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  • God’s Plan for Your Prodigal

    God’s Plan for Your Prodigal

    Before my kids were born, I had an idealistic view of what parenting would be like. But it didn’t take long for my plans to be upended as the beautiful yet challenging adventure began. 

    What struck me most was the independence exerted by each of my kids, an independence that sometimes led them down compromising paths. For reasons I still ponder, I naively believed my children would be immune to compromise, especially when it came to matters of faith. I envisioned them navigating their walk with God with ease and certainty, never straying from His principles. 

    However, I’ve come to realize we’re all on our own journey, and for some, the road back to the Savior is long and difficult. Yet, I rest in the assurance that my family is held in the embrace of God’s sovereign plan. I trust that the Lord is at work, weaving His perfect will through our lives, including the lives of our prodigals.

    With each passing day, I’m learning to release my fears and failures to Him, reminding myself of His promises and the hope He offers. I cling to the belief that no matter how far they may wander, there is always a path back home.

    If you’re wondering what God’s plans might be for your prodigal, take comfort in these promising Scriptures.

    He Desires to Save Them

    “First of all, then, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for all people, for kings and all who are in high positions, that we may lead a peaceful and quiet life, godly and dignified in every way. This is good, and it is pleasing in the sight of God our Savior, who desires all people to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth. For there is one God, and there is one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, who gave himself as a ransom for all, which is the testimony given at the proper time.” 1 Timothy 2:1-6 (ESV)

    I probably don’t need to ask this, but is your prodigal son or daughter included in your prayers? Are you diligently praying for them with thanksgiving in your heart? 

    I know how difficult it is to keep interceding when you don’t see the fruit of your petitions. But don’t grow weary! Galatians 6:9 spurs us on, saying, “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” Imagine the beautiful harvest of your child’s heart ready to receive Christ. What a wonderful day that will be! 

    I love the parable of the persistent widow when Jesus emphasized the importance of praying and never giving up. He said, “And will not God bring about justice for his chosen ones, who cry out to him day and night? Will he keep putting them off? I tell you he will see that they get justice, and quickly” (Luke 18:7-8). 

    My friends, we are free to call upon the Lord, day and night. He wants to hear our prayers and petitions. Jesus removed the veil so we could enter into God’s presence and tell Him everything.

    Draw near to God today, and let your desires be made known. Be persistent in prayer, believing in faith for your prodigal’s return.

    He Wants Their Eyes to Be Open

    “I am sending you to them to open their eyes and turn them from darkness to light, and from the power of Satan to God, so that they may receive forgiveness of sins and a place among those who are sanctified by faith in me.” Acts 26:17-18

    Paul’s miraculous conversion on the road to Damascus is one of the most comforting passages for parents of prodigals. From murderer to martyr, Paul’s life was transformed in an instant by a glorious encounter with Jesus.

    As we read Paul’s story, we see the great commission Jesus placed on his life. He was sent to open the eyes of the Gentiles, turn them from darkness to light, and deliver them from the power of Satan to God. Paul’s testimony is a powerful reminder that no one is too far gone to be captured by God’s love and redemption.

    All along, God’s plan has been to open people’s eyes to His free gift of salvation. We can trust Him to meet our prodigals right where they are, offering them new life in Christ. Let’s remember Paul’s Damascus journey with renewed hope for our loved ones. The Lord still speaks today, drawing people out of darkness and into His glorious light.

    He Seeks Them

    “For the Son of Man came to seek and to save the lost.” Luke 19:10

    Does God keep pursuing us even when we run away? This is a serious question that requires a serious answer. For parents of prodigals, it’s tempting to assume our kids have gone too far, pushed too hard, or run too fast. But remember Isaiah 59:1, which says, “Surely the arm of the Lord is not too short to save, nor his ear too dull to hear.”

    In this post by Debbie McDaniel, she says, “Some days, we just need a reminder, that God is intimately involved in all that concerns us. Maybe we’ve been praying for something and still don’t see the answer. Maybe a door closed that we were really hoping would open. Maybe we’re battling discouragement and defeat, or we’re burdened for the lives of those we love…He knows. He cares.”

    My friends, we can absolutely trust God to keep pursuing our prodigals with His limitless love. The word of His mouth has the power to change even the most wayward heart. Hebrews 4:12 says, “For the word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and of spirit, of joints and of marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart. And no creature is hidden from his sight, but all are naked and exposed to the eyes of him to whom we must give account.” 

    As you wait for your prodigal to return, pray the Scriptures aloud. Speak life and truth over them, believing God for greater things. Resist thoughts that they’ve run too far and remember no creature under heaven is hidden from God’s sight. He still seeks. He still saves.

    He Makes the Way Clear

    “If you declare with your mouth, ‘Jesus is Lord,’ and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.” Romans 10:9-10

    In one of my previous posts, Why Is There Only One Way to Heaven?, I share, “Jesus is the Way, the Truth and the Life. His way is sure, and His path is open to all. What a divine blessing to be given the exact directions to eternity! There is no guesswork. There is no re-calculating the journey. Jesus paved the way once and for all.”

    Sadly, many prodigals feel they’re unworthy of salvation. If we were to take a poll, we’d likely hear answers such as:

    “I’m too lost.”

    “I’ll never be good enough.”

    “I can’t live up to God’s standards.”

    “It’s hopeless.”

    In contrast, Jesus made the way of salvation as clear as possible. God’s greatest plan for your prodigal is to save them. He loves them with an everlasting love and wants nothing more than for them to repent, believe, and be saved. You can trust Him every step of the way. Do you believe this today? 

    More Resources for Your Journey:

    10 Affirmations for the Parent of a Prodigal Child

    7 Prayers for Your Prodigal Child

    10 Reasons to Trust God with Your Prodigal Child

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    Jennifer Waddle is the author of several books, including Prayer WORRIER: Turning Every Worry into Powerful Prayer, and is a regular contributor for LifeWay, Crosswalk, Abide, and Christians Care International. Jennifer’s online ministry is EncouragementMama.com where you can find her books and sign up for her weekly post, Discouragement Doesn’t Win. She resides with her family near the foothills of the Rocky Mountains—her favorite place on earth. 

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  • Deny Yourself These 7 Things and See How Happy Your Spouse Is

    Deny Yourself These 7 Things and See How Happy Your Spouse Is

    Most of us are uncomfortable with the idea of denying ourselves, especially from the things that give us momentary pleasure. Whether it be that second slice of cheesecake, or that weekly online shopping spree, the challenge to deny ourselves isn’t an easy challenge to accept.

    But what if the concept of denying yourself became less about self and more about others? For marriage, in particular, what if practicing self-denial in certain areas would lead to a more fulfilled and happy marriage?

    The truth is, there are certain habits we practice so frequently—without a single thought of denying ourselves—we start to assume those habits are our “rights.” But when couples are so focused on their individual rights, they often lose sight of the oneness God created for the marriage union.

    Here are 7 ways denying yourself will not only help you become less self-centered, but also make your spouse happy in the process 

    1. Deny Avoiding Intimacy

    Avoiding intimacy, or denying your spouse of lovemaking, can literally tear your marriage apart. Not only does it go against the Bible, according to 1 Corinthians 7:5, it goes against the blessing of oneness that God designed.

    Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. (1Corinthians 7:5)

    Deny yourself the excuses of avoiding intimacy, and you might find a renewed closeness that fosters both love and romance.

    2. Deny Overspending

    Countless marital struggles arise due to financial stress. And most of the time, consistent overspending is the culprit. If you struggle with overspending in your marriage, try to see your spouse’s point of view. How can self-denial in this area help your marriage thrive instead of merely survive?

    For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evils. It is through this craving that some have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves with many pangs. (1 Timothy 6:10 ESV)

    By denying yourself the “right” to overspend, you’ll be showing your spouse respect for their hard work, and respect for your household finances. Hopefully, this will lead to a more balanced and happy marriage.

    3. Deny Scrolling Social Media

    Our spouses can easily feel ignored and unimportant when we are constantly scrolling social media. I’ve seen couples sitting across from each other in restaurants, on their phones, totally ignoring one another for the entire duration of their meal.

    This is a big issue in our marriages today. According to this article, “the deeper issue is the feeling of disconnect you or your partner experiences when you get lost in your phone. You don’t truly listen or make eye contact, thus making your spouse feel ignored.”

    While it’s tempting to check your phone every few minutes, make the decision to turn it off when sharing a meal or quality moment with your spouse. This is one form of self-denial that will truly make a difference in how you connect.

    Do to others as you would like them to do to you. (Luke 6:31 NLT)

    4. Deny Talking Too Much

    Everyone likes to feel heard. And when one spouse constantly manipulates the conversation, it doesn’t take long for the other to start tuning them out. This isn’t the kind of communication that fosters a healthy marriage. 

    Consider the ways in which you can be a better listener and deny yourself the habit of talking too much. Here are a few actionable tips that might help:

    • Pray and ask God to help you listen more than you speak.
    • Ask your spouse about their day before you tell them about yours.
    • Turn off your phone and look them in the eye as they talk.
    • Resist the urge to interrupt or make your opinion known, unless specifically asked for.
    • Repeat what your spouse is telling you, to let them know you heard them.

    Ultimately, when you deny talking too much, you are opening the door of healthy communication in your marriage, which will only lead to a happier, more responsive spouse.

    My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry. (James 1:19)

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    5. Deny Being Lazy

    If you’re constantly procrastinating, by putting off important things such as paying the bills, cleaning the house, or making dinner, consider denying yourself the nonconstructive pattern of laziness. 

    Of course, there will be seasons when neither spouse has the energy to cook or clean, but make those seasons far and few between. Instead of giving into laziness or procrastination, come up with a system that works for both of you. This might mean you alternate cooking and cleaning. It might mean you run errands on designated days. Whatever you choose, deny yourself the continuous habit of letting things go. Both you and your spouse will benefit from a workable schedule that gets things done.

    May the favor of the Lord our God rest on us; establish the work of our hands for us—yes, establish the work of our hands. (Psalm 90:17)

    6. Deny Asking for More

    Discontentment in marriage is a dangerous thing. Not only does it always want more, it doesn’t appreciate what it already has. If you find yourself discontent—more often than not—try to get to the root of your unhappiness and get the help needed to find contentment.

    According to this post, “Our conflict with others increases when our own contentment decreases. This is particularly true for our marriages. The opposite is true too—When our contentment increases—our conflict with others decreases.”

    Make your spouse happy by denying yourself persistent discontentment. When discontented feelings arise, turn those feelings into offerings of thanksgiving. Make it a practice to thank the Lord for three things that are good in your life, every time discontentment raises its ugly head. Before long, you’ll be in a new habit of gratefulness and contentment.

    Not that I speak from want, for I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I am. I know how to get along with humble means, and I also know how to live in prosperity; in any and every circumstance I have learned the secret of being filled and going hungry, both of having abundance and suffering need. I can do all things through Him who strengthens me. (Philippians 4:11-13)

    7. Deny Demanding Spiritual Maturity

    For Christian couples who are walking with the Lord, there can be a tendency to judge one another’s spiritual maturity. The danger of this is that the spouse who feels judged will either become resentful or feel defeated in their faith. 

    It is important to deny yourself the practice of demanding spiritual maturity from your spouse. This doesn’t mean you can’t encourage them in their faith. However, it does mean you don’t have the right to condemn them.

    The Holy Spirit is the One who grows us up. It’s not our place to discount our spouse’s personal journey with the Lord. It’s our duty to build them up in the faith and walk humbly with God as an example.

    He has told you, O man, what is good; and what does the Lord require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God? (Micah 6:8)

    While denying yourself certain things does make your spouse happy, it would be wise to approach self-denial as a commitment to follow the ways of the Lord. In doing this, denying yourself becomes less about your efforts and more about walking in the Holy Spirit. Rely on the wisdom of God to lead you into a healthy place of willingness, and deny yourself for the sake of a happy and thriving marriage.

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    Jennifer WaddleJennifer Waddle is the author of several books, including Prayer WORRIER: Turning Every Worry into Powerful Prayer, and is a regular contributor for LifeWay, Crosswalk, Abide, and Christians Care International. Jennifer’s online ministry is EncouragementMama.com where you can find her books and sign up for her weekly post, Discouragement Doesn’t Win. She resides with her family near the foothills of the Rocky Mountains—her favorite place on earth. 

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  • Learning to Receive

    Learning to Receive

    “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in the heavenly realms with every spiritual blessing in Christ.” Ephesians 1:3

    Most women I know are excellent givers, but not always good at receiving. As I ponder this, I wonder if it’s because of how God created us as helpers for our husbands, companions to our coworkers and friends, and even nurses for our kids when they’re sick.

    It comes natural for us to serve our families, contribute to our workplaces, and give of ourselves until we have nothing left to give. Yet, learning to receive is vitally important to our health and growth. It’s part of who we were created to be – to receive every blessing we’ve been given through Christ Jesus.

    If you’re an excellent giver but struggle to receive, I pray this post is of great encouragement to you. It is possible to receive with a joyful mindset, open hands of faith, and a heart of gratitude. 

    It Starts with Belief

    When we read the verse in Acts 20:35 that says, “It is more blessed to give than to receive,” we might assume Paul is telling the early church that receiving is bad. However, in the context of the entire chapter, we see that Paul is talking about covetousness and how he avoided this issue by working to supply what was needed for himself and his companions. 

    What we believe about receiving matters greatly. If we have the mindset that we must always give, serve, and help but never get, be served, or be helped, we’re going to run ourselves ragged and miss out on the blessings around us.

    Many times, I’ve witnessed my mom or mother-in-law busy in the kitchen while the rest of the family is enjoying time together. Usually, with a bit of coaxing, I’m able to get them to stop and join the fellowship, but it’s apparent their natural tendency is to serve.

    In Psalm 34:8, David said, “Taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the one who takes. refuge in Him.” This passage invites us to partake of the Lord’s goodness and take refuge in Him. It doesn’t once mention giving, but instead, receiving.

    Learning to receive starts with belief – the belief that God gives good gifts to His children and wants us to accept them with joy and thanksgiving. Pray and ask the Lord to change your mindset around “receiving” and begin to embrace the amazing blessings He pours out to you.

    Here are more helpful resources for your journey:

    Why Does the Book of Acts Say It’s Better to Give Than Receive?

    A Prayer for Changing the Way You Think

    15 Things to Do If You Need a Change in Perspective

    It Requires Humility

    It can feel awkward when someone gives us a compliment or word of affirmation, especially when we’re not good at receiving. Our tendency might be to say things like, “Oh, it’s nothing, really,” or “If only you knew the real me!” But what could happen if we humbly received the kind words of others with sincerity and gratitude? Imagine how their words of affirmation would continue to bless us instead of being instantly dismissed and forgotten.

    In the ESV, Proverbs 22:4 says, “The reward for humility and fear of the Lord is riches and honor and life.” This verse first emphasizes humility, but it also highlights the riches, honor, and reward we receive when we are humble before God.

    Learning to receive requires humility – the kind of humility that accepts things from others with genuine appreciation. Instead of glossing over the act of kindness, or receiving it flippantly, we are intentional about pausing long enough to realize the graciousness of others and the blessings of God.

    This isn’t always easy, but the more we practice humbly accepting what others give with a simple and sincere “Thank you,” the better we’ll get at receiving. So, the next time you’re offered a compliment or unexpected act of kindness, pause for a moment before you respond. Look the person in the eye and let them know you truly appreciate them. 

    Here are more helpful resources for your journey:

    What is Humility? Bible Meaning and Importance for Christians

    Why We Need to Learn to Take Compliments Well

    The Grace and Greatness of True Humility

    It Takes Practice

    Learning to receive well isn’t going to happen overnight, but, fortunately, there are many times throughout the year when we can practice it. Holidays, celebrations, work gatherings, church settings… all of these provide opportunities to not only serve others but receive from them as well. This can be in the form of:

    -Tangible gifts

    -Awards and promotions

    -Verbal compliments 

    -Help with projects or tasks

    -Wisdom, counsel, and guidance

    In each scenario, we can learn to receive graciously without false guilt or false humility. Yes, it takes practice, but just like anything else, the more we do it the better we get at it. At your next gathering, be intentional about receiving. Don’t let compliments slide. Don’t downplay the promotion. Don’t reject the help people offer. Be willing to receive what others are more than willing to give. Before long, you’ll be an expert giver and receiver!

    Here are more helpful resources for your journey:

    6 Ways to Seek Wise Counsel in Your Life

    What James 1:17 Means By ‘Every Good and Perfect Gift’ is from Above’

    It Grows with Gratitude

    It might seem counterintuitive to give more in order to receive more, but when it comes to gratitude, that’s exactly how it works. In fact, have you ever prayed with open hands, waiting in eager expectation for what God has for you that day? 

    This is a simple habit to incorporate into your personal time with the Lord, and as you do, you’ll find yourself growing in gratitude for His abundant blessings. With anticipation, you’ll seek His truth, His will, and His way and learn to receive the spiritual blessings He’s already given you according to Ephesians 1:3.

    Remember, the Lord is a Giver – He’s the Giver of life, love, and limitless grace. That means, as His daughters, we are to be receivers of His abundant life, eternal love, and endless grace. When we view receiving from this perspective, it will become wonderful and joyful for us. And the more lavish we are in gratefulness and praise to our good, good Father, the more eager we will be to receive daily gifts from Him.

    It was John Wesley who said, “Thanksgiving is inseparable from true prayer; it is almost essentially connected with it. One who always prays is ever giving praise, whether in ease or pain, both for prosperity and for the greatest adversity. He blesses God for all things, looks on them as coming from Him, and receives them for His sake.”

    Let’s learn to receive as we grow in our gratitude to the God who loves us and blesses us with every good thing. Let’s practice receiving with sincerity and pause. And let’s humbly accept the kindness others offer by believing in the goodness of both giving and receiving with joy.

    Here are more helpful resources for your journey:

    4 Ways Gratitude Can Change Your Mindset

    There’s a Good Reason for Gratitude

    The Attitude of Gratitude

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    Jennifer Waddle is the author of several books, including Prayer WORRIER: Turning Every Worry into Powerful Prayer, and is a regular contributor for LifeWay, Crosswalk, Abide, and Christians Care International. Jennifer’s online ministry is EncouragementMama.com where you can find her books and sign up for her weekly post, Discouragement Doesn’t Win. She resides with her family near the foothills of the Rocky Mountains—her favorite place on earth. 

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  • 9 Proverbs for Your Family to Memorize This School Year

    9 Proverbs for Your Family to Memorize This School Year

    A couple of years ago, I found an old set of Scripture memory cards I’d made for my kids in the early 90s. It was before the internet, so I used my old word processor, some generic clip art, and laminating sheets to make them. Talk about archaic!

    When I sent these cards to my oldest son, he FaceTimed me to tell me what a blessing it was to receive them. He still remembered the days of memorizing the Proverbs – one for each chapter. And surprisingly, he could still recall many of them! Of course, this warms my heart as a mom, knowing that even 30 years later, God’s truth is planted in his heart (and will now be planted in the hearts of my grandkids).

    Even though Scripture memory has seemingly gone by the wayside, it’s not too late to implement it in your own family. Here are 9 Proverbs your family can memorize this school year – one for each month!

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  • 3 Reasons My Husband and I Get Along So Well

    3 Reasons My Husband and I Get Along So Well

    In a few weeks, my husband and I will celebrate 32 years of marriage. It’s a milestone that neither of us takes for granted as we look back at the long journey that got us here. Like any couple, we went through financial hardships, medical emergencies, lack of communication, and a whole host of other things that could have derailed us, yet here we are decades later still blessed with a strong and healthy marriage.

    There are a few reasons why my husband and I get along so well, and it’s my hope that by sharing some of them, you’ll be encouraged in your own marriage. The Bible says that nothing is impossible with Christ. After all, He is the Way, the Truth, and the Life, and when couples walk in His ways, marriage can become the beautiful union God intended.

    Here are 3 reasons my husband and I get along so well:

    1. We Let Things Go (Often!)

    I can’t tell you how often I have an internal dialogue going on – a dialogue that says, should you speak up about this, or let it go? More often than not, the Holy Spirit prompts me to let it go and move on. This has been one of the best things for my marriage, and I encourage you to try it as well.

    You see, I’ve learned (the hard way) that most things aren’t worth getting upset over. The socks on the floor, the un-rinsed dishes in the sink, or the empty gas tank aren’t issues that make or break a relationship. It’s okay to ask our spouses to take care of these things, but it’s not okay to let resentment build up over them.

    Most of the time, the superficial issues we let bother us are deeper problems that need to be addressed. This can include unresolved anger, unfair blame, lack of communication, or a heart of unforgiveness. 

    Here are more practical examples of things we can let go of for the sake of peace:

    Small annoyances: Again, the dishes piled on the counter and the toothpaste tube squeezed in the middle are annoyances, but they shouldn’t dictate how we get along with our spouses. Instead of nagging, we can choose to let it go and focus on more important matters.

    Communication styles: Most couples have different ways of expressing their needs and concerns. My husband is very quiet, and I sometimes wish he would speak up. On the other hand, I tend to say things I later regret and have to keep a tight guard on my tongue. By recognizing our differences in communication styles, we’re able to offer one another grace and ultimately get along.

    Personal quirks: It’s likely your spouse has certain quirks or habits that bother you, and you can be certain you have things that bother them. But once you realize they are harmless and refuse to let them impact your relationship, you’ll cultivate more peace.

    When you let things go (often), you’ll be surprised at how much lighter the atmosphere becomes in your relationship. The thing is, letting go means letting go – not keeping a record of wrongs or harboring bitterness. Pray for God’s guidance in identifying things that truly need to be discussed and let the rest go.

    2. We Enjoy Being Together

    Finding something you enjoy doing together is one of the best ways to get along. Recently, my husband bought us kayaks. This was totally unexpected and out of the ordinary for us, but it has proven to be a fun outing we both enjoy. Who knew?

    Spending quality time with your spouse doesn’t have to be elaborate or expensive; it can be as simple as taking a walk in the evening or dancing in the living room. Whatever it is you both enjoy, be intentional about making it happen. Focus on minimizing media time and finding tangible ways to get along.

    Here are a few ideas to try:

    Cooking together: Set aside a specific night every week to cook a new recipe or prepare a favorite meal together. This can be a fun and creative way to bring you closer as a couple, while also saving money.

    Gardening: If you have a yard or even a small balcony, gardening can be a great way to spend time together. Get creative and plant a salad or herb garden. There are also hydroponic options for those who don’t have a lot of space.

    Game night: Couples can have a blast playing cards or board games. This not only provides entertainment but also stimulates healthy competition and communication between partners. Turn off the TV once in a while and pull out the old Scrabble board.

    Hiking or nature walks: Explore nearby trails or nature reserves by going for a leisurely walk. This is a great way to stay active, enjoy the outdoors, and have meaningful conversations. Spending time in God’s creation is always rewarding, and enjoying nature together will only enhance your relationship.

    When you truly enjoy your spouse, you’ll find that common issues are far easier to navigate. Don’t let different preferences build a wedge between you. Find something you enjoy doing together and be intentional to make it happen.

    3. We Live by Two Rules

    It wasn’t long after we were married that my husband and I decided we wanted to live by a 2-rule marriage. These “rules” come from the Bible and have proven to be the single-most important reason we get along so well.

    Rule #1: My husband purposes to love me as Christ loves the church. Ephesians 5:25 says it this way: “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.”  

    Rule #2: I purpose to submit to my husband as to the Lord. Ephesians 5:22 says, “Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord.”

    Ultimately, we both try to live according to Ephesians 5:21 which says, “Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.” By doing this, we find ourselves agreeing with one another far more than disagreeing. With God’s help, we’re able to set aside selfish desires and seek the interests of one another. Of course, we don’t live out these Scriptures perfectly, but we do live them out intentionally. 

    My prayer is that you’ve been encouraged by this post – so much so – you’ll plan a date night with your spouse to discuss ways to put some (or all) of these things into practice. Marriage isn’t always easy, but with God’s help and a bit of intentionality, you can get along and enjoy marriage the way God intended.

    A Prayer to Get Along in Marriage

    Father, we invite Your Holy Spirit to be at the center of our marriage. Help us rely on You for wisdom, strength, and discernment in every decision we make. Guide our steps, align our desires, and bring unity to our thoughts, dreams, and ambitions.

    Lord, we ask that You fill our home with an atmosphere of love, joy, and peace. May our friends and family witness the transformation that Your presence brings to our relationship. Let our marriage be a testimony of Your faithfulness, grace, and mercy, shining a light for others to see. 

    Thank you, Lord, for the beauty of Your design for marriage. May our union be a reflection of Christ’s love for the Church, selfless and sacrificial. Help us to serve each other with humility, lifting each other’s burdens, and seeking the best interests of our spouse above our own.

    We surrender our marriage into Your hands. Help us continually seek Your will and submit to Your guidance. Empower us to persevere through the challenges and celebrate the joys together, knowing that we are stronger when we are united. In Jesus’ name, we pray, amen.

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    Jennifer Waddle is the author of several books, including Prayer WORRIER: Turning Every Worry into Powerful Prayer, and is a regular contributor for LifeWay, Crosswalk, Abide, and Christians Care International. Jennifer’s online ministry is EncouragementMama.com where you can find her books and sign up for her weekly post, Discouragement Doesn’t Win. She resides with her family near the foothills of the Rocky Mountains—her favorite place on earth. 

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  • How to Lavishly Love Your Spouse

    How to Lavishly Love Your Spouse

    The word lavish describes a love that is rich and abundant. It isn’t a word we use often—especially in marriage—but it paints a picture of extravagant love.

    As you read this, I can only imagine the thoughts that are going through your head. You might be thinking you don’t have the time, energy, or motivation to lavishly love your spouse. You might even be wondering what that type of love looks like.

    I get it. Most of us are too busy to put extra work or time into our relationships. But what if lavish love was less about work and more about living in the overflow? God’s overflow of love—in us—is like a fountain that never runs dry. And when we allow His love to flow through us, loving our spouses lavishly not only becomes a possibility, it becomes a way of life.

    Here’s how to lavishly love your spouse:

    1. Fancy Them Again

    Remember the honeymoon phase of marriage when you “fancied” your spouse? This British word for “attraction” isn’t one we typically use to describe our feelings, but it reminds us that we were once enamored with our spouses.

    Lavish love is willing to revisit the early days, remember the vows that were made, and rekindle the passion you once shared. If your feelings have changed over the years, pray and ask God to fill you with a renewed sense of love and commitment.

    Here are a few practical ways to fancy your spouse again:

    • Let them know they still cause your heart to beat a little faster when they enter the room. 
    • Reminisce about past romantic getaways.
    • Assure them you only have eyes for them, and you love being married to them.

    Remember why you fell in love in the first place, then lavishly love your spouse by reigniting the spark that brought you together.

    “See! The winter is past; the rains are over and gone. Flowers appear on the earth; the season of singing has come. Arise, come, my darling; my beautiful one, come with me.” Song of Songs 2:11 & 13

    2. Invest in Their Emotional Treasury

    Emotions are part of our God-given design, yet we tend to stifle them, ignore them, and even deny them. In marriage, both men and women have emotional wells that need filling up. While only Christ can fill the need for salvation, husbands and wives can help fill each other’s emotional needs. Here’s how:

    Offer words of affirmation.

    Words of affirmation are listed as one of the love languages according to author Gary Chapman. But whether words of affirmation are your personal love language or not, everyone appreciates sincere compliments and positive expressions of love. 

    Thank them.

    Everyone wants to be appreciated. Look for opportunities to thank your spouse and let them know how much you appreciate their efforts. This can be as simple as saying, “I see how hard you work for us and I want you to know how much I appreciate it.”

    Validate them.

    Many husbands and wives do not feel validated by their spouses. Instead, they feel ignored or even dismissed. Validating your spouse requires you to listen to them and acknowledge what they’re saying. It means that even when you don’t agree, you still affirm their wonderful qualities.

    “How beautiful you are, my darling! Oh, how beautiful! Your eyes are doves.” Song of Songs 1:15

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    3. Elaborate on Their Value

    When you value something, you pay close attention to it. You care for it. You devote time and energy to protecting it. Lavishly loving your spouse includes elaborating on the value they bring to your relationship.

    How is your spouse valuable to you? In what ways do they enrich your life? Have you let them know just how valuable they are? These are key questions to ask yourself as you lavishly love your spouse and make them feel appreciated.

    Here are a few things you can do to elaborate on their value:

    • Point out their strengths.
    • Offer your undivided time and attention.
    • Esteem them above yourself.
    • Give them gifts “just because.”

    When your spouse sees how valuable they are, your marriage will reach a new level of respect. And respect is essential to lavish love.

    “Who is this that appears like the dawn, fair as the moon, bright as the sun, majestic as the stars in procession?” Song of Songs 6:10

    4. Be Extravagant in Your Affection

    There’s a right kind of affection and a wrong kind of affection. The right kind is considerate, tender, and in-tune with your spouse’s needs. The wrong kind is selfish, hasty, and unconcerned. To love your spouse lavishly, ask God to ignite the right kind of affection between you.

    One way to be extravagant in your affection is to take the time to get to know what your spouse desires. Ask them what makes them feel loved and cherished. Try to catch on to their physical and verbal cues. Most of all, let God lead your heart to lavish your spouse with the right kind of affection.

    Here are additional resources to help you show the right kind of affection:

    20 Simple Ways to Show Affection in Marriage
    Affection Confusion In Marriage
    How to Truly Love Your Spouse 

    “Eat, friends, and drink; drink your fill of love.” Song of Songs 5:1

    5. Invest in What Matters Most

    One of the best ways you can lavishly love your spouse is by investing in what matters most. What matters most to them? Is it time spent talking about life and faith? Is it doing things together and making memories? Whatever matters most in your marriage, invest in that. 

    Hopefully, you are both walking with the Lord and are on a spiritual journey together. If not, pray about ways you can invest in sharing the Gospel with your spouse and making sure they know what salvation means.

    If you’re both Christ-followers, invest in a couple’s Bible study or join a small marriage group. By investing in your Spiritual growth, you’ll be investing in your marriage. Don’t allow work or other activities to get in the way from devoting time and energy to your spouse. Together, make a list of what matters most and build your life around those things.

    Remember, lavishly loving your spouse comes from God’s overflow. Whenever you feel like you have nothing left to give, allow God’s love to flow through you. Before long, it will become a way of life for you, and your marriage will experience lavish love like never before.

    “This is my beloved, this is my friend.” Song of Songs 5:16

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    Jennifer WaddleJennifer Waddle is the author of several books, including Prayer WORRIER: Turning Every Worry into Powerful Prayer, and is a regular contributor for LifeWay, Crosswalk, Abide, and Christians Care International. Jennifer’s online ministry is EncouragementMama.com where you can find her books and sign up for her weekly post, Discouragement Doesn’t Win. She resides with her family near the foothills of the Rocky Mountains—her favorite place on earth. 

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  • 7 Scriptures That Show How Important Grandparents Are

    7 Scriptures That Show How Important Grandparents Are

    One generation shall commend your works to another, and shall declare your mighty acts.

    Back in the day, when our family would get together at my husband’s grandparent’s house, his grandpa would sit at the head of the table and randomly burst into song. I can still picture him singing, “Victory in Jesus, my Savior forever,” as he invited everyone at the table to join in. It’s an image of him I’ll never forget.

    As one generation commends the mighty works of the Lord to another, the messages of faith, hope, and love are passed on. I can’t think of a more impactful way for grandparents to leave their imprint on their extended families.

    Let’s be so inspired by the wonderful works of the Lord, we cannot help but declare them!

    Gracious God,
    How marvelous are Your works on our behalf. We praise You today. Thank You for motivating us to declare Your mighty acts to our family members. There is no doubt, Father, that You love and value us as grandparents. Help our families to recognize our importance as well. In Jesus’ precious name, amen.

    Jennifer Waddle considers herself a Kansas girl, married to a Colorado hunk, with a heart to encourage women everywhere. She is the author of several books, including Prayer WORRIER: Turning Every Worry into Powerful Prayer, and is a regular contributor for LifeWay, Crosswalk, Abide, and Christians Care International. Jennifer’s online ministry is EncouragementMama.com where you can find her books and sign up for her weekly post, Discouragement Doesn’t Win. She resides with her family near the foothills of the Rocky Mountains—her favorite place on earth.

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  • Are You a Young Grandparent? Here Are 5 Ways This Can Be a Blessing

    Are You a Young Grandparent? Here Are 5 Ways This Can Be a Blessing

    Becoming a grandparent is a milestone event that brings many blessings. However, when you find yourself in this role relatively young, you might wonder if you’re ready for the responsibility.

    My husband and I became grandparents at 41 – something we never expected. All sorts of doubts went through our minds as we still had young children at home and didn’t know what would be expected of us.

    However, our doubts flew out the window with one glance at our newborn grandson. The blessing we held in our arms brought things into perspective and realigned us with our God-given purpose. It’s been eleven years since that day, and we now see how God turned our apprehensions into one of the greatest blessings on this side of heaven.

    If you’re a young grandparent, here is why it can be a blessing:

    1. You Have the Energy to Keep Up with Them

    Recently, I was jogging alongside my grandkids as they rode their scooters. My oldest grandson said, “Wow, Nana, I can’t believe you can jog!” His statement made me laugh, and also thank God that I had the energy to keep up with them. These kinds of blessings make me realize how wonderful it is to be a young grandparent.

    While our grandkids will wear us out from time to time, we can do many things to stay active and keep up. Here are a few activities to consider:

    -Hiking, biking, or swimming

    -Camping or nature walks

    -Playing basketball

    -Playing tennis

    -Playing ping-pong

    Not only can we engage in physical activities with our grandkids, but we can also enjoy the things they’re involved in, such as sports, music, art, 4-H, and other school clubs. Being a young grandparent gives us the energy we need to be active with our grandkids and enjoy every minute.

    2. You Can Keep Up with the Trends

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    With today’s technology, grandparents need to be in the know and try to keep up with some trends. Notice I said some of the trends – as not all of them are beneficial for our grandchildren or us.

    Whether posting funny TikTok videos or looking up silly memes, our grandkids will love it when we engage in the things they’re interested in. Here are ways to keep up with the latest trends while still being a positive influence on your grandchildren:

    -Be interested in fashion trends while still encouraging modesty.

    -Know who they follow on social media and advise them to use caution.

    -Watch movies that are both entertaining and clean.

    -Listen to the music they like while pointing out questionable lyrics.

    -Go to concerts, sports events, and festivals.

    Remember, you can have fun with your grandkids and be tuned in to the latest trends while still maintaining Godly standards. Hopefully, they will pick up on your boundaries and begin to ask questions that can lead to more discussions from the Bible. Ultimately, we want to connect with our grandchildren in such a way that they will also be encouraged by our faith.

    3. You’ll Watch Them Grow Up

    As a young grandparent, you have the advantage of seeing your grandchildren reach important milestones such as their first steps, first words, and the first day of school. You get to witness their growth and development firsthand and be there to provide support and encouragement as they navigate life’s challenges. And Lord willing, you’ll get to see your grandchildren reach adulthood, get married, and have their own children one day.

    Psalm 145:4 says, “One generation commends your works to another; they tell of your mighty acts.” And the Psalmist says, in Psalm 71:18, “So even to old age and gray hairs, O God, do not forsake me, until I proclaim your might to another generation, your power to all those to come.”

    Watching our grandchildren grow up is a precious blessing from God. Let’s take every opportunity afforded to us to share the Good News of the Gospel and encourage a relationship with Jesus.

    Each passing year is another reason to thank God for His provision over us and be intentional in the lives of our grandchildren.

    4. You’re Able to Help Their Parents

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    We have the opportunity to provide support to our grandkids and assist their parents on this journey called “parenthood.” As we all know, parenting is not for the faint-hearted; sometimes, our kids just need a break. Young grandparenting allows us to step in when needed and offer whatever help we can.

    -Babysitting/Keeping the grandchildren overnight

    -Providing Meals/House cleaning

    -Running errands

    -Offering a listening ear

    -Doing life together

    I believe it’s God’s design for families to support each other and be available. When we become grandparents at a young age, we have even more opportunities to help our children raise their children and fulfill God’s plan. What a blessing to have the energy and resources to be able to help our kids as they parent our grandchildren!

    5. You’ll Have Many Years to Share Jesus with Them

    Sharing Jesus with our grandkids is the most important thing we could ever do, and being a young grandparent affords us a few extra years to talk about the Savior and live by example. Our greatest hope is that all our grandchildren will come to know the Lord as their personal Savior, and we have the opportunity to plant seeds and water them as they grow.

    As a young mom, I rarely felt like I had the time to stop what I was doing and give my children undivided attention. But as a grandparent, I want each of my grandkids to know I am here to listen and encourage them.

    Intending to pass on my faith, I pray for God-given opportunities to share Jesus and point my grandchildren to the Savior. I believe this is my primary role as a grandparent, and I hope to live long enough to see the fruit of it.

    Despite my unpreparedness to become a grandparent early in life, I have come to realize that it was always part of God’s divine plan. Having grandchildren is an abundant blessing, and earnestly embracing our role with purpose and grace is an honor and a privilege.

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    Jennifer WaddleJennifer Waddle is the author of several books, including Prayer WORRIER: Turning Every Worry into Powerful Prayer, and is a regular contributor for LifeWay, Crosswalk, Abide, and Christians Care International. Jennifer’s online ministry is EncouragementMama.com where you can find her books and sign up for her weekly post, Discouragement Doesn’t Win. She resides with her family near the foothills of the Rocky Mountains—her favorite place on earth. 

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  • A Legacy Worth Passing Down to Your Grandkids: Your Faith

    A Legacy Worth Passing Down to Your Grandkids: Your Faith

    The simplest definition of legacy is something that is passed on. And as grandparents, we have the opportunity to pass on all kinds of things to our grandchildren. Whether it be happy memories, family heirlooms, or even our personality traits, our #1 legacy is our faith in Jesus.

    As we let His light shine through us, we’ll leave a legacy of faith, hope, and love – the greatest of these being love. And I don’t know about you, but I want to be remembered as someone who loved Jesus with all her heart, mind, soul, and strength.

    Here are four ways to leave your grandchildren a legacy of faith.

    Speak Often of the Savior

    As King David once penned, “Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O Lord, my strength, and my redeemer.” This is a wonderful prayer for grandparents as they seek to leave a legacy of faith.

    Sometimes, we feel like we can’t talk about Jesus for fear of offending others or being seen as fanatical, but how will they believe if they do not hear? The apostle Paul said it this way in Romans 10:14: “How, then, can they call on the one they have not believed in? And how can they believe in the one of whom they have not heard? And how can they hear without someone preaching to them?”

    We don’t have to preach to our grandchildren, but we can often speak of the Savior and His love for them. We can also share our testimony – of how the Lord brought us to Himself. You never know what lasting impact this can have on your grandsons and granddaughters.

    Speak often about the Savior and tell of His wonderful deeds; then, trust that God will use your words to plant seeds in the hearts of your grandchildren.

    Make the Word of God Known

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    Just as we are hesitant to talk about our faith, we are equally hesitant to share the Bible with our grandkids. Yet, it’s the Word of God that will not return void. As Hebrews 4:12 says, “For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart.”

    We can share specific Bible verses that relate to what our grandkids are going through. Whether it be a tough time at school or other issues, the Word of God has the answers for life!

    If you’re unsure where to start, I suggest returning to the beginning. Share the first few chapters of Genesis as a reminder that God is the Creator of everything. Emphasize that God made them in His image and has a divine purpose for them. Invite them to study the Bible with you, memorizing Scripture and learning more about God’s character.

    Remember, the Bible is more than just a book. It contains the very words of God and is powerful to move in people’s hearts. Make His Word known to your grandkids, and pray they will develop a hunger for His truth.

    Pray with Others in Specific Ways

    I think it’s safe to say that most of us pray for our grandkids regularly, but how many of us have a prayer team of people praying alongside us?

    Something powerful happens when you enlist others to pray specifically for you and your loved ones. Not only does a prayer network provide a sense of unity and camaraderie, but it also covers your family in much-needed intercession.

    I highly encourage you to call on 2-3 trusted friends to join you in specific prayers for your grandchildren. Address topics such as emotional, physical, and spiritual issues. Here are several specific things to pray for:

    -Their Heart: First and foremost, pray for your grandchildren’s salvation – that they will understand the gospel and follow Jesus all their days.

    -Their Mind: Ask God to fix their minds on Him and give them His peace.

    -Their Friendships: Pray for your grandchildren’s relationships and ask God to protect them from harmful people.

    -Their Education: Intercede for your grandchildren’s education, that God will provide a safe and healthy learning environment.

    -Their Safety: Ask the Lord to send His angels to guard your grandchildren and protect them from harm.

    Be Salt and Light

    In Matthew 5:13-16, Jesus said, “You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled underfoot. You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead, they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.”

    Your example of faith is displayed through a life of devotion to Christ. It includes a heart of service to your family as salt and light. The more you invest in their little lives, the greater your impact will be.

    Here are specific ways to be salt and light:

    -Listen…really listen. Be a sounding board for your grandkids and take a genuine interest in their life. Chances are, they’ll grow to trust you as a safe person who always has their best in mind.

    -Find things to do together. This can include going to the park, hiking, painting, or cooking. The memories you make will be cherished for decades to come.

    -Be a voice of reason. You have a lot of experience and wisdom to share.

    -Walk by the Spirit, displaying His fruit. Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness, and self-control will go a long way in ministering to your grandkids.

    Finally, leave a legacy of faith by walking the narrow path. While you cannot make your grandchildren believe in Jesus, you can show them what it looks like to walk in unity with the Savior. Your #1 legacy is your faith, and what a beautiful legacy it is!

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    Jennifer WaddleJennifer Waddle is the author of several books, including Prayer WORRIER: Turning Every Worry into Powerful Prayer, and is a regular contributor for LifeWay, Crosswalk, Abide, and Christians Care International. Jennifer’s online ministry is EncouragementMama.com where you can find her books and sign up for her weekly post, Discouragement Doesn’t Win. She resides with her family near the foothills of the Rocky Mountains—her favorite place on earth. 

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  • 5 Hope-Filled Prayers for Your Marriage

    5 Hope-Filled Prayers for Your Marriage

    Hope. It’s what we all need more of these days, not only in our personal lives but in our marriages as well. To hope means to want something to happen or something to be true. So, let me ask you this: What do you want to happen in your marriage? What do you want to be true?

    Today, I encourage every married couple to pray these life-giving, hope-filled prayers to the God who hears. Romans 15:13 says, “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.”

    Trust in the One who is able to fill you with abounding hope by the power of His Spirit. Look to Him for the joy and peace you seek. He can be trusted to fill your marriage with life-giving hope again.

    Here are five hope-filled prayers for your marriage:

    1. A Prayer for Togetherness

    Heavenly Father, please unify our hearts under Your loving authority and bring us together like never before. Lord, as life pulls at us and demands our time and energy, help us prioritize time together. We need Your presence in our marriage – Your constant presence of love, joy, and peace. As we schedule date nights, getaways, and times to reconnect, please remind us of the hope we have in You – hope for our future together. As Romans 5:5 says, “Hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.” Thank You, Father, for uniting us in Your love. Bind us together in perfect harmony and strengthen us for the journey ahead. In Jesus’ holy name, amen.

    2. A Prayer for Trust

    Lord God, please renew our trust – first in You – then in each other. Cast all doubt, fear, and unbelief far from our marriage, and help us to lean into one another with confidence and strength. Rebuild the areas of our marriage that have been worn down over time or chipped away by difficult circumstances. Forgive us for our mistakes, and help us forgive one another. Let our marriage be a faithful example of Your work in our lives – a work of redemption, renewal, and reliance. As Psalm 13:5 says, “I have trusted in your steadfast love; my heart shall rejoice in your salvation.” We look to You in the days ahead and put our hope firmly in Your hands. In Jesus’ precious name, amen.

    3. A Prayer for Communication

    Holy God, please open the lines of communication with my spouse in a healthy, honorable way. As Proverbs 15:3 (NLT) says, “Everyone enjoys a fitting reply; it is wonderful to say the right thing at the right time!” Please help us carve out time to talk about our week, plan for our future, and recall Your mighty blessings in our marriage. Please create more time and space for us to listen to each other – really listen. Remove all criticism and judgmental thoughts that try to divide us. Replace our negative thinking with hope-filled excitement that opens our eyes to the possibilities awaiting us. Thank You, Lord, for giving us the right words to say at the right time. We ask for wisdom in this and trust You to lead the way. In Jesus’ name, amen.

    4. A Prayer for Intimacy

    Lord, please help my marriage in the area of intimacy. Prevent busyness, overwhelm, and exhaustion from getting in the way of closeness with my spouse. Show me ways to nurture my marriage by creating an atmosphere of romance and connection. Help us listen to 1 Corinthians 7:3, which says, “The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband.” And if there needs to be a discussion about our individual needs, let it happen according to Your timeline when both of us are open to what the other has to say. Thank You, God, for creating marriage for intimacy and allowing us to express our love in such a meaningful way. In the holy name of Jesus, amen.

    5. A Prayer for Faithfulness

    Gracious God, I look to You to bless my marriage with a hope-filled future and pray for a deep, committed faith in You. Please draw my spouse close to Your heart and strengthen their faith right where they are. Remind us of Proverbs 3:3, which says, “Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart.” Please fill our marriage with good fruits – the fruit of Your Spirit: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, gentleness, goodness, faithfulness, and self-control. Help us live by these characteristics and show these holy attributes in the way we interact. Remind us of our wedding vows – vows to be faithful and true to one another through good times and bad. Strengthen our commitment to remain in Your will and walk in the hope you provide. Our faith is in You, Lord, and we trust You to do mighty things in our home and in our marriage. In the name of Jesus, our Savior, amen.

    More Hope-Filled Prayers for Your Life:

    10 Prayers for Hope When You’re Tired of the Struggle

    Prayers for Strength to Find Comfort and Hope

    5 Hopeful Prayers for New Beginnings in Your Life

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  • A Prayer for My Husband

    A Prayer for My Husband

    When God said, “It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him,” it was for the beautiful purpose of blessing Adam with a life companion. Together, they would build a home, a family, and a legacy.

    God’s perfect design for marriage is to unite husbands and wives – first to Himself – then to each other. “And the two shall become one flesh.” In this context, a wife’s prayers are powerful intercessions for her husband. She knows him intimately, what concerns him, what keeps him awake at night, what motivates him and brings him joy.

    So, no matter how busy we are, praying for our husbands is vital to our role as wives. They need it, they deserve it, and they will greatly benefit from it. As 1 John 5:15 says, “And if we know that he hears us—whatever we ask—we know that we have what we asked of him.”

    Here are five specific prayers to pray for your husband:

    1. For Their Heart

    Gracious God, please touch my husband’s heart with Your love today. Give him the assurance that You love him with everlasting love and want what is best for him. When he is frustrated, please give him a sense of peace and calm to handle the situation with integrity. When he is down, be the lifter of his head and draw his eyes towards you. Thank You, Lord, for safeguarding his heart, keeping him close, and reminding him of Your great love. Help me to be understanding, kind, and loving towards him so that he always has a soft place to land. In Jesus’ holy name, amen.

    2. For Their Mind

    Lord God, please fill my husband’s mind with good and pleasant things today. Whenever negative thoughts come in, please replace them with things that are true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable, excellent, and worthy of praise. I ask for a deep sense of peace to fill his mind so that he knows everything will be alright. Give him wisdom in all his decisions and interactions with others and grant him understanding when confusion arises. Most of all, help him set his mind on You, the Author and Perfecter of his faith. In the name of Jesus, amen.

    3. For Their Soul

    Heavenly Father, I pray for my husband’s soul, the very depths of who he is. Please settle all feelings of unworthiness and shame. Remind him of the redemption he has in Your Son, Jesus. Fill his soul with hope and joy that surpasses all understanding. I ask for a mighty work of Your grace to inhabit the center of his being so that he will not walk in the heaviness of his soul but in the lightness of Your presence. Please assure him that Your yoke is easy, and Your burden is light; he can do all things through Christ who strengthens him. Thank You for my husband’s precious soul – for who You created him to be. Help me be supportive of him in good times and bad. In Jesus’ mighty name, amen.

    4. For Their Strength

    Lord, thank You for being my husband’s strength today. In all that he does, please continue to lead him by Your Spirit and strengthen his frame. When he feels tired, be the refreshment he needs. When he is sick, be his gentle Healer. And when he is worn out, please fill him with life and vitality to face another day in the joy of knowing You. Lord, show me ways I can help meet my husband’s needs and fill in some gaps when he is overwhelmed. Help me be aware of his struggles so I can be the companion You created me to be. Thank You for strengthening our marriage and keeping us in step with Your Spirit. In Jesus’ name, amen.

    5. For Their Purpose

    Lord God, as life becomes mundane, please remind my husband of Your divine purpose. Speak new life into his heart, mind, and soul so that he won’t allow complacency to take root. As a couple, please clarify what you want us to do for Your glory and the good of others. Awaken us to the bigger purpose of drawing others to Your Son. Help us work together in every way, making our home a haven of peace and our family a unified force for good. We want to live within Your purpose for our lives. Thank You for leading my husband in the way he should go so that he can lead our family on the narrow path of righteousness, for Jesus’ sake. It is in His precious name I pray, amen.

    Check out these articles for more ways to pray for your husband:

    How to Pray for Your Husband

    20 Essential Prayers for Your Husband

    How to Pray for Your Husband instead of Trying to Change Him

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