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  • Vampire Book Reviews: Hollow By Celina Myers & The Fox And The Devil By Kiersten White

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    Vampire books are so back—almost like they never left…just lurked in the shadows. Gather round, lovers of Twilight, Vampire Diaries, and beyond. Because 2026 is shaping up to be a big year for vampire fans, and we’re here to bring you two new vampire novels.

    Celina Myers’ debut novel, Hollow, is a tale about Mia, a young woman who becomes a vampire and finds herself caught between two rival families and their complicated history. Kiersten White‘s new novel, The Fox and the Devil, follows Anneke, the daughter of a vampire hunter who becomes obsessed with taking down an immortal serial killer.

    These two vampire tales feature a bisexual and sapphic romance that we absolutely live for. Not to mention the powerful, unstoppable female protagonists. Here is our dual review of Hollow and The Fox and the Devil!

    Book Overview: Hollow By Celina Myers

    Vampire book: Hollow by Celina Myers
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    Content warnings: death, parent death, murder, attempted murder, attempted suicide, gore, bodies, corpses, violence, car accident, miscarriage, needles, poisoning, mentions of transphobia

    Summary: Mia Adair isn’t even twenty-five yet, but she’s starting to wonder if her peak has already passed. She’s spent years working at her local bookstore, a job that was supposed to be temporary. As a kid, she experienced a strange sort of fame within the paranormal community thanks to her inclusion in a book that revealed Mia’s ability to talk with the dead. But that was then, and Mia’s “gift” dried up once adolescence set in. These days, she feels like she’s nobody special.

    Until she dies in a tragic car crash and reawakens as a vampire…

    Forced to leave behind everything she knew, Mia must choose to live with one of two rival vampire families. The Bellamy and Sutton clans share a dark, complicated history that spans centuries. As Mia learns about their age-old traditions and extraordinary powers, along with their forbidden romances and betrayals, she’s drawn toward two very different loves. And as she feels her gift returning, more potent than ever before, Mia realizes she’ll need it to protect innocent lives—and save the only family she has left.

    Our Review

    Let’s start with Hollow by Celina Myers. You may know her online as CelinaSpookyBoo or have watched her journey writing this book until now. Maybe you haven’t seen her content but are open to a new vampire book featuring a bisexual protagonist trying to get back her ability to see ghosts. Whatever the case, Hollow is such a quick and easy read that you won’t want to put down. Seriously, we read it all within a few hours.

    Mia Adair’s vampire journey is as rocky as one might expect, given that she didn’t ask to turn. But the method of turning people changes from injecting just one vampire’s blood to injecting the blood of a whole family of vampires. This adds a deeper layer as we meet the members of the Bellamy and Sutton families and hear their stories. With a weakening matriarch at the helm, Mia soon regains her powers and discovers the crucial role she plays in both families.

    We also want to highlight the narrative flow of Hollow. When there are so many characters in play, it can be difficult to remember who someone is and why they’re important. But this novel gives us just enough information about each one before we get into their actions that move the plot. Every character adds to the story. It felt so seamless to read, and we know how much effort it takes to make the narration seem so effortless. We were hooked!

    Release date: January 13
    Order Hollow here!

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    Book Overview: The Fox And The Devil By Kiersten White

    Vampire novel: The Fox and the Devil by Kiersten White
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    Content warnings: death, death of loved ones, murder, gore, bodies, corpses, violence, themes of trauma and grief

    Summary: Anneke has a complicated relationship with her father, Abraham Van Helsing—doctor, scientist, and madman devoted to the study of vampires—until the night she comes home to find him murdered, with a surreally beautiful woman looming over his body. A woman who leaves no trace behind, other than the dreams and nightmares that now plague Anneke every night.

    Spurred by her desire for vengeance and armed with the latest forensic and investigatory techniques, Anneke puts together a team of detectives to catch this mysterious serial killer. Because her father isn’t the only inexplicable dead body. There’s a trail of victims across Europe, and Anneke is certain they’re all connected.

    But during the years spent relentlessly hunting the killer, Anneke keeps crucial evidence to herself: infuriatingly coy letters, addressed only to her, occasionally soaked in blood, and always signed Diavola.

    The closer Anneke gets to her devil, though, the less sense the world makes. Maybe her father wasn’t a madman after all. Diavola might be something much worse than a serial killer…and much harder to destroy. Yet as Anneke unearths more of Diavola’s tragic past, she suspects there’s still a heart somewhere in that undead body.

    A heart that beats for Anneke alone.

    Our Review

    Our next vampire book is The Fox and the Devil by Kiersten White. We were drawn in by the sapphic vampire story, and we stayed for the incredible storytelling. Told in two overlapping timelines in the late nineteenth century, we follow Anneke as she devotes years to chasing after her father’s killer. All the while, we start to get closer and closer to the present threat, which was so much bigger than Anneke had assumed.

    We absolutely loved traveling all over Europe, solving murder mysteries alongside Anneke and her chaotic found family: Dávid, Maher, and Igne. They are true ride-or-dies, even when they don’t agree with one another. But Anneke’s target seems to constantly stay two steps ahead and evade them no matter how hard they try. It doesn’t help that Diavola haunts Anneke’s dreams and thoughts every night and day, either.

    The buildup of romantic tension is also done beautifully in this Gothic novel. We really get a sense of intense yearning and curiosity on both sides, as evidenced in the letters that Diavola leaves for Anneke. And Anneke eventually uncovers Diavola’s true identity and reasoning for leading her on this never-ending hunt. We couldn’t see the plot twist or the bittersweet ending coming, but that just made the emotions even more heightened.

    Release date: March 10
    Preorder The Fox and the Devil here!

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    What do you think of these new vampire novels? Have you added Hollow by Celina Myers or The Fox and the Devil by Kiersten White to your reading list? Let us know on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram!

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  • Social media comment has some local business owners cutting ties with Shop Local Raleigh

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    A Facebook comment in an online networking group is causing a stir among some of Raleigh’s small business owners. 

    On Dec. 20, an anonymous commenter in a local networking group on Facebook responded to a post by a parent asking for advice regarding her transgender son. 

    “There’s no such thing as a transgender son. Blessings to
    you, but the sooner you help your son realize this, the more successful he
    (maybe a she) will be,” the anonymous comment read.

    Gigi Stephenson is an administrator of the group. She said
    someone flagged the comment for review. As an admin on the page, Stephenson
    said she could see that the anonymous comment was made by Jennifer Martin, the executive director of the Greater Raleigh Merchant’s Association. 

    Martin has been with the GRMA, which does business
    as Shop Local Raleigh, since 2010. The organization presents many local events
    each year including Falling for Local at Dix Park, the Raleigh Food Truck Rodeo
    Series, the Raleigh Christmas Parade and the annual Brewgaloo craft beer
    festival

    “We’ve had a pretty loud and open stance on you will not be
    able to hide behind anonymous commenting or posts that we feel you are a danger
    to the community,” Stephenson told WRAL on Monday. “This is something that the
    community deserves to know. They’re spending money with this organization.”

    Martin’s post got the attention of other local business
    owners, including Be Like Missy’s Erica Vogel, who made a social media post of her own announcing her business would be stepping away from Shop Local Raleigh and
    Brewgaloo in light of the comment.

    “Being that it was her, I felt really torn because I’ve been
    a big supporter of her and of Shop Local Raleigh for at least five years, and
    I’ve encouraged a ton of my small business-owning friends to join and be a part
    of the community, “ Vogel told WRAL. “I always looked at what she did as
    inclusive and promoting small business, but to see such an ugly and hateful
    comment happen, it made me feel really conflicted.”

    Vogel said Martin emailed her following her post – not
    denying that she made the comment – but correcting her title which was
    incorrectly listed as the owner of Shop Local Raleigh and Brewgaloo.

    “I
    am always open to conversation and work hard to be welcoming and supportive of
    all small businesses in our community. Because your post
    references businesses I do not own, I’m asking that it be removed. If not, we
    will need to have our attorney formally request its removal,” Martin wrote in the email, which Vogel shared with WRAL. “I
    hope we can resolve this quickly and respectfully.”

    The comment prompted a Change.org petition
    calling for Martin to be held accountable.

    “This should include a formal apology, mandatory sensitivity
    training, financial support for one of our local organizations who provide
    direct aid to trans youth and any other corrective actions deemed appropriate
    by SLR. Every person, regardless of their gender identity should feel seen and
    supported by the communities they belong to,” the petition reads. It has gotten
    more than 500 signatures.

    The Night Market Company also posted on Facebook that it
    would not be participating in Shop Local Raleigh events due to the comment.

    Stephenson said she would like to see “education come from
    this.”

    She said she would like to see Martin “really take some time to think about this comment
    and how it affects the people in her community, the very community that has
    carried this nonprofit, and the people who show up at these event.”

    WRAL has reached out to Martin but has not heard back. Several GRMA board members told WRAL they had no comment. 

    Shop Local Raleigh posted on the group’s Facebook page on Monday afternoon:

    “The Board of Directors of the Greater Raleigh Merchants Association (Shop Local Raleigh) is aware of concerns surrounding a recent, personal, social media comment made by our Executive Director. The Board is currently addressing the matter. The comment made does not reflect those of the organization. Shop Local Raleigh is dedicated to a culture of diversity, inclusion and respect.”

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  • Who says you can’t run in high heels? DC proves you can – WTOP News

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    Over 200 participants gathered at the starting line, dressed in creative costumes and makeup, while the sidewalks were lined with fans waiting to see racers sprint down the street in various styles of footwear.

    Participant Parker Beckley (C) of Bozeman, Montana, crosses the finish line as he wins the 38th annual 17th Street High Heel Race on October 28, 2025 in Washington, DC. The annual race, with participants dress in drag costume racing down 17th Street in high heels, is one of the most iconic LGBTQIA+ celebrations in DC.
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    Men in maid outfits and colorful wigs at the annual 17th Street High Heel Race on Tuesday night.
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    Men dressed like Disney’s Princess Merida (left) and DHS Secretary Kristi Noem (center) at the annual 17th Street High Heel Race on Tuesday night.
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    A man dressed patriotically at the annual 17th Street High Heel Race on Tuesday night.
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    WASHINGTON, DC - OCTOBER 28: A participant poses for photographers prior to the 38th annual 17th Street High Heel Race on October 28, 2025 in Washington, DC. The annual race, with participants dress in drag costume racing down 17th Street in high heels, is one of the most iconic LGBTQIA+ celebrations in Washington, DC.  (Photo by Alex Wong/Getty Images)
    A participant poses for photographers prior to the 38th annual 17th Street High Heel Race on October 28, 2025 in DC. The annual race, with participants dress in drag costume racing down 17th Street in high heels, is one of the most iconic LGBTQIA+ celebrations in DC.
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    WASHINGTON, DC - OCTOBER 28: Participants dressed in Santa Claus costumes pose for photographers prior to the 38th annual 17th Street High Heel Race on October 28, 2025 in Washington, DC. The annual race, with participants dress in drag costume racing down 17th Street in high heels, is one of the most iconic LGBTQIA+ celebrations in Washington, DC.  (Photo by Alex Wong/Getty Images)
    Participants dressed in Santa Claus costumes pose for photographers prior to the 38th annual 17th Street High Heel Race on October 28, 2025 in DC. The annual race, with participants dress in drag costume racing down 17th Street in high heels, is one of the most iconic LGBTQIA+ celebrations in DC.
    (Photo by Alex Wong/Getty Images)

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    WASHINGTON, DC - OCTOBER 28: Participants in costume pose for photographers prior to the 38th annual 17th Street High Heel Race on October 28, 2025 in Washington, DC. The annual race, with participants dress in drag costume racing down 17th Street in high heels, is one of the most iconic LGBTQIA+ celebrations in Washington, DC.  (Photo by Alex Wong/Getty Images)
    Participants in costume pose for photographers prior to the 38th annual 17th Street High Heel Race on October 28, 2025 in Washington, DC. The annual race, with participants dress in drag costume racing down 17th Street in high heels, is one of the most iconic LGBTQIA+ celebrations in DC.
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    High Heel Race in DC returns with dazzling costumes, community spirit

    It’s not often there’s a running competition through the streets of D.C.’s Dupont Circle, where the main objective isn’t to finish first, but rather trying not to break a heel and fall flat on your face.

    That was the general consensus of some of the participants at the 38th annual High Heel Race, held along 17th Street in Northwest on Tuesday night.

    Over 200 participants gathered at the starting line at 17th and R streets, dressed in creative costumes and makeup, while the sidewalks were lined with fans and outdoor foodies, all waiting to see racers sprint down the street in various styles of footwear.

    D.C. Mayor Muriel Bowser was the honorable host of the longtime neighborhood tradition that dates back to the late 80s.

    The High Heel Race first began on Halloween of 1986 as a bet between two drag queens. Now, it continues to gain wide support from the D.C. area’s LGBTQ community.

    At the end of the 2025 race, several racers crossed the finish line at the same time, prompting some participants to ask, “Who won?”

    Ironically, many had the same answer — “Those who didn’t fall flat on their faces were the ones who won this race.”

    The real winner was Parker Beckley of Bozeman, Montana, who won the race while painted head to toe in teal and gold makeup as the Statue of Liberty.

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  • The Angel City Paradox: When Inclusion Meets Exclusion – LAmag

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    Elizabeth Eddy’s anti-trans op-ed ignites backlash at LA’s most inclusive soccer club

    In Los Angeles, a city that prides itself on inclusion, few sports franchises embody that spirit like Angel City Football Club. Founded on equity, empowerment, and community, ACFC is by far the most inclusive team in the National Women’s Soccer League, if not in all professional sports.

    Which is why, when one of Angel City’s own players, veteran midfielder Elizabeth Eddy, published an op-ed in the New York Post on October 27, arguing that transgender women should not be allowed to play in the NWSL, the backlash from fans was instant.  

    The Op-Ed That Sparked the Firestorm

    In her column titled “National Women’s Soccer League Must Adopt Gender Standards to Keep Growing,” Eddy called for the NWSL to implement “biological eligibility requirements,” including “chromosomal testing and birth-assigned sex verification,” to “protect fairness” in women’s sports.

    Her argument, presented as a call for clarity, reads to ACFC faithfuls like a call for exclusion. Eddy warned that without these restrictions, the league could “lose credibility” and “alienate fans.”

    The editorial dropped like a flare in a league that currently has no active transgender policy. NWSL’s previous 2021 guidelines expired in 2022, leaving a vacuum that conservative voices have been eager to fill. 

    The Angel City Identity Crisis

    To understand why this landed so hard, you have to understand Angel City’s DNA.

    The club’s founders, actress Natalie Portman, venture capitalist Kara Nortman, and tech entrepreneur Julie Uhrman, often describe Angel City’s creation as an epiphany, not a business plan. After attending a U.S. Women’s National Team match and realizing that the sport’s cultural power far exceeded its investment, the three women imagined what it would look like if equity and impact were built into the foundation of a franchise rather than added later as branding. Out of that moment of clarity, Angel City FC was born — a social-impact startup disguised as a soccer team.

    From day one, they pledged to donate 10% of all sponsorship revenue back into the community, host LGBTQ+ inclusion and equity workshops, and proudly wear jerseys declaring that “Los Angeles is for Everyone.”  Their annual Pride Night isn’t performative; it’s policy. 

    Which is why one of their own players arguing publicly that some women aren’t women enough feels less like free speech and more like brand sabotage.

    The Sound of Silence

    As of publication, Angel City FC has not released an official statement on Eddy’s article. No teammates have publicly defended her, either.  That silence speaks volumes.  If the team condemns her words, it risks alienating players who agree with her privately. If it stays silent, it risks alienating the community that built its fanbase.

    This is the paradox of modern sports activism: the very inclusivity that defines Angel City also demands accountability when someone betrays it.

    What’s Really at Stake

    Women’s soccer has truly become a cultural battleground where identity, fairness, and belonging intersect. Angel City was supposed to represent the best version of that intersection: fearless, inclusive, forward-thinking, but does that mean banishing those who don’t agree to the sidelines?

    True inclusion shouldn’t mean ideological conformity, but it also can’t tolerate rhetoric that undermines the very people it vows to protect. Angel City now sits in that gray zone, where protecting marginalized players and fans may require setting boundaries that look, on the surface, exclusionary. 

    It raises a deeper question: does inclusivity mean letting everyone speak freely, or does it mean creating a space where everyone feels safe to exist? In practice, those two goals often clash, and how Angel City handles that collision could shape what inclusivity really means in modern sport.

    Elizabeth Eddy’s essay might have been intended as a plea for fairness. But in context, it reads more like an act of betrayal not only to the trans community, but to the team whose very existence symbolizes belonging.  

    In Los Angeles, inclusion has never been a trend, it’s always felt more like a promise.  And right now the world is watching to see whether Angel City can figure out how to keep it.

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  • Brands have fallen out of love with queer content creators like me, so what’s next for us?

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    I always knew that corporate allyship and the “pink pound” wouldn’t be a magic solution to changing attitudes. While beneficial for increasing visibility, they were never going to change the world on their own. Yet, even this small piece of the puzzle seems to have fallen away. The shift is palpable. Talking about being queer or trans outside of Pride Month seems discouraged. The executive order by President Trump to end “wasteful Government DEI programs” in the United States sent a ripple effect across the globe, validating organisations to roll back their inclusive efforts. Brands that once championed LGBTQIA+ causes are now ghosting collaborators, with some even stating that diversity and inclusion are not a priority. This isn’t just about my personal career; it’s a systemic problem that affects the entire community.

    This year has been a stark reality check. For freelancers like me, it’s become a weekly occurrence to have promising opportunities vanish without a trace. Brands would reach out, eager to show their support, only to ghost us after multiple meetings and creative sessions. This isn’t a new phenomenon, but it’s now more widespread and brazen. The irony is not lost on me: often, these opportunities started with a desire to “do the right thing,” only for the brands to become the very problem they were trying to solve.

    This isn’t just a personal grievance; it’s a movement to eliminate LGBTQIA+ inclusion. It affects everyone, regardless of their online visibility. My work as a writer and content creator is built on the premise that organisations want to openly discuss the experiences of queer people. When that support disappears, I’m left questioning my path. As trans people’s existence is being challenged globally, our allies have gone silent, creating a void where transphobic narratives can flourish louder than ever before. This silence forces queer and trans people to pivot in their careers and, more importantly, leaves our community more vulnerable than ever.

    I know I’ve been fortunate to have worked in this space for so long. It’s a job rooted in fun and frivolity, and creativity – but it’s one that ultimately feels too ‘political’ to be seen as creative anymore. My existence, our existence, is no longer neutral, and my desire to tell stories and provide a fun, light-hearted resource for other people to find comfort or joy in is depleted. The time has come for me to shift my focus. I am ready for a new challenge. I could bend to the current climate and become a more “palatable queer” to secure more work, but that’s not who I am.

    Instead of feeling like my online presence needs to tick boxes, each post orchestrated to achieve career progression, or even risk enmeshing my digital success and view of my professional self with my personal desirability, maybe (just maybe) I will be able to be in a place again where I can just fall in love with myself and my community online, rather than seeing it as a role I must filfill 24/7.

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  • 3 Things We Love About Legend Of The White Snake By Sher Lee

    3 Things We Love About Legend Of The White Snake By Sher Lee

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    If there’s one genre THP can never get tired of, it’s YA fantasy! So today, we’re reviewing Sher Lee’s newest novel, Legend of the White Snake.

    Legend of the White Snake by Sher Lee retells the Chinese legend of the same name, only it’s now an even more swoon-worthy, queer romance between two teenagers: a stubborn prince named Xian and a snake spirit named Zhen.

    We literally finished reading Legend of the White Snake in one sitting, and it may just be one of our favorite fantasies this year. So here are three things we love about it!

    Cover: Legend of the White Snake by Sher Lee
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    Book Overview: Legend Of The White Snake

    Content Warnings: death, attempted murder, violence, corporal punishment and blood, torture, poisoning, corpses, hunting

    Summary: When Prince Xian was a boy, a white snake bit his mother and condemned her to a slow, painful death. The only known cure is an elusive spirit pearl—or an antidote created from the rare white snake itself. Desperate and determined, Xian travels to the city of Changle, where an oracle predicted he would find and capture a white snake.

    Seven years ago, Zhen, a white snake in the West Lake, consumed a coveted spirit pearl, which gave him special powers—including the ability to change into human form.

    In Changle, Xian encounters an enigmatic but beautiful stable boy named Zhen. The two are immediately drawn to each other, but Zhen soon realizes that he is the white snake Xian is hunting. As their feelings grow deeper, will the truth about Zhen’s identity tear them apart? 

    Elements Of Chinese Culture

    In case you didn’t know, the Legend of the White Snake, also known as Madame White Snake, is one of China’s Four Great Folktales. It has been adapted into several movies, TV shows, and other media. And this retelling by Sher Lee gender-bends the female snake spirit from the original into a young man. We love the nods to Chinese culture, beliefs, and traditions throughout this novel. Recurring themes include the concept of yin and yang, filial piety, divine prophecies, proper temple etiquette, and so many others!

    The Pacing

    We really loved the pacing of Sher Lee’s Legend of the White Snake because the story flows so smoothly. We were so glad that Xian’s identity as the prince did not become a misunderstanding at the beginning. Xian and Zhen also took their time developing their relationship rather than rushing into the instant attraction. We laughed then cried when their romance takes a turn once the truth became known. It was truly such a happy medium, and we couldn’t ask for more.

    They Fight For Their Love

    One of the main things from Legend of the White Snake that we’ll keep in our hearts is that we need to work harder than any fate or destiny. Xian tells Zhen that destiny is for people who don’t fight for what they really want in life. (And we took that personally!) Xian and Zhen’s distant past complicates their blissful present. They fall into incredibly difficult positions because of duty. But they both sacrifice everything to be together in the end, even if it took a little longer than expected.

    Sher Lee’s Legend of the White Snake blesses us with a well-paced, queer retelling of a famous Chinese folktale, and we thoroughly enjoyed this tale from start to finish.

    Legend of the White Snake by Sher Lee will be available October 15th, and you can order a copy of it here!

    What do you think about Sher Lee’s new novel, Legend of the White Snake? Have you already added it to your fall TBR? Let us know on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram!

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  • Will & Harper trailer: Will Ferrell corrects someone who misgenders his trans bestie in new documentary

    Will & Harper trailer: Will Ferrell corrects someone who misgenders his trans bestie in new documentary

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    In my ideal America, Will Ferrell would take every newly out transgender person on a road trip. For now, though, only Harper Steele gets that honour. In Will & Harper, a new documentary from Netflix that follows the duo on a 16-day cross-country odyssey in a station wagon, the former SNL head writer’s decades-long friendship with Ferrell takes the front seat.

    The official trailer, released Thursday, offers a tear-jerking first look at the pair’s many misadventures, which appear to include watching dirt track racing, doing cannonballs in a motel pool, and hanging out with Tina Fey.

    The impetus for the project, as Ferrell explains in the trailer, was receiving an email from Steele in 2021 explaining that she would be “transitioning to live as a woman”. After receiving that message, Ferrell says he reached out to her, asking, “Harper, would you want to do a road trip as this new version of yourself, and at the same time figure out what this all means to us?”

    The result is a movie that has earned fantastic early reviews, along with multiple standing ovations at its Sundance premiere earlier this year. Even judging from the tiny peek at the film offered in the trailer, it’s easy to see why. We get to see Ferrell correcting a bar patron who misgenders Steele, lots of hugs, and a particularly affecting shot of the pair crying together in the car.

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  • New York artist blends cultural, queer identities

    New York artist blends cultural, queer identities

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    NEW YORK — All forms of artistry are common means of expression in the queer community.

    Marcos Chin, an illustrator in Brooklyn, creates striking pieces of art that blend his sexual and cultural identities. He says, “I became interested in being an artist at a very young age. Illustration, for me, is the art and business of communication. It allows me to draw and express myself in a way that feels really natural.”

    Chin says his projects are very personal. “My work is informed by my experience. I’m Chinese. I came out when I was in my mid-20s. I was in deep denial, self-loathing, internalized homophobia. I wanted to incorporate coming out and the experiences of being a young gay person in my illustration work.”

    Chin has also made art for high-profile companies like Target, Starbucks, Banana Republic and The New York Times. He says, “When I see my work in public, I’m as excited as when I was when I got one of my first projects as a young illustrator.”

    The crossover between his work and identity makes Marcos feel free to express himself and proud of his queerness.

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  • New York artist blends cultural, queer identities

    New York artist blends cultural, queer identities

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    NEW YORK — All forms of artistry are common means of expression in the queer community.

    Marcos Chin, an illustrator in Brooklyn, creates striking pieces of art that blend his sexual and cultural identities. He says, “I became interested in being an artist at a very young age. Illustration, for me, is the art and business of communication. It allows me to draw and express myself in a way that feels really natural.”

    Chin says his projects are very personal. “My work is informed by my experience. I’m Chinese. I came out when I was in my mid-20s. I was in deep denial, self-loathing, internalized homophobia. I wanted to incorporate coming out and the experiences of being a young gay person in my illustration work.”

    Chin has also made art for high-profile companies like Target, Starbucks, Banana Republic and The New York Times. He says, “When I see my work in public, I’m as excited as when I was when I got one of my first projects as a young illustrator.”

    The crossover between his work and identity makes Marcos feel free to express himself and proud of his queerness.

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  • Book Review: Cursed Boys And Broken Hearts By Adam Sass

    Book Review: Cursed Boys And Broken Hearts By Adam Sass

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    There’s just something about summer romances that can cure a reading slump. Adam Sass is back with his latest YA romance, Cursed Boys and Broken Hearts! And we needed to get our hands on a review copy.

    Before we jump into the review, let’s go over some Easter eggs we found in Cursed Boys and Broken Hearts. Our main character Grant Rossi’s ex-boyfriend, Micah Summers, is the same character as the protagonist from Adam Sass’s The 99 Boyfriends of Micah Summers. We love this tie-in! And the concept of a cursed rose in this book parallels Prince Adam/the Beast’s curse in the classic fairy tale, Beauty and the Beast.

    From LGBTQIA+ representation to addressing teen depression and therapy, we fell in love with this summer read. Here are three things we love about Cursed Boys and Broken Hearts!

    Cover: Cursed Boys and Broken Hearts by Adam Sass
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    Book Overview: Cursed Boys And Broken Hearts

    Content Warnings: homophobia, depression, mention of grandparent deaths, divorce, trauma

    Summary: Grant Rossi is never getting a happily-ever-after.

    Ever since he was a kid and made a wish on his family’s iconic Wishing Rose, his romantic relationships have been cursed to end. Following his most recent (and extremely public) dumping, Grant is languishing in a hot Chicago summer, abandoning his beloved design projects to sink back into depression. But when his family suggests spending the summer helping his aunt and uncle refurbish their beautiful but rundown B&B and vineyard—the home of the Wishing Rose that changed everything for him—Grant decides to accept. Maybe he can finally find a way to recover his creative spark…and break his curse. 

    But things at the vineyard are not what Grant expects. The place is in almost total disrepair, and—even worse—the person his relatives hired to help is his former childhood crush, Ben—the first boy who broke his heart.  

    As their chemistry sparks and the summer heats up, the wedge between them can’t be ignored. But while they race to restore the B&B in time for the beloved local rose festival, grumpy but lovable Ben starts to break through Grant’s carefully crafted defenses. Can Grant find a way to overcome his curse and open his heart, even when it’s broken?

    Grant’s Character Development

    In the beginning of Cursed Boys and Broken Hearts, Grant Rossi fully believes that he’s cursed. That he’s the reason why his relationships never last long. But after weeks of staying with his aunt and uncle at the Vero Roseto Garden Inn & Vineyard, he’s able to reevaluate his curse. It’s taken him five years to find out what really happened between his ex-boyfriend, Hutch, and longtime crush, Ben, when they were 13. As he starts to trust himself not to “ruin” things, he can finally break his curse. And we couldn’t be more proud!

    Aunt Ro

    We all have those nosy relatives who mean well, right? Well, Grant’s Aunt Ro won us over with her lovely personality. She’s been running the B&B and vineyard ever since her mother passed, even when it’s in danger of closing down. And she’s been a safe space and supportive of Grant through everything. It’s partly thanks to her meddling that Grant and Ben find their way back to each other. Aunt Ro and her husband Paul have such a sweet marriage. We were gushing over them almost as much as the main love interests.

    The Rose Festival

    Maybe we’re too much of a romantic, but seeing Cursed Boys and Broken Hearts culminate with the annual Rose Festival healed us. We can only imagine how breathtaking Grant’s flower gown designs looked, along with the centerpiece for the Wishing Rose bush. The atmosphere feels so dreamy, and we wish to experience something similar in our lifetime. We also loved the full-circle ending between Grant and Ben as they make another wish with the Wishing Rose. Only this time, they have a better understanding of themselves and are learning how to be a couple for real.

    Adam Sass outdoes himself with Cursed Boys and Broken Hearts, a deeply personal and complex second chance romance that made us feel all the emotions!

    Cursed Boys and Broken Hearts by Adam Sass releases July 16th, and you can preorder a copy of it here!

    What do you think of Adam Sass’s Cursed Boys and Broken Hearts? Is it one of your favorite books by Adam Sass yet? Let us know on TwitterFacebook, and Instagram!

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  • Playing In Our Faces: Donald Trump Tries To Distance Himself From #Project2025 Backlash — ‘I Know Nothing’

    Playing In Our Faces: Donald Trump Tries To Distance Himself From #Project2025 Backlash — ‘I Know Nothing’

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    Donald Trump questionably claims he’s an expert on everything else, but now he expects us to believe he has “no knowledge” of Project 2025 and its oppressive plans to give him unprecedented power as president. After the plan, directed by Trump’s former chief of staff, exploded online, that would make him the last person in the country to hear about it. 

    In his Philly campaign rally speech, Trump stated, “I know nothing about Project 2025. I have no idea who is behind it. I disagree with some of the things they’re saying, and some of the things they’re saying are absolutely ridiculous and abysmal.”

    According to AP News, he posted a statement distancing himself from Project 2025 on his social media website. “Anything they do, I wish them luck, but I have nothing to do with them.”

    Wish them luck? PLEASE.

    Project 2025: The Drastic Plan Trump “Doesn’t Know About”

    Let’s break down what Trump is desperately trying to distance himself from. Project 2025 is a 922-page plan that proposes a massive expansion of presidential power. The project includes but isn’t limited to: 

    • firing up to 50,000 government workers to replace them with Trump loyalists (JUST SICK)
    • National abortions ban
    • Birth control, IVF, and STD Testing restrictions
    • Patient Data exposure
    • Eliminating the Department of Education and free school lunch programs
    • Enforcing Christian principles
    • Removing Environmental Protection Agency and protections for endangered species
    • Implementing tax policies that benefit the wealthy
    • Weaken unions and workplace safety regulations
    • End FBI efforts to combat disinformation
    • Repeal Acts for Civil Rights, Voting Rights, Fair Housing
    • End gender equality protections
    • Getting rid of DEI workers and training programs
    • Criminalizing LGBTQ+ rights and homelessness
    • Using the U.S. military against the U.S. citizens

    Yet Trump would have us believe he’s completely in the dark about it. It’s hard to swallow, especially given his past authoritarian actions and statements.

    The Social Media Firestorm

    What’s really pushed Trump into this awkward denial is the social media uproar. Project 2025 has been trending online and on television screens. As BOSSIP previously covered, celebrities such as Taraji P. Henson are taking part in the activism against it.

    Taraji didn’t hold back at the BET Awards, calling the oppressive overthrow of the government for what it is. Her bold move has put even more pressure on Trump and spread awareness of the initiative. Now, he’s backtracking and expecting us to fall for it despite his party’s track record of calling for these extremist policies.

    Trump can try to address the elephant in the room, but his response is far from convincing.

    Trump’s Ties to Project 2025 Figures

    The key players behind Project 2025 are all Trump insiders:

    • Paul Dans, the project’s director, was a former chief of staff at the U.S. Office of Personnel Management under Trump.
    • John McEntee, a senior adviser, was the director of the White House Presidential Personnel Office.
    • Russ Vought, a significant contributor, is on the Republican National Committee’s platform writing committee.

    With such close ties, Trump’s denial is more than just suspicious; it’s strategic.

    Conservative Leaders’ Radical Agenda

    Conservative leaders are openly declaring their revolutionary intentions to drag the U.S. back to the 1800s.

    AP News states that Kevin Roberts, Heritage Foundation President, declared on Steve Bannon’s War Room podcast, “We are in the process of the second American Revolution, which will remain bloodless if the left allows it to be.”

    With over 110 conservative groups involved, they’re pushing policy and personnel recommendations for the next conservative president. This isn’t just about Trump; it’s a full-blown attempt to reshape America.

    Trump’s Extreme Agenda

    Even if he’s trying to sidestep Project 2025, Trump’s own plans are still alarming. Research shows that he’s gearing up for a massive deportation operation and wants to potentially tariff all imports if he gets a second term.

    These proposals, when combined with Project 2025, paint a chilling picture of the future. It’s devastating enough that his SCOTUS picks have lifetime control over our laws and seemingly use it to dismantle more civil rights by the day.

    Trump’s campaign has previously warned outside allies not to speak for him, yet Karoline Leavitt, a campaign spokeswoman, has been featured in Project 2025’s videos. The hypocrisy is staggering.

    It’s as if they want to distance themselves while simultaneously keeping the radical base riled up. Talk about having your cake and eating it, too. 

    Democrats Sound the Alarm

    The Democratic response has been fierce. The Biden campaign has slammed Project 2025 as a “violent revolution to destroy the very idea of America.”

    AP found that Ammar Moussa from the Biden campaign described it as an “extreme policy and personnel playbook for Trump’s second term that should scare the hell out of the American people.”

    On Independence Day, the Biden campaign posted a dystopian image from “The Handmaid’s Tale” on X, captioned, “Fourth of July under Trump’s Project 2025.”

    It’s a clear warning about the dangerous path ahead. 

    What’s Next?

    Trump’s comments come as the Republican Party prepares to draft its party platform, and Project 2025 is gearing up to share a 180-day agenda for the next administration privately.

    As these developments unfold, the American public must stay alert and informed. Trump’s denial might be a tactical move, but the implications of Project 2025 are too significant and dangerous to ignore. 

    This isn’t just about political maneuvering; it’s about the future of our democracy and lives.

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  • For Pride Month, Mental Health Professionals Offer Parenting Help

    For Pride Month, Mental Health Professionals Offer Parenting Help

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    Parenting is a hard job under the best of circumstances. It can be especially confusing if that parent is unfamiliar or uncomfortable with the world of LGTBQIA+ and their child is asking questions they feel unprepared to address. On June 27, a panel of legitimate professionals will allow parents to anonymously ask their most concerning questions in real time.

    A local mental health practice will soon give the public a chance to ask their tough parenting questions. On June 27th, 2024, Lifescapes Counseling Associates is presenting their third in a series of educational webinars, presented via video in an interactive, question and answer format. “Navigating LGBTQIA+ – Guidance for Parents” will be presented by experienced licensed mental health providers Julia Bernards, PhD, LMFT, Meredith Drake, MEd, LCMHCA, and Amy Moulds, MEd, LCMHCS.

    This live webinar is intended to help parents who are struggling to understand, guide, and support their children/teens as they explore diverse sexual or gender identities. We will provide basic information about child development, identity development, gender dysphoria, and the intersecting continua of gender, sex, and sexual orientation. Family acceptance  and religious challenges will be discussed, and we will suggest parenting strategies that lead to strong parent-child relationships and healthy long-term functioning. 

    The ACCESSlifescapes Webinar Series hopes to use a large group environment to reach people with questions. “We want to provide the opportunity to chat with real therapists in real time at low cost,” says Practice Director Amy Moulds. “It can be hard to identify trustworthy information online, and many people would be surprised to know how common their most guarded questions actually are.”

    As therapy requires financial and scheduling commitments that are not feasible for everyone, ACCESSlifescapes offers the opportunity to interact directly with licensed professionals about a range of timely psychological, psychiatric, and behavioral issues, such as school refusal, psychiatric medication, parenting LGBTQIA+ adolescents, eating disorders, etc. This secure webinar format will allow participants (who will not be visible) to receive peer support and validation in a private setting.

    Participants will have the opportunity to submit questions privately when completing the online registration. Participants can ask their questions anonymously during the webinar. Registration is limited and can be accessed at https://us06web.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_yBPx6sMiROKPvu-5z-j-ww

    Past webinar recordings are also available at our website, including webinars about school refusal and psychotropic medication. If you would like to register for the upcoming “Navigating LGBTQIA+ – Guidance for Parents” webinar, or to access the schedule of future webinar topics, please visit www.lifescapescounseling.com/accesslifescapes-webinars.

    For questions about the ACCESSlifescapes Webinar Series, please call Lifescapes Counseling at 919.303.0273 or email us at webinars@lifescapescounseling.com

    Lifescapes Counseling Associates is an outpatient mental health practice providing professional psychiatric, psychological, and therapeutic services. Psychological evaluations, medication management, individual, couples, group, and family counseling services are available. Find us at Bradley Commons – 950 Windy Rd, Suite 305, Apex NC 27502 or at www.lifescapescounseling.com, or 919.303.0273.

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  • PRIDE Night Waves at San Francisco’s Aquarium of the Bay at PIER 39

    PRIDE Night Waves at San Francisco’s Aquarium of the Bay at PIER 39

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    Jun 3, 2024 14:00 PDT

    Dive into Pride with Aquarium of the Bay’s PRIDE Night Waves

    The Aquarium of the Bay invites the LGBTQIA+ community and allies to celebrate Pride amidst the awe-inspiring underwater world at its PRIDE Night Waves event on Wednesday, June 12th, 2024, from 6:00 pm to 9:00 pm.

    Embrace the Spirit of Pride

    This 18+ event is a vibrant celebration of diversity and inclusion. Guests can dance the night away to the beats of DJ Lando, enjoy dazzling performances by drag queen Sadyst Payne, Rosa Robada and entertainment by Mermaid Atlantis, and explore the Aquarium’s galleries after hours.

    Unforgettable Evening Awaits

    “PRIDE Night Waves promises an unforgettable evening filled with dazzling entertainment, delicious food, and the opportunity to explore the Bay’s incredible marine life,” said Jaz Cariola, General Manager at the Aquarium of the Bay. “We’re thrilled to celebrate Pride with our community and continue our commitment to diversity and inclusion.”

    Event Highlights:

    • Live performances by Drag Performer Sadyst Payne, Rosa Robada and entertainment by Mermaid Atlantis
    • Music by DJ Lando 1
    • Silent Disco provided by Bay Area Fan Love
    • Food vendors featuring Happy Cow Creamery, North Beach Pizza, and more
    • After-hours access to Aquarium of the Bay exhibits

    Tickets & Information

    Tickets for PRIDE Night Waves are available now at: www.aquariumofthebay.org/nightwaves.

    About the Aquarium of the Bay

    The Aquarium of the Bay is a 501 c3 nonprofit organization dedicated to protecting, restoring, and inspiring the conservation of San Francisco Bay. Aquarium of the Bay fosters a deeper appreciation for the bay’s extraordinary ecosystems through interactive exhibits, educational programs, and research initiatives. www.aquariumofthebay.org 

    Source: Aquarium of the Bay at PIER 39

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  • Daniel Radcliffe says that J.K. Rowling’s anti-trans rhetoric makes him ‘really sad’

    Daniel Radcliffe says that J.K. Rowling’s anti-trans rhetoric makes him ‘really sad’

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    Daniel Radcliffe has responded to J.K. Rowling’s expectation of an “apology” for his advocacy on behalf of trans youth.

    On Tuesday, The Atlantic published a lengthy profile of the former Harry Potter actor, in which he went deep on a number of topics, including his long history of support for LGBTQ+ people.

    Daniel has long been an outspoken advocate for the rights of trans youth, even as Rowling has directly called him out. In a recent post on X, Rowling responded to a fan who said that they were waiting on a “very public apology” from Radcliffe and his co-star Emma Watson, calling the two actors “celebs who cozied up to a movement intent on eroding women’’ hard-won rights and who used their platforms to cheer on the transitioning of minors.”

    In response to that specific incident, Daniel merely told The Atlantic, “I will continue to support the rights of all LGBTQ+ people, and have no further comment than that.”

    Elsewhere in the profile, though, Daniel spoke to the general tenor of his relationship with the author — or lack thereof. He revealed that he has had no direct contact with Rowling since June 2020, when she first published the lengthy blog post in which she repeated well-worn anti-trans tropes, including the specious idea that trans activism clears the way for men to impersonate women in order to assault “natal” women in bathrooms and changing rooms.

    (Never mind that almost half of all trans people have been sexually assaulted at some point in their lives and are four times more likely than cis people to be victims of violent crime, including rape and sexual assault.) “It makes me really sad, ultimately, because I do look at the person that I met, the times that we met, and the books that she wrote, and the world that she created, and all of that is to me so deeply empathic,” Daniel said.

    He added that he and his co-stars, including Emma Watson and Rupert Grint, were often subjects of mockery by the British press for showing support for trans people.

    “There’s a version of ‘Are these three kids ungrateful brats?’ that people have always wanted to write, and they were finally able to. So, good for them, I guess,” he said. The actor added that while “nothing in my life would have probably happened the way it is without” Rowling, “that doesn’t mean that you owe the things you truly believe to someone else for your entire life.”

    Daniel also said that his work with the LGBTQ+ suicide prevention organization The Trevor Project made him feel as though not speaking out “would have seemed like, I don’t know, immense cowardice.”

    “I wanted to try and help people that had been negatively affected by the comments,” the actor said. “And to say that if those are Jo’s views, then they are not the views of everybody associated with the Potter franchise.”

    Elsewhere in the profile, Daniel touched on his history with The Trevor Project, which he’s been working with for 12 years. When he was first introduced to the organisation in 2009, the actor said he saw an opportunity to help: “If there was any value in a famous straight young actor who was from this film series that could be useful in the fight against people killing themselves, then I was just very keen to be a part of that.”

    Lastly, that work helped him realise that Harry Potter is a low-key gay icon. “A lot of people found some solace in those books and films who were dealing with feeling closeted or rejected by their family or living with a secret,” he said. (After all, Potter did literally live in a closet cupboard under the stairs.)

    A version of this article was originally published on Them.

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  • Sophia Bush explains how her romantic relationship with Ashlyn Harris began

    Sophia Bush explains how her romantic relationship with Ashlyn Harris began

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    Sophia Bush is revealing the unique origins of her relationship with former US soccer star Ashlyn Harris: an ad hoc divorcée support group.

    In a deeply personal essay for her April 2024 GLAMOUR cover story, Bush reveals that the pair first met in 2019 and became good friends. However, as Sophia began to navigate her divorce from her now ex-husband in summer 2023, she ended up connecting with other women in her life who were dealing with their own relationship struggles.

    Over time the women formed a community where they opened up to one another about what they were dealing with, and Ashlyn soon joined in as she dealt with her split from her then wife, a fellow soccer star with whom she shares two young children. For Bush, the group was a lifeline.

    “For those of us who had no solution in sight or Hail Marys left, having this community changed everything,” she writes. “We really wrapped one another up in support. It was tragic and hard. But it was also beautiful.”

    The women, she says, would share inspirational quotes and books with one another, life advice, or just silly TikToks and memes. They created a “Begin Again” Amazon shopping list with items a woman may need when moving out of a shared space, which Bush says has now been shared with many others who need such a resource. Eventually, Sophia and Ashlyn’s relationship began to deepen in ways neither of them saw coming.

    Bush’s April 2024 Glamour cover. Read her powerful essay here.

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    “I didn’t expect to find love in this support system,” she writes. “I don’t know how else to say it other than: I didn’t see it until I saw it. And I think it’s very easy not to see something that’s been in front of your face for a long time when you’d never looked at it as an option and you had never been looked at as an option. What I saw was a friend with her big, happy life. And now I know she thought the same thing about me.”

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  • Black History is NOW:   Tony Merritt

    Black History is NOW: Tony Merritt

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    Atlanta resident Tony Merritt, 77, has been living with HIV for almost 40 years and uses his voice as a member of the Black LGBTQ+ community to be fearless and encourage others to get tested and know their status. Photo by Isaiah Singleton/The Atlanta Voice

    Tony Merritt, 77, has been living with HIV for more than three decades and is using his voice as a member of Atlanta’s Black LGBTQ+ community to be fearless and encourage others to get tested and learn their status.  

    Working with the National Black HIV/AIDS Awareness Day on Feb. 7, Merritt partnered with AvitaCare Atlanta on an HIV and STI testing event called “Be Fearless. Get Tested.” at its clinic from Feb. 5-11 to help all Atlantans overcome the stigma and fear associated with HIV and STI testing.  

    Additionally, Merritt has been a patient at AvitaCare Atlanta for over 25 years.  

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  • Why the government's new transgender school guidance is a massive blow to the trans community

    Why the government's new transgender school guidance is a massive blow to the trans community

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    Johanna, a 25-year-old trans woman from Glasgow, agrees. “It’s a misunderstanding that’s extremely widespread. There can be a prevailing thought that ultimately being trans is not desirable,” she says. “When [language is used about] ‘digging into the reasons’ why a child is [trans, it’s about] looking for negative psychological things that they can say, ‘Well, that’s why.’ This kind of thinking is treating being trans as a problem rather than something that can be celebrated — something that can be joyous and something that can be wonderful and life affirming, which is what it’s been for me for me.”

    When it comes to the guidance that suggests that teachers should share details about trans children’s’ preferences to their parents, Ella explains that this approach can do more harm than good in many cases.

    Many trans children might “not be in a position where they might not be so comfortable telling their parents,” whereas they may be more trusting of a teacher, she says, “because they feel safe in school.”

    A teacher shouldn’t be forced to “out” a trans child, says Ella. “A teacher isn’t going to know if that child has a safe home life; a teacher isn’t going to know whether that child’s parent is for or against transitioning,” she says.

    Johanna explains that in some cases, this guidance could create a physical threat. “The obvious problem is that there could be children whose parents could be violently transphobic — their parents could be abusive towards them,” she says. “But there are a lot of children who also just want some space to explore themselves and might not really be ready for that conversation with their parents.”

    Johanna had a drama teacher at school who offered her a safe space where she could discuss gender without judgement and without the fear of being “outed” before she was ready.

    “That was really, really special and really, really important to me, and I think that’s the kind of support that kids need,” she says. “It doesn’t need to be this mass intervention where the teachers and parents are in close contact with each other about all of the little details — because their children are their own people with their own emotions and their own sense of identity.”

    The other major issue the trans community with the guidance is that it suggests teachers shouldn’t be required to use children’s preferred pronouns.

    “It is disrespectful in my eyes. [If that happened to me when I was a child at school], I would feel emotionally attacked — I’d be embarrassed and I find it hard,” she says.

    “If that happened to me, I just wouldn’t want to be here,” she goes on. “Suicide is already the biggest killer of trans people. And also the suicide rate in the trans community is so high just like the unemployment rate. And I think that would make it 10 times harder.”

    Ultimately, Ella, Johanna and other members of the trans community would like to see the government offering advice to schools that is founded in supporting, rather than fearing, trans children. And the first step is about listening and understanding people from the community.

    “Rather than listening to trans young people and reflecting best practice of inclusive educators across the UK, the Government has created more confusion for schools and is putting young people at risk,” Mermaids says.

    Ella adds, “The majority of [the government] are straight, white and cisgender and they haven’t had first hand experience of the queer community and the trans community. The guidance is made without listening to us — these decisions are being made for us and they’re never in our favour.”

    There are things you can do now about the transgender school guidance. Mermaids recommends taking action and asking your MP to speak out against this proposed guidance. If you need support contact their Helpline at 0808 801 0400.

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  • Marlon Wayans Hopes To Help Parents With Future Stand-Up Comedy Special About His Trans Son

    Marlon Wayans Hopes To Help Parents With Future Stand-Up Comedy Special About His Trans Son

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    Marlon Wayans is planning to dedicate his next comedy special to his trans son, Kai Wayans.

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    Marlon Wayans stopped by The Breakfast Club to promote his latest stand-up comedy special, “Good Grief.” During the interview, he revealed that he wanted to get even more personal in his future stand-up comedy specials and dedicate the next one to his trans son, Kai.

    The special titled “Skittles” or “Rainbow Child” would be about his “daughter who transitioned to a son.”

    “My daughter Amai (Wayans) is now Kai and so I talk about the transition – now their transition – by my transition as a parent going from ignorance and denial to complete unconditional love and acceptance. I think there’s a lot of parents out there that need to have that message and I know I’m dealing with it,” he said.

    “It was a very painful situation for me, but man it’s one of the best funniest hours I probably could ever imagine.”

    Of course, being the comedian that he is, he joked with his daughter about the decision saying, “‘N***a you transitioning into your brother! You look just like him!’ I can’t tell the difference between her and Shawn. I swear to God.”

    Marlon Wayans’ History Of Supporting His Transgender Son Kai

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    It’s no secret that Marlon is a proud supporter of the LGBTQIA community. He has always made an effort to show up and gracefully love his child out loud. The comedian and actor took to Instagram to wish his son a heartfelt birthday. The tribute thanked Kai for teaching him how to love people unconditionally.

    “Happiest bday my baby… daddy loves you to the moon and back. I’ve always asked people to love me unconditionally, thank you for teaching me what that really means. Be you! Your best you! You’re the gift and I’m wrapping paper… love love love you for life. Excuse my ignorance, chalk it up to growth. Love you so much, thank you for making me a man. So proud. 🌈” he wrote.

    The first time Marlon opened up about his son was back in 2019 when he took to Instagram during Pride Month to show love and support. Unfortunately, the post was met with much criticism and backlash.

    He wrote, “Happy pride 🌈 to my pride and joy. I wouldn’t change one effing thing about you. Love you to the moon around the sun, through the galaxies, and back again.”

    One user wrote, “Another brother from Hollywood who failed his kids🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️.” However, not all feedback was negative! Some users opened up and expressed their gratitude for the support of the community.

    Be on the lookout for the release of Marlon Wayans’ stand-up comedy special, “Good Grief,” dropping soon!

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  • Bottoms Still Can’t Top But I’m A Cheerleader When It Comes to Queer Satire

    Bottoms Still Can’t Top But I’m A Cheerleader When It Comes to Queer Satire

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    Being that the queer film canon remains shockingly scant after all this time, it goes without saying that the even more hyper-specific genre of satirical queer film is limited, in essence, to 1999’s But I’m A Cheerleader. Twenty-four years later, things haven’t gotten much more “ribald” or “perverse,” if we’re to go by what Bottoms is offering. Which is something to the effect of Fight Club meets Mean Girls with a dash of Heathers (that’s how the pitch would go, presumably). Compared to the latter movie solely because it, too, is set in high school and has a snarky, over-the-top (read: representative of reality, yet we must call it “over the top” to delude ourselves into thinking reality isn’t that grim) perspective. A.k.a. what people bill as a satire. This, of course, means caricatures of stereotypes. A stereotype, obviously, already being something of a caricature without needing to further amplify it. Unless it’s to make a point about some larger truth. Which Bottoms, in the end, fails to do.  

    In contrast, But I’m A Cheerleader makes its point from the very outset of the movie, with a title sequence that plays April March’s “Chick Habit” (long before Quentin Tarantino ever decided to use it) as quintessentially hot cheerleaders jump up and down in a manner befitting the male gaze. Except that, this time, it’s being seen through the female gaze of Jamie Babbit’s lens. And the images of those cheerleaders bobbing up and down will come back moments later, when Megan Bloomfield (Natasha Lyonne) needs to imagine them in order to seem even vaguely interested in the tongue-thrashing kisses of her football player boyfriend, Jared (Brandt Wille). When she finally makes it home for dinner, the plates prepared on the table tellingly all have meat on them, except for one, an empty space next to the peas and mashed potatoes where Megan’s mom will plop down her “vegetarian option.” Her father then engages in saying a very pointed prayer about giving people the strength to accept their “natural” roles in life. Feeling exposed by that statement, Megan does her best to sleep the lie of her life off in her room that night as a poster of Melissa Etheridge watches over her. 

    And so, within the first five minutes, But I’m A Cheerleader we’re given far more satire through visual cues than what we get at the beginning of Bottoms, directed by Emma Seligman, who co-wrote the script with her Shiva Baby star, Rachel Sennott. Going from a college-age girl to a high school girl for this role. But that can all be viewed as part of the satire (like Greta Gerwig casting a “too old” Ryan Gosling for the part of Ken, citing inspiration from Grease’s casting choices for high school students). Funnily enough, PJ (Sennott) seems to throw shade at that switch by saying, “We’re not gonna be sexy little high schoolers forever. Soon we’re gonna be old hags in college.” This said to her lifelong best friend, Josie (Ayo Edebiri, twenty-seven to Sennott’s twenty-eight), who is far less confident about being “hot” enough (according to PJ) to talk to the girls they’ve been crushing on for years. For Josie, that slow-burn pining is for a cheerleader (because, yes, the But I’m A Cheerleader connection) named Isabel (Hannah Rose Liu, no relation to Lucy, though still a nepo baby by way of being daughter to the founders of The Knot). For PJ, her more sexually-charged, less “in love” attraction is to another cheerleader named, what else, Brittany (Kaia Gerber, nepo baby nu​​méro deux). 

    Rather than commencing with anything visually, the first few minutes are pure dialogue, starting with PJ saying, “Tonight is the fucking night, okay? We’ve looked like shit for years, and we are developing.” Their back and forth continues on the way to the school carnival PJ is forcing them to go to, the one that kicks off the school year, but, more to the point, serves as a way to glorify the football team through quaint notions of “school spirit.” These quaint notions are also present for a reason in But I’m A Cheerleader, thanks to Megan’s status as, duh, a cheerleader. As though hiding behind that ultimate emblem of “all-American-ness” will throw people off the scent of her true identity. Which should mark at least one notable change between 1999 and 2023: theoretically greater acceptance of queer people in high schools (just not Floridian ones). Which is why, when Josie says, “This school has such a gay problem,” PJ replies, “Okay, no. No one hates us for being gay. Everyone hates us for being gay, untalented and ugly.” In other words, being gay has never been “chicer,” common even, if you know how to wield it to your advantage. 

    And yet, since PJ and Josie haven’t been able to make their gayness “work” for them, they decide to capitalize on a fortuitous coalescing of events: 1) the assumption that they went to juvenile hall over the summer after PJ jokingly confirms a fellow reject’s guess about why Josie has a broken arm, 2) Isabel running away from Jeff in the middle of the carnival and seeking refuge in Josie’s car before the latter slowly starts the car and drives toward him, just barely grazing his knee, 3) Jeff milking this for all its worth (even though nothing happened) by showing up to school the next day on crutches and 4) the announcement that a football player from the Vikings’ rival team, the Huntington Golden Ferrets, attacked a girl to quench some of their bloodlust. All factors conspiring to make PJ’s idea to start a fight club in order to attract their scared fellow female students and therefore possibly lose their virginity to one of them (being a satire, whether or not any of these girls are actually lesbians seems to hold no importance for PJ and Josie—especially PJ, who perhaps rightfully assumes that everyone is gay). Yes, this is the entire far-fetched crux of the movie. Nonetheless, as it said, stranger things have happened. 

    And since “weird shit” is more accepted by the mainstream than it was in 1999, it bears noting that Lionsgate Films, known at that time for distributing more “indie” fare instead of low-budget horror or high-grossing franchise movies (e.g., Twilight and The Hunger Games), was the company willing to pick up But I’m A Cheerleader. In the present, things seem to have gotten slightly friendlier toward queers in that Metro-Goldwyn-Mayer (more specifically, its revived Orion Pictures imprint) chose to distribute Bottoms. Then again, that studio has been queer-friendly since at least the days of Some Like It Hot. Thus, what Bottoms posits about being a lesbian in high school in the twenty-first century is that it’s so normalized now that homo girls are perhaps saddled with the worse fate of actually having to make themselves interesting and cool beyond “just” their sexuality.

    Enter the fight club, sponsored by PJ and Josie’s horrendously uneducated English (?) teacher, Mr. G (Marshawn Lynch, a former football running back himself). Who doesn’t show up until after the first meeting, where PJ takes the inaugural punch from Josie to prove they’re “legit.” Knocked to the ground, she rises up with a bloody face and an expression that mimics the sentiment behind, “One time she punched me. It was awesome.” It doesn’t take long for word about the club to travel around, and, just as PJ planned, Isabel and Brittany start to show up. Before they know it, the bonds of sisterhood are being forged—complete with “sharing trauma” time as they all sit in a circle and express themselves emotionally after already doing so physically. 

    In But I’m A Cheerleader, that form of sharing comes in the “re-orientation” meetings, the first of which prompts Megan to finally admit she’s a lesbian. After all, the film is divided into the five steps of the “recovery” program at True Directions, the first being: “Admitting You’re A Homosexual.” Megan doesn’t feel all that great after the admission, looked upon by Graham Eaton (Clea DuVall), another lesbian she shares a room with, as delusional for thinking that she can be “fixed” now that she knows. For this isn’t Graham’s first time at the rodeo, having been harshly judged by her family for years, and currently threatened with being disowned and disinherited (the ultimate power play). Hence, the jadedness…and the freedom with which she eats sushi (done for the sake of the line: “She’s just upset because the fish on her plate is the only kind she can eat”). 

    Additionally, the hyper-saturated color palette and overall “are we in the 1950s?” vibe of the movie is part of its genius. And what amplifies its ability to expose heteronormativity for its absurdity (particularly during the scenes of “Step 2: Rediscovering Your Gender Identity”). Bottoms, instead, already too easily benefits from the Gen Z assumption that being gay is “no big.” Never seeming to stop and look back at what all the homos who came before had to endure for them to be in this place of “levity.” Which is why the idea that one could “make light” of homophobia in the late 90s is automatically more powerful than any satirical slant Bottoms could ever hope to offer. With existing further in the pop culture timeline so often being a bane rather than a boon, at least where innovation is concerned. 

    And it seems like Seligman knows, on some level, that Brian Wayne Peterson’s script is the standard for satirizing what it means to be queer in a world “built for” the straights. Ergo, a subtle nod to But I’m A Cheerleader that comes in the form of a diner called But I’m A Diner, where Josie goes on her first “date” with Isabel. Who is, again, a cheerleader. One who eventually shows us that she swings her pom-poms both ways. Indeed, in the same way that But I’m A Cheerleader ends with Megan making a grand gesture to Graham, so, too, does Bottoms end with Josie (and PJ) engaging in the grand gesture of beating up the Huntington football team as a way say they’re sorry for lying about going to juvie and starting a fight club solely for the hope of getting some snatch (which, of course, makes them no better than men). And while this might be more elaborate than Megan’s simple cheer at Graham’s “I’m Straight Now” graduation ceremony, it doesn’t change the fact that But I’m A Cheerleader remains the crème de la crème of queer satire, right down to RuPaul as an “ex-gay”/True Directions employee wearing a “Straight Is Great” t-shirt.  

    This, in part, is because But I’m A Cheerleader had (and has) the advantage of being of its time. Therefore, coming across as more avant-garde and powerful than Bottoms could ever hope to. By the same token, were Bottoms not released in the present, it wouldn’t have enjoyed the undeniable value of queer ally Charli XCX scoring the entire soundtrack, in addition to adding some of her own already-in-existence tracks, like “party 4 u” from How I’m Feeling Now. That said, the But I’m A Cheerleader Soundtrack is nothing to balk at, featuring such dance floor anthems as Saint Etienne’s “We’re in the City” and Miisa’s “All or Nothing.” And so, while Bottoms is a welcome addition to the lacking and challenging genre of gay and lesbian satire, it still can’t quite hold a candle to the masterwork of the category. Coming in as a close tie with 2004’s Saved!, itself riffing on the premise of But I’m A Cheerleader via the gay boyfriend who’s also sent to a “conversion therapy” camp plotline. Whoever releases the next effort, however, will now have to at least top Bottoms.

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  • Everything you need to know about gender affirming surgery

    Everything you need to know about gender affirming surgery

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    Gender affirmation surgery, also known as gender confirmation surgery, helps people transition to their ‘self-identified’ gender, giving them the physical appearance and functional abilities of the gender they know themselves to be. This might include anything from facial surgery to bottom surgery and top surgery, usually used as a treatment to ease symptoms of gender dysphoria.

    What this means will vary from person to person, and is different for children, young people and adults. According to the NHS, waiting times for referral and treatment are currently long and for children under 18, they’ll usually be referred to the Gender Identity Development Service (GIDS) at the Tavistock and Portman NHS Foundation Trust first before a treatment plan is put in place with a team of experts including psychologists and adolescent psychiatrists.

    For adults who have chosen to have surgery to permanently alter body parts associated with their biological sex, they are first referred to a Gender Dysphoria Clinic (GDC) and seen by a multidisciplinary team of healthcare professionals, who offer ongoing assessments, treatments, support and advice, including psychological support, cross-sex hormone therapy and speech and language therapy. Based on the recommendations of doctors at the gender dysphoria clinic, they will be referred to a specialist surgeon outside the clinic who is an expert in this type of surgery.

    Here’s everything you need to need to know about gender affirmation surgery.

    What is gender-affirming surgery?

    Sex reassignment surgery refers to procedures that help people transition to their self-identified gender. Today, many people prefer to use the terms gender affirmation or confirmation surgery.

    Who has gender-affirming surgery and why?

    People may have surgery so that their physical body matches their gender identity. People who choose gender affirmation surgery do so because they experience gender dysphoria. Gender dysphoria is the distress that occurs when your sex assigned at birth does not match your gender identity.

    What are the types of gender-affirming/sex reassignment surgery?

    “Gender-affirming surgical procedures can have a significant impact on a patient’s overall wellbeing and are often a critical step for many in their transition,” says plastic surgeon Dr Paul Banwell.

    Dr. Banwell adds: “With regards to available procedures, breast augmentation can add volume and shape for a more feminine appearance. By contrast, mastectomy involves the removal of breast tissue and therefore masculinises the chest.

    “Body contouring can also align with both masculine and feminine ideals. We can look at liposuction and fat grafting to redistribute body fat to areas such as the hips and buttocks for a more feminine appearance whilst defining the torso may be necessary for masculinisation. Of course this is all based on the individual’s needs and carefully decided through a thorough consultation period.”

    According to the NHS, there are various surgical procedures involved when it comes to sex reassignment.

    Surgery for trans men

    Common chest procedures for trans men (trans-masculine people) include:

    • removal of both breasts (bilateral mastectomy) and associated chest reconstruction
    • nipple repositioning
    • dermal implant and tattoo

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    Annabelle Spranklen

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