CHICAGO — From jokes about his well-known stubbornness to tears grieving the loss of a parent, the adult children of the Rev. Jesse L. Jackson Sr. gave an emotional tribute Wednesday honoring the legacy of the late civil rights icon, a day after his death.
Jackson died Tuesday at his home in Chicago after battling a rare neurological disorder that affected his ability to move and speak. Standing on the steps outside his longtime Chicago home, five of his children, including U.S. Rep. Jonathan Jackson, remembered him not only for his decades-long work in civil rights but also for his role as spiritual leader and father.
“Our father is a man who dedicated his life to public service to gain, protect and defend civil rights and human rights to make our nation better, to make the world more just, our people better neighbors with each other,” said his youngest son, Yusef Jackson, fighting back tears at times.
The family said details on funeral arrangements for Jackson would be announced at a later time, but services will begin next week, with him lying in repose at the headquarters of the organization he founded, Rainbow/PUSH Coalition in Chicago, which his son Yusef oversees. Services will follow at a church large enough to accommodate expected crowds.
Jackson rose to prominence six decades ago as a protege of the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr., joining the voting rights march King led from Selma to Montgomery, Alabama. King later dispatched Jackson to Chicago to launch Operation Breadbasket, a Southern Christian Leadership Conference effort to pressure companies to hire Black workers.
Jackson was with King on April 4, 1968, when the civil rights leader was slain.
Remembrances have poured in worldwide for Jackson, including flowers left outside the home where large portraits of a smiling Jackson had been placed. But his children said he was a family man first.
“Our father took fatherhood very seriously,” his eldest child, Santita Jackson, said. “It was his charge to keep.”
His children’s reflections were poetic in the style of the late civil rights icon — filled with prayer, tears and a few chuckles, including about disagreements that occur when growing up in a large, lively family.
His eldest son, Jesse Jackson Jr., a former congressman, said his father’s funeral services would welcome all, “Democrat, Republican, liberal and conservative, right wing, left wing — because his life is broad enough to cover the full spectrum of what it means to be an American.”
The family asked only that those attending be respectful.
“If his life becomes a turning point in our national political discourse, amen,” he said. “His last breath is not his last breath.”
A U.K. mom removed her neurodivergent son from mainstream school after she discovered a theory that unlocked so many answers.
Laura I’Anson, 42, posted a reel on Instagram (@thelevelledupmum) describing the day she learned about “drowning child” theory. Her caption challenged common reassurances she had heard from professionals: that her son was “coping,” “managing,” or simply needed “more resilience.”
What those words overlooked, I’Anson said, was the hidden toll on her son Coby, now 7.
“One of my friends who is an early years teacher said to me, ‘If you saw a child drowning, would you ask them to swim harder, or would you pull them out?’ and it really hit me,” I’Anson told Newsweek.
“While he was physically present at school, it became clear to me that he wasn’t truly living or thriving—he was surviving, at a very real cost to his mental and emotional well-being.”
From the age of 5, Coby began experiencing anxiety-led blackouts—periods of complete disconnection under overwhelm.
By 6, this had escalated into intense school meltdowns that were often treated as behavioral issues rather than signs of distress. Between ages 5 and 7, repeated suspensions followed.
The emotional aftermath left a deep impression on Laura, who is also mom to Kian, 20, Annie, 14, and 6-year-old Finn with husband Scott, 35.
Coby would be ashamed and apologetic, struggling to understand his own reactions. Over time, he grew hypervigilant and withdrawn, often ending the school week mentally and physically exhausted and finding public outings distressing.
The “drowning child” theory gave Laura a framework for what she was seeing. To her, it recognizes that drowning is not always dramatic.
“Sometimes, my son was drowning loudly, through meltdowns, lashing out and behaviors that were visible and disruptive,” Laura said. “Those moments were often the ones people noticed, and they were usually treated as the problem itself, rather than a sign of how overwhelmed he was.”
After withdrawing Coby from school, the first change was simple: he slept, often and deeply. Laura focused on rest and “deschooling,” allowing his nervous system to settle before introducing expectations.
“Learning became something we could approach gently and flexibly, at his pace, rather than something driven by fear or exhaustion,” she said. “The biggest change was that he no longer felt like he had to survive the day. He could just be.”
The mom of four acknowledged that stepping outside the system felt daunting and that she initially felt anger toward the school, but she worked to separate emotion from decision-making.
Her message to other parents is measured but firm: questioning systems is not irresponsibility but thoughtfulness.
“Trust your judgment as a mother,” Laura said. “I knew whatever decisions I made for Coby were coming from a place of love, and I kept that in the forefront of my mind on the days I felt unsure.”
Accidental drug overdose has emerged as the leading cause of death among pregnant and postpartum women in the United States, a new study has revealed.
Researchers from Columbia University found that overdoses, homicides and suicides together account for a substantial share of deaths during pregnancy and shortly after birth—often exceeding medical causes that dominate the public discussion around maternal health.
In their study, the team analyzed U.S. death certificate data to identify all deaths among pregnant and postpartum women within 42 days of delivery between 2018 and 2023.
“Overdose and violence are not typically on our radar when it comes to thinking about approaches to reducing maternal morbidity and mortality, but these events are far more common among pregnant and postpartum women than we think,” paper author Dr Hooman Azad said in a statement.
The analysis found that accidental overdose led mortality causes with 5.2 deaths per 100,000 births. Homicide and suicide followed, with a combined rate of 3.9 deaths per 100,000 births.
The research also highlighted disparities. Accidental overdose and suicide were more common among white women, while deaths via homicide was seen more frequent among Black women.
More than three-quarters of violent deaths involved firearms, underscoring the role of gun violence in maternal mortality.
Timing mattered as well. Over half of overdose and violence-related deaths occurred during pregnancy itself.
By contrast, the next four most common causes—cardiovascular disease, infection, hypertension and hemorrhage—were more likely to occur in the immediate postpartum period.
Despite fluctuations during the COVID-19 pandemic, the overall maternal death rate remained relatively steady across the six-year period studied. However, the composition of those deaths has shifted.
As medical care to prevent and manage obstetric complications has improved over the past two decades, a growing body of research shows that non-medical causes such as overdose and violence make up an increasing share of maternal deaths.
Tracking these trends has historically been difficult because of inconsistent methods for documenting pregnancy status on death records. Improved standardization in recent years has allowed researchers to see the patterns more clearly.
For Azad, the findings point to missed opportunities in care.
“The take-home message is that we may not do as good a job in screening for drug use and intimate partner violence among our pregnant patients as we do for medical complications,” he said.
Azad argues that maternal health efforts must broaden beyond clinical complications to include social and behavioral risks.
He concluded: “We have an opportunity to refocus our efforts on preventing drug overdose and violence with multidisciplinary care that includes referrals to mental health care and social services throughout pregnancy—which could save hundreds of lives.”
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Reference
Azad, H. A., Goin, D., Nathan, L. M., Goffman, D., Rajan, S., Reddy, U., D’Alton, M. E., & Laraque-Arena, D. (2026). Overdose, Homicide, and Suicide as Causes of Maternal Death in the United States. New England Journal of Medicine, 394(7), 722–723. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMc2512078
What starts as a game can quietly turn into something much more serious. Parents across the country are paying closer attention after a Nebraska man was charged with kidnapping two sisters, ages 12 and 14.
According to authorities, he first connected with the girls on Roblox and later continued the conversations on Snapchat.
Law enforcement says the suspect built trust with the girls online over time before traveling from Nebraska to Florida to meet them in person. Even though the girls left willingly, investigators classified the case as an abduction because of their age. That distinction matters and highlights how grooming can distort a child’s sense of safety and choice.
The case is a sobering reminder of how online grooming works and why social gaming platforms deserve closer scrutiny from families.
Investigators say the suspect first contacted the girls through Roblox, showing how social gaming platforms can quietly become communication hubs.(Thomas Fuller/SOPA Images/LightRocket via Getty Images)
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What Roblox and Snapchat really are
To understand how this happened, parents need to understand what these platforms actually do.
Roblox explained for parents and caregivers
Roblox is an online gaming platform where users create digital characters and play games made by other players. It is popular with children and preteens, which is why many parents see it as harmless fun. What often gets overlooked is that Roblox is also a social platform. Kids can chat inside games, send direct messages and sometimes use voice chat. These conversations can happen with people they have never met in real life.
According to investigators, communication in this case began on Roblox as early as the summer of 2025. That long timeline reinforces a key reality about grooming. It is rarely sudden. It is built slowly through repeated contact that starts to feel normal to a child.
Snapchat explained for parents and caregivers
Snapchat is a messaging app widely used by teens and young users. It allows people to send photos, videos and messages that usually disappear after they are viewed. That disappearing feature is a major concern. Once conversations move to Snapchat, messages become private and harder for parents to monitor.
Investigators say communication continued on Snapchat after trust had already been established elsewhere. In many grooming cases, moving from a public or semi-public platform to private messaging is a turning point.
Snapchat does include safety features designed to limit unwanted contact, especially for teens. But those protections are most effective before trust is established elsewhere. Once a child has already bonded with someone on another platform, private messaging apps can accelerate grooming quickly. Snapchat also offers a parental tool called Family Center that provides limited visibility into teen interactions, but many families do not activate it until after a problem arises.
How online grooming typically works
Grooming rarely happens all at once. It is a gradual process built on time, attention and emotional manipulation. It often starts with shared interests and casual conversation. Trust grows slowly. The relationship begins to feel familiar. Then secrecy enters the picture.
Authorities in this case said family members later noticed unusual behavior, including gifts and food deliveries showing up at the house. Investigators described this as part of the grooming process. Unexpected gifts tied to online contacts are a serious red flag, even when they seem harmless. Another common warning sign is secrecy. Requests like do not tell your parents or this is just between us are intentional. They isolate a child and make intervention harder.
Another warning sign is sudden contact from someone outside a child’s normal geographic or social circle, especially when paired with urgency, flattery or offers of gifts.
Why this matters for every family
Technology changes fast. Kids adapt even faster. Parents often assume platforms are watching closely enough to catch problems early. Both Roblox and Snapchat say they are cooperating with law enforcement and have safety measures in place. But cooperation after harm occurs is not the same as prevention before trust is built. Authorities stress that no platform can replace parental vigilance. No system is perfect. The most effective protection is awareness, conversation and involvement.
“We are investigating this deeply troubling incident and will fully support law enforcement,” Matt Kaufman, Roblox’s chief safety officer, told CyberGuy. “Roblox has robust safety policies to protect users that go beyond many other platforms and advanced safeguards that monitor for harmful content and communications.
“We have filters designed to block the sharing of personal information, don’t allow user-to-user image or video sharing and recently rolled out age checks globally to limit kids and teens to chatting with others their age by default. While no system is perfect, our commitment to safety never ends, and we continue to strengthen protections to keep users safe.”
A Snap company spokesperson provided CyberGuy with the following statement:
Law enforcement described the case as an abduction, even though the girls left willingly, highlighting how online grooming can distort a child’s sense of safety.(CyberGuy.com)
“Our hearts go out to the family affected by this tragic incident, and we are grateful to the law enforcement professionals who worked tirelessly in the rescue efforts. The exploitation of children is an abhorrent crime, and we are committed to combating it. We work closely with law enforcement to support their investigations, including during this incident, and to prevent such heinous activity on our platform and help bring criminals to justice.
“While no single safety feature or policy can eliminate every potential threat online or in the world around us, we continuously adapt our strategies as criminals evolve their tactics. We’ve built safeguards, launched safety tutorials, partnered with experts and continue to invest in features and tools that support the safety, privacy and well-being of all Snapchatters.”
What parents can do right now to protect their kids
There are clear steps parents and grandparents can take today. These actions combine common sense conversations with practical tech controls.
1) Lock down chat features
Disable direct messaging and voice chat with strangers. Allow communication only with approved friends. This is one of the most important steps parents can take.
On Roblox:
Open Roblox and log into your child’s account.
Go to Settings and select Privacy.
Set Who can chat with me to Friends or No one.
Set Who can message me to Friends or No one.
Turn off voice chat unless you are actively supervising.
Check these settings regularly. Platform updates can reset defaults.
Turn off Quick Add to reduce contact from strangers.
2) Turn on parental controls and activity reports
Built-in tools help parents spot changes without reading every message. They are designed to provide visibility and early warning signs.
On Roblox:
Open Settings and select Parental Controls.
Create a parent PIN so changes require approval.
Set monthly spending limits.
Review account activity and friend lists together.
On Snapchat:
Enable Family Center from the parent’s Snapchat account.
Add your child to see who they interact with most often.
Watch for new friends added quickly or late at night.
Look for sudden changes in usage patterns.
3) Set a no secrets rule
Make it clear that anyone asking for secrecy online is crossing a line. Kids should feel safe coming to you without fear of punishment.
4) Keep devices out of bedrooms
Shared family spaces reduce risk and increase visibility. Late-night and private screen time often create conditions in which grooming escalates. Law enforcement noted that devices had been removed earlier in the day in this case, a reminder that rules alone are not enough without ongoing conversation and awareness.
5) Talk openly about grooming
Explain that grooming is a slow manipulation that can take weeks or months. When kids understand how it works, they are more likely to recognize red flags.
6) Watch for platform switching
Be alert if conversations suddenly move from a game to another app like Snapchat. That shift is often intentional and deserves immediate attention.
High school students using their smartphones in a hallway(iStock)
7) Trust instincts and act early
If something feels off, pause the account, block the contact and report the behavior. Acting early is always better than waiting.
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Kurt’s key takeaways
This case is a wake-up call. Gaming platforms are no longer just games. They are social spaces where real relationships can form, for better or worse. Parental controls help. Open conversations matter more. Staying involved gives kids the confidence to ask for help before a situation turns dangerous.
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Country superstar Jelly Roll made a rare red carpet appearance with his nine-year-old son Noah on Friday February, 6. A very slim Jelly Roll joined Jennifer Hudson at the LA premiere of GOAT, but it was Noah who was the special guest as he posed with his father.
Noah revealed his bubbly personality, pulling faces alongside his father as Jelly kept a close arm around his son.
Jelly Roll and Noah attend the Los Angeles Premiere of GOAT
Less is known about Jelly Roll’s son Noah, who was born on August 23, 2016 to Jelly and his former partner, Melisa Ann Cowell.
“God Bless this Child to be everything I am not! Noah Buddy DeFord! I pray he nor Bailee ever have to pay for their father’s sins. I’ll post more pics tomorrow”, the country singer announced on Facebook at the time of his birth.
Jelly and his wife, internet personality Bunnie XO, try to respect Noah’s privacy, shooting any social media content “around him”. But in recent years he has been making more public appearances, including in one 2023 video where he revealed his favorite color was red, his hobbies were Pokémon and soccer, and that he wanted a dog and a cat as pets.
Bunnie XO announced afterwards that Noah’s mom had approved the video before she posted it.
Jelly – real name Jason DeFord – is also father to 16-year-old daughter Bailee Ann, whom he has full-time custody.
“With Bailee, I’m the full-time parent, I’m the judge, the jury and the executioner, when it comes to decisions with her,” Jelly Roll explained in Taste of Country of the decision to keep Noah away from the spotlight. “I try not to get in the way of what she [Melisa] is building over there, and I never want to step on her toes, with what she’s doing with him, that I want to just respect that boundary.”
Jelly Roll and Bunnie Xo attend the 68th GRAMMY Awards
Jelly and Bunnie have been open about their desire to have children together, with Bunnie – real name Alyssa – sharing that she has been undergoing IVF treatment, and Jelly admitting that his 300lb weight loss was inspired by their conversations.
“My wife and I are talking about having a baby and it really made me realize, at almost 40, I was like, ‘That means I’ve got to live ’til at least 60. I’ve got to see this kid into college,’” he said on the Bussin’ with the Boys podcast as an explanation for his weight loss.
“My plan was never to be 60. It was to be, like, 55,” he continued, “But now I’m like, ‘Well, I’d like to see my 60s.’ You know what I mean? And that really lit it up.”
Jelly is a judge alongside SMG and Chrissy Teigen on Star Search
Jelly has been spending more time in Los Angeles this year, as he is working alongside Chrissy Teigen and Sarah Michelle Gellar on the rebooted Star Search.
The 2026 Netflix reboot of Star Search is filmed in Studio City with a live studio audience and is hosted by Anthony Anderson.
A man is appealing for advice online after his parents demanded he take on a parental role for his younger sister following a kitchen fire in her college housing.
The 24-year-old man turned to Reddit, as user Magic_Window_8161, to describe a family row over independence, responsibility and expectations about adulthood.
The original poster (OP) works in IT support at the same university his 20-year-old sister, Cleo, attends. She moved three hours away from their parents’ home to live in a house share near campus.
He wrote that their folks asked him to keep close watch over her, fearing riskybehavior, but he resisted acting as a monitor. He checked in occasionally and encouraged their parents to speak to her directly.
Kitchen Fire
That changed after Cleo accidentally caused a kitchen fire while trying to launch a TikTok-based cookiebusiness. She fell asleep with cookies in the oven, leading to firefighters being called.
No one was hurt and the damage was covered by insurance and her deposit. The brother helped her contact the landlord and said the incident deeply upset her.
When their parents learned what happened, they insisted Cleo could no longer live independently and demanded she move in with her brother and his fiancée. The couple is expecting their first child and the OP said taking in his sister would add pressure and would not help her mature.
The argument escalated when his parents said it was his duty as an older sibling. He refused, writing that he would not, “parent my adult sister.”
Responses from fellow Reddit contributors were largely supportive amid 460 comments in eight days.
“She is not your responsibility,” reassured one on behalf of many.
“Yes, the thing with the cookies wasn’t good, but she’s hopefully learned her lesson. You are having a baby and that should be your focus. Not your sister.”
Another supporter called the OP a, “great brother for all you’ve already done to help her. Your parents seem to be helicopter parents and might be part of the reason she’s as irresponsible as she is.
“Adding another grown adult to a house expecting a child is not the answer. Allowing her to either flourish or flounder is the only way your sister will truly grow.”
Identifying Toxic Behavior
Experts who study adult sibling connections often point to the tension that can arise when roles blur later in life.
“Sibling relationships are some of the most important relationships you’ll have,” wrote Ilene Strauss Cohen, Ph.D., in a Psychology Today article about adulthood and family roles.
She noted that shared history and differing views of independence can fuel conflict when expectations are not aligned.
Guidance from mental health professionals also stresses limits when family behavior begins to overreach.
In a Newsweek report on handling difficult relatives, psychologist Chloe Carmichael described toxic behavior as coming from, “someone who clearly shows an extreme amount of disrespect or actual malice towards you, and someone whose level of disrespect and malice towards themselves causes them to disrupt the lives of everybody else around them.”
In this case, the brother wrote that he still cares deeply about Cleo and believes the fire served as a wake-up call rather than proof she cannot live on her own.
His parents remain fearful she will repeat the mistake, while he insists adulthood includes learning from errors without being taken over by family.
Newsweek has reached out to Magic_Window_8161 for comment via Reddit. We could not verify the details of the case.
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Dear Eric: I’ve been good friends with a woman for about five years now; we live abroad. However, I am not and never have been a huge fan of her new husband.
He talks over people or one-ups any statement and simply doesn’t listen. He can’t do turn-taking in conversation. I’ve asked a mutual friend if he is like this in his second language, and she confirmed he is.
He and my husband had a disagreement on a very sensitive topic for my husband, largely caused by this refusal to listen. Now my husband won’t tolerate small groups with him. We don’t have a large friend circle, so small groups are all we have!
Now I rarely see my friend and I always have to come up with an excuse why we can’t accept invitations because I don’t love hanging out with both of them, and my husband hates being relegated to the “boys’ corner” and having to talk to him during any group outing. I’m at a loss.
I really like her; it is hard to find down-to-earth people who are genuine like my friend, but her husband is always around and just so difficult to have fun with. How can I salvage the friendship but ditch her husband?
— Trying to Keep Old Friends
Dear Trying: Alas, you cannot divorce someone else’s husband. So, you may have to recalibrate your expectations regarding your friendship in order to salvage it.
Let’s take the husband’s corner first: it’s not your responsibility to manage your husband’s good time. So, if he’s refusing to go to group outings, let him stay home. These can still be opportunities for you to get in some quality time with your friend at a time when her husband is otherwise engaged.
Also, consider setting up one-on-one friend dates with her. You may not get to see her as often as you want, which can happen in friendships even when the friend’s spouse is a delight. But by being intentional and keeping the focus on creating opportunities for yeses, rather than focusing on what’s not working in this friendship, you may find a happy medium, with fewer interruptions.
Dear Eric: I was in a relationship for 21 years until my ex had a baby on me and I left him. During my relationship with my ex, I would see this guy from time to time, when me and my ex would break up. So, then he and I started dating and eventually we became a couple.
A couple months into the relationship things changed and I noticed that I was a handful to deal with. I didn’t realize how hurt I was about my past until I got into a new relationship and I can admit I saw myself hurting him. He left me and I don’t blame him.
I really worked on myself, my ways and everything that I knew was a problem. After two years we got back together, he noticed the change in me and we got along great.
One day he got sick and had to get admitted into the hospital. I worked the night shift so I would stay at the hospital all day and leave for work at night.
On the third day of this, I called him to tell him I’m on my way and he told me his ex was there. He said, “Look, you’re not here for me like I need you to be.” He said I should have quit my job when he needed me and stayed with him. Since I didn’t, he got back with his ex.
Now am I wrong for first of all wanting to strangle him for coming back into my life just to leave me again the same way, and in your opinion how do I move on from this hurt? I don’t want to hurt my next partner if I decide to get into a relationship, but I also don’t want to keep getting hurt either.
— Ready to Move On
Dear Ready: I’m really sorry you experienced this. Your most recent ex had unrealistic expectations of you. It sounds like this relationship didn’t have the most rock-solid of foundations from the get-go, so I’d refrain from strangling him and just consider the relationship a step on your journey, one you needn’t return to.
To move on, first focus on yourself. Be honest about what you needed from previous relationships and what you could and couldn’t give. Make a list of what you’d like in your next relationship. These don’t have to be requirements, but they can be goals. And then when you meet someone new, share with him honestly about where you are emotionally, where you’ve been, and what you hope to build together. Communication is key.
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Worried about your child’s screen habits? Clinical neurophysiologist and author Dr Javier Albares has taken a deep dive into scientific research to highlight the serious impact that excessive screen time has on the sleep, development and well-being of children and adolescents.
This pressing issue in our increasingly digital world is a worrying reality for specialists and families alike, and the expert warns that screens are “over-stimulating” young people.
“The impact is incredibly broad,” says Dr Albares. “It contributes to sedentary lifestyles, higher cardiovascular and metabolic risks and a greater risk of obesity.
By age 12, many children are averaging four to five hours a day looking at a screen
“More time on a device means fewer hours of rest,” he explains. “For children and adolescents whose brains are still developing, sleep is a non-negotiable pillar of health.”
In your book Zombie Generation, you suggest screens can actually “slow down” cognitive development. Is there a safe limit for children and teenagers?
“Medical organisations generally recommend zero screen time for children under six. Between the ages of six and 12, the limit should be one hour a day. From 12 to 16, we suggest no more than an hour and a half to two hours.
“Data shows that in families with a firm bedtime, the risk of depression in children drops by 25 per cent”
Clinical neurophysiologist Dr Javier Albares
“The reality, however, is miles away from this. We see babies being given screens well before they are two years old. By age 12, many children are averaging four to five hours a day. One psychologist recently weighed in on how the gap between recommendations and reality has become truly alarming.”
You are critical of tech companies for claiming today’s youth have evolved into “Homo Digitalis”. How can families fight back?
“Families need to understand that tech marketing – the idea that these tools make children smarter – is simply not true. Studies show that the more time children spend on screens, the lower their cognitive development and attention span.
“Digitalisation doesn’t automatically equal learning. We families to unite and demand the protection of our children’s health. It is also vital that we monitor what our kids are doing online and ensure tech companies are held to account.”
‘If science shows that screens are damaging physical growth, mental health and empathy, then we have a duty to pass protective laws,’ says the expert
Do you believe we need large-scale laws to protect children from the digital world?
“Absolutely. The law must protect children just as it does with alcohol. If science shows that screens are damaging physical growth, mental health and empathy, then we have a duty to pass protective laws. It’s also worth looking at what really happens to the body when other unhealthy habits, like poor diet and sedentary behaviour, are combined with constant screen use.”
Young people are sleeping less and worse than ever. Can we turn this around?
“Yes, we can. It requires a shift in our social schedules, but we can also take action at home. For example, screens should be completely off-limits after dinner. That alone would give back a significant amount of sleep.
“Parents have to set firm boundaries. Data shows that in families with a firm bedtime, the risk of depression in children drops by 25 per cent. Setting a bedtime isn’t just a rule; it’s a parental duty. You can start with simple changes and tips to help get children to sleep more naturally.”
Not every child or adolescent belongs to the ‘Zombie Generation’ yet, but the warning signs are there
What happens if young people simply join the digital world when they’re a bit older?
“There is no downside to waiting. In fact, it’s the opposite. It means they won’t have ‘lost’ their childhood. Childhood only happens once, and every hour spent in front of a screen is an hour stolen from something else – like exercise, traditional play, music, reading or simply hanging out with friends. They miss out on quality family time and, of course, sleep. Delaying access to screens allows for healthy brain development through real-world interaction.”
Can young digital natives ever stop being the ‘Zombie Generation’?
“Of course. Not every child belongs to the ‘Zombie Generation’ yet, but the warning signs are there… We can’t just look the other way… It’s about integrating healthier routines that benefit the whole family. Many families have already written to me saying that by distancing themselves from screens, their children are happier, resting better and growing up in a much healthier environment.”
About the expert
Dr Javier Albares is a clinical neurophysiologist and a member of both the Spanish Sleep Society (SES) and the European Sleep Research Society. In his Spanish-language book, Generación Zombi (Zombie Generation), he uses scientific research to highlight the serious impact that excessive screen time has on the sleep, development and well-being of children and adolescents.
A new mom found an adorable way to keep her neighbors up to date on the arrival of her baby via the door cam—and the footage has melted hearts across the internet.
Emma-Kate Townsend, 22, welcomed her son, Cooper, on December 14, 2025, when he was born five weeks early. There were also some false alarms which meant Townsend and her husband had to rush to the hospital to be sure. Every time they left and returned, it was caught on the neighbor’s door camera, so Townsend couldn’t resist giving them updates.
Townsend, who resides in Georgia, explained to Newsweek that she’d never met her neighbors (despite living there for 10 months) but she came up with the idea to speak to them through the door cam “as a joke.” She presumed the neighbors would never see the footage, but to her amazement, they saw each and every one of her messages.
“We hadn’t met them before as our paths never crossed, but on Christmas Eve we came home to a pleasant surprise: a gift basket at our door,” Townsend said. “It included a note, baby lotion and wash, swaddle, Nello super calm drink mix, hair claw clips, a $25 DoorDash card and a $25 Starbucks card. I jumped in excitement reading their card which said, ‘thank you for letting us be a part of your journey, the small clips made our day!’ It was incredibly kind of them.”
The neighbors were so excited for Townsend and her husband, and they gladly shared the door cam footage with the couple. The clips show the expectant couple coming home from the hospital after a false alarm, leaving again before Cooper was born, and of course, arriving home with their bundle of joy.
Townsend was overjoyed when she watched the footage which marked such an important chapter of her life. She shared the clips on TikTok (@ek.townsend) in January and the video has gone viral with over 363,300 views and more than 68,300 likes at the time of writing.
“What started as a joke has turned into something I will cherish forever. Our neighbors were so excited for us and told us that our baby is already so loved already. That comment meant the world to me especially coming from our neighbors we had never met yet,” Townsend said.
The online reaction to the video is beyond anything Townsend expected. She has loved hearing from so many people around the world and feels so much support from everyone who has reached out.
Townsend is adjusting well to motherhood and loves being Cooper’s mom, telling Newsweek that she feels “blessed every day.”
She said: “Motherhood is everything I have ever dreamed of. I am just so grateful for our neighbors, family, and the support from everyone online. It’s been really special to see so much positivity come from sharing clips of such meaningful moments.”
Many TikTok users took to the comments to praise the adorable door cam footage. One person wrote: “this is so precious.”
Another comment reads: “THIS IS SO SWEET. ‘False alarm again’ made me laugh though.”
While one TikTok user replied: “Love this and your sweet neighbors!”
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YouTube is rolling out new parental controls designed to give families more say over how much time teens spend scrolling through Shorts.
Parents can now set daily time limits or block Shorts entirely, depending on what works best for their household. The update comes as concerns grow around endless scrolling and its impact on teens.
YouTube says these tools are meant to support healthier viewing habits while still allowing young users to enjoy the platform in a more balanced way.
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Why YouTube is focusing on Shorts
Parents can now set a daily time limit for YouTube Shorts, including an option to block Shorts entirely. (AP Photo/Lai Seng Sin, File)
Short-form video has become one of the most addictive parts of social media, especially for teens. The constant scroll can make it hard to stop watching, even when kids are supposed to be studying or winding down for bed. YouTube says the new controls respond to feedback from parents, advocates, and lawmakers who want stronger safeguards for young users. The goal is to give families flexibility instead of forcing an all-or-nothing approach.
What parents can now control on YouTube
If you supervise a teen’s Google account, you can now:
Set a daily time limit for YouTube Shorts
Block Shorts entirely by setting the limit to zero minutes
Turn on bedtime reminders
Enable take-a-break alerts
Manage supervised teen accounts across multiple devices
YouTube also says it is adjusting how content is recommended to teens, placing more emphasis on videos tied to curiosity, life skills, inspiration, and credible information that supports well-being.
How parents limit or block YouTube Shorts for teens
Before you start, make sure:
Your teen is using a supervised Google account
You have access to Google Family Link
Your teen is signed into YouTube on their device with that supervised account
Step-by-step instructions
Open the Google Family Link app on your phone or tablet (iPhone or Android).
Tap your teen’s profile.
Tap Controls, then select YouTube.If YouTube does not appear, confirm the account is set up as supervised.
If YouTube does not appear, confirm the account is set up as supervised.
Tap Screen time or Shorts settings.
Find the option labeled Shorts daily limit.
Choose how much time your teen can scroll Shorts each day:Set a time limit to allow limited scrollingSet the limit to zero minutes to block Shorts entirely
Set a time limit to allow limited scrolling
Set the limit to zero minutes to block Shorts entirely
In the same section, turn on:Take a break remindersBedtime reminders
YouTube’s supervised account settings let parents choose age-appropriate content and manage how teens experience the platform.(StockPlanets/Getty Images)
What happens when your teen reaches the Shorts limit
Once the daily limit is reached:
The Shorts feed locks
A message explains that the daily limit has been reached
Shorts unlock automatically the next day
Regular, long-form YouTube videos remain available unless you restrict them separately through screen-time controls.
Important things parents should know
Teens cannot change or bypass Shorts limits on their own
Limits apply across all devices signed into the supervised account
Shorts controls are separate from overall YouTube screen-time limits
Blocking Shorts does not block standard YouTube videos
Other parental tools worth checking
Beyond Shorts, parents can also:
Turn off autoplay
Review watch and search history
Adjust content recommendations
Pause YouTube during homework or sleep hours
These options are managed through Google Family Link, with guidance and account setup available in YouTube’s Family Center.
What this means to you
If you are a parent or guardian, these controls give you more practical ways to manage screen time without banning YouTube entirely. You can limit Shorts during school nights, allow more time on long trips, or block them when focus matters most. Instead of relying on willpower alone, families now have built-in tools that help reinforce healthy habits.
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Kurt’s key takeaways
Short-form video is not going away, but the way teens interact with it can change. YouTube’s new parental controls show a shift toward giving families more flexibility and clearer boundaries. Used alongside conversations about online habits, these tools can make a real difference. Oh, and be sure to check out my new “Beyond Connected” podcast on YouTube.
YouTube says these new parental controls are designed to reduce endless scrolling and support healthier viewing habits for teens.(Kurt “CyberGuy” Knutsson)
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Dear Eric: I’m in my early 30s and seeing a really great guy. He checks a lot of boxes for me and I’m happy with him. My boyfriend and I said “I love you” to each other a few weeks ago. He said it first, and I said it back. We’ve been dating for about six weeks, so this feels normal. This isn’t my first relationship, but it’s moving more slowly than my other relationships have in the past. I’m OK with that for the most part.
But he won’t ask me to be his girlfriend. We’ve talked about it and he’ll say things like, “that’s definitely where we’re heading.” But that’s it. I’m getting frustrated about it. What can I do?
— Not the Girlfriend
Dear Girlfriend: You can ask him to be your boyfriend. Or, if you don’t want to be that direct, you can tell him that you are interested in taking the relationship to the next level and you want to know what he’s interested in.
If he feels you’re heading toward a committed relationship, it’s fair to ask questions like, how long is this road to a relationship? Are there any obstacles that you see? How fast are we traveling? Is it possible to step on the gas pedal?
Your relationship belongs to both of you, so don’t be afraid to ask for what you want or need. And don’t be afraid to tell him when something isn’t working for you. Love is communication. It’s not just saying “I love you,” it’s also saying “let’s talk about this” and “can you help me understand” and “wow, this one thing is not working for me but this thing between us definitely does work for me and so I’m excited to figure out how to work it all out together with you.”
Dear Eric: I have a loving and attentive husband, two adult children who stay in touch, lots of relatives (many of whom live near me and with whom I have monthly contact.) I am in my late 70s and know well enough that travel, hobbies, classes, causes, work and helping others are ways to get connected. I do these things, but they do not satisfy me.
Most of my closer friends have died or moved away, and I don’t see that attrition changing. I long to have a few close friends that I can call or visit to share daily chitchat and deeper communication. Instead, I have to do all the reaching out, and do not feel that my efforts are returned.
I am aware of “all the lonely people” around me. But I am most aware of my own loneliness. It is profound and raw and unabated.
What is wrong with me? What can I do about this? I think I am caring and considerate, and show interest in others. Why do I not have any close friends at this stage of my life, after being committed to my family and community for so many decades?
— In Search of Connection
Dear Connection: Sometimes when I get into a tough place emotionally, I ask myself “what is real and what do I feel?” Often, the Venn diagram of the two is one solid circle. At other times, there’s some distance. The distance doesn’t make either less valid. Feelings aren’t facts, but it is a fact that I feel and it’s important to honor that. However, feelings and facts often have different remedies.
In your letter, the facts are that you’ve experienced profound loss of some of your foundational connections. This is a part of life, but it doesn’t mean that it doesn’t hurt. It also doesn’t mean that you won’t grieve these friendships and all the things they brought into your life. It’s possible that your grief process is making it even harder to feel connected to the loving husband you mentioned, or your hobbies or your other family members.
So, one thing you can do is talk to a therapist about what has happened and how you feel about it. Sometimes the remedy to loneliness is signing up for a class or introducing oneself to a stranger. But at other times, the remedy comes from deeper, slower internal work with a professional. I encourage you to see if that feels right for you.
This work can also help you figure out what parts of this stage of your life need to be accepted, and what can be pushed back on and changed.
Your first question was “what is wrong with me?” Although I don’t know you, I know that you’re not alone in feeling this way. And it’s highly unlikely that you’re to blame for your loneliness. Unfortunately, it’s not an easy fix, but by reaching out and processing what you’re feeling, you can experience a change.
(Send questions to R. Eric Thomas at eric@askingeric.com or P.O. Box 22474, Philadelphia, PA 19110. Follow him on Instagram and sign up for his weekly newsletter at rericthomas.com.)
Nicola Peltz Beckham and her husband, Brooklyn, are one of the most openly doting couples in the spotlight, known for their frequent public displays of affection.
In fact, it seems like the entrepreneur has made it clear exactly what he would like in his relationship with Nicola in a 2022 interview with The Times.
After gushing about how much she adores Harper, Brooklyn’s younger sister, and explaining how she “wanted a little sister so bad,” the actress pivoted to her and Brooklyn’s plans to have children of their own.
She told the publication: “He wants kids yesterday,” adding that she wanted to wait “a couple of years”. Nicola added: “We definitely want a big family. He has three siblings, and I have seven.”
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When asked if she is seriously thinking about having eight children, the 31-year-old elaborated: “It’s a lot, but… I don’t know. We want to adopt some kids and have some of our own. That would be the dream.”
The aspiration isn’t that surprising, given that the pair both come from very large families, but a family-of-ten isn’t an easy one to manage!
Nicola Peltz’s family – including famous brother
We all know the Beckhams, but what about Nicola’s billionaire family, the Peltzs? Her parents are Nelson, a businessman with a net worth of $1.6 billion USD, and Claudia, a former fashion model who keeps mostly out of the spotlight.
Staying out of the spotlight, Nicola’s eldest brother, Matthew, is a businessman like his father, with a degree from Yale University, and works for his father’s investment firm, Trian Fund Management. He is also the non-executive vice chairman of Wendy’s.
Brooklyn Peltz Beckham, Will Peltz and Nicola Peltz Beckham at the Cloud23 Launch Party
Will is the only one of Nicola’s siblings who has followed in the same career path as her: he is a model and actor, starring in projects such as Unfriended, and Men, Women and Children. Her other older brother, Brad, 36, is a retired ice hockey player, who was drafted by the Ottawa Senators in 2009 and played for Yale University before founding his own healthcare tech company.
Brittany, Nicola’s only sister, is also creative, having attended New York University’s Tisch School of the Arts and later founding her own interior design studio, Sena Lifestyle Studio. Meanwhile, Zachary and Gregory, her younger twin brothers, are both ice hockey players. The two both attend the University of Miami Herbert Business School and keep a low profile.
Grimeshas made a rare comment about the kids she shares with Elon Musk and given a glimpse into their coparenting dynamic.
Taking to X on Thursday, January 22, Grimes (real name Claire Elise Boucher) gushed about her kids, without naming them. (Grimes and Musk share three children, sons X Æ A-Xii, 5, and Techno Mechanicus, 3, as well as daughter Exa Dark Sideræl, 4.)
“I try to never talk [about] or show my kids because they deserve the right to anonymity but i just have to say their pure aura is unmatched,” Grimes, 37, wrote via the social media platform. “One of them even inexplicably commanded a flock of crows for [a] while. Might be biased but this seems unusual.”
As well as replying “agree” when one of her followers suggested that “using kids for clout is sh**y af,” Grimes offered a small insight on how her parenting opinions differ to that of her ex, Musk, 54, when another X user asked if her kids ever “get screen time.”
Elon Musk and Grimes are the first to admit their relationship was unique. “There’s no real word for it,” Grimes (born Claire Elise Boucher) told Vanity Fair in March 2022. “I would probably refer to him as my boyfriend, but we’re very fluid. We live in separate houses. We’re best friends. We see each other […]
“Huge debate cuz the other parent is fine w it but it’s fairly avoided,” she responded, without referring to Musk or their children by name. “If it happens we focus on great art and ideally slower stuff like ghibli that isn’t constantly changing context.”
While she doesn’t often speak about the former couple’s children publicly, Grimes has previously noted that she has attempted to convince the Tesla billionaire not to allow their children to be in the public eye more than is necessary.
“I unfortunately do not control the internet and cannot wipe this from the internet. I have tried begging the public and my kids’ dad to keep them offline, and I’ve tried legal recourse,” Grimes wrote via X at the time, referencing a comment about attempting to protect her children from false online narratives. “I’ve seen young ppl destroyed by the internet too.”
She added, “The state of my children’s lives being public is of grave concern to me and I think about how to solve this every day. It’s insane to me that there’s no way to deal with this.”
Grimes and Musk began dating in 2018 before eventually calling time on their relationship, with the singer officially confirming the pair’s split in March 2022.
Grimes is suing former partner Elon Musk over parental rights of their three children. Grimes, 35, (real name Claire Boucher) filed a “petition to establish parental relationship” on September 29 in the Superior Court of Francisco, according to court records obtained by Us Weekly. While the documents are sealed, a petition to determine parental relationship can […]
After the birth of their first child, Musk shared his thoughts on fatherhood during an interview with The New York Times in July 2020.
“Well, babies are just eating and pooping machines, you know?” he told the outlet. “Right now there’s not much I can do. Grimes has a much bigger role than me right now. … When the kid gets older, there will be more of a role for me.”
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For her part, Grimes got candid about the type of parent she hoped to be when speaking to Wired three years later.
”I really care about having a very good relationship with my kids,” she told Wired in August 2023. “I think I understand how to be a good parent to them. Both enforcing discipline and being their friend. Who knows, maybe they’ll resent me and reject family culture, but I feel like they will not.”
Including his kids with Grimes, Musk has 14 children in total. He welcomed six kids with his ex-wife, Justine Musk and four with technology executive Shivon Zillis. In March 2025, author Ashley St. Clair announced she had secretly given birth to Musk’s child five months prior.
Taking to Instagram on 17 January, the 32-year-old announced the baby’s birth, alongside the caption: “Alanis Valentine”, and both Perrie and her older son Axel can be seen holding little Alanis.
In her comments section, friends and fans inundated her with support, including her beloved bandmate Leigh-Anne Pinnock, who penned: “Perfect little angel’, and Girls Aloud‘s Kimberly Walsh, who added: “The best news so happy for you all”.
The couple first announced Perrie’s pregnancy in September 2025, by sharing a video of their four-year-old son Axel kissing his mother’s baby bump to their social media pages. She shared the news just weeks after revealing, during an appearance on Paul C Brunson’s We Need To Talk podcast, that she had suffered two miscarriages.
The Little Mix member explained that the experience had meant that she was “on edge” while expecting Axel, but once she made it past 12 weeks it became special to her: “When I was pregnant with him, I loved being pregnant, it was one of the happiest times of my life. I just love carrying babies.
“It was lovely, but I was a bit on edge thinking, ‘Oh gosh, I want to get past the 12 weeks, I want to get past this’. And when I did, that pregnancy was complete bliss, it was perfect.”
Perrie and Alex’s unique living situation
In a somewhat unusual arrangement for a couple who have been together for more than eight years, Perrie and her fiancé have never lived together.
During an appearance on The Jonathan Ross Show in 2024, she revealed: “When he was playing for Liverpool and based in Manchester, it was so easy to do the back and forth but Turkey is a little bit further and he doesn’t get a lot of time off.”
“We’ve never lived together, the eight years we’ve been in a relationship, we’ve never actually lived together,” the ‘Touch’ singer elaborated. “We’re very laid back and very chilled.”
However, that doesn’t mean that things can’t get a little hectic from time to time! Speaking exclusively to HELLO! just before the Capital Summertime Ball in 2024, she told us: “There’s a lot going on today,” referring to the fact that her football partner was playing in the Euros, which had just begun to kick off at the time.
“You know the beginning of Home Alone when everyone’s whizzing around and they forget Kevin? That’s how I felt this morning,” Perrie joked.
However, she did also share with us that Alex and their son Axel were in the crowd at Wembley Stadium there to cheer her on for the big show, adding: “Everything’s chaos but in the best way. And they’re all out there watching now.”
Dear Eric: I have been taking dance classes from the same instructor for years. There are a number of us students who would like to see more technique, as opposed (or in addition) to more steps, taught as some dance styles rely heavily on technique (West Coast Swing is an example).
We really enjoy the classes and the instructor’s commitment to providing lessons to anyone, regardless of their ability/level. Since I’ve never taught dance classes before, I don’t know if things work better keeping everything “simpler”, so to speak, or if they might be misjudging the capabilities of their students?
It’s tricky to bring this up as we don’t want to criticize their teaching style, but we also want to feel that we, and the other students, are getting some of the important techniques that are sometimes lacking.
— Movin’ and Groovin’
Dear Movin’: The question “how can I learn more about this?” is such a wonderful invitation and could, in your case, open the door to a more advanced class or additional technique lessons. I imagine that your dance instructor has a passion for the form. Many teachers do. So, try to have a conversation rooted in your shared enthusiasm. This will likely sound less like a critique and more like what it is: a desire to know more and to participate more fully.
Dear Eric: I have a neighbor who seems really interested in being friends with me. She always speaks when I pass by, sends holiday cards, et cetera. We’ve talked about getting together for a meal or something but didn’t get much past the talk.
I don’t have anything against her. She seems nice enough. But when I moved in another neighbor told me to avoid her since she’s a liar.
I don’t go in much for drama and gossip, so I haven’t asked for any more information. But I trust this other neighbor. (We were actually friendly before I moved into the neighborhood.)
Mostly, I just want to be left alone.
Do you think I should try to avoid the liar neighbor or what?
— Good Fences
Dear Fences: I’m no judge but there seems to be a lot of hearsay happening here. The neighbor who gave you the warning was vague in a way that perhaps suggests discretion, but in reality, only muddies the waters. Either say something helpful (and objectively true) or say nothing at all. But a blanket warning hews too close to gossip for my taste.
If you want to be friends with this other neighbor, trust your judgment and proceed with caution, just as you would with anyone else.
However, if you’re fine with an occasional hello and a holiday card, it doesn’t need to go beyond that. Sometimes the best neighborly relationships are the ones where everyone stays in their respective yards. There’s nothing wrong with that.
Dear Eric: “Contact with No Contact” wrote about a brother-in-law who had suddenly gone no contact and wondered how to navigate an upcoming wedding where the in-law would be. The letter writer wrote, “ I have developed close relationships with others in the extended family but dread dealing with these relatives again.”
This struck a chord with me.
When my sister-in-law told me she never wanted to speak to me again, I was relieved. Having made a diligent effort to mend the broken fence “of the moment” and being unequivocally rejected, I no longer had to chase a friendship that would never materialize.
But we are still relatives and therefore see each other at family gatherings. Internally, I pretend that I am meeting them for the first time. Every. Single. Time. Whether they snub me or not, either way, it doesn’t matter. I go to these events, and I enjoy them for what they are, and live in those moments without imprinting the scars of this failed relationship over those events.
— Bitter But Better
Dear Better: I think you’re making an interesting point here that may be helpful to others. We can’t erase the past and, for many, pretending to be meeting for the first time won’t do much to ease the pain of a severed relationship. But what I see in your letter is that you’re choosing a mindset.
You’ve accepted that the relationship with your sister-in-law has fractured and yet you’re still in each other’s lives. Instead of relitigating the fracture every time you see her, you’re living in the present. I think that’s something that we can all try on for size.
We don’t always get the past that we want. And we don’t always get the present that we want, either. But by accepting those things as facts, we can start to see what’s possible and perhaps let go of expectations that just dredge up old hurts.
(Send questions to R. Eric Thomas at eric@askingeric.com or P.O. Box 22474, Philadelphia, PA 19110. Follow him on Instagram and sign up for his weekly newsletter at rericthomas.com.)
Nicole Richie and Joel Madden are now the proud parents of an adult. The pair rang in their daughter’s 18th birthday on January 12 with an emotional tribute on Instagram.
Nicole posted a series of photos of their oldest child through the years along with a short message that revealed Harlow no longer goes by her first name.
“18 years of you @katemaddennn,” Nicole wrote, to which Joel commented: “That’s my girl,” and his twin brother, Benji Madden, added: “How to make a grown man cry!! love you Kate! You’re a bad ass! Never forget it! Happy 18!!”
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Nicole cradles her newborn baby
Born as Harlow
Fans were quick to notice Harlow’s new identity and asked why she was now going by the name Kate.
Her full moniker is Harlow Winter Kate Madden, and the couple explained why they liked the name in an interview with People in 2008.
“I wanted a hippie name and he wanted a more biblical name,” she told the outlet, and explained her husband is a fan of actress Jean Harlow while she liked the model Shalom Harlow.
The Good Charlotte rocker added: “Harlow’s cool because it feels like a classic name.”
She shared several throwbacks for her daughter’s birthday
She has four names
Winter was picked due to the “serene” nature of the season, and while Nicole always liked Kate, she previously confessed: “I knew I’d never name my kid that because it was just too plain.”
Still, it appears Harlow prefers Kate over her birth name and her family have accepted the change.
Joel has a close bond with his daughter
‘That’s my girl’
Nicole and Benji are also parents to their son, Sparrow, 16, and despite their fame, they’ve managed to raise their kids mostly out of the spotlight.
Speaking recently about what it is like to be a mom to teenagers, Nicole told People: “I’m seeing my kids at an age where I remember everything from that age, so they’ll be telling me stories of whatever the comings and goings of them and their friends, and it sounds exactly like what I was going through senior year.
The Madden-Richie family have only made a handful of public appearances together over the years, but in April 2024, they they stepped out for the premiere of Don’t Tell Mom the Babysitter’s Dead, alongside Nicole’s dad, Lionel Richie, his girlfriend Lisa Parigi, and his ex-wife Brenda Harvey-Richie, Nicole’s adoptive mom.
Nicole starred on the Simple Life with Paris Hilton
Being honest
Nicole has come a long way since her wilder days when she starred alongside Paris Hilton on the reality TV show, The Simple Life.
But she’s been open with her children about her antics growing up.
They look a lot alike
Mini-me
“They know everything I did,” she admitted. “I knew before I had them that I was going to have to be transparent with them about who I was. And I’ve actually found freedom in that. I didn’t want my kids having some big discovery about me.
“I’ve always been very open and honest with my kids and hope that they are open and honest with me.”
Dear Eric: I’m 61, widowed, and still work full time as a registered nurse in a very busy hospice house.
I lost my husband four years ago, and since then went through a medical scare twice, diagnosed with cirrhosis, sleep apnea and chronic anxiety, have bought and sold two homes, purchased a new car and created significant credit card debt twice.
When I retire, I won’t be able to afford my house, so I will need to move (again). I understand and admit these poor financial decisions were possibly my way of dealing with grief, but now I am at a crossroads where I have an opportunity to retire next year and finally be able to decide how and where I spend my time.
You see, during my 36 years of marriage, we moved 13 times. I really don’t have roots.
My problem is that I don’t know where to land during my retirement years. How do I go about figuring this out? Because of my medical issues, sometimes I need help and probably should live near my family. But who? I can’t wrap my head around this. But I need to decide soon because I will need to move when I sell my current home next summer.
I think I’m afraid to make another financial mistake. I also fear that this decision will be somehow final. What are your thoughts?
— The Next Move
Dear Move: The first thing you’ll want to do is talk to a financial adviser, who can review your assets and debts and give you a concrete plan that will keep you financially solvent and help you get some peace of mind. Medical issues and money woes can create a fog of anxiety that obscures the path forward. It’s hard to make wise decisions or to feel confident you haven’t made a mistake.
If you don’t know where to look for a financial adviser, ask friends or relatives if they work with someone they trust, or reach out to the National Association of Professional Financial Advisors (napfa.org). Your local senior center or public library will also likely have financial counseling resources available.
Also, talk to your family members about the upcoming decision and the options you’re weighing. They’ll be able to give you insight about the places they live, and their capacity for showing up for you when needed. This will give you a sense of what your post-retirement life can look like and give you better information to help you make your decision. Talk to your doctors, as well. If there’s specialized care you need, they’ll be able to advise you on how to connect with it in other areas.
Lastly, talk to friends in retirement communities about their experiences. You may find that one of those is an attractive and affordable option.
You don’t have to make these decisions on your own; indeed, it’s wiser not to. Keep asking for more information until you feel more surefooted. I understand that perhaps you feel that you’re backed into a corner right now. But I want to assure you that you can find a next chapter that brings you happiness and gives you a sense of freedom.
Dear Eric: This is in reference to the letter about giving gifts to adults from “Feeling Bah-humbug” who wrote: “My significant other and I are at the stage in life where we really do not need more ‘stuff’ and would rather not deal with gifts that are generic at best and usually are re-gifted promptly via donation or gift-economy communities.”
We had the same problem. Solved it! Instead of buying gifts, we determined a monetary amount we probably would spend on a gift. We picked $50. Could be any amount.
Every year one person was in charge of collecting the money from everyone. That person donated that amount to their favorite charity. Next year, the next person collected the money and donated it to their favorite charity. Worked great!
— Regifting
Dear Regifting: What I love most about this solution, in addition to giving a meaningful pot of money to a charity, is that it gives your family the chance to learn about each other through what causes you care about.
I’d even suggest that the person who is in charge of collecting the money send out a card or letter explaining what the charity does, why that work is personally meaningful, and how the money will impact the work. It’s an added step, but one of the aims of giving and receiving gifts is that it helps us feel closer to those that we love.
Hearing about the good that someone is trying to advance in the world helps us to know them in a deeper way. Thanks for your suggestion. It’s something I’m going to try next year.
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Mysterious Girl singer Peter Andre and his wife Emily, who is a doctor, share three children – and their eldest, Millie, turned 12 on Wednesday! To celebrate the pre-teen’s birthday, mother Emily shared a sweet Instagram post, gushing over her “incredible girl” and along with her heartfelt words, she also shared previously unseen snaps, revealing how much Millie is just like her mum.
The images were a selection of Millie through the years, including more recent ones in her school uniform. Whilst Emily and Peter choose to obscure their children’s faces with emojis online, what can be seen clearly is Millie’s princess-length locks – just like Emily’s! In one image, Peter’s daughter had her hair plaited and another she wore it half-up, half-down on holiday, and it is incredibly long, falling below her waist.
Emily captioned the collection of photos: “Happy 12th birthday to our incredible girl Millie. Starting secondary school and taking it all in your stride, taking every opportunity you can and smashing it out of the park! We are so proud of everything you’re achieving and the kind, confident young person you’re becoming. A wonderful big sister, little sister, daughter, friend, niece, cousin… and so much more. We couldn’t be prouder. Happy birthday Mills.”
Many of Peter and Emily’s fans added birthday wishes in the comments, and a familiar face also added their own message. “How is my sis so grown,” Peter’s eldest daughter, Princess, from marriage to Katie Price, commented on the post.
Emily and Peter don’t share the faces of their three children online, aside from the now-infamous Loose Women mishap, where Peter accidentally showed his son Theo’s face. But it is a movement we are more commonly seeing among high-profile parents, choosing to keep their children anonymous.
In the past, Peter has been forced to address the decision when fans have quizzed him on why. “Emily’s point is that they weren’t born into the media,” he shared. “No one has ever seen their faces, so she doesn’t want anyone to see their faces, so that when they go to school no one can recognise them.” He continued: “Obviously with J and P, from day one we were documenting our lives, and they were part of that, so I think that they’ve always been in the media. I’ve got to respect Emily for that, she hasn’t done it and she says that once you do cross that there’s no going back, so I’m like, ‘Ok, no problem.’”
Speaking about her parenting to us in an exclusive chat last summer, Emily said that she is “very, very strict on the kids” when it comes to the internet and social media, saying that Millie is allowed her phone for one hour on a Saturday and one hour on a Sunday, with no access to any social media.
Preparing for the arrival of a new baby is one of life’s most exhilarating and, let’s be honest, overwhelming experiences. The excitement is palpable, but so is the ever-growing to-do list. From the tiniest sleepsuits to the most crucial safety equipment, the world of baby products can feel like a vast, uncharted territory.
For new and expecting parents, the goal isn’t just to buy things; it’s to create a safe, comfortable, and nurturing environment for your little one. This is where finding a reliable, comprehensive, and supportive retailer becomes not just a convenience, but a cornerstone of your preparation journey.
Navigating this new landscape requires a blend of practical knowledge and trusted resources. You want quality you can depend on, advice you can trust, and a selection that saves you from endlessly hopping between different stores and websites. Whether you’re nesting in the heart of the UK or raising your family elsewhere, the principles of what makes a great baby supplier remain the same. It’s about finding a partner who understands the needs of a growing family.
In this guide, we’ll walk you through the essential categories of baby equipment and explore the key qualities that define a truly exceptional baby shop, using a leading Baby Shop Switzerland – Baby Products & Equipment Online as a great example of what to look for.
The baby essentials checklist for welcoming your newborn
Before you dive into specific brands and models, it’s helpful to have a clear checklist of what you’ll need. This helps to structure your shopping and ensures no crucial items are forgotten in the whirlwind of preparation. Think of it as a roadmap for your baby’s first year, covering everything from sleeping and feeding to travel and playtime.
The nursery is often the first project. This is your baby’s sanctuary, a space for peaceful sleep and gentle awakenings. Key items include a safe and sturdy cot or bassinet, a firm mattress that fits snugly, and a changing table or mat that’s at a comfortable height for you. Don’t forget storage solutions for all those tiny clothes and baby essentials, as well as blackout blinds to help with daytime naps.
For travel and getting out and about, a reliable car seat that meets the latest safety standards is non-negotiable. Alongside this, you’ll need a pram or stroller that suits your lifestyle, be it navigating city streets or country paths. And of course, a functional and stylish diaper bag is an absolute must-have for carrying everything from nappies and wipes to spare clothes and feeding supplies.
Feeding essentials will vary depending on whether you plan to breastfeed, bottle-feed, or do a combination of both. This category can include a breast pump, sterilising equipment, bottles, and a comfortable nursing chair for those late-night feeds.
For clothing, focus on soft, breathable fabrics like cotton. You’ll need a good supply of sleepsuits, vests, hats, and scratch mittens. Finally, for bath time and care, you’ll need a baby bath or support, soft towels, a gentle baby wash, and a baby-safe nail care set.
Having these items organised and ready will bring a sense of calm and control as your due date approaches.
Choosing your partner in parenthood: what defines a great baby store?
With your checklist in hand, the next step is deciding where to shop. The right retailer can transform a stressful task into an enjoyable experience. A top-tier baby store is more than just a place that sells products; it’s a resource hub that offers expertise, reliability, and peace of mind.
When evaluating your options, there are several key characteristics to look for, many of which are exemplified by the best-in-class retailers like a premier Baby Shop Switzerland – Baby Products & Equipment Online. These stores set a high standard for customer experience and product quality, providing a valuable benchmark for parents everywhere.
First and foremost is the breadth and quality of the product selection. A store that offers a vast range of items, from prams and car seats to furniture and toys, can save you precious time and energy. Look for retailers that stock reputable brands known for their commitment to safety and innovation, such as STOKKE, Cybex, or Maxi-Cosi. Having access to over 60,000 products in one place, as some leading European shops do, means you can compare different options and find the perfect fit for your family’s needs and budget without compromise.
Beyond the products themselves, the service and logistics are what truly set a great store apart. In today’s fast-paced world, quick and reliable delivery is essential. A promise of 24-hour dispatch and free shipping over a certain threshold shows a commitment to customer convenience. Furthermore, excellent customer service is non-negotiable. The best retailers offer personal, expert advice, whether it’s through a detailed website, a responsive online chat, or even in-person consultations at physical showrooms. The ability to speak with a knowledgeable professional can be invaluable when you’re making significant purchases like a car seat. Finally, look for flexible and secure payment options and a fair return policy (such as a 30-day window), which provides the confidence and security you need when making these important investments for your family.
The ‘Big Three’: prams, car seats, and nursery furniture
While every item on your checklist is important, there are three major purchases that require special attention and research: the pram, the car seat, and the core nursery furniture. These are high-value items that will be used daily and are directly linked to your baby’s safety and comfort. Taking the time to understand the options will pay dividends in the long run, ensuring you invest in products that are durable, practical, and perfectly suited to your family’s lifestyle.
When it comes to car seats, safety is the single most important factor. In Europe, look for seats that comply with the latest ECE R129 (i-Size) safety standards, which offer enhanced protection for a child’s head and neck. You’ll need to choose a seat that is appropriate for your baby’s age, weight, and height. Understanding the different stages can be confusing, but a good retailer will provide clear guidance. A well-structured retailer like Baby Shop Switzerland – Baby Products & Equipment Online will often have detailed guides and comparison tools to help you make an informed choice.
Car Seat Stage
Typical Age Range
Key Features
Group 0+ (Infant Carrier)
Birth to approx. 15 months
Rear-facing only, portable, often compatible with a pram chassis to form a travel system.
Group 1 (Toddler Seat)
9 months to 4 years
Can be rear- or forward-facing. Often features a 5-point harness and multiple recline positions.
Group 2/3 (High-Back Booster)
4 to 12 years
Forward-facing, uses the car’s seatbelt to secure the child, provides head and side-impact protection.
Multi-Group (All-in-One)
Birth to 12 years
A convertible seat that adapts as your child grows, offering long-term value.
Choosing a pram or stroller depends heavily on your lifestyle. Do you live in a city with smooth pavements, or in the countryside where you’ll need all-terrain wheels? Do you rely on public transport and need something lightweight and easy to fold? A travel system, which combines a pram chassis with a compatible infant car seat and carrycot, offers fantastic versatility for the first few months. As your child grows, a sturdy but nimble stroller might be more practical. Consider features like the size of the storage basket, the ease of the folding mechanism, and the adjustability of the handlebar. Investing in a quality brand means you’re not just buying a mode of transport, but a durable piece of equipment that can last for years and even for subsequent children.
For nursery furniture, the focus should be on safety, functionality, and longevity. A cot bed that converts into a toddler bed is a fantastic long-term investment. Ensure any cot you buy meets current safety standards, with correctly spaced bars and a non-toxic finish. A changing unit with integrated storage can be a lifesaver for keeping nappies, wipes, and creams organised and within easy reach. As you furnish the room, think about creating a calming and serene atmosphere. Choose a soothing colour palette and invest in high-quality, breathable bedding to ensure your baby has the most comfortable and safe space for rest and growth.
Cultivating a world of wonder: toys, textiles, and tender care
Once the foundational equipment is in place, you can turn your attention to the softer, more sensory aspects of your baby’s world. This is where you can truly start to personalise their environment and support their early development. The items in this category aren’t just about function; they’re about comfort, stimulation, and creating moments of connection between you and your child.
Choosing the right toys is about quality over quantity. In the first few months, a baby’s world is a sensory explosion. They learn through touch, sight, and sound. Look for toys that cater to these developing senses: high-contrast black-and-white cards for newborns, soft rattles that are easy for tiny hands to grasp, and play mats with different textures and attached mirrors. As your little one grows, simple, open-ended toys like wooden blocks, stacking rings, and shape sorters encourage problem-solving and creativity. A well-curated selection of toys from a trusted retailer can provide age-appropriate stimulation without overwhelming your child or cluttering your home.
Textiles play a huge role in your baby’s comfort. From their clothes to their bedding, opt for natural, breathable fabrics like organic cotton and bamboo. Muslin cloths are incredibly versatile and will become an indispensable part of your daily routine – useful for swaddling, burping, and as a lightweight blanket. A soft, cellular blanket is perfect for regulating temperature in the cot, while a cosy sleep bag can be a safe alternative to loose bedding once your baby is old enough. Creating a comfortable and tactile environment helps your baby feel secure and content. Similarly, when it comes to bath time and skincare, choose gentle, natural products free from harsh chemicals to protect their delicate skin, turning a daily routine into a soothing and bonding ritual.
Embracing your new chapter with confidence
The journey to parenthood is a profound and beautiful transformation. While the preparation can seem daunting, every choice you make is an act of love, building a safe and welcoming world for your new arrival. By breaking down the process, starting with a comprehensive checklist, and understanding what to look for in key products, you can move forward with clarity and confidence. The feeling of having everything ready – the cot assembled, the car seat installed, the tiny clothes washed and folded – is a deeply reassuring step on this path.
Ultimately, the most valuable resource you can have is a trusted partner. This might be the supportive community you build, the practical advice you find online, or the reliable retailer you turn to for your essential purchases. Choosing a store that offers a vast selection, expert guidance, and unwavering commitment to quality and service will help make the entire process smoother and more enjoyable. With the right preparation and support, you’ll be perfectly equipped to embrace the adventure ahead, ready to welcome your little one with an open heart and a well-prepared home.
The cherry on top is a sarcastic call to action on his fake article: “Read my new interview with @thecut.” It doesn’t exactly scream “this essay isn’t about my wife and her custom ‘mother’ sweatpants.”
Tisdale French explained in her essay that she began feeling left out and uncool, echoes of her high school (not the musical kind, the learning kind) insecurities coming back to haunt her. “But I’m not in high school anymore,” she wrote. “I’m a mom.” She rationalized that she was setting an example for her kids by standing up for herself and letting her not-friends know that there would be no more mommy-n-me hangs for her, thank you very much. “Surely, it would have been easier to disappear without explanation—and that would have allowed all of us to convince ourselves that we simply ‘drifted apart’,” she wrote.
Easier, yes, and arguably better.
If you can afford to shell out for a $10.99 monthly HBO Max basic plan subscription—maybe even less if you take the time to track down a promo code, and even more affordable if you share a login—the indelible lessons of Big Little Lies are priceless. Not all friend groups share what Reese Witherspoon, Nicole Kidman, Shailene Woodley, Zoe Kravitz, and Laura Dern do (murder secrets, very nice views of Monterey Bay). Every friendship looks different, and has a unique ingredient list for its glue. People come and go. In her original post, Tisdale French called the group “exactly what I needed at the time.” Now, not so much. And that’s fine. Seasons pass, needs change.
Psych studies have found that having friends helps us live—friendships literally decrease risk of death—and live better, happier lives. Young women in particular tend to rely on their friends for intimacy and support, more than men of the same age, according to one survey. Friends are important, there’s no doubt about that, but so is self-awareness.
High school sucks. Mean girl stuff sucks. Unfortunately, neither high school stuff nor mean girl stuff is exclusive to the adolescent stage of life. But here’s the beautiful lesson that comes with age and experience: You can’t control what anyone else does, but you can control how you react to it. This is something that’s as true for Disney Channel alumnus Hollywood moms as it is for us regular degular ones: Not all friendships last forever, no matter how fire the group chat once was.
Duff, so far, appears to be holding true to the ol’ “if you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all” rule, not commenting publicly as of publication.
Tisdale French doesn’t seem to be in possession of that particular throw pillow either. “It didn’t exactly go over well,” she shared of the chat’s reaction to her departure announcement to the group via text: “This is too high school for me and I don’t want to take part in it anymore.” Shocking. No wonder we haven’t seen any of the alleged subjects sharing celebratory retweets of her essay, dredging up old drama.
If it was childish behavior Tisdale French was hoping to cut out of her life, we have some bad news: This is all high school, and there isn’t even a musical to hum along to this time.
Representatives for Ashley Tisdale French and Hilary Duff did not immediately respond to Vanity Fair’s request for comment.
