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  • Thanksgiving tips: Health and safety advice from Central Florida officials

    Thanksgiving tips: Health and safety advice from Central Florida officials

    Updated: 11:50 AM EST Nov 25, 2025

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    Firefighters in Orange County took matters into their own hands Friday to demonstrate the dangers of frying a turkey, and shared their tips on how everyone can ensure “a happy, hazard-free Thanksgiving with your loved ones.”Cooking fires are the leading cause of house fires and fire-related injuries in the country, Orange County Fire Rescue said. Officials who hosted the event aimed to show those cooking a frozen turkey what could happen if the bird is placed into an overfilled, scorching oil fryer. The results could be dangerous, whether it be a hot oil spill or a fire that could cause severe burns, property damage and potential explosions. The Florida Department of Health in Lake County and Osceola County also shared tips for the upcoming holiday, hoping to encourage everyone to stay healthy and safe. The two shared the following information for Thanksgiving best practices in news releases:Food SafetyThaw meat in the refrigerator or in a sink filled with cold water before cooking. The water needs to be changed every 30 minutes. Do not thaw it on the counter, as foodborne bacteria can quickly grow.Keep raw foods separate from cooked foods and wash your hands, utensils, and surfaces frequently to avoid cross-contamination.Do not consume raw batter or dough that is made with flour or eggs to avoid harmful bacteria like E. coli and Salmonella.Use a food thermometer to ensure foods are cooked to proper internal temperatures.Once the food is prepared, keep hot foods above 140 degrees Fahrenheit and cold items below 40 degrees Fahrenheit.Hot and cold leftovers need to be refrigerated within two hours of being served.Keep hot foods insulated and place cold foods on ice or gel packs while in the car.Physical Health and Mental Well-BeingThe holiday season often comes with busier schedules, making it extra important to take care of mental well-being and physical health. Find ways to be physically active. This can be as simple as walking for an extra 10 minutes during your holiday shopping.Schedule time to unwind and take part in activities you enjoy.Use healthy ingredients in your traditional dishes by opting for less sodium and healthy fats.Reach out and check in on one another. The holidays can heighten feelings of loss or grief. Connecting with your community can help, especially for those struggling.Decoration and Travel SafetyAvoid placing poisonous plants in areas accessible to children and pets. Holly berries, mistletoe, amaryllis, and English ivy are a few poisonous plants that are popular around the holidays.Secure and cover extension cords to prevent trips and falls.Be cautious when using spray-on artificial snow. Inhalation can cause irritation to the lungs.Make sure car seats are properly installed and children are in the right seats for their age and size. Set up a car seat safety inspection.Be well rested before getting behind the wheel.Designate a sober driver.

    Firefighters in Orange County took matters into their own hands Friday to demonstrate the dangers of frying a turkey, and shared their tips on how everyone can ensure “a happy, hazard-free Thanksgiving with your loved ones.”

    Cooking fires are the leading cause of house fires and fire-related injuries in the country, Orange County Fire Rescue said.

    Officials who hosted the event aimed to show those cooking a frozen turkey what could happen if the bird is placed into an overfilled, scorching oil fryer. The results could be dangerous, whether it be a hot oil spill or a fire that could cause severe burns, property damage and potential explosions.

    The Florida Department of Health in Lake County and Osceola County also shared tips for the upcoming holiday, hoping to encourage everyone to stay healthy and safe.

    The two shared the following information for Thanksgiving best practices in news releases:

    Food Safety

    • Thaw meat in the refrigerator or in a sink filled with cold water before cooking. The water needs to be changed every 30 minutes. Do not thaw it on the counter, as foodborne bacteria can quickly grow.
    • Keep raw foods separate from cooked foods and wash your hands, utensils, and surfaces frequently to avoid cross-contamination.
    • Do not consume raw batter or dough that is made with flour or eggs to avoid harmful bacteria like E. coli and Salmonella.
    • Use a food thermometer to ensure foods are cooked to proper internal temperatures.
    • Once the food is prepared, keep hot foods above 140 degrees Fahrenheit and cold items below 40 degrees Fahrenheit.
    • Hot and cold leftovers need to be refrigerated within two hours of being served.
    • Keep hot foods insulated and place cold foods on ice or gel packs while in the car.

    Physical Health and Mental Well-Being

    The holiday season often comes with busier schedules, making it extra important to take care of mental well-being and physical health.

    • Find ways to be physically active. This can be as simple as walking for an extra 10 minutes during your holiday shopping.
    • Schedule time to unwind and take part in activities you enjoy.
    • Use healthy ingredients in your traditional dishes by opting for less sodium and healthy fats.
    • Reach out and check in on one another. The holidays can heighten feelings of loss or grief. Connecting with your community can help, especially for those struggling.

    Decoration and Travel Safety

    • Avoid placing poisonous plants in areas accessible to children and pets. Holly berries, mistletoe, amaryllis, and English ivy are a few poisonous plants that are popular around the holidays.
    • Secure and cover extension cords to prevent trips and falls.
    • Be cautious when using spray-on artificial snow. Inhalation can cause irritation to the lungs.
    • Make sure car seats are properly installed and children are in the right seats for their age and size. Set up a car seat safety inspection.
    • Be well rested before getting behind the wheel.
    • Designate a sober driver.

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  • I’m 40, Busy, and I Need to Get Into Shape: A Realistic Fitness Framework for Busy Guys Who Don’t Love the Gym

    Why your fitness goals from your 20s don’t work anymore—and how to set real ones instead.

    It’s an understatement to say that the world of fitness is overly saturated. From social media influencers, gurus, and self-proclaimed experts to the latest crazes of hyper-strict diets, “magic” supplements, and the so-called “perfect” training programs full of the-only-thing-you-need-to finally-get-a-six-pack promises, it’s completely understandable that you can get turned off by all the hype. 

    You’re busy, your job is stressful, you may have a family, and you want more time to live the life you want. Who has the time to go on a lengthy mental and physical excursion, exploring, experimenting, and executing the countless options available?

    Why does everything seem so complicated? And who the heck is making up all these rules? 

    It can be incredibly frustrating adhering to any fitness plan let alone knowing where to start. You may feel like quitting before you even begin. Thoughts of early evening pickleball swirl around in your head and might just be your best idea yet!

    Fear not. Read on to find out how you can easily start, implement, and actually enjoy the process of getting into great shape as an adult without the paralyzing information overload you were never going to wade through to begin with. 

    Below is a simple step-by-step list of easy-to-follow guidelines that will enable you to cater to your specific needs, schedule, and lifestyle. No social media guru is required.

    1. Set a vision.

    Notice how we didn’t start with “choose a goal.” Initially, we tend to set vague goals that are poorly defined like “lose weight” or “workout more.” Additionally, goals are terminal by nature.

    Once you achieve your goal, then what?

    A vision, on the other hand, is much more long-term. It symbolizes a commitment which would have no end. Here you would create a vision based on lifestyle versus limited goals. Your desire to get into shape, eat better, sleep better, and reduce stress becomes more part of your life, an integral part of your day-to-day, versus just some things you add on if you have time. 

    Ask yourself: What do I want my day to look like? How will I feel after a great workout? Do I see myself losing weight, gaining muscle and strength, and feeling better? 

    This process becomes more about adopting a new and healthier lifestyle versus setting goals that feel like are outside of your control. It is a mindset shift that allows you to fully welcome in and embrace new habits that become a part of you and your day-to-day. 

    Once you get your mind to shift, you can then set specific goals. Don’t serve dinner until you’ve set the table. 

    2. Choose your mode.

    Here is where goals fit in. Once you choose from a series of specific goals such as losing 10 pounds of body fat, gaining five pounds of muscle, or gaining more strength and energy to play weekend warrior basketball, then you can start to formulate a simple plan of action.

    Do you want more muscle and strength? Then your plan will revolve around weight training three to four days per week with some cardio work thrown in on off days. Do you want to foster a lost sense of exercise in you life? Then your plan shouldn’t unrealistically expect you to weight train four days per week. Whatever your goals are be sure to cater the majority of your training toward that specific goal. In other words, if you want more muscle, don’t plan to run five days per week. 

    Another important thing to keep in mind is to avoid complicating things. Choose a program and stick to it. Don’t lose sleep over whether it’s the perfect plan or not. Start somewhere with something you can tolerate and realistically fit into your schedule. And speaking of…

    3. Work with your own availability.

    I see so many newcomers come into the gym with a little dread in their eyes. They emit a feeling of “I really don’t want to be here.” They are out of their comfort zone, a bit confused, and completely off their regular schedule. Change is tough sometimes and walking into a strange place with little idea of what to do only compounds that stress. Or worse, they know exactly what to do and don’t want to do it. Motivation wanes and you’re back at square one. 

    Instead of trying to fit the square peg in the round hole, try the opposite. Look at your own schedule:

    • What can realistically fit?
    • How many days could you comfortably train?
    • How long on each day?
    • Can you train one day on the weekend or do you like your weekends off?

    Whatever your schedule can accommodate start there. 

    At the same time, don’t be too lenient. If you can only manage a couple of days per week, do your absolute best to make those days count. Build consistency which will eventually become a habit. Once you develop the habit then your new healthier lifestyle will take over and feel like second nature. 

    4. Use what you have.

    If you’ve ever watched the 1970s documentary Pumping Iron you’ll notice the crude conditions of the famous Gold’s Gym. Rusty barbells, very little if any padding on equipment, few selectorized machines, no music, and the absence of any ellipticals, treadmills, or advanced, functional apparatus with a touchscreen display recording your every move.

    Despite these perceived horrible conditions, the bodybuilders still trained hard and got great results. They used what they had.

    Take the same mindset and apply it to your own circumstances. Maybe you have a humble home gym; be creative and come up with new ways to do traditional exercises. Maybe the commercial gym you belong to is ill-equipped–it’s in disrepair and needs some work done on broken machines. Create a workout plan where you only do three or four exercises for several rounds for a specific amount of time, for example. 

    The point is you don’t need the perfect set-up with all of the latest machines and gadgets. There are countless ways to make the old standby exercises not only effective but also interesting and fun to do. Never let the perceived lack of perfect circumstance be the thief of building a stronger, better body. 

    5. Create a contingency plan.

    This principle relates directly to the above. Many times, even in the most well-equipped gym imaginable, it’s so crowded that getting in a good workout will become near impossible. There might be a line to the bench press (I’ve actually witnessed this at many military gyms overseas), someone is curling in the squat rack (a huge pet peeve), and every dumbbell has been taken captive. It’s too crowded, some of your favorite machines are out of order, and a pack of wild teenagers are monopolizing every piece of equipment you need that day. 

    The fact is you can’t seem to squeeze in your normal routine let alone get any real benefit from training that day. Do you go crazy and start screaming like a madman? Do you say screw this and head home, or do you improvise for that day determined to get in a great workout?

    This is where having a contingency plan can do wonders for both your physical and mental health. Have a solid, minimal plan ready to go when circumstances force you to change lanes and find another way to your physique destination. Maybe it’s performing a bodyweight-only routine for the day. Perhaps you can grab a pair of dumbbells and go off to a corner and perform a circuit. Or maybe you can somehow grab a single barbell and see how many exercises you can come up with in 20 minutes. 

    Whatever you decide, have a few options at the ready so you can easily flip the switch and avoid mental frustration.

    6. Don’t stress, make it fun.

    The final step is to fully adopt this new lifestyle. Make it a part of your weekly schedule and not something that you feel like you must do.

    Start small. Begin by doing what’s easily manageable. Can you exercise twice per week for 20 minutes each day? Then do that. Eventually, you can experiment with increasing your time each day or throw in an extra day during the week. The only hard rule is to progress only when you’re completely ready. You don’t need to overwhelm yourself with researching the latest programs or training with gladiator-level intensity. 

    Make your plan your own–cater to your specific needs and work with a realistic schedule. Develop the important habit of consistency and the details will work themselves out. Over time, and with a little patience, you’ll be on your way to a healthier mind and body. 

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  • What is NEAT? How To Use Your Entire Day To Get Leaner, Feel Healthier, And Become More Active

    What is NEAT? How To Use Your Entire Day To Get Leaner, Feel Healthier, And Become More Active

    How to work with your body, not against it.

    Brad is a university lecturer with a master’s degree in Kinesiology and is a Certified Strength and Conditioning Specialist (CSCS) with the National Strength and Conditioning Association (NSCA). He has competed as a drug-free bodybuilder, is a cancer survivor, and a 21 year veteran of the Air National GuardBrad has been a Primer contributor since 2011.


    If you’re like most who set aside a specific time of day to go to the gym and get your pump on you may have aspirations to build bigger arms, a thicker chest, and a six-pack. You’re most likely also in the market for a leaner physique. Going to the gym and pounding the weights is the best blueprint for building muscle, but what about burning unwanted fat? A strict diet? Endless cardio? Multiple gym sessions?

    There might be a better, more convenient way to shed the excess. Enter NEAT.

    Non-exercise activity thermogenesis (NEAT) is the energy expended for everything you do minus sleeping, eating, or purposeful exercise. NEAT ranges from taking the stairs, walking to the grocery store, doing household chores, and even fidgeting. It can be standing more at work, doing yard chores, and parking further away from the office so you have to walk more.

    It is everything you do other than fueling vital bodily processes and eating food. NEAT is part of a bigger picture called total body energy expenditure. These processes can be broken down as follows:

    Basal metabolic rate (BMR) is your basal metabolism accounting for 60-70% of total energy expenditure. These tasks include breathing, blood circulation, heart pumping, brain activity, and other processes during rest. This energy is needed to simply keep you alive. As stated earlier, this does not include any expenditure during eating or exercise.

    Diet-induced thermogenesis is the energy your body uses during eating, which includes digestion, absorption, and storage. It accounts for 10-20% of total energy expenditure.

    Lastly, physical activity is the final component of energy consumption which comprises 6-10% of total energy cost. It not only accounts for exercise but also for postural maintenance, muscular contraction, as well as non-exercise activity thermogenesis (NEAT).

    Why NEAT?

    With a measly 6-10% of total energy expenditure is it worth focusing on improving your daily physical activity? Why not just spend more time at the gym? Science can help.

    In a study published in the Journal of Obesity Research, several pairs of twins were studied to see if there would be a difference between each participant if they were both on the exact same diet and exercise program for 90 days. One lost 7 pounds while the other, who performed more NEAT throughout each day, lost a whopping 25 pounds! [1]

    On a more micro level, but equally as impressive, a paper from the Journal of Clinical Investigation looked at two groups who were fed the same diet and observed over a 24-hour period. The group who simply fidgeted (some of the smallest forms of NEAT) burned an additional 100 to 800 calories [2]. For comparison, a brisk walk for an hour can burn from 200 to 350 calories. If all you do is an hour of moderate cardiovascular exercise, fidgeting has you beat.

    Does this mean that scheduled exercise is useless? Are you just spinning your wheels? Not at all. It just means that your planned gym workouts need to be more targeted–more specific to your goals. Save the gym for resistance training to increase muscular size and strength and shorter, higher-intensity cardio sessions for conditioning.

    Not only will NEAT burn more calories and subsequently help with fat loss, but it will also have a significant positive impact on other factors such as less risk of metabolic syndrome, decreased risk of cardiovascular events, and less risk of death from all causes [3]. Not a bad deal at all.

    The other 23 and how to use NEAT

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    A dismal 2% of the American population opts to take the stairs. We prefer the elevator, escalator, and any other automated mode of transportation to make our lives… uh better? We like to think modern conveniences should always be chosen over expending any effort or threatening comfort. We feel a constant need to get somewhere with the least amount of effort. But is this attitude killing us softly and slowly?

    Your BMR and diet-induced burn are mostly set. You can optimize them by staying in healthy cardiovascular shape and eating a well-balanced diet full of fiber and natural, whole foods. Still, you’ll have the most influence in the physical activity category. This seemingly small 6-10% is where you can induce a major change in your day-to-day calorie expenditure.

    The one-hour gym session is great, but what are you doing for the other 23 hours of the day? Okay, take out eight hours of sleep, and you’re left with 15 hours at your disposal. You have the most influence on how you spend this time each day. Will you spend it mostly sitting at a desk? What about watching TV or scrolling your phone? Are you looking for the nearest parking spot at the store so your walk is shorter? Do you take the elevator or escalator when you can? Are you always on the lookout for a chair in a waiting room, airport, or public park?

    The bottom line is that you have the power to improve your calorie burn throughout your waking hours.

    How do you improve NEAT? Here are a few easy, everyday ways to do just that.

    Take the stairs

    An easy way to increase NEAT daily is to take the stairs more. Since only 2% of the population takes this route, you’ll be an instant trendsetter. The best way to start is to pace yourself. It’s not a race, so simply skipping the elevator and escalator is a huge change.

    Walk when you can

    Not every city or town is walkable but walking when and where you can is another easy shift. Whether it’s shopping, golfing, or going for walks in your neighborhood, the more steps the better. Again, this is another activity that should be taken casually, no speed walking is necessary.

    Stand more than you sit

    Stand more in waiting rooms, adopt a standup desk, conduct standing meetings, and take more standing breaks during the day. Standing activates many supportive muscles from head to toe so you’ll burn more calories without even moving.

    Park farther away 

    Instead of riding around for 10 minutes, choose a parking spot far away from the store and walk. It’s all about increasing your steps. A bonus is that you’ll always find a spot! Oh and don’t forget to return your cart to the corral. 

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    Take a walk around the office

    Set a timer every half hour or hour to get up and walk for a few minutes. Get out of your chair and meet with a coworker instead of emailing them. Take the long way to the copier or office kitchen for coffee.

    Space out chores

    Instead of doing all of your chores on one day, space them out over each day of the week. Vacuum one day, dust the next, straighten up the next and so on. Not only will you get in more activity each day, you won’t feel overwhelmed by doing all of your chores in one day. 

    Stretch and breathe

    Whether you are an office worker or one of the growing number of work-from-home types, not only will you benefit from regularly scheduled walk breaks but you can also add in a short stretch routine. Touch your toes, reach overhead, twist your torso, and do anything else that lengthens your muscles and moves your joints in a large range of motion. 

    Breathe. Take a screen break, close your eyes, and do some deep, calming breathing. Focus on inhaling and exhaling. Look to this time to renew your energy and focus to be more productive and stave off burnout and frustration. Every move counts.

    How diet can affect NEAT

    One word of caution if you begin a calorie-reducing diet. When you decrease calories to induce a calorie deficit, your body will tend to slow down. The less energy coming in (food) the less energy it wants to expend so it will try to conserve energy as a response. You may become a bit tired and want to sit more. Stay aware of this response. At first, this may seem frustrating and a bit self-sabotaging, but hang in there. In a week or two, as you increase your NEAT activity you will become more adapted to this new energy balance. You’ll start to tap into your fat stores for energy and reap the incredible benefits of moving more.

    In closing

    NEAT isn’t some magic bullet or trade secret. It does, however, take conscious effort and consistency, but the benefits of utilizing your regular day to your advantage without any additional trips to the gym are to be taken advantage of. Whether you walk more at work, stand while meeting, or even fidget more, the advantages shouldn’t be overlooked. See you around the water cooler!

    References:

    1. Bouchard C, Tremblay A, Després JP, Thériault G, Nadeau A, Lupien PJ, Moorjani S, Prudhomme D, Fournier G. The response to exercise with constant energy intake in identical twins. Obes Res. 1994 Sep;2(5):400-10. doi: 10.1002/j.1550-8528.1994.tb00087.x. PMID: 16358397. 
    2. Ravussin E, Lillioja S, Anderson TE, Christin L, Bogardus C. Determinants of 24-hour energy expenditure in man. Methods and results using a respiratory chamber. J Clin Invest. 1986 Dec;78(6):1568-78. doi: 10.1172/JCI112749. PMID: 3782471; PMCID: PMC423919.
    3. https://www.mayoclinicproceedings.org/article/S0025-6196(15)00123-8/fulltext 

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  • Healthy Life Checklist (PDF)

    Healthy Life Checklist (PDF)

    A comprehensive health checklist covering all aspects of a healthy and balanced life, including hygiene, exercise, diet, sleep, and more! Discover essential wellness activities to incorporate daily, weekly, monthly, and annually.


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  • 6 Aspects Of A Balanced Person: A Complete Picture of Well-Being

    6 Aspects Of A Balanced Person: A Complete Picture of Well-Being



    What are the six aspects of a balanced person? Physical, mental, emotional, social, work/financial, and meaning/spiritual. Learn more about each one and how to improve it!


    In life, there isn’t one single area that we need to focus on that is going to magically fix all of our problems.

    Instead there are multiple dimensions behind every “good life.” Each dimension requires our attention and each contributes to our overall happiness and well-being.

    Here are six aspects of life that come together to create a “balanced person.” By being more aware of these different dimensions in life, we can determine which areas we need to focus on more and work to improve.

    The different aspects of a balanced person include: 1) Physical, 2) Mental, 3) Emotional, 4) Social, 5) Work/Financial and 6) Meaning/Spiritual.

    If we focus too much on any one area, then we risk neglecting another one. For example, if you become solely focused on just work and money, you may end up spending less time taking care of your physical and mental health, or less quality time with family and friends.

    This is a common trap people fall into. They focus all of their energy and effort into one area in life while completely ignoring another. Often they need to reconfigure their core values and priorities before making a meaningful change.

    This is why practicing balance in all things is so important.

    Each of these areas is one piece of a much larger puzzle, and only when you have all of these areas working together harmoniously can you finally build a complete life that serves all of your needs.

    Here’s a detailed breakdown of each aspect of a “balanced person,” along with tips, tools, and practical advice on how you can start improving each one.

    While reading ask yourself, “Which aspect do I need to focus on the most right now? What’s one small change I can make to improve that area?”

    Now let’s dive in…

    1. PHYSICAL WELL-BEING

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    The “physical” aspect of life is all about taking care of our health, especially exercise, diet, and sleep.

    This includes what types of foods and drinks we consume on a daily basis, how often we exercise and keep our bodies moving, personal hygiene and cleanliness, as well as minimizing alcohol, smoking, and other harmful habits to our physical health.

    Our body is one of the most precious gifts we have – and without it we can’t exist. If we don’t stay healthy, we often can’t fully enjoy all the other aspects of life such as family, work, traveling, or leisure.

    Our health can often have a spillover effect into all the other aspects of our lives – for that reason, taking care of our physical health is often an essential first step on any road to self-improvement.

    No matter what the current state of our health is, it’s never too late to start changing our habits, even if it’s something small like stretching in the morning, taking daily walks outside, or starting an active hobby like Yoga, marathon running, or playing sports.

    A healthy body is a healthy mind. When we take better care of our bodies, we also feel more confident, motivated, and energized overall. That’s the beginning of bringing out your best self.


    Things to do:

    • Identify small ways to be more physically active. Often our days are filled with opportunities to be more active, we just need to take advantage of them. Try to cultivate an “everything counts” mindset when it comes to exercise, even if it just means taking a walk around the block, or stretching in the morning, or doing push-ups before lunch. Any physical activity is better than none at all – so seek out small and convenient ways to keep your body moving throughout the day. If you find yourself sitting for long periods of time, get up and do chores, take a walk around the office, or make a phone call while standing up. A sedentary lifestyle is one of the biggest risk factors when it comes to poor health, so finding any reason to stand up more is better than sitting.
    • Find exercise that “clicks” with you and your personality. Different things work for different people. Some people need to commit themselves to a gym membership to get themselves off the couch, while others prefer to work out in the comfort of their own homes. Your personality shapes what exercise you like, so it’s important you find activities that resonate and “click” with you, rather than trying to force yourself to do something you really don’t enjoy. All you need is that one hobby to take your fitness to the next level, whether it be finding an enjoyable sport (like Tennis, or Baseball, or Basketball), or even exercising through video games (such as Wii Fit or Dance Dance Revolution). Try to think of physical activities you enjoyed as a kid, that can often be a good place to rekindle motivation.
    • Keep a healthy and consistent sleep schedule. Sleep is one of the most important habits when it comes to your overall physical and mental health. Research shows that those who don’t get sufficient sleep (between 6-10 hours every night) often suffer worse health outcomes like a weaker immune system, higher risk of obesity, lower energy and stamina, and more stress and anxiety. If your sleep habits aren’t healthy or consistent, it will likely have a negative “ripple effect” on almost every other aspect of your day. When you’re tired and fatigued, you’re more likely to make mistakes at work or argue with your spouse. It’s important not only to get between 6-10 hours of sleep each night, but also to maintain a consistent schedule. If you don’t sleep much on the weekends, it’s difficult to “catch up” on those lost hours throughout the week. Try to go to bed and wake up around the same time each day if possible. Here are more important lessons behind a good night’s sleep, including recognizing that some people are natural “early birds” or “night owls,” and that’s something you need to recognize and work with.
    • Pay attention to your food and diet. There are many different diets out there to choose from – and people can have long debates about which one is better – but the most important thing is to not eat too much, especially junk food, fast food, soda, sweets, and lots of processed food. Use your commonsense. Experiment with different diet changes and see what works best for you. Different diets work better for different people – so there’s no “one size fits all” solution to what exactly you should eat or not eat. One simple diet change is to substitute all your soda/juice/sugary drinks with water instead. Drinking plenty of water is never a bad place to start – most people don’t recognize how dehydrated they can be throughout the day and how it effects them. If you’re trying to lose weight, one popular option you can consider is intermittent fasting where you allow yourself to eat for an 8 hour window each day and fast for the remaining 16 hours. You can also try the “One Meal A Day” approach, where you restrict yourself to just one big meal (with minimal snacking). In general, pay attention to how your body responds to the things you eat: What foods leave you tired and feeling like crap? What foods make you energized and feeling good?
    • Take care of personal hygiene and cleanliness. Proper hygiene is another important aspect of physical health. While it can seem like commonsense, basic habits like taking a shower, brushing your teeth, getting a haircut, trimming your nails, and washing your face are are all important things not to neglect. Not only does cleanliness prevent you from catching germs and getting sick, you also feel better about yourself when you present yourself in the best way possible (and smell good). Often we are surprised by how much better we feel after a fresh new haircut, or clean new clothes, or new cologne/perfume. When mental health is low, we sometimes neglect these basic habits out of laziness or apathy, which is why they are a crucial first step in self-improvement if we aren’t paying enough attention to them.
    • Minimize your bad habits. No one is 100% perfect and we all have a couple bad habits, whether it be eating too many sweets, or drinking alcohol, or staying up late, or smoking cigarettes. In general, it’s important to quit (or minimize) our unhealthy habits as much as possible. “Choose your crutches wisely.” Keep in mind the long-term consequences of your habits – while it may not feel like they are hurting you right now, their effects can often catch up to you in the future. When trying to quit any bad habit, identify your triggers and work from there to change to change your patterns. Often by creating more boundaries between you and your bad habits, you can overcome your urge to do them (until it’s no longer an automatic habit anymore). If you find that you have a serious problem with addiction or drug abuse, consider professional help (such as a therapist, psychologist, or counselor) – there are often local resources available in your area if you do a quick search.

    Please don’t underestimate the importance of keeping your body in the best shape possible. As Socrates famously said, “No man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable.”

    Physical health is about much more than just looking and feeling good about yourself – it’s about living a life of vitality and longevity. You can have everything else in your life figured out, but if you don’t maintain your health you won’t be around very long to use or enjoy it.

    2. MENTAL WELL-BEING

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    If you don’t take care of your body then it will slowly deteriorate – and the same is true for your mind.

    Just because you don’t have to go to school anymore doesn’t mean you can’t keep learning new things, keeping your brain sharp, and challenging your intellect.

    Reading books. Learning about new topics. Having deep conversations. Attending lectures and workshops. Following the news. These are all commonsense ways to keep our minds active and continue to update our knowledge and belief system as we move through life.

    Learning is a lifelong endeavor. Balanced people are always seeking new things to dig into and learn more about like a new hobby, new game, or new skill such as painting, chess, learning a new language, or playing a musical instrument.

    In addition, research shows that continuing to challenge our brain is an important way to prevent cognitive decline as we get older, including lower the risk of dementia and memory loss.


    Things to do:

    • Read more books. Reading is one of the best ways to keep your mind sharp and learn new things. Nonfiction books about science, history, philosophy, or self help can grow your knowledge and broaden your perspective on life; and reading fiction has been shown to have many cognitive benefits such as boosting empathy, creative thinking, and expanding your vocabulary. If you haven’t read a book in awhile, try to make it a goal to read at least one book this year. You can start with a book you already own but never got a chance to read, or ask a friend for a book recommendation, or get a card from your local library and explore countless books for free. Find a topic or subject that interests you and start there!
    • Learn a new skill. Learning multiple skills is a hallmark of being a balanced and well-rounded person. It’s never too late in life to dive into something completely new, such as playing a musical instrument, learning a new language, writing poetry, painting, or playing chess. A jack of all trades mindset can make you stand-out from others in unique ways. Many people have a talent or passion for at least one thing, but when you start combining talents and cultivating multiple interests it shows your range and flexibility as a person. Don’t limit yourself. There’s no pressure to become a “professional” or “expert” in everything you do, just stay on a learning path, have fun while doing it, and enjoy seeing the growth as you go.
    • Watch documentaries. Documentaries are a fun and easy way to explore new topics and learn about interesting things you otherwise wouldn’t experience. Depending on what you like, there are many different subjects to choose from: history, sports, biographies, science, inspirational stories, or nature documentaries (which have also been shown to boost positive emotions like joy, gratitude, and awe). I’ve made a lengthy list of recommended documentaries which I try to keep updated as I discover new ones. Check it out and choose one that catches your eye!
    • Monitor your information diet. Our current world is overloaded with information, including a lot that is wrong, misleading, or straight up lies and propaganda. Now more than ever we need to pay close attention to the information we consume on a daily basis. Try to find trustworthy news and educational sites where you can easily verify what they are saying from other sources. Beware of going down esoteric “rabbit holes” where people only confirm their own biases and beliefs. Actively seek out information from multiple sides so you’re at least aware of different perspectives and counter-arguments. The information pyramid is a great guide on how you should prioritize certain sources over others. In general, a peer-reviewed scientific study should be given more weight than some random influencer on social media. Keep in mind it’s also possible to consume too much and become an information junkie, where you’re addicted to learning new things, but you never act on it or put it into practice.
    • Spend time in active reflection. Give yourself time to think and digest, even if it’s just for 10 minutes while sitting with your first cup of coffee in the morning. You don’t always need to be filling your brain with facts to be a smarter person, you also need to know how to step back and contemplate what you know. Active and engaged minds are always taking advantage of opportunities for everyday reflection when sitting on the bus, taking a shower, or walking the dog. Often your best ideas and insights come in moments when you’re not trying to solve a problem directly but just mulling it over in your mind. Schedule time for solitude every now and then and don’t be afraid to sit alone with your thoughts.
    • Learn how your mind works. One essential component to being a more intelligent thinker is knowing how your mind works. We naturally believe we understand ourselves best, but psychology and neuroscience can sometimes reveal counter-intuitive facts and tendencies. To start, our minds are very susceptible to cognitive biases and logical fallacies that can muddy our thinking and understanding of reality. One of the most common errors is black and white thinking, where we believe a situation needs to be either “A” or “B,” but a third perspective, “C,” is the more accurate view. Our minds like to over-simplify things when reality can often be more nuanced and complex. Show intellectual humility. Be open to being wrong and be open to changing your mind in the face of new evidence and experience.

    Take your education seriously. Maintain a healthy and active brain. Even if you were never a good student in school, that doesn’t mean you can’t improve your knowledge and intelligence, especially once you find subjects you are deeply passionate about. Benjamin Franklin once said, “An investment in knowledge pays the best interest.”

    3. EMOTIONAL WELL-BEING

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    In the “Mental” section we covered how to keep our brains active and be more intelligent thinkers, but there’s also a whole other side of our psychology that we need to pay attention to as well: our “Emotional” side.

    Emotions can often seem like something that we have limited power over, but being a more emotionally intelligent person means becoming more self-aware and learning how to better respond to our emotions in the moment.

    We can’t ignore our emotions or push them aside forever, they are a necessary facet of life and we must learn to navigate our emotional world effectively if we want to live the best life possible.

    Remember that emotions are a resource, not a crutch. Every emotion serves a function or purpose, and if we channel our emotions in a constructive direction we can make great things happen.

    One important lesson is that even negative emotions like sadness, anger, guilt, or fear are helpful to a better life if we approach them from the right perspective.


    Things to do:

    • Learn the basics of emotional intelligence. There are 4 fundamental pillars of emotional intelligence that we need to cultivate: 1) Self-awareness (recognizing our emotions when they happen), 2) Self-regulation (knowing how to respond to our emotions and channel them in a positive direction, 3) Empathy (being aware of other people’s emotions and internal states), and 4) Social Skills (knowing how to respond to other people’s emotions in a healthy and constructive way). Certain people may be strong at some of these and not for others. For example, someone may be really empathetic and caring, but not know how to regulate their own mood and emotions, leading to burnout and emotional fatigue. An emotionally intelligent person must work on all four of these pillars.
    • Improve body awareness. All emotions have a physical component to them. When you learn how to identify the physical sensations behind each emotion, you’ll be much more attuned to your feelings in the moment as you’re experiencing them. This helps you to be more aware of your feelings before acting on them, and to recognize how emotions often want to push or pull you in a certain direction (“do this” vs. “don’t do that”). Every feeling serves a different function depending on its emotional valence (“positive” vs. “negative”) and arousal level (“high energy” vs. “low energy”). With practice, this improved body awareness can also boost your intuition, making you a better reader of your “gut feelings” and what they are telling you.
    • Learn to channel negative emotions. Negative emotions can serve a positive function if you know how to respond to them in a constructive way. If you struggle with any specific negative emotion (sadness, fear, guilt, or anger), then create a plan for how you will respond to it the next time it arises. For example, “If I’m angry, then I’ll go exercise,” or “If I’m sad, then I’ll write in my journal.” Emotions are energy that can be channeled in multiple directions. Write a list of the many ways you can respond to any negative emotion. Remind yourself you have a choice, and you don’t have to keep following the same pattern between negative emotion → negative behavior. One popular technique is opposite action, where you intentionally do the opposite of what a feeling is telling you to do (to reverse the cycle of negativity).
    • Practice meditation and daily mindfulness. Meditation is a great avenue for better understanding and regulating your emotions. It teaches you how to step back and just observe your thoughts and feelings without needing to immediately react to them. This space between “feelings” and “actions” is crucial for being a more emotionally intelligent person; it’s the main principle behind discipline, willpower, and self-control. Never forget that just because you feel a certain way doesn’t mean you need to act on it. If you’re completely new to meditation, start with the 100 breaths meditation – a simple exercise where you just focus on your breathing. It’s also helpful to learn grounding techniques for when you feel overwhelmed, such as mindful stretching or a 5 senses meditation.
    • Embrace creative expression. It’s difficult to describe many emotions with only words so it’s important to embrace other ways of expressing yourself, such as through music, photography, dance, painting, drawing, acting, or film. Often when I meet people who don’t feel fully connected to their emotional self, they usually lack ways of expressing themselves through art and creativity. A creative outlet is often a prerequisite to better understanding and navigating your emotional world, even if you don’t typically think of yourself as a “creative person.”
    • Savor all of your positive experiences. Life is filled with many joys and pleasures throughout the day and we should try to savor them as much as possible. We have many positive emotions to choose from – joy, gratitude, peace, awe, excitement, laughter, and wonder – and there are a variety of activities that can lead to more positive emodiversity in our lives. Don’t just chase after the same positive experiences over and over again, seek new experiences, new hobbies, and new ways of enjoying life. Learn how to savor happiness as much as possible by being more present in the moment, creating positive memories, and reminiscing on good times.
    • Relax and manage daily stress. Last but not least, it’s necessary we cover stress management as an essential component to mental health and emotional intelligence. Stress is a normal part of everyday life, but if you don’t know how to manage it in a healthy way it can often have a negative influence on your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors by making you more sensitive, irritable, angry, and bothered (even by little things that don’t really matter). Recognize when to push yourself vs. when to step back and recharge. In the complete guide on daily stress, you’ll find a great framework for reframing your “fight, flight, or freeze” response by viewing stress as a signal to pay attention to and guide you throughout the day. Don’t underestimate the importance of your comfort zone and use it as a place to recharge after a challenging or overwhelming day.

    Emotions can “make us” or “break us” depending on how emotionally intelligent we are. They are a fundamental part of life, but we often have more power over them than we realize. Learn how to channel your emotions in a healthy and constructive way – become a master of them, not a slave to them.

    4. SOCIAL WELL-BEING

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    Healthy and positive relationships are an essential ingredient to happiness and well-being.

    No matter who you are, you crave some type of social connection; even the most introverted person on the planet will have a tough time finding happiness all by themselves.

    There used to be a time when I believed “I don’t need people to be happy, all I need is myself.” But over the years I’ve learned more and more that having social support and a sense of belonging is a basic human need that can’t be avoided.

    How strong is your current social circle? Here’s advice to get you started.


    Things to do:

    • Stay connected with friends and family. You should try your best to stay in touch with people who you already have a strong relationship with, especially family and old friends. There’s a simple power in checking in on people and preserving social connections you’ve already established. It doesn’t take much time or effort to show you’re thinking about someone: a simple text, email, or phone call is all you need to let people know you still care and value your relationship with them. You’d be surprised by how much other people appreciate you reaching out to them, even if you haven’t spoken to them in a really long time.
    • Embrace small social interactions. Every time you leave your home, there is opportunity for social interaction. To build your social muscles, embrace the power of 10 second relationships, such as saying “Hi,” to a neighbor or coworker, small talk with a cashier or cab driver, or sparking up a quick conversation while waiting for the train or bus. Research shows even super tiny social interactions can boost positive emotions and feelings of social connectedness. This can also be a great exercise for people who are very introverted (or have a lot of social anxiety) and want to start being a more social person. Make a plan to have a pleasant interaction with at least one new person every day.
    • Learn how to have endless conversations. One big concern for people when it comes to meeting new people is, “What do I say? What if I run out of things to talk about?” One popular technique known as conversation threading provides an excellent framework so that you never run out of topics to talk about. The basic idea is that every sentence contains multiple “threads” we can go down, and often the art of good conversation is being able to 1) Listen to what people say, and 2) Choose a thread to talk more about. Rinse and repeat and a conversation can go on forever. Also consider improvisation exercises so that you can be a faster and more creative thinker in the moment.
    • Improve communication and conflict resolution. It’s a cliché, but communication is everything in relationships. If you don’t know how to express your thoughts and feelings in an honest and constructive way, you’ll have trouble building genuine and healthy connections with others at home, work, or wherever you need to cooperate and work together with people. In romantic relationships, it’s important to know how to communicate your feelings without manipulating or being dramatic. In family and work environments, it’s important to know how to defuse heated arguments before they spiral out of control. The truth is people can be difficult and you’re not going to like everyone’s company. That’s natural. Conflicts have the potential to arise in any social situation, because people have different beliefs, values, and personalities that may be incompatible with each other. What’s most important is to teach yourself the best methods for conflict resolution so you can better navigate the complexities of your social world.
    • Find opportunities to meet new people. Most people make friends through work or school. Once we get older, it can become more difficult to find new connections or become a part of new social circles. Recent research shows that most adults claim to have “less than 5 close friends.” If you’re looking to expand your circle, there are many opportunities available to you. Depending on your likes, hobbies, and interests, consider going out more to music shows, bars, coffee shops, workshops, church/religious services, bowling leagues, adult education classes, sports events, or book clubs. Seek out local groups in your area or volunteer somewhere. You can also take advantage of websites like Meet Up to connect with like-minded people who live close-by. All it takes is one new friend to introduce you to an entirely new social circle. Be patient and don’t worry if you don’t initially hit it off with the first couple people you meet. Finding the right relationships that fit into our lives can take time.
    • Use social media and the internet to connect. The internet can be a great place to connect with like-minded people who we’d never meet in the real world. Online communities on social media, message boards, or video games can often provide a valuable source of social interaction, especially for people who don’t have many “real life” friends. The internet can be particularly helpful for connecting with others who have rare or eccentric hobbies, such as fans of a specific author, athlete, music genre, or comic book franchise. Unfortunately, many online communities can also become negative, competitive, and toxic (see the online disinhibition effect), so it’s necessary you build a positive digital environment that works for you. That doesn’t mean hiding in your own “echo chamber,” but it does mean cultivating a feed and followers who ultimately add value to your life and don’t subtract it. First focus on topics you’re naturally interested in such as science, technology, sports, or movies. Try not to be a passive consumer of information, actively enter conversations by asking questions or sharing knowledge with others. Often times we can build meaningful connections with people online that are just as important as those we find in the real world. However, while online relationships can have many benefits, we shouldn’t see them as a substitute for real world “face to face” interactions.

    Always remember that quality of relationships > quantity of relationships.

    You don’t need to be super popular or the life of the party to have a healthy social life. All you need is a couple really close friends who support you, trust you, and enjoy your presence. That’s everything you need to be socially satisfied.

    Healthy relationships are a fundamental aspect of happiness and well-being for everyone. Our need to belong to a “tribe” or group is hardwired into our brain, biology, and evolution. Like every other aspect of a balanced person, it can’t be ignored.

    Are your daily social needs being fulfilled?

    5. WORK / FINANCIAL WELL-BEING

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    Another fundamental aspect of a balanced person is work, money, and material concerns.

    At the most basic level, we depend on food, clothing, shelter, healthcare, and other necessities so we can live a healthy and dignified life.

    People that struggle to make a living can often hurt in many other areas: physical health (can’t afford good foods, healthcare, or medicine), relationships (can’t support family, no money for dating), as well as our mental and emotional well-being (stress, anxiety, and low self-esteem).

    Unless you win the lottery or have someone else to provide for you, finding a steady job or career is often one of the most focused on areas in life. From childhood up until we finish high school or college, we are constantly asked, “What do you want to do for a living?”

    A few people find jobs they love, many find jobs they like, and most find jobs they can at least tolerate. Balancing psychological needs with financial needs can be a difficult task depending on your current situation.

    While we don’t always get a choice in what we do for a living, there are important ways to give ourselves more power over our work life and financial life. Here are important guidelines to keep in mind.


    Things to do:

    • Focus on your strengths. Everyone has a place in this world where they add value. Before you decide what type of work you’d like to do for a living, it’s important to know what your natural strengths, skills, and talents are. If you’re friendly and good with people, you may excel at managing, customer service, or human resources type jobs. If you’re more introverted and creative, you may want to focus on writing, graphic design, computer programming, or freelance work. What type of activities are you typically good at (or at least above average)? What were your best subjects in school? What do you enjoy doing and why? Complete the strengths worksheet to discover more about your natural skillset. Ultimately, knowing your strengths will influence what types of jobs or career choices will suit you best – including where you contribute the most value.
    • Value education and experience. No matter what your job is, there are always new ways to learn and improve. The best workers in life are those who are always growing and mastering their craft. College is still an important part of education, but what’s even more important is to stay self-motivated and continue learning after school. Many people I know have landed successful jobs that had virtually nothing to do with what they studied in college. In several cases, they were people who taught themselves coding/programming, built a portfolio to show their work to potential employers, and climbed their way up the company ladder from there. All self-taught. You can also consider going to trade schools, workshops, mentorships, internships, and other forms of gaining knowledge and experience that are outside of the traditional college model. Any work experience is better than none at all – you just need to start somewhere and begin building yourself up.
    • Make the most of your job. While it’s rare for any of us to get our “dream job,” we can always make the most of our work life by being a good employee and doing our best. Use nudges to keep yourself motivated and productive throughout the day, learn mental strategies for getting things done that you normally “don’t like” doing, and make friends at work with bosses, coworkers, clients, or customers, because those are the people you’re going to be spending a lot of time with and it’s crucial you have healthy and functioning relationships with them. No matter what your job is try to see the underlying purpose or meaning behind it. What value does it add to the world? Are you proud of the work you do?
    • Live within your means. Regardless of how much money you make, one of the most commonsense rules for financial well-being is living within your means. This includes keeping a budget that you can maintain (for food, rent/mortgage, bills, gas, clothes, and leisure expenses), and not buying too much stuff you can’t immediately afford. Debt can be common at some point in our lives (due to student loans, credit card debt, medical emergencies, etc.), but try to be mindful to not put yourself in a hole that you can’t climb out of. Avoid luxury expenses that put you at financial risk. We sometimes over-extend ourselves due to social comparison and a “keeping up with the Joneses” mentality. We think if our friend or neighbor gets a brand new car or goes on an expensive trip, then we need to “one-up” them with a similar purchase. Many times people fall into massive debt because they are trying to chase status, fame, luxury, or exorbitant pleasures. In general, keep track of all your monthly expenses and find ways to cut back on spending that isn’t necessary. Learn about spending biases that can lead to overconsumption (like the allure of “FREE!,” the “Relativity Trap,” and “One Click” purchases). Big corporations are masters of psychology and persuasion. If we aren’t vigilant about our spending habits (especially if you enjoy retail therapy), then we’ll often fall for tricks that cause us to spend more money than we should.
    • Create a healthy relationship with material things. This article is about being a balanced person. Work and money are very important aspects of life, but materialistic beliefs can also backfire to hurt us. No one lays down on their deathbed wishing they spent more time in the office. Work-a-holics can end up focusing so much on their career that they neglect giving enough attention to their family, health, and well-being. Never forget that there is a lot more to a good life than just money and material things, despite what you may see glamorized in movies, TV shows, or commercials. Psychology research shows that after a certain point, increased wealth and income has very little effect on our overall happiness and life satisfaction. Being rich sounds awesome, but it won’t necessarily make you any happier than if you earned less with a stable and secure life. Take the materialism quiz to see if you have a healthy relationship with money and stuff.

    Remember, money is important but it isn’t everything.

    Financial well-being will often look radically different depending on the person. Certain people may be content with modest and minimal living, while others crave more luxury, adventure, and pleasure. Whichever lifestyle you choose, it’s necessary that money finds the proper role in your life without being completely consumed by it.

    One succinct way to define true financial well-being is “not needing to think about money all the time.”

    6. MEANINGFUL / SPIRITUAL WELL-BEING

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    The meaningful or spiritual aspects of life can often be overlooked.

    We may occasionally ask ourselves big questions like, “Who am I?” “Why am I here?” or “What’s my purpose?” but we rarely translate these questions into our daily lives through action.

    For many people, religion is their main source of spirituality and meaning. Attending church, being part of a local community, prayer, and volunteering or giving to charities are common ways people boost meaning in their daily lives. Religion has been shown to improve happiness and well-being by creating a strong sense of purpose and community.

    However, we don’t need religion to have a meaningful life. There are many other sources of meaning, including art, culture, philosophy, literature, music, relationships, activism, introspection, and creativity.

    Where do you get your meaning in life?


    Things to do:

    • Learn the pillars of a meaningful life. One excellent guide on how to live a meaningful life outlines five different pillars to focus on, including 1) A sense of belonging (having healthy relationships with those around you), 2) A sense of purpose (feeling that you contribute to a larger whole), 3) Storytelling (the life story we tell about ourselves, as well as stories and myths about the world we live in), 4) Transcendence (experiencing “awe” and “inspiration” in the presence of great things), 5) Growth (having a sense that you are evolving and moving forward as a person). All five pillars contribute to a rich and meaningful existence.
    • Spend more time in nature. Nature reminds us that we are part of something larger than ourselves, a whole process known as “life.” Nature is a fantastic source of meaning because it continuously inspires positive emotions like joy, amazement, gratitude, and awe. The best part is that nature is all around us – we don’t need to plan a weekend camping trip to experience it – instead just pay attention to everyday nature that is all around you: trees on the drive to work, birdwatching in your backyard, or spending time in your garden over the summer. Having pets to care for is another easy and wonderful source of nature and connection, even if it’s just a small fish tank to maintain. Nature also includes enjoying the beauty of a nice view such as sunrises, sunsets, mountaintops, storm watching, and star-gazing.
    • Take a complete picture perspective. Finding meaning requires being able to look at things from a big picture perspective. What influence do your actions have in the long-term? What type of impact will you leave on the world after you die? When you keep the complete picture in mind, you recognize that even super small actions can add up and have big results in the future. Your life doesn’t begin at birth nor end at death, you are part of an intergenerational chain of cause-and-effect that has stretched thousands of years. That’s a powerful thought if you can see the true significance behind it.
    • Embrace art, music, and culture. Artists are the creators of new meanings, especially famous painters, musicians, filmmakers, photographers, authors, playwrights, and dancers. Pursuing a creative hobby of your own is one fantastic way to infuse new meaning into your life. You can also embrace art and culture more by going to museums, art galleries, music concerts, and theaters. A lot of beautiful art is archived in online art and cultural exhibits, so you can discover a lot of new inspiration by just sitting in the comfort of your own home. Artists of all forms teach us how universal the human condition is. It’s a huge inspirational boost when you realize a book written over a hundred years ago resonates exactly with how you feel today. One of my strongest memories is attending a music concert of my favorite band with thousands of others listening and singing along. Creativity is one of humanity’s greatest gifts and there’s a lot of wisdom, beauty, and feelings of universal connection it can offer us.
    • Signs, symbols, and synchronicity. A meaningful life can be more about feeling inspiration and empowerment rather than thinking only logically and factually about the world. Embrace things you can’t always explain. If you feel like you’re getting a “sign” from the universe, accept it. Our minds often think unconsciously through the power of symbols, especially through reoccurring dreams or nightmares that may be trying to tell you something important. Meaning can be created anywhere if you have the right perspective. Many of my favorite moments in life are when I experience synchronicity, which is finding a connection between two things that seem completely unrelated at first. For example, if I start reading a book and then someone brings up the same book randomly the next day, I try to see that as a sign that I’m on the right path. It may or may not be true, but it is a simple and easy way to add more meaning to the little things in life.
    • Have faith that life is good. Faith may not have any role in science, but it does play an important role in good living. At the end of the day, one of the most important beliefs we can have is that “life is good” and things will generally work out in the end. One of my personal favorite quotes is, “Pray to God, but row to shore.” It shows us to have hope and faith in life, but still take action and try our best in the moment. Both faith and action are necessary ingredients to a happy and fulfilling life. A belief in God or a higher power can make this whole process easier. However, even if you can’t bring yourself to accept “metaphysical” or “supernatural” ideas, at least try to sense the oneness and interconnectedness of all things. These ideas are an endless source of power, strength, and resilience, even in the face of incredible hardships and tribulations.

    A “meaningful life” can be one of the most difficult areas of life to improve, especially while living in a world that is filled with nihilism, hedonism, and materialism.

    However, once you build a strong spiritual core you can withstand almost any difficulty or hardship. It can empower you to a whole new level that non-spiritual people don’t usually have access to.

    CONCLUSION

    To sum things up we must invest time and energy in all six of these aspects if we want to live a happy and balanced life.

    Once again, these six aspects of a balanced life include: 1) Physical, 2) Mental, 3) Emotional, 4) Social, 5) Work/Financial, and 6) Meaningful/Spiritual.

    Which area are you the strongest in? Which area are you the weakest in?

    Keep this framework in mind as you embark on a lifetime of self-improvement. Try the Daily Routine (PDF) exercise and use this resource as a guideline.


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  • Lost in Symptom-land: How to Live Life When Doctors Don’t Know What’s Wrong with You

    Lost in Symptom-land: How to Live Life When Doctors Don’t Know What’s Wrong with You

    The only thing worst than hearing a terrible diagnosis is “all your tests look normal.”

    Let me start this by saying that I’m an English teacher, not a doctor. Literally none of this is medical advice.

    Last fall I came home from school on a Friday, and I felt like I’d been hit by a train. My head was pounding to the point that I felt nauseous, and I was struck with terrible fatigue. I’m a teacher, so I’m used to getting sick a few times a year, but this felt different. I slept for an hour, then went to our school’s football game to take pictures for the yearbook. I slept most of the weekend.

    But the next week, I still felt sick. And the week after that. This felt like a cold, but I wasn’t congested. Oddly my cheeks hurt, and by 1pm everyday I had zero energy left. I know what it is: it’s a sinus infection. I’d had sinus surgery the year before, and my nose was really sensitive now. I went to my family doctor and said, Here’s what I’m feeling. You know I had this surgery last year. Could this be a sinus infection? He said, “Probably, let’s do some antibiotics.” First round, not enough. Second round, I started to feel better.

    But then I got another sinus infection in the winter. No fevers, no congestion or drainage. But that old head pounding, face hurting, total exhaustion experience. More antibiotics. Then in the spring I got a cold and afterwards…another sinus infection. This time, the antibiotics didn’t fix the headaches; the fatigue was worse, and I started feeling disoriented. Something wasn’t right. I wanted to play with my kids, flirt with my wife, and fix that drywall in my daughter’s bedroom. But I didn’t have the energy. I’d come home from work so tired that I wanted to cry, and honestly, sometimes I did.

    I asked my doc to test me for lyme. In the last year, I’d started photographing birds, which meant that I’d been spending hours hiding in meadows with tall grasses. I never saw a tick bite, but who knows. I spiked high for the lyme antibodies, but only reacted to four of the ten protein strands they test (you need five to be positive). The lab marked it negative in the patient portal, and my doctor and I never discussed it.

    I went to see my ENT who’d done my surgery. He did a CT of my sinuses: All clear. He said, “Everything looks good here. These sound like migraines. I’m going to set you up with a neurologist.” I wasn’t happy, and I let him know – clearly this was a problem with my sinuses, and he wasn’t listening. The fatigue was getting out of control, which increased my anxiety and decreased my sleep, which made me even more tired. The neurologist’s first opening was three months away at the end of summer.

    I met with the neurologist, and she said none of what I’d experienced actually sounded like sinus infections to her. She suspected migraines but cautioned me that chronic fatigue can come from a hundred different illnesses. She did bloodwork, an MRI of my brain to check for anything scary. All normal. I increased hydration, started taking B2 (it supposedly helps with migraines), and really focused on regimenting my sleep schedule.

    School started, and once again I couldn’t keep my energy up. I had a nagging feeling that the answer was in front of me. I started reading more about lyme disease: Apparently a lot of people never see a rash from a tick bite. Some of the major symptoms are chronic fatigue, a sense of disorientation, and migraine headaches. And the latest published studies say you don’t need five of the proteins to be positive.

    I went back to my family doc and laid everything out for him: Here are all the doctors I’ve seen. Here’s every test I’ve had done. Here are all of my lingering symptoms. Could this be lyme?! He looked at my initial lyme test results and said, “Yeah…it’s lyme. The lab marked it negative because you only reacted to four proteins, but as far as I’m concerned, this is a positive.”

    I’m nearly finished with my month-long round of antibiotics, and I’m hoping that it knocks out the lyme completely, but I may still have a long road of recovery ahead of me. Here are some things I learned throughout this last year of medical turmoil.

    Don’t Google Your Symptoms

    Here’s the problem: Whatever your symptoms are, there is some kind of cancer with those same symptoms. And when you have generic symptoms like mine (headache, fatigue, dizziness), the internet will tell you that you might be fine or you might die in the next two weeks.

    The older I get, the more I realize the degree to which my mental health affects my physical health. The more anxiety I have, the less I sleep. And the less I sleep, the harder it is for my body to heal itself. And looking up all of my symptoms on the internet so I can read about what I could have only increases my anxiety.

    So what should you do instead of looking things up? Go talk to your doctor. Here’s the thing: Your doctor went to medical school; you didn’t (if you did, then you already know this). Truth be told, next time I see my ENT, I owe the guy an apology. I thought he was slubbing me off onto the next doc; but he was using his expertise to the best of his ability. And lyme can cause migraines, so he was actually right.

    When you talk to your doctor, don’t just tell them your symptoms; tell them what all has been going on in your life. I decided that my issue was in my sinuses and handed that diagnosis to my doctor. Yes, I’d had sinus surgery, but in that last year I’d also moved into a new house and started spending significantly more time outdoors. Maybe if I’d said all of that, he would’ve connected the dots because he does this for a living: “Bird photography? Where are you doing that? Have you seen any tick bites? Let’s test you for lyme just to rule it out.”

    Be Persistent

    In the last year, I’ve seen my family doctor, my ENT, another ENT who specializes in dizziness, a neurologist, and a psychiatrist (because I was starting to think this was all in my head). Each of these doctors helped me rule out different illnesses. And each gave me new data via blood tests and imaging that I could use to narrow down my issue.

    This has been exhausting, endlessly frustrating, and the copays have added up to a small fortune. But I’ve known for a year that something wasn’t right in my body. Once I started reading more about lyme, my wife said, “I feel like you’re deciding you have lyme disease.” I said, “No, I’m not. I’m deciding that it’s still a possibility, and I want to have that conversation with my doctor so he can either confirm it or rule it out because it occurs to me that we never actually discussed the results.” And if my doctor had said no, it’s not lyme, then that’s one more sickness I could cross off the list.

    You’re not supposed to feel sick for a year. Don’t give up and decide this is just your life now.

    You Still Have To Take Care Of Yourself

    When I first saw the neurologist, she asked me how much water I drink in a day. Um…I have coffee in the morning, some water at lunch, and then some water with dinner. That good enough? No. One of the leading causes of headaches is dehydration, even if the headache is also being caused by an underlying illness. Now I drink at least 40 oz. of water every day, and I aim for 60.

    She also asked how often I exercise. Well…before I had kids, six days a week. Now? I exercise when I can, but I’ve been so tired for a year that it really hasn’t happened. We all know that exercise releases endorphins, which are your brain’s natural pain killer. Exercise helps you fight disease and keeps your heart strong. The neurologist told me that I don’t need to go crazy. Aim for three times a week for half an hour. She said, “Even just taking a walk around your neighborhood after dinner counts. Get up, move, your body needs it.”

    Your body can’t heal without consistent sleep and a healthy diet. Again…you know these things, and so do I. But life happens, and sometimes the Big Mac is easier (and it tastes so damn good). Some small changes I’ve made:

    • No more soda
    • Cut down on bread and pasta unless it’s rye (or fresh baked) bread or chickpea pasta 
    • Drink more water
    • Less dairy unless it’s organic
    • More fruits, vegetables, and nuts as snacks
    • Wake up at the same time each day and go to sleep at the same time each night

    These aren’t cures for anything, but they’re manageable steps towards better overall health, especially when you feel like you’re already fighting something.

    Take Care Of Your Mind Too

    I’ve seen my therapist more in the last six months than I have in several years before. The truth is, being sick is depressing. Chronic fatigue, chronic pain, chronic anything will wear on your mental health. And you don’t always realize it’s happening.

    At the beginning of the summer, Katie (who is actually a therapist) said, “You need to go talk to your therapist about all of this. It’s too much to process and carry every day, and she knows how your brain works.” And she was right. Katie has been amazing with encouraging me and reassuring me that my feeling sick isn’t a burden to her or our daughters, even when I feel like it is. My health matters more than my ability to perform to a certain standard as a dad and a husband. But I also need someone, who isn’t my wife, to remind me of what I can and can’t control in all of this.

    After my doctor confirmed lyme, I went and talked to my therapist and told her that I’ve been reading everything I can about lyme disease. Early caught lyme is easily treated and cured, but I’ve had this in my system for at least a year, which means there’s a higher risk of permanent damage. What if these antibiotics simply aren’t enough? What if I have lasting effects and can’t shake the fatigue?

    She reminded me that all of this reading really isn’t helping me. I said, “Well the more I know, the better prepared I can be for the possible worst. I’m using my intelligence.” She said, “No, you’re using your anxiety. Using your intelligence would be reminding yourself that the only thing you can control is what you do today to improve your health. You’re taking your meds; you’re sleeping well, eating well, and exercising. What’s going to happen tomorrow or next week is out of your control. And if you have permanent effects, you’ll deal with those each day too.”

    If you’ve been battling a mysterious malady, please know that there are answers out there. Listen to your body, talk to your doctor, and don’t give up.

    Mike Henson

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  • Training for Life: How the Lessons Learned in the Gym Prepared Me for My Cancer Battle

    Training for Life: How the Lessons Learned in the Gym Prepared Me for My Cancer Battle

    In the gym, we find more than physical fitness; we train for the resilience to stand tall against life’s darkest and most challenging moments.

    Brad is a university lecturer with a master’s degree in Kinesiology and is a Certified Strength and Conditioning Specialist (CSCS) with the National Strength and Conditioning Association (NSCA). He has competed as a drug-free bodybuilder, is a cancer survivor, and a 21 year veteran of the Air National GuardBrad has been a Primer contributor since 2011.


    Cancer is a heck of a thing. From diagnosis, treatments, doctor and ER visits to recovery and remission it’s one wild ride. Life will throw curve balls our way when we least expect it. I remember just getting back from a tour in Afghanistan and weeks later being told I had Hodgkin’s disease–a type of immune system cancer. It had spread to local areas in my chest and abdomen. I was instantly thrust into another world of chemotherapy, pain medications, sedation treatments, and bone marrow extractions. It was a lot about me, but not in a good way.

    There was a lot to navigate during my nine month treatment and beyond, but I took a page out of my training journal and applied a similar mindset in order to tackle my cancer journey. My mind raced after diagnosis, but once a plan was in place I knew that I could take my years of toiling away in the gym (read: discipline) and apply them to fighting this unwelcomed foe.

    Below are a few of the principles I forged in the gym and used to beat cancer. Yes, doctors, nurses, chemotherapy medications, and much more are all important and necessary players in the physical fight, but it also takes a certain unique mentality to push yourself to the other side.

    1. Patience

    When it comes to changing your physique for the better, time should be your best friend. Toiling away, workout after workout, week after week, and month after month takes boatloads of patience. You’ll have great days and bad days. Some days you’ll feel like you can conquer the world while others feel like you’ve moved a few steps back. The key is consistency and patience. Changes in muscle mass, fat loss, endurance, and strength come slowly and those who possess the secret weapon of patience will ultimately succeed.

    Cancer treatment is no different. Good days, bad, days, steps forward and backward all amount to having patience and trusting the process.

    Battling a health problem is a long process and most days you feel like you’re not making much progress. The key is to keep the end result in mind.

    One day you’ll be done with treatment, you’ll be able to once again do things you weren’t able to do during chemotherapy. There will be an end to all of the means you’ve been working so hard on.

    2. Obstacles

    There’s probably no other better daily example of overcoming obstacles than training and dieting for a better, healthier body. Obstacles are just a regular part of the process. From daily schedules, family obligations, diet challenges, and overall life stress, obstacles are built in. Your training can be another obstacle. Figuring out what works, what doesn’t, garnering motivation, and trying your best to avoid injuries is a lot to consider. But that’s the landscape–that’s how the gym game is played. If you want results, get used to overcoming obstacles.

    Cancer treatment is an obstacle in and of itself. Compounding that with declining health, sickness, pain, constant nausea, and the challenge of trying to stay in some sort of a routine can turn overwhelming.

    But taking on these challenges, these obstacles, is a necessary mindshift. Tackling these things head on will make the journey more tolerable and accepting. Once that’s established you can focus on staying the course and becoming mentally stronger because of it.

    3. Pain now, reward later

    One of the most important and most misunderstood principles of training is the necessity of pain. If you want to change anything in your life, no matter if it’s a college degree, a better body, or developing more focus, it will take pain–being uncomfortable. Instinctually, humans try to avoid pain as it’s an issue of survival and vitality.

    But experiencing pain is a requirement for shaping your physique or getting stronger. Now, I’m not speaking of the “bad” pain such as hurt joints or torn muscles. I’m referring to the discomfort of training and the process of putting in the reps and sets and reaping the rewards for later.

    There’s nothing comfortable about cancer. Everything from throwing up, aching bones, four hour treatments, bone marrow extractions, and the endless number and array of medications and chemotherapies, pain is a huge part of the process.

    However, very early on I took on the mentality of accepting the pain for the reward later. Every time I went in for another treatment, had a sleepless night, or couldn’t eat for a day I kept the end result at the front of my mind.

    The pain was worth the reward: to live a normal life again.

    borland standing outside of treatment centerborland standing outside of treatment center

    4. Planning

    I’ve always been a notetaker when it comes to my training and diet. When I was competing in bodybuilding it was imperative that I track everything. A few months leading up to a contest I would record exercises, sets, reps, weight, mood, calories, protein, carbs, fats, and anything else I felt important to my success. This all formulated into a plan of action. And that plan would evolve over time according to what worked and what I needed to throw out. Without a plan I would feel lost.

    When I was first diagnosed with Hodgkin’s Disease it was not only a sucker punch, it was also an extremely frustrating time. It would be around a week until I had an appointment with my oncologist. In that time leading up to the appointment I became frustrated, uneasy, and lost. No plan was in place.

    I felt like I was in the dark on my next step in this unfamiliar territory.

    Finally, once I did see my doctor and we came up with a game plan I felt much more at ease. It was as if I had at least a little control because I was able to look at the plan and start to formulate what I was going to do, how I would schedule my days, and what to expect in treatment. I had to trust the plan.

    5. Recovery

    Of course mindset is one of the most powerful tools to have in the gym. Without the right mindset you’ll be lost with no real vision of your best self. But a close second are the tools you use to get to your goal. What I mean is how important the tools of proper recovery can be such as nutrition, sleep, rest, and certain supplementation.

    Going to the gym and training with intensity every day takes a toll and because of that you’ll need to take your recovery habits very seriously. I would make sure my protein, carb, and fats were there for growth. I would prioritize sleep and rest to support those tough workouts so I could go back the next day stronger and better.

    Recovery is also all-important during cancer treatment. The goal there is to get a treatment then recover as much as possible before the next treatment. Now, with chemotherapy you’re not actually growing or gaining strength. It’s more of a compounding decline in health because it kills the good cells with the bad and you hope the bad cells are killed off before too many of the good are.

    But recovery habits from bodybuilding helped get into that mindset of making recovery a priority. Nutrition, sleep, and light exercise.

    6. Support

    Training in the gym as a teenager was a very unique and magical time. I remember meeting a handful of friends after school and we would all train together, spot each other, and rib on each other. It was an atmosphere of support, brotherhood, and positive vibes. I would not have pushed myself without their help, I would not have been obligated to show up to the gym each day, and I would not have had so many fond memories of how I started out training.

    From camaraderie to finding new and exciting training techniques to try, the support factor is one of the most important things you can experience.

    I was very lucky to have a small cadre of support during my treatment as well. From parents to friends to coworkers, I definitely felt as if I wasn’t alone in the battle. I would always have someone there during treatment and to take me to and from the clinic. I had great support from work by having coworkers rally around me, asking how I was doing, and always offering if I needed anything at all. To be lucky enough to have support and acceptance of it is priceless.

    borland receiving treatment in a clinic bedborland receiving treatment in a clinic bed

    7. The long game

    Finally, one of the most important perspectives to have is one of the long game. Training, dieting, recovering, building, and growing never end. There are no shortcuts or overnight miracles when it comes to changing your physique, making it stronger, and living a healthier life. You have to think long term. You have to create positive habits and put them into practice daily, weekly, monthly, and yearly.

    They have to become a part of your daily routine–a part of your life, not just seen as an add on or burden. Once you convince yourself of this it instantly becomes easier to put into practice.

    Being diagnosed was a shock, but I quickly had to think long term once a plan was in place. At the time I was actively competing in bodybuilding so I had to be okay with taking a break from competition and do what I needed to do to survive and get healthy.

    Yes, I focused on the tasks at hand like treatments, medications, and recovery, but I was also thinking about what I would do after it was all over. I thought about how I would get back into training, how I would ramp up my nutrition, and ultimately get back on stage competing. I was looking past the hardships and focusing on the long game of it all.

    The gym isn’t a place just to build muscle and strength, it’s also a place to build mental strength, resilience, and a capacity to get through other obstacles in life outside of the gym. No matter what the challenge these principles can be used to help overcome life’s difficulties and come out on top.

    Brad Borland

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  • Go Ahead, Try to Explain Milk

    Go Ahead, Try to Explain Milk

    If an alien life form landed on Earth tomorrow and called up some of the planet’s foremost experts on lactation, it would have a heck of time figuring out what, exactly, humans and other mammals are feeding their kids.

    The trouble is, no one can really describe what milk is—least of all the people who think most often about it. They can describe, mostly, who makes it: mammals (though arguably also some other animals that feed their young secretions from their throat or their skin). They can describe, mostly, where it comes from: mammary glands via, usually, nipples (though please note the existence of monotremes, which ooze milk into abdominal grooves). They can even describe, mostly, what milk does: nourish, protect, and exchange chemical signals with infants to support development and growth.

    But few of these answers get at what milk, materially, compositionally, is actually like. Bridget Young, an infant-nutrition researcher at the University of Rochester, told me milk was an “ecological system”; Alan S. Ryan, a clinical-research consultant, called it a “nutritional instrument.” Bruce German, a food scientist at UC Davis, told me milk was “the result of the evolutionary selective pressure on a unique feeding strategy,” adding, by way of clarification, that it was “a biological process.” A few researchers defaulted to using milk to explain something else. “It’s the defining feature of mammals,” says Melanie Martin, an anthropologist at the University of Washington. None of these characterizations were bad. But had I been that alien, I would have no idea what these people were talking about.

    What these experts were trying to avoid was categorizing milk as a “food”—the way that most people on Earth might, especially in industrialized countries where dairy products command entire supermarket aisles. “Overwhelmingly, when we think about milk, when we talk about milk, we think of nutrition,” says Katie Hinde, an evolutionary biologist at Arizona State University. That’s not the wrong way to think about it. But it’s also not entirely right.

    The milk that mammals make is undoubtedly full of the carbs, fat, protein, vitamins, and minerals newborn mammals need to survive. And, across species, much of it does resemble the creamy, tart-tangy, lactose-rich whitish liquid that billions of people regularly buy. But to consider only milk’s nutrient constituents—to imply that it has a single recipe—is to do it “a disservice,” German told me. Mammalian milk is a manifestation of hundreds of millions of years of evolutionary tinkering that have turned it into a diet, and a developmental stimulus, and a conduit for maternal-infant communication, and a passive vaccine. It builds organs, fine-tunes metabolism, and calibrates immunity; it paints some of an infant’s first portraits of its mother, and telegraphs chemical signals to the microbes that live inside the gut. Milk can sustain echidnas that hatch from eggs, and wildebeest that can gallop within hours of birth; it can support newborn honey possums that weigh just three milligrams at birth, and blue-whale calves clocking in at up to 20 tons. Among some primates, it influences infants’ playfulness, and may shape their sleep habits and bias them toward certain foods. Some of its ingredients are found nowhere else in nature; others are indigestible, still others are alive.

    Milk is also dynamic in a way that no other fluid is. It remodels in the hours, days, weeks, and months after birth; it changes from the beginning of a single stint of feeding to the end. In humans, scientists have identified “morning” milk that’s high in cortisol, and “night” milk that’s heavy in melatonin; certain primates have “boy milk and girl milk,” German told me, which support subtly different developmental needs. Tammar wallabies, which can nurse two joeys of different ages at once, even produce milks tailored to each offspring’s developmental stage; Kevin Nicholas, a biologist at Monash University, has found that when the joeys swap teats, the younger sibling’s growth accelerates. And when mothers and their offspring change, milk changes in lockstep. It reflects the mother’s stress level and physical health, taking on new flavors as her diet shifts; its fat content fluctuates, depending on how far apart bouts of nursing are spaced. Scientists are just beginning to understand how made-to-order milk might be: Some evidence suggests that maternal tissues may register, via the breast, when infants catch infections—and modify milk in real time to furnish babies with the exact immune cells or molecules they need.

    “It’s a triad: mother, milk, and infant,” says Moran Yassour, a computational biologist at Hebrew University of Jerusalem. “Each one of them is playing a role, and the milk is active.” That dynamism makes milk both a miracle, and an enduring mystery—as unique and unreplicable as any individual parent or child, and just as difficult to define.


    In its earliest forms, milk probably didn’t have much nutritional value at all. Scientists think the substance’s origins date back about 300 million years, before the rise of mammals, in a lineage of creatures that hatched their young from very delicate eggs. The structures that would later develop into mammary glands started out similar to the ones we use to sweat; the substance that would become proper milk pooled on the surface of skin and was slathered onto shells. The earliest milks probably had few calories and almost none of its hallmark lactose. But they were deeply hydrating, and teeming with immunity.

    As our ancestors jettisoned egg laying for live birth, they began to extrude milk not just as a defensive shield for their offspring, but as a source of calories, vitamins, and minerals. The more that milk offered to infants, the more that it demanded of those that produced it: Mothers “dissolve themselves to make it,” German told me, liquefying their own fat stores to keep their babies fed, “which is impressive and scary at the same time.” In its many modern manifestations, milk is, in every mammal that produces it, a one-stop shop for newborn needs—“the only real time in life where we have hydration, nutrients, and bioactive factors that are all a single source,” says Liz Johnson, an infant-nutrition researcher at Cornell.

    Each time mammals have splintered into new lineages, taking on new traits, so too has their milk. While most primates and other species that can afford to spend months doting on their young produce dilute, sugary milks that can be given on demand, other mammals have evolved milk that encourages more independence and is calorific enough to nourish in short, ultra-efficient bursts. Hooded seals, which have to wean their pups within four days of birth, churn out goopy milk that’s nearly sugar-free, but clocks in at about 60 percent fat—helping their offspring nearly double in weight by the time they swim away. Marsupial milk, meanwhile, is ultra-sweet, with double or triple the sugar content of what cows produce, and cottontail rabbits pump out a particularly protein-rich brew. (One thing milk can’t do? Be high in both sugar and fat, says Mike Power, a biological anthropologist at the Smithsonian Conservation Biology Institute, where he maintains a large repository of mammalian milk: “Nature has never been able to produce ice cream.”) Each species’ milk even has its own microbiome—a community of helpful bacteria that goes on to seed the newborn infant’s gut. Mammal milks are now so specialized to their species that they can’t substitute for one another, even between species that otherwise live similar lives.

    Human milk—like other primate milk—is on the watery, sugary side. But its concentrations of immunity-promoting ingredients have no comparator. It bustles with defensive cells; it shuttles a stream of antibodies from mother to young, at levels that in some cases outstrip those of other great apes’ milk by a factor of at least 10. Its third-most-common solid ingredient is a group of carbohydrates known as human milk oligosaccharides, or HMOs, which aren’t digestible by our own cells but feed beneficial bacteria in the colon while keeping pathogens out. Roughly 200 types of oligosaccharides have been found in human milk—an inventory with more diversity, complexity, and nuance than that of any other mammalian species described to date, says Concepcion Remoroza, a chemist who’s cataloging the HMOs of different mammalian milks at the National Institute of Standards and Technology.

    The sheer defensive firepower in our species’ milk is probably a glimpse into the challenges in our past, as humans crowded together to plant, fertilize, and harvest mass quantities of food, and invited domesticated creatures into our jam-packed homes. “We were basically concentrating our pathogens and our parasites,” Power told me, in ways that put infants at risk. Perhaps the millennia modified our milk in response, making those unsanitary conditions possible to survive.


    Mammals would not exist without their milk. And yet, “we don’t actually know that much about milk,” down to the list of its core ingredients in our own species, says E. A. Quinn, an anthropologist at Washington University in St. Louis. Even for the breast-milk components that scientists can confidently identify, Quinn told me, “we don’t really have a good handle on what normal human values are.” Many studies examining the contents of breast milk have focused on Western countries, where the population skews wealthier, well nourished, and white. But so much varies from person to person, from moment to moment, that it’s tough to get a read on what’s universally good; likely, no such standard exists, at least not one that can apply across so many situations, demographics, and phases of lactation, much less to each infant’s of-the-moment needs.

    Milk’s enduring enigmas don’t just pose an academic puzzle. They also present a frustrating target—simultaneously hazy and mobile—for infant formulas that billions of people rely on as a supplement or substitute. Originally conceived of and still regulated as a food, formula fulfills only part of milk’s tripartite raison d’etre. Thanks to the strict standards on carb, fat, protein, vitamin, and mineral content set by the FDA and other government agencies, modern formulas—most of which are based on skim cow’s milk—do “the nourish part really well,” helping babies meet all their growth milestones, Bridget Young, the University of Rochester infant nutrition researcher, told me. “The protect and communicate part is where we start to fall short.” Differences in health outcomes for breastfed and formula-fed infants, though they’ve shrunk, do still exist: Milk-raised babies have, on average, fewer digestive troubles and infections; later in life, they might be less likely to develop certain metabolic issues.

    To close a few of those gaps, some formula companies have set their sights on some of milk’s more mysterious ingredients. For nearly a decade, Abbott, one of the largest manufacturers of formula in the United States, has been introducing a small number of HMOs into its products; elsewhere, scientists are tinkering with the healthful punch via live bacterial cultures, à la yogurt. A few are even trying a more animal-centric route. The company ByHeart uses whole cow’s milk as its base, instead of the more-standard skim. And Nicholas, the Monash University biologist, is taking inspiration from wallaby milk—complex, nutritious, and stimulating enough to grow organs of multiple species almost from scratch—which he thinks could guide the development of formulas for premature human infants not yet ready to subsist solely on mature milk.

    All of these approaches, though, have their limits. Of the 200 or so HMOs known to be in human milk, companies have managed to painstakingly synthesize and include just a handful in their products; the rest are more complex, and even less well understood. Getting the full roster into formula will “never happen,” Sharon Donovan, a nutritional scientist at the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign, told me. Other protein- and fat-based components of milk, specially packaged by mammary glands, are, in theory, more straightforward to mix in. But those ingredients might not always behave as expected when worked onto a template of cow’s milk, which just “cannot be compared” to the intricacies of human milk, Remoroza told me. (In terms of carbs, fats, and protein, zebra milk is, technically, a better match for us.)

    A company called Biomilq is trying a radical way to circumvent cows altogether: It’s in the early stages of growing donated human-mammary-gland cells in bioreactors, in hopes of producing a more recognizable analogue for breast milk, ready-made with our own species-specific mix of lactose, fats, and proteins, and maybe even a few HMOs, Leila Strickland, one of Biomilq’s co-founders, told me. But even Strickland is careful to say that her company’s product will never be breast milk. Too many of breast milk’s immunological, hormonal, and microbial components come from elsewhere in the mother’s body; they represent her experience in the world as an entire person, not a stand-alone gland. And like every other milk alternative, Biomilq’s product won’t be able to adjust itself in real time to suit a baby’s individual needs. If true milk represents a live discourse between mother and infant, the best Biomilq can manage will be a sophisticated, pretaped monologue.

    For all the ground that formula has gained, “no human recipe can replicate what has evolved” over hundreds of millions of years, Martin, of the University of Washington, told me. That may be especially true as long as formula continues to be officially regarded as a food—requiring it to be, above all else, safe, and every batch the same. Uniformity and relative sterility are part and parcel of mass production, yet almost antithetical to the variation and malleability of milk, Cornell’s Johnson told me. And in regulatory terms, foods aren’t designed to treat or cure, which can create headaches for companies that try to introduce microbes and molecules that carry even a twinge of additional health risk. Float the notion of a very biologically active addition like a growth factor or a metabolic hormone, and that can quickly “start to scare people a bit,” Donovan, of the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign, told me.

    As companies have vied to make their formulas more milk-esque and complex, some experts have discussed treating them more like drugs, a designation reserved for products with proven health impact. But that classification, too, seems a poor fit. “We’re not developing a cure for infancy,” Strickland, of Biomilq, told me. Formula’s main calling is, for now, still to “promote optimal growth and development,” Ryan, the research consultant, told me. Formula may not even need to aspire to meet milk’s bar. For babies that are born full-term, who remain up-to-date on their vaccinations and have access to consistent medical care, who are rich in socioeconomic support, who are held and doted on and loved—infants whose caregivers offer them immunity, resources, and guidance in many other ways—the effect of swapping formula for milk “is teeny,” Katie Hinde, of Arizona State University, told me. Other differences noted in the past between formula- and breastfed infants have also potentially been exaggerated or misleading; so many demographic differences exist between people who are able to breastfeed their kids and those who formula-feed that tracing any single shred of a person’s adult medical history back to their experiences in infancy is tough.

    The biggest hurdles in infant feeding nowadays, after all, are more about access than tech. Many people—some of them already at higher risk of poorer health outcomes later in life—end up halting breastfeeding earlier than they intend or want to, because it’s financially, socially, or institutionally unsustainable. Those disparities are especially apparent in places such as the U.S., where health care is privatized and paid parental leave and affordable lactation consultants are scarce, and where breastfeeding rates splinter unequally along the lines of race, education, and socioeconomic status. “Where milk matters the most, breastfeeding tends to be supported the least,” Hinde told me. If milk is a singular triumph of evolution, a catalyst for and a product of how all mammals came to be, it shouldn’t be relegated to a societal luxury.

    Katherine J. Wu

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  • ‘Loud Layoffs’ Hurt Your Health — Shift Your Mindset Like This | Entrepreneur

    ‘Loud Layoffs’ Hurt Your Health — Shift Your Mindset Like This | Entrepreneur

    Don’t let your biggest fears become your new reality.

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  • Jason Oppenheim Reveals His Secret to Staying Focused and Productive

    Jason Oppenheim Reveals His Secret to Staying Focused and Productive

    Opinions expressed by Entrepreneur contributors are their own.

    Being an entrepreneur is not an easy task at all. When you choose a path of fending for yourself in business, the only person who can be blamed for failures is yourself. The entrepreneurial lifestyle requires a large amount of patience, perseverance and most of all, focus. Sometimes this leaves little to no to prioritize the most important parts of life like our physical and mental wellbeing.


    Benjo Arwas

    Science shows that when we prioritize our physical wellbeing, it correlates with being able to focus better on our work while also increasing our mental capabilities and wellbeing. This is why it is so important to focus on staying fit no matter how busy work may get.

    One entrepreneur who reaps the benefits of staying physically healthy is Jason Oppenheim. Oppenheim juggles the responsibilities of owning real estate conglomerate The Oppenheim Group while being active in the recording and production of the highly-popular series, “Selling Sunset.” Despite his busy schedule of back-to-back meetings, calls and time on set, Oppenheim prioritizes his physical wellbeing above all.

    I got the opportunity to speak with Jason Oppenheim as he offered insight on how he stays focused on work during his busy schedule while being mindful of his physical health.

    Related: No Time to Exercise? 3 Reasons Short Workouts Are Better Than Longer Ones

    Exercise at least 30 minutes a day

    Making time to be active daily benefits your brain in so many different ways. Exercising regularly is one of the easiest and most effective ways to reduce the symptoms of and improve concentration, motivation, memory and mood.

    Studies show that every time you move your body, a number of beneficial neurotransmitters, including dopamine, norepinephrine, serotonin and acetylcholine, get released into your brain. An organized review published in the journal, Translational Sports Medicine, found that it takes only two minutes of exercise to temporarily boost memory and overall brain functions.

    For Jason Oppenheim, 30 minutes in the gym, four to five times a week, is all he needs to stay focused and fit. “I do quick workouts, maybe 10 to 12 sets, and I’m out of the gym pretty quickly,” explained Oppenheim. Consistency is key to staying fit. “You have to keep your mind and body focused. Almost every time I get into a mood it’s generally because I’m not working out,” said Oppenheim. Being close in proximity has also been a game changer for Oppenheim, who walks 100 feet to a building next to his office to work out.

    Related: The Entrepreneur’s Diet for Success and Brain-Boosting Performance

    It’s about when you eat, not what you eat

    For Jason, his secret for staying lean isn’t attributed to his diet, but limiting how many times he eats: twice on a typical day. “I pretty much eat whatever I want. I don’t think anyone would call my eating habits impressive or healthy. I eat twice a day and that’s what keeps me lean,” explained Oppenheim.

    While Jason’s diet might not be what you’d expect a fit person’s diet to look like, his discipline of eating only twice a day allows him to fast incrementally, keeping a calorie deficit daily. In this case, it’s about when you eat, not what you eat. Jason eats lunch and dinner, holding out from a morning breakfast.

    Intermittent fasting is a popular method for burning fat. If you don’t eat for 10–16 hours, your body will go to its fat stores for energy, burning fat at a faster rate. And while this method works for Jason, it may not be everyone. Mayo Clinic says, intermittent fasting is safe for many people, but it’s not for everyone. Skipping meals may not be the best way to manage your weight if you’re pregnant or breastfeeding.”

    Being strict about when you are eating and allowing your body time to go through periods without eating may seem difficult at first, but doing so will help you stay lean.

    Related: Elon Musk Says He’s Lost 20 Pounds After Trying Intermittent Fasting and Now Feels Healthier

    Don’t overwhelm yourself

    Another important part of Jason Oppenheim’s consistency is staying away from overwhelming himself while making an effort to work out. “I go to the gym quickly. I don’t make it an overwhelming experience for myself. For me, I just want to check the box. I make the most of it,” Oppenheim pointed out.

    There is nothing wrong with keeping your workout brief. Doing so allows Oppenheim more time to get work done while still taking care of his body. “Leave the office and come back within 35 minutes,” Oppenheim explains.

    Final thoughts

    Concentrating on keeping both your mind and body healthy is vital to becoming successful as an entrepreneur. If you aren’t physically or mentally healthy, the stresses of life and business can begin to cave in.

    In Jason Oppenheim’s case, he doesn’t go over the top — he does just enough to see results. For example, while he isn’t at the gym for a super long period, he makes sure that he’s there enough to reap the benefits of staying active. You don’t need to spend hours at the gym, just an hour or so a day of being active can make all the difference. Oppenheim admitted his diet isn’t amazing, but his choice to fast and limit when he eats makes up for it all.

    There is only so much time in a day, and a busy schedule can make it challenging to prioritize our own wellbeing. Entrepreneurship calls for long hours, late nights, early mornings and an enormous amount of time and energy. But it’s the small, daily sacrifices to take care of your body that will go a long way in increasing productivity, and overall mood, all while sharpening focus. It’s scientifically proven.

    Christian Anderson (Trust'N)

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