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  • Jury awards couple $21M for false allegations of child abuse during custody battle

    Jury awards couple $21M for false allegations of child abuse during custody battle

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    STEAMBOAT SPRINGS, Colo. (KDVR) — A Routt County jury awarded a Steamboat Springs couple more than $21 million after they found the couple had been dragged through the mud for years over false allegations of child abuse.

    Cindy Hayek was awarded $7.6 million and her boyfriend Kenny Hamp was awarded nearly $13.68 million by a jury who determined Hayek’s ex-husband orchestrated a smear campaign to win full custody of the couple’s three children following a contentious divorce.

    The ex-husband, Steven Herron, now lives in Maui, Hawaii, after moving to the island in the summer of 2021 with full custody of the kids, a 17-year-old girl and twin 13-year-old boys.

    The verdict came down on Nov. 22, 2023, after a five-week trial, but the couple has just now decided to share their story with the Problem Solvers.

    Mother’s boyfriend accused of child abuse

    “I was asked to choose between my children and the truth. And for four years, I had to choose the truth,” Hayek said.

    The 54-year-old told FOX31 Investigative Reporter Rob Low that she has spent nearly $8 million of her own money, both through her custody battle and in legal fees, to get a jury to hear her case.

    “I felt listened to. I felt vindicated. I’ve been saying it for years — this never happened — and I just couldn’t get anybody to listen. I (finally) had seven people listen and agree that this never happened,” Hayek said.

    What the jury said never happened was the child abuse Hamp was arrested for in 2019. The charge was later upgraded from a misdemeanor to a felony.

    “It’s the worst thing you could ever be accused of,” Hamp said. “It was humiliating, shaming, ruining my reputation.”

    Hamp and Hayek told FOX31 they thought it was no coincidence that allegations of sexual abuse surfaced against Hamp one day after announcing their engagement.

    Earlier that month, Hayek won a $10.5 million settlement after she sued her ex-husband on claims of fraud. Hayek claimed she was owed money from Herron’s sale of a fracking company. Hayek was an oil and gas geologist, who successfully argued she was entitled to some of the nearly $90 million in profits Herron made in the sale.

    Ex-husband told police about abuse allegations

    Herron told doctors one of his twin sons was complaining of a “wedgie” and soon went to police with allegations that only grew over time.

    Hamp told FOX31 that Herron “was trying to throw me in jail for the rest of my life. Everybody knows what happens to pedophiles when they go to jail.”

    The charge would later be dismissed in June 2020 after prosecutors filed a motion that stated, “The totality of evidence in this matter reveals there is no reasonable probability of conviction beyond a reasonable doubt.”

    In 2021, the Colorado Department of Human Services signed a settlement agreement that stated “the finding was overturned” when it came to allegations Hamp committed child sex abuse.

    “This all came from Steve Herron telling the children that I did these things to these children. And the children believed what the father said, but in forensic interviews, the children actually told the truth and said that the father told them that this happened and that I never did that,” Hamp said.

    Cindy Hayek and Kenny Hamp won a $21 million jury verdict over false child abuse claims.

    Interview shows child was unsure if he had been abused

    The Problem Solvers obtained a videotaped interview conducted in May 2020 between one of the twin boys and a forensic child abuse expert.

    Below is a portion of their exchange:

    • Forensic interviewer: And who told you that Kenny was-sexually assaulted you?
    • 9-year-old boy: My Dad.
    • FI: Your dad told you? Tell me what your dad said.
    • Boy: He said, ‘You have been sexually assaulted.’ And then he took me into my room.

    In another more graphic portion of the interview, the boy shared details about what his father had said happened.

    Herron and his attorney have not responded to the Problem Solvers for comment.

    But FOX31 obtained a videotaped copy of the interview Herron and his wife Christine gave to a Steamboat Springs police detective and a state child case worker in September 2019, when the allegation of a “wedgie” first surfaced.

    Herron can be seen on camera saying he doesn’t think he’s a bad person: “I’m not like this (expletive), like trying to pull these kids away from Cindy. I don’t think they’re safe.”

    A state caseworker would soon ask Herron, “If you could wave a magic wand today, what would you want? As far as a parenting agreement plan?”

    Herron would respond, “Full custody of the children. Full decision-making authority.”

    Herron and Hayek were divorced in 2016 and granted equal parenting time.

    That would change in November 2019 when a Routt County case worker sustained findings of abuse against Hamp, and a judge used those findings to restrict Hayek’s parenting time.

    Jury rules ex-husband manipulated law enforcement

    The Routt County jury would determine Herron had manipulated law enforcement and the child welfare system to do his bidding. When a Steamboat Springs police detective told Herron he would try to get the child abuse charge upgraded to sex assault, Herron would be heard on camera saying, “I would (expletive) hug you right now.”

    Later in the same interview, Herron would tell the detective, “You made my (expletive) day brother, like you’re on my Christmas card list right now.”

    “This was the most obvious, malicious and calculated scenario of child weaponization that I’ve ever seen,” said Chris Decker, the attorney who represented Hamp in the civil defamation case and who is also a FOX31 legal analyst.

    In June 2023, the medical director of the child protection team at Children’s Hospital Colorado wrote a report on the case that closed by saying, “In summary, neither the documentation from multiple medical examinations nor the images taken by Mr. Herron provide any evidence that can be attributed to or support the allegations of child sexual abuse/assault.”

    “It was an important verdict, and a message I think that the jury wanted to send was, ‘Stop the lying. Stop doing this, Steve Herron,’” Decker said.

    Terry Duffin was the court-appointed parenting supervisor for Hayek and was in charge of observing visits between the kids and their mother, who had lost custody of her three kids to Herron when she refused to acknowledge Hamp had abused any of the kids.

    When FOX31 asked Duffin if she suspected any of the kids had been sexually abused, she responded, “I do not, I don’t. I’ve seen a lot of trauma, a lot of traumatized children over my career,” but said she never saw any evidence of that with the children in this case.

    Instead, Duffin said her 30 years of experience in the field of childhood trauma convinced her the allegations of sex abuse were false.

    “The boys could never tell me any details about what happened to them. I felt like they were being coached,” said Duffin, who suspected Herron was motivated by revenge.

    “He for quite a while spoke angrily about how mom got money she didn’t deserve,” Duffin said. “Steve was very, very angry that mom was even still around, and he was trying to eliminate her from the children’s lives. That’s what it felt like.”

    The Problem Solvers asked if it appeared to be a case of parental alienation.

    “Absolutely parental alienation,” Duffin responded.

    Hamp said he’s glad the kids are now able to have some agency.

    “This story is about giving these children a chance in life to know the truth so they can make their own decisions in the future when they’re ready,” he told the Problem Solvers.

    “I chose my family, and I’m going to put my family back together. It’s hard, but I’m going to do it. And I hope to one day see my children and tell them what happened, and I hope they don’t feel in any way that they’re responsible for this,” Hayek said.

    Hayek said a Routt County domestic relations judge has not allowed her to speak to her kids since a Zoom visit in January 2021, because she refused to acknowledge her boyfriend’s sexual abuse.

    Now that she has a favorable civil court ruling, in addition to the dismissal of the criminal charge and the reversal of findings from the Colorado Department of Human Services, she plans to file a motion asking the domestic relations judge to grant her re-integration therapy as a first step toward reuniting with her three children.

    Breakdown of the millions awarded to couple

    The jury award was broken down into several categories for Hamp and Hayek.

    Hamp was awarded economic damages of $175,000 and non-economic damages of $3.5 million for defamation related to statements made by Herron to Steamboat Springs Detective Jordan Cyphers and then published in an application and affidavit for an arrest warrant.

    Hamp was awarded an additional $10 million in punitive damages against Herron. His total award comes to $13.675 million.

    Hayek’s total award was $7.6 million. She was awarded economic damages of $1.1 million and non-economic damages of $1.5 million for claims against Herron, which included outrageous conduct, abuse of process and conspiracy.

    Hayek also was awarded $4 million in punitive damages against Herron. She also received $1 million in non-economic damages against Herron’s wife, Christine, for claims of outrageous conduct and conspiracy.

    Court records show Herron filed for divorce from Christine the night before the verdict.

    A jury rejected all of Herron’s counterclaims of defamation against Hayek.

    As for whether the couple will ever receive the money a jury says they deserve, Hamp said, “Will I see the $13 million? I don’t care. What it was about was to vindicate this, to tell the truth.”

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  • Alexandra Laxmi Iyer Joins the Dads and Moms of Michigan Board

    Alexandra Laxmi Iyer Joins the Dads and Moms of Michigan Board

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    Aug 21, 2016

      Dads and Moms of Michigan is excited to announce a new board member, Alexandra Laxmi Iyer.

    As a seasoned “eventing” veteran, Alexandra is most passionate about driving positive change through her work. As a single mother and step-parent, Alexandra fully understands the impact our evolving family structures have on our children. It is her hope that she can help inspire communities to come together to protect our children from emotional abuse and protect a child’s right to access and receive love from all of their parents. “I am very excited to funnel my energy into such a positive organization that is committed to sowing the seeds of peaceful co-parenting relationships.” Iyer said.

    We’re excited to repeat the success of the Oakland County Parental Alienation Awareness Day rally into other areas of the State so that education on this important issue is available to more and ultimately, the lives of more children are positively impacted.

    John Langlois, Executive Director, Dads and Moms of Michigan

    Given her background, Iyer will be focusing on breathing life into the awareness rallies throughout the state of Michigan. With Iyer’s help, Dads and Moms of Michigan is already planning a Fall rally scheduled to take place on September 14, 2016 in Lansing and a second iteration of the Hostile Aggressive Parenting & Parental Alienation Awareness Day rally on April 25, 2017 in Oakland County.

    “We’re excited to repeat the success of the Oakland County Parental Alienation Awareness Day rally into other areas of the State so that education on this important issue is available to more and ultimately, the lives of more children are positively impacted.” Langlois said.

    For more information about upcoming rallies or to support a rally in your area as an event sponsor, please contact Alexandra Iyer, Dads and Moms of Michigan, laxmiiyera@dadsandmomosofmicigan.org. ​

    About Dads and Moms of Michigan
    Dads and Moms of Michigan is a nonprofit dedicated to bettering the lives of children by providing education and support to help parents create a “Conflict Free Zone” for their children. 

    Contact:
    John Langlois
    President/Executive Director
    langloisJ@dadsandmomsofmichigan.org

    Alexandra Laxmi Iyer
    Communications & PR
    laxmiiyera@dadsandmomsofmicihigan.org
    www.dadsandmomsofmichigan.org

    Source: Dads and Moms of Michigan

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  • New TV Network Tackles Parental Alienation

    New TV Network Tackles Parental Alienation

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    Jun 13, 2016

      Ryan Thomas, a victim of parental alienation, launched a TV Network last week to nurture the community of parents, children and families who are alienated from their children.

    RyanThomasTV.com aims to help viewers break through feelings of victimization and replace those emotions with actions for empowerment. “I wanted to create an entire network dedicated to providing real-life solutions and hope so that individuals, parents, and families can create true transformations in their life.” – Thomas said.​

    “I wanted to create an entire network dedicated to providing real-life solutions and hope so that individuals, parents, and families can create true transformations in their life.”

    Ryan Thomas

    RyanThomasTV.com features shows on overcoming adversity, improving communication, parental alienation, creating breakthroughs, reuniting advice, divorce aftermath, interviews with experts and more. The goal is to provide behind-the-scenes information not available anywhere else from Ryan’s unique and personal experience.

    “I am so grateful to you for helping me understand and try different ways to reconnect. I’ve read many books on PA and I think your program is the best source of information and tools I have found. I will always be grateful to you. You are changing my family tree for the better!!” Alienated Father, Josh said.

    By offering free access, Thomas hopes that his network not only nurtures the community of families affected by parental alienation but also impacts those who are unaware of this issue. “Parental alienation is not just about the parents who are suffering. Its damaging emotional abuse cripples our children. Alienation hides in plain sight pretending to be love, which is why parents and professionals must know how to recognize it and stop it.” Thomas said.

    Visit www.RyanThomasTV.com or www.RyanThomasSpeaks.com for videos, free-trainings, and more.​

    About Ryan Thomas
    Ryan was raised to believe his Dad never truly cared for him and that story was re-enforced and manufactured every moment of his life. With his perception and love for his dad constantly tainted, the stress become so unbearable that he severed the relationship as a young teenager.  In his late 20’s, Ryan reconnected with his dad and slowly built a new “friendship.” He found the most kind, loving man, and the best relationship of his life.

    Ryan is the author of several books including; Sabotaged: 3 Hidden Weapons of Parental Alienation and The Alienated Mind: Why Parental Alienation is So Powerful Through the Eyes of a Child. He is also the creator of “The Reconnect Formula,” a 5-week online video training program. Ryan also offers workshops, video series, and group coaching calls to give practical, real-life strategies to create breakthroughs. Ryan is leading a movement for the #RightToReunite children and their families, and to transform alienated parents into accepted parents.

    To learn more about Ryan Thomas or for speaking inquiries, please contact:
    Alexandra Laxmi Iyer​
    212-920-9133
    alexandra@ryanthomasspeaks.com

    Source: Ryan Thomas Speaks

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  • Ryan Thomas to Speak at the Michigan Parental Alienation Awareness Day Rally on April 25th

    Ryan Thomas to Speak at the Michigan Parental Alienation Awareness Day Rally on April 25th

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    Alienated child, Ryan Thomas, to speak at Michigan Parental Alienation Awareness Rally on April 25th.

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    Apr 19, 2016

    ​​​As the April 25th rally for Parental Alienation Awareness Day in the state of Michigan approaches, Dads and Moms of Michigan is pleased to welcome Ryan Thomas to the agenda.

    Ryan Thomas is a child of parental alienation who discovered the lies and manipulation he was under and reunited with his Dad after decades apart.

    “As a child of parental alienation, this rally allows me to give a behind-the-scenes look at how parental alienation works from a child’s point of view and why it is so damaging. Alienation hides in plain sight pretending to be love, which is why parents and professionals must know how to recognize it and stop it.”

    Ryan Thomas

    Ryan was raised to believe his Dad never truly cared for him and that story was re-enforced and manufactured every moment of his life. With his perception and love for his dad constantly tainted, the stress become so unbearable that he severed the relationship as a young teenager.  In his late 20’s, Ryan reconnected with his dad and slowly built a new “friendship.” He found the most kind, loving man, and the best relationship of his life.

    Ryan is the author of several books including; Sabotaged: 3 Hidden Weapons of Parental Alienation and The Alienated Mind: Why Parental Alienation is So Powerful Through the Eyes of a Child. He is also the creator of “The Reconnect Formula,” a 5-week online video training program. Ryan also offers workshops, video series, and group coaching calls to give practical, real-life strategies to create breakthroughs. Ryan is leading a movement for the #RightToReunite children and their families, and to transform alienated parents into accepted parents.

    “As a child of parental alienation, this rally allows me to give a behind-the-scenes look at how parental alienation works from a child’s point of view and why it is so damaging. Alienation hides in plain sight pretending to be love, which is why parents and professionals must know how to recognize it and stop it.” Thomas said.

    Ryan Thomas joins an impressive line-up guests and speakers including Rep. Tim Greimel (D-Auburn Hills), Dr. Douglas Darnall, Shelly Loomus, JD, MSW, John Langlois and musical guest, Curtis Lee Putman.

    The rally is scheduled to take place from 1:30 – 4:00pm ET at NOAH’S Event Venue, 3391 Cross Creek Pkwy, Auburn Hills, MI 48326.  Participants will enjoy passed hors d’oeuvres, refreshments and live music. To register for this free event, please visit https://parally.eventbrite.com.

    About Dads & Moms of Michigan
    Dads & Moms of Michigan is a nonprofit dedicated to bettering the lives of Children in Bi-Nuclear Families by providing education and support to help parents create a “Conflict Free Zone” for their children.

    Contact:

    John Langlois
    President/Executive Director
    248-559-3237 
    langloisJ@dadsandmomsofmichigan.org
    www.dadsandmomsofmichigan.org

    Alexandra Laxmi Iyer​
    Rally Event Director
    212-920-9133
    hostileparenting@gmail.com
    http://bit.ly/hap-pa​

    Source: Dads and Moms of Michigan

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  • Curtis Lee Putman to Perform at the Michigan Parental Alienation Awareness Day Rally on April 25th.

    Curtis Lee Putman to Perform at the Michigan Parental Alienation Awareness Day Rally on April 25th.

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    updated: Apr 15, 2016

    ​​​​April 25th is Parental Alienation Awareness Day in the state of Michigan, as signed in a proclamation by Gov. Rick Snyder.  As interest builds for upcoming Parental Alienation Awareness Day Rally on April 25th, Dads and Moms of Michigan announced additions to the rally line-up this week.

    Michigan House Minority Leader, Rep. Tim Greimel (D-Auburn Hills) will be kicking off the event with a champagne toast and “Bubbles of Love” release.

    “It’s an honor to be part of this rally. Parental Alienation is one of the cruelest forms of child abuse, and arguably the least understood. Hopefully through awareness and accountability, we can force the necessary change in the family court system to end the enablement and encouragement by the system that’s sole focus should be protecting children from abuse.”

    Curtis Lee Putman, Musician & Songwriter

    One of the original pioneers in the study of parental alienation, Douglas Darnall, PhD, has provided a pre-recorded video message to inspire and encourage the rally-goers. Dr. Darnall has been advocating for children and families victimized by parental alienation for the past 25 years. An Ohio licensed psychologist since 1979, he worked as a court psychologist for Trumbull County Family Court for 21 years and is currently CEO at PsyCare, Inc. He has published Divorce Casualties: Understanding Parental Alienation, Divorce Casualties: Protecting your Children from Parental Alienation and Beyond Divorce Casualties: Reuniting the Alienated Family. He has appeared in court on over one hundred cases in twelve states as an expert witness involving custody, parental alienation, and other forensic matters. He has also appeared on the Montel Show and Court TV. He has given presentations at both State and National Conferences including the Missouri State Bar and North Dakota State Bar Associations, AFCC, Children’s Rights Council, and Local and State Bar Associations.

    Singer / Songwriter, Curtis Lee Putman, announced his support of the rally this week as well, offering his own story on parental alienation and a musical performance.

    “It’s an honor to be part of this rally. Parental Alienation is one of the cruelest forms of child abuse, and arguably the least understood. Hopefully through awareness and accountability, we can force the necessary change in the family court system to end the enablement and encouragement by the system that’s sole focus should be protecting children from abuse,” Putman said.

    Curtis Lee Putman’s country and blues music is as memorable, distinctive and genuine as Kalamazoo, MI, where he was born, raised and still calls home. Putman also works in Nashville and Montgomery while managing his namesake CLP Music Productions label. Putman has been recognized by the 13th Annual Independent Music Awards in a spotlight artist feature and is a coed favorite wherever he brings the party. Jeff Cummings from the Montgomery Area Musicians association described him as “what happens when Johnny Cash, Waylon and Hank Sr. collide with John Lee Hooker and Lightning Hopkins.” Putman is currently finishing his long awaited next release entitled “#MyTruth,” with the first single debuting at this event entitled, #TallintheSaddle.” This song speaks to the experience Curtis went through fighting for his life as an alienated father through a protracted divorce, extensive custody battle; culminating in being wrongly accused of child abuse, fighting the courts and system to the highest levels, and finally exonerating himself. The ultimate resolution has been a recent full reconciliation with his daughters who were and still are the center of his world and his heart.

    Joining Putman on stage will be his daughter, Sabrina, who is a testimony to reunification after alienation.

    Dr. Darnell & Putman join our previously announced speakers, Shelly Loomus, JD, MSW and John Langlois. “Together we can provide valuable information and inspiration for sowing the seeds of peaceful shared parenting. Children need both parents,” Dads and Moms of Michigan’s President & Executive Director, John Langlois said.

    The rally is scheduled to take place from 1:30 – 4:00pm ET at NOAH’S Event Venue, 3391 Cross Creek Pkwy Auburn Hills MI 48326.  Participants will enjoy passed hors d’oeuvres, refreshments and live music. To register for this free event, please visit https://parally.eventbrite.com. ​

    About Dads & Moms of Michigan
    Dads & Moms of Michigan is a nonprofit dedicated to bettering the lives of Children in Bi-Nuclear Families by providing education and support to help parents create a “Conflict Free Zone” for their children.

    ​Contact:
    John Langlois, President/Executive Director
    248-559-3237 
    langloisJ@dadsandmomsofmichigan.org
    www.dadsandmomsofmichigan.org

    Alexandra Iyer, Rally Event Director
    212-920-9133
    xahndra@gmail.com
    http://bit.ly/hap-pa

    Source: Dads and Moms of Michigan

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