Tag: Men mindset

 

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Women often ask me, “What do I do about men who say in their profiles that they only want to date a younger woman?”

I’ve remember seeing it too, but honestly, it never stopped me from favoring a man—and it shouldn’t stop you either.

But the question has always intrigued me and I decided to dig a little deeper to find out more about why this is happening and whether or not it’s true.

Let me share what I found out.

I began with an old boyfriend of mine who was 11 years older than me.

He admitted it was an ego thing—dating younger women made him feel more youthful and active.

While dating, we found that our values and views of life were different which created conflict and ultimately ended our relationship.

Yet, despite our generational gap, we stayed friends.

And after we split, I gently suggested he date women closer to his age.

At first he was taken aback, but guess what?

He now dates women who are within 5 years of his age.

It turns out these women were not only good for him, they also kept him on his toes, often outdoing him when it comes to living life to the fullest.

Then, there’s my friend Ron.

He shared a lot about what men really look for and told me that while men may have this idea of wanting a younger woman, they often reach out to women closer to their age if their profile pictures are appealing.

When he was dating, Ron would date women up to 5 years older than he was.

He also shared that when women posted pictures that made them look old, it stopped him from ever looking at a woman’s profile regardless of her age.

Sound familiar? Think of all the men you thought looked old enough to be your father or grandfather!

He emphasized that vibrant and active profile pics are a game-changer.

If a man thinks you look amazing and fun, he’ll be intrigued enough to say, “Hey, she might be the one. I need to write her!”

Next, I talked with my old high school boyfriend about this subject since I knew he’d dated younger women.

By the way, as the ultimate handsome bad boy he often had women dropping their numbers into his hand even while he was on a date with another woman.

After his marriage ended, he tried dating younger women, thinking it would be fun.

He found he had absolutely nothing in common with them which made the relationship unsustainable.

And once the lure of sex wore off, he was bored.

He, too, went back to dating women closer to his age.

From my chats with various men over 50 about dating younger women, some key insights emerged:

You know, some men do date younger women to feel more youthful.

It’s an ego thing.

But let’s be honest—that kind of thing usually doesn’t last or lead to anything meaningful.

After a while, many men start craving deeper connections.

They realize that shared interests and life experiences are what really matter.

And yes, it’s true that men are often visually stimulated.

That’s why your profile picture is so important.

It should show you looking lively, passionate, and positive. Trust me, it makes a big impact.

Here are some tips to help you stand out and capture a good man’s attention:

1. Your Profile Picture

Your profile picture is crucial—it’s the first impression you’ll make.

Choose a photo where you look approachable, happy, and full of life.

A genuine smile, and doing something you love can make all the difference.

2. Your Profile Description

Write a profile that reflects your personality and passions.

Be specific about what you enjoy and what you’re looking for in a partner.

Avoid clichés and be authentic.

Share an anecdote or a little bit about what lights you up that showcases your vibrant personality.

3. Stay Positive

Keep your profile and interactions positive.

Focus on what excites you and what you want, rather than what you don’t want.

Positivity attracts positivity so let that shine through.

4. Be Open and Curious

Be flexible with your criteria.

Sometimes, the best matches come from unexpected places.

Stay curious and open to meeting nice men, even if they don’t check all your boxes initially.

Finding love after 50 isn’t just about beating the odds; it’s about understanding the dynamics of modern dating and presenting your best self.

Many men are out there looking for partners who are confident, vibrant, and genuinely interested in building a meaningful connection.

Highlight these aspects, and you’ll attract men who see you for all the wonderful person you are, regardless of age.

Believing in You!

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