white trash,” Disharoon said. “I called them trashy. That was kind of it. I mean, they were calling us faggots and trannies, so I figured calling them white trash probably isn’t as insulting, but apparently I was wrong.”
Disharoon and Brady said the group followed them when they left, and a violent encounter ensued near the alley between the courthouse and the former Revival Social Club. They said one of the men in the group “came straight to me and tried to grab me and tried to grapple me.”
Vayne Disharoon, right, describes the moment they were knocked over the bench in the foreground at the York County Judicial Center and strangled while and Brady Pappas, who was there, looks on.
“And I just kept backing away from him, telling him I didn’t want to fight him and that he needed to calm down and relax and breathe because that’s not what we were doing,” Disharoon said. “And he just wouldn’t stop. So when he got too close, I swung my bag at him for distance. And then I had fallen over a bench. And that’s when he got on top of me and started choking me until I couldn’t breathe.”
Disharoon said they were briefly unconscious.
‘Fists swinging’
That’s when a bartender from Gift Horse, Davy O’Leary, and another bartender, Gavin Flinchbaugh, intervened. O’Leary said he’d been alerted that the group of five was harassing the three friends, and he kept an eye on them as they walked up the street. He said the two groups were “chirping” at each other as they walked. When he saw a member of the group of five head toward the three friends, he got involved.
Bartender Davy O’Leary ran down the street and got there in time to stop the choking of Vayne Disharoon.
“One of the boys in the group of five just turns and full pelts across the street,” said O’Leary in his Irish accent. “There was purpose in that run, so I tapped Gav and said come on we’re going. … You could just see swinging, fists swinging, something swinging, someone’s hat goes 20 foot in the air. … So we got down there and Vayne’s on the ground with the other gentleman on his back with a … chokehold on him. … Vayne’s face was turning a little bit purple. So I grabbed the man’s hand from behind his head to release the pressure and grabbed his other arm to get it off his throat. By the time I did that, Vayne was already unconscious.”
O’Leary said he held the man until Disharoon regained consciousness – and then until police arrived.
“The police came and talked to (the group of five), mostly,” said Disharoon. “And then they had come and they had taken my statement, but they didn’t talk to Brady or our friend Tragedy.”
Disharoon said police told them it seemed like a case of mutual aggression, that they were “antagonizing them to get that outcome.”
Police reportedly issued a disorderly conduct citation to Disharoon and to the man Disharoon alleges choked them.
“So I got fully choked unconscious,” Disharoon said. “How am I going to get charged for something that I didn’t do when all we were doing was defending ourselves?”
Police review of incident
Police have not released charging documents. The man in the group of five has not been identified by police. Capt. Daniel Lentz said Sunday afternoon there were no updates on the investigation of the incident.
In the wake of extensive social media fallout that came after Pappus posted an account of the incident, York City Police Commissioner Michael Muldrow ordered his detectives to do a thorough review of an incident. “ANY incident where “Hate Fueled Violence” is alleged (in this community) will ALWAYS be a priority to myself, this Department, and York City Government as a whole,” wrote Muldrow.
A sign at the entrance of Gift Horse Brewing says, ‘HATE is NOT Welcome Here.”
Disharoon said as of the morning of Aug. 24, charges had not been dropped. They said several lawyers have reached out offering to represent them.
Disharoon said they had minor injuries from the incident and were taken to York Hospital for a CAT scan.
No regrets
“Seeing the amount of people that are standing up and defending us and supporting us has really made me feel a lot better about the situation as well,” Disharoon said. “At first it felt like we were just kind of swept under a rug and that nobody cared.”
On Saturday, Aug. 23, allies chalked a rainbow onto the crosswalk near where the incident happened.
Vayne Disharoon, left, describes how a group crossed over North George Street and then ran back across to intercept the three friends in front of the York Judicial Center. Brady Pappas, who was there, looks on.
Disharoon, Pappus and Stackhouse said they’re part of a vibrant community of queer people and allies in York. “I see a lot of people saying, ‘I can’t believe this is happening in our city,’ but this happens all the time and we are so lucky in a way that it was people who are so ingrained in this community that there was no way that this wasn’t gonna be amplified the way that it is.”
They said the current anti-trans, anti-queer political climate locally and nationally is worrisome.
But Disharoon said they didn’t regret pushing back against bigotry.
“I would rather stand for what I believe and defend myself and have that outcome happen than to let them leave thinking that they’re better than us, you know?” Disharoon said. “Because that’s why they talk to us like that. That’s why they treat us like that. In their head, they’re superior. And I’m not going to be talked down to. And I will get my ass beat. And I will still get up with a smile on my face because I still defended myself.”
No hero
Mick Knaper, co-owner of Gift Horse, said the anti-LGBTQ harrassment that sparked the incident was completely unacceptable. He pointed to a sign in the bar’s front window saying hate has no place in the establishment.
For his part, O’Leary shrugged off his actions as not heroic but simply the kind of thing any decent human being would do. He said that after the incident, “I just went back to work” with no adrenaline rush.
“It’s just the bar life,” he said.
Gift Horse Brewing Company co-owner Mick Knaper said that such incidents will not be tolerated as he describes an incident on Aug. 24, 2025.
Drag performance fundraiser
The group of three said their next drag performance will be Thursday, Aug. 28 at Archetype Pizza on West Market Street in York.
“It was supposed to be karaoke,” Disharoon said, “but I think we’re actually going to restructure it to make it a fundraiser and donate the money to an organization that deals with violence in the LGBTQ community specifically.”
Also, allies are reportedly planning to hold a demonstration outside of Gift Horse Friday, Aug. 29 at 8 p.m.
This article originally appeared on York Daily Record: York PA drag artist alleges they were choked after anti-queer exchange
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