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People rarely go broke overnight. Instead, it usually happens gradually as a series of poor financial decisions add up. Few of us can afford to make many financial mistakes. That includes relatively high earners.
According to YouGov, 36% of U.S. adults earning more than $100,000 a year are struggling to make ends meet on their current income. (1)
Meanwhile, a Harris Poll found that more than half of six-figure earners would only feel financially secure if their income doubled, and three-quarters had used a credit card because they ran out of cash recently. (2)
In other words, you can’t outearn bad spending habits. And if you’re saying “yes” to any of the crucial things listed below, you’re probably on a path to financial insecurity as well.
Helping friends and family with their financial struggles feels noble, but it can quickly derail your own finances. Unfortunately, it’s difficult to say “no” to your loved ones.
Nearly six in 10 parents admit to providing some financial assistance to their adult children, according to Pew Research. (3)
Moreover, according to a 2025 survey by JG Wentworth, 53% of adults say they have lent money to either a friend or family member at least once, and 48.3% would ask a family member for money with no expectation to pay it back. (4)
Put simply, lending money to your loved ones is nearly on par with tossing cash into a black hole. That’s not to say you should refuse all requests for financial help. However, if you’re saying “yes” too often, you’re putting yourself in a financially vulnerable position.
The costs of dining out, attending concerts and going on vacation have increased rapidly in recent years. U.S. adults currently spend $2,841 per year on restaurant and takeout meals, according to CNET (5), while the average household annual entertainment budget is $3,636, according to Ramsey Solutions. (6) Add in occasional expenses like birthdays and anniversaries, and you can see why an active social life is an expensive luxury.
You don’t need to abandon all opportunities to socialize and live like a recluse, but occasionally saying “no” could help you accumulate meaningful savings over time.
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