Years after learning that her then-husband, and the father of her two children, was having an affair with Lala, 35, of Vanderpump Rules and The Valley, Ambyr, 37, admitted she was thankful to have seen it because it forced her out of her dysfunctional relationship with Randall, 54, and her denial, as she suggested their mutual ex was a serial cheater.
“I’ve seen all of you, the front, the back, inside and outside,” Ambyr began to Lala on the January 9 episode of Untraditionally Lala‘s An Unlikely Affair, via a transcript shared by Vanderpod Recaps on Instagram. “I don’t want to get into the details because the details aren’t important … [But that moment] really shaped me in my life … I knew you guys were together. I knew the affair was happening.”
Although Ambyr, who shares daughters London and Rylee with Randall, wasn’t sure who was calling Randall in the middle of the night, it all came together once she looked at the tape.
“My whole life kind of just stopped. And it wasn’t about what I was seeing in front of me. It was more of like, I had completely realized that I had abandoned myself,” she admitted.
Despite the betrayal, Ambyr said she found herself staying with Randall due to her lack of boundaries.
“When your safety and your well-being and who you are as a person is threatened, you forget those boundaries. You put aside the boundaries because, for me, that dysfunction was going on for so many years that it felt safe,” she explained. “Leaving never felt safe.”
Even though Ambyr had heard plenty about Randall’s infidelity, the sex tape woke her up in a different way.
“I was like, if you don’t leave, you’re going to die. Because I really did. I wanted to die. I felt so trapped in that relationship,” she shared. “I stayed because of my kids. I didn’t want my girls to grow up with a broken home. I didn’t know what that experience was like, and I didn’t want that. And in that moment, I realized, I was like, okay, I got to get out. This is it.”
“I [had] to save myself for my kids and myself,” she continued. “I was half dead. I was taking pills to numb my feelings, to just suppress all that sh*t that I was feeling inside because I didn’t know what to do with it.”
In addition to coming across Randall and Lala’s sex tape, Ambyr also received a call from Lala, which she is now grateful for.
“I think God was doing for me that which I couldn’t do for myself … [Because] I wouldn’t have [ever] left,” she admitted. “It was denial … it’s debilitating.”
During another segment of the show, via Breaking the Rules Pod Clips on Instagram, Lala looked back on the moment she knew she and Randall had been caught.
“When it came up on Vanderpump, Katie Maloney had been at a barbecue, and there was a guy there who was an actor, and his wife had said to Katie, ‘Oh, you’re on that show with that Lala girl. You know she is with [blank],’ and that’s when Katie was like, ‘Oh, I have confirmation,” she shared, confessing to trying to have her IMDb page wiped.
But by that point, Ambyr “had known for a while,” but didn’t speak up since Randall had cheated before.
“Every time, you get a little bit smarter … [And] from my experience and from what I’ve read and learned through my own healing, is that you get really good with following addicts and their patterns. And it became like a calendar. It was like clockwork for me,” she noted.
“It [was] unhealthy. I was in such a spiral cause I was so desperate to save my marriage,” she added.
Suicide Silence have clarified their path forward following news that founding guitarist Chris Garza is stepping back from live performances, with longtime guitarist Mark Heylmun issuing a candid statement reaffirming the band’s momentum and plans for upcoming tours.
Sharing a detailed message with fans, Heylmun reflected on his nearly two decades in Suicide Silence, emphasizing both his personal investment in the band and his full support of Garza‘s decision. As for Garza’s fill-in, Suicide Silence has recruited the massively-talented Ian Waye of Soreption.
“Hey everyone, with the news of Garza‘s hiatus I thought I’d share some things I feel pertinent. I’ve been in this band since 2005. I did not start this band, but I’ve been a part of creating every piece of music (for better or worse) that you’ve heard minus the EP and early demos. I did play the EP release show at showcase theatre in my first months of joining.
“I took a break from the band for about 9 months in 2019 because I was preparing for my father’s passing who was fighting cancer and I knew it was only a matter of time. I never shared that publicly because I didn’t want my dad to know I was taking the break because of him. I’d have taken a longer break but was asked to come back to help write what became Become The Hunter.
“I fully support/respect Garza‘s decision to take a break. That said, SS is a part of my blood and DNA at this point and this band has always been a 5 headed dragon and the show must go on, and it will.
“I speak for the guys when I say we’re stoked to have a ripping fill in step up to the plate for all upcoming shows. We are bringing our friend @themilkywaye of Soreption on board as fill in for the upcoming European and Asian tours. For anyone familiar with Ian‘s playing you know he has a heavy right hand and can rip with the best of em. If it’s brief or if it’s for a while, we are gonna bring some serious firepower to every stage we step foot on as we always have. Can’t wait to see you all on the road!”
Garza addressed his hiatus directly in a statement of his own at the time, explaining that he just needed a break: “As some of you have noticed, I’ve missed the last couple Suicide Silence shows. It’s because I’m on a hiatus from the band. SuSi has been on my brain every day since 2002 with no break. Everything is fine. I just need to press the reset button so I can make the right decisions in the near future. As the Terminator said… I’ll be back.”
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Weeks after the 40-year-old newbie made her debut on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, a mugshot from what appears to have been a potential DUI was shared by the Pink Pop Box Podcast on Instagram.
In the podcast page’s photo, Amanda was seen, as was a screenshot of court records, which revealed that the incident in question occurred on March 12, 2016, and was marked as a “DUI/APC-Under Influence of Drugs.”
Along with the podcast’s image, the page revealed they had spoken with an alleged source who claimed to have been in the “spirit junkie community” with Amanda and accused her of ripping off someone else’s ideas.
“Allegedly, she broke with best-selling spiritual advisor Gabrielle Bernstein and left the spirit junkie community behind. Allegedly afterwards, allegedly, she began using the same business practices Gabby allegedly [employs]. It’s an easy trick, but allegedly over on Amazon, she has her books listed in an obscure category that makes it an instant bestseller when the books sell. Also, allegedly, she pulled the same trick [Scheana Shay] did by buying her own books for her book tours or events, driving her sales up into the best-selling status,” shared the Pink Pop Box Podcast.
As for the reported DUI charge, the page said, “It looks like Amanda did have a DUI situation. It was a DUI listed on the public records. And back in 2012, she had an alleged little issue with unpaid parking tickets.”
While Amanda doesn’t appear to have addressed her alleged DUI recently, she did share a post on Facebook in October 2018 in which she mentioned her mugshot.
“A little while ago, I read some super mean about me on the internet before bed. Like… probably the most hateful thing I had heard at that point,” Amanda began in the post. “As with all things that require internal processing, I had many emotions about this. At first, I was a little shaken. Then I remembered I didn’t have to care. Then I remembered it would contribute to my growth. Then I remembered I’d use it for the good of others. I tried to stay in this energy: Nothing to prove. No one to impress. Nothing to hide. But, off and on, it would really freak me out.”
Although Amanda didn’t say what exactly was said about her, she noted that people had begun sharing her 2016 mugshot. She then said that the case was “dismissed” as she denied having driven.
“The case has been longed dismissed as I never drove, but the existence of mugshot is still not my favorite thing,” she admitted.
The Real Housewives of Beverly Hillsseason 15 airs Thursdays at 8/7c on Bravo.
Canadian tech-death virtuosos Archspire and Californian deathgrind legends Cattle Decapitation will headline the inaugural edition of Flatline Fest, a brand-new extreme metal festival curated by acclaimed producer Dave Otero.
The two-day event will take place June 13 and 14 at The Oriental Theater in Denver, Colorado, with tickets available now via flatlinefest.com. Otero, who has worked extensively with every band on the lineup through his Flatline Audio studio or other projects, described the festival as a celebration of long-standing creative relationships.
“I’ve collaborated with every band in this lineup in the studio over many years and have always wanted to put something like this together,” Otero said. “The fest is a chance to celebrate those friendships in one of our favorite independent venues.”
One of Flatline Fest’s most anticipated moments will be the live debut of Nuclear Power Trio, the masked instrumental outfit widely rumored to feature members of Cephalic Carnage, Allegaeon, and Havok. The performance marks the first time the project has taken the stage, adding an element of mystery and excitement to the weekend.
Saturday, June 13
Archspire
Aborted
Nuclear Power Trio (live debut)
Inferi
Of Feather And Bone
Clusterfux
Sunday, June 14
Cattle Decapitation
Allegaeon
Cephalic Carnage
The Zenith Passage
In the Company of Serpents
Necropanther
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Y’all! Tina Knowles is out here pulling at heartstrings this week as she shared an incredibly sweet birthday message for her granddaughter, Blue Ivy Carter, who just turned 14. The iconic mom and grandmother gave fans a rare glimpse into the love and pride she feels for the teen, hinting at just how special their bond has been since Blue was born.
Grandmother Tina Reflects On Blue Ivy’s Growing Up
In an Instagram post featuring a calendar of images documenting every year of Blue Ivy’s life since 2012, Miss Tina shared the joy and excitement she felt when she first learned of her granddaughter’s arrival. She reflected fondly on Blue Ivy’s early years, reminiscing about playing Princess and Barbie dolls together. Tina also praised Blue Ivy for being smart, kind, and humble, celebrating her many accomplishments and the remarkable young person she has become.
“I remember the day that we found out about you being in your mom’s womb. We could not have been more excited! We were told that you were the size of a blueberry and that is where your name came from! We all prayed together for you every single day till you were 12 weeks old in your mom’s belly! Then we prayed individually until you arrived months later. It was apparent that you were a fighter from the beginning, and you talked very early. And you were always smart as a whip we played Princess and Barbie dolls all the time and your imagination was incredible. To say that I’m a proud grandmother is an understatement! Even with all of your accomplishments and success, you remain a very sweet, kind humble human being.”
Miss Tina even affectionately concluded the sweet shoutout with, “To my manager, makeup artist, fashion adviser, my love. Happy Birthday,” playfully acknowledging the roles the internet has given Blue as the “manager” of the family.
Roomies Said: “Nothing But Respect For My Manager”
Fans flooded The Shade Room’s Instagram comment section with love and birthday wishes for Blue Ivy, making it clear everyone is feeling the Wednesday vibes. Miss Tina’s heartfelt post has us all crying in the club, swooning over her touching memories and pride for her granddaughter. And, of course, some can’t help but jokingly ask just how much Blue charges for managerial support, showing that even fans are taking cues from the family’s iconic moves.
One Instagram user @kellyaugustine said, “I cannot believe she is 14 already 😭”
This Instagram user @beyhivepure added, “‘To my manager’ IKTR!!!🤣💙”
And, Instagram user @ching_loso wrote, “Happy Birthday to the corporate manager 💙😂”
Then Instagram user @_1amazing_rn shared, “Ms. Tina You Didn’t Have To Make Me Tear Up Like This!! 😢”
While Instagram user @jadeoshodi commented, “the most iconic 14 year old ever“
“Listen, we are in it together,” Heather told Bravo HQ, via The Daily Dish. “There’s real love there. There is real history. There is real loyalty. Meredith said it best: She said, like, ‘Even when we’re fighting at our worst, like, if any one of these women were to call me, I would run to their doorstep.’ And I really feel that.”
“I’ve lost a lot coming on this show, like family, community, security. And, like, I know that I can call on these women. … They understand my pain more than anyone else,” she added.
While Meredith found herself at odds with many due to her allegedly erratic behavior throughout the season, including her supposed plane encounter with Britani, she confirmed she and Lisa are still in a “good place,” and she added that she’s in a decent spot with Angie as well.
“Angie and I, I think, are in a good place, surprisingly,” she stated, admitting that she was “somewhat unsure about literally everybody else.”
As for Angie, she said her relationships with the cast are “split down the middle.”
“[I’ll] just see where everyone lands,” as far as taking “accountability,” she stated.
“We’re a group of friends, so I hope there’s a couple people that can learn to move differently and watch themselves,” she continued. “Maybe this is, like, their year of growth and evolution and finding a new way to be a friend [who] doesn’t have to hurt people so deeply.”
Meanwhile, Britani revealed she’s still “on the outs” with Meredith and Lisa, but she is in a “great” place with Angie, at least when they’re “outside the clique.” She is also “always good” with Heather and Whitney Rose, 39.
Britani also talks to Bronwyn “about once a week,” and she feels she and Mary are “best friends in the making.”
“She doesn’t know this yet, but Mary, we’re gonna be best friends someday,” she declared.
In her own interview with Bravo HQ, also via The Daily Dish, Bronwyn said she does “not speak to Lisa.”
“It would be hard for me to speak to Lisa. I believe she has me blocked on everything. I don’t know, but that’s the impression I get, because people have to screenshot me negative comments she says about me. I don’t actually see them in person,” she explained.
As for what sealed the deal, Bronwyn said she “did not hear from” Lisa when her dad died unexpectedly in June 2025.
“My dad passed after filming, and I heard from everybody on the cast, no matter where I stood with them at the end of filming, with the exception of Lisa,” Bronwyn shared. “And I think that kind of sums up why I’m just really not interested in anything from her at this point. If you don’t have sympathy for somebody who’s unexpectedly lost a parent, I’m really meaningless to you. And I don’t have people in my life who treat me that way, no.”
Bronwyn said she was also “really truly hurt” by the discussions she and Lisa had at the season five reunion.
“I thought we were much closer than she was making out to be on camera and in front of the women,” Bronwyn stated. “So, to have her say to me in New York, you know, ‘I never knew you. I never cared about you. You were never important to me,’ that was new information that I was processing in front of everyone watching at home. And it was really hurtful.”
That said, Bronwyn hoped to re-establish her friendship with Lisa after the season.
“I was like Goldilocks trying out different things with Lisa. First, I fought back and I was like ‘Oh, if I don’t mean anything to you, then I guess you won’t care if I bring up your lawsuits, or if I tell you I think you’re a liar,” she revealed. “It’s not natural to me to want to fight that way, and so you see me apologize to her. You see me just kind of say, ‘We’re just gonna be civil.’ And I realized, oh, we’re not even just gonna be civil. She’s gonna continue to talk about my daughter and this really sensitive thing that I specifically told her is hurtful to my child. It’s hurtful to my family.”
“But I am hoping the best for Baby Gorgeous, always,” she added. “Whether or not I wanna see her is a different story.”
The three-part Real Housewives of Salt Lake Cityseason six reunion begins next Tuesday, January 13, at 8/7c on Bravo.
Vinnie Vincent has doubled down on one of the most controversial release strategies in recent rock history, defending his decision to sell CDs of his new single for as much as $300 — and warning fans that his upcoming album, Guitarmageddon, may never see the light of day if sales don’t meet his expectations.
The former Kiss guitarist recently began promoting Guitarmageddon with an unconventional rollout, offering physical CD copies of the lead single “Ride the Serpent” for $200. For U.S. buyers, the price climbs to $225 once shipping is added, while international fans face shipping costs of $100, pushing the total to nearly $300 for a single-song CD.
Despite backlash from fans, Vincent has shown no signs of backing down. Instead, he has gone on the offensive, comparing the single to luxury goods. Vincent described “Ride the Serpent” as “caviar or fine art,” calling it a “nearly eight-minute, intense guitar powerdrive.” And yeah sure, maybe it is that good, and of course artists deserve compensation – but $300?
In a series of posts responding to criticism (as captured by the folks at Guitar World), Vincent escalated the situation further, stating that he will only release Guitarmageddon if fans purchase 1,000 CDs of each single — and that none of the CDs will ship until all copies are sold.
“Unless I get compensated for my work, the album stays unheard,” Vincent wrote. “The praise from a fan base is pointless unless I’m compensated FIRST.”
Vincent went on to argue that traditional album releases are no longer financially viable and claimed his pricing strategy is a way to counter bootlegging and devaluation of music in the streaming era. “I am the manufacturer. I produce high end product. I set the price accordingly. It’s that simple,” he said. “I’ve created an elite product for elite taste.”
In perhaps his boldest statement yet, Vincent compared Guitarmageddon to some of rock’s most revered albums. “I lived thru Meet the Beatles, Led Zeppelin II, Are You Experienced, Truth, Wheels of Fire, Pink Floyd etc,” he wrote. “As for impact and perfection from the first song to last, Guitarmageddon is a classic. The number one contender.”
Vincent acknowledged that those albums benefited from decades of legacy and cultural impact, but insisted his record rivals them in quality and ambition. Vincent also goes off the rails and takes some fairly shitty shots at people on food stamps, saying: “So for the smash and grab EBT card group of self entitled complainers bitching about price… fuck off. The fatigue is now exhaustion. They are the side effect of what the internet produced. Gimme gimme gimme.”
Vincent also took aim at what he described as entitled fans and oversaturation in the modern guitar world, criticizing free access to music and an abundance of players he feels lack originality. “At this point there’s an overload of guitar players,” he wrote. “They generally sound the same, play the same… People are beginning to tune out guitar players because they’re a penny a dozen.”
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ZZ Top guitarist and frontman Billy Gibbons has confirmed a long-rumored piece of rock folklore: the band really was offered a massive payday to shave off their iconic beards — they and turned it down.
During a recent appearance on the Mohr Stories podcast, hosted by comedian and actor Jay Mohr, Gibbons revealed that the shaving company Gillette once approached him and then-ZZ Top bassist Dusty Hill with a staggering offer. “It’s true,” Gibbons said. “They deny it. It was a million dollars per man.”
According to Gibbons, the offer came with the expectation that the two bearded bandmates would shave on camera for a Gillette commercial — something that would have fundamentally altered ZZ Top‘s instantly recognizable image.
Before making a decision, Gibbons and Hill consulted music industry veteran Bob Merlis. “We called Mr. Merlis,” Gibbons recalled. “I said, ‘Bob, we got this offer.’ ‘What?’ I said, ‘We’ve been offered a million dollars each to shave on TV.’”
Merlis acknowledged the financial upside but also raised a crucial — and pretty valid, funny — point. “He said, ‘Well, the money’s good,’” Gibbons continued. “He said, ‘You might as well consider doing it, but I’m not so sure you guys — any of you guys — know what’s under there.’”
Ultimately, Gibbons and Hill decided to pass on the offer. “So we passed,” Gibbons said. “We passed, and our fans loved it. Word got out.”
And yeah, $1 million dollars was a lot of money in 1984 when the offer was made. But can you imagine even for a second seeing ZZ Top without their beards? Too weird.
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Judge Dismisses Misa Hylton’s $5M Lawsuit Against Mary J. Blige
According to TMZ, on Tuesday, January 6, New York judge Phaedra F. Perry-Bond granted Mary J. Blige and her lawyers, Lisa Moore and Andrew Pequignot, a motion to dismiss Misa Hylton’s lawsuit. This, reportedly without prejudice. Per Illinois Legal Aid, this means that the lawsuit can be re-filed by Hylton again, as long as it’s within the statute of limitations.
TMZ asserts, however, that it appears unlikely that Hylton will pursue legal action again, as she has recently appeared inactive in the case. This, reportedly after Blige labeled the suit as “frivolous.”
“The court in no way condones parties filing lawsuits claiming millions in damages based on inflammatory accusations, only to have those very same parties abandon their allegations when faced with a motion to dismiss and sanctions. Plaintiffs and their counsel shall consider this a warning to refrain from engaging in similar patterns of behavior in the future. This written warning may serve as weighty evidence on a future application for sanctions if plaintiffs and/or their counsel continue to engage in similar bad faith litigation tactics,” the judge reportedly asserted, alongside a warning for Hylton.
Social Media Reacts As Misa Hylton Reportedly Speaks Out
Social media users shared their thoughts on the dismissal of Misa Hylton’s lawsuit against Mary J. Blige in TSR’s comment section. This, while also weighing in on their apparently tarnished friendship.
Instagram user @notoriousss.m wrote, “Sue your baby daddy , not Mary”
While Instagram user @chellyvswett added, “She lost a good friend doing this im sure”
Instagram user @taymonayyy wrote, “Years of friendship down the drain 😩”
While Instagram user @blissful.lala added, “Don’t need no hateration holleration in this dancery smh”
Instagram user @ariyona_ wrote, “welp, there’s no going back now. years of sisterhood gone”
While Instagram user @greenivy_carter added, “They were sisters 😢 smh Misa!”
Instagram user @musically.matte wrote, “NO MORE DRAMA IN HER LIFE!!!!”
While Instagram user @tra__82 added, “It be ya own people smh”
Instagram user @maejorjermaine wrote, “Not Yall Actin Like Yall Know What Happened”
While Instagram user @__hot.__.girl__ added, “They need to work that out man , be fr!”
Meanwhile, late Tuesday evening, Loren LoRosa took to X, formerly known as Twitter, to share that she reportedly received a statement from Hylton about the dismissed suit:
“Over the years, there have been people very close to me who have hurt me deeply, and I chose not to pursue them even when I could have, and maybe should have. That reflection led me to ask myself why I would choose a different path for someone I once called my sister. Through this experience, I learned that mixing family, friendship, and business is not always wise, and that even in painful moments there are meaningful lessons to be learned. While I don’t agree with everything that was done, I chose peace. This entire ordeal has taken a significant toll on my mental health and has caused me to reflect deeply on life, memories, relationships, and their true purpose and meaning. I pray for healing for all of us.”
More On The $5M Lawsuit Against Mary J. Blige
As The Shade Room previously reported, in April 2025, AllHipHop published an exclusive report, asserting that Hylton accused Blige and her management company, Beautiful Life Productions, of “sabotaging” her relationship with rapper Vado. Specifically, Hylton alleged that Blige was preventing the release of Vado’s album in order to pressure him into cutting ties with Hylton and her management company, M.I.S.A. Management.
Furthermore, the suit alleged that Vado was signed with Hylton’s company months before signing with Blige’s. Additionally, it asserted that Vado completed an album in July 2024. But it was shelved by Blige “as long as he stayed with M.I.S.A.” Ultimately, the suit requested $5 million in damages for “breach of contract, emotional distress, and interference with business relationships.”
In the days that followed, Hylton continued sparking reactions with a cryptic social media post, per The Shade Room.
This, as her lawyer, Nicholas Ramcharitar, shared a statement with AllHipHop.
“… These women were closer than biological sisters. Misa did everything to keep this private—calls, texts, even letters to Mary’s legal team. But after months of silence and missed obligations, we had no choice but to file. This lawsuit wasn’t Plan A — it was Plan Z,” Ramcharitar said. “Unless we hear from Mary’s camp, we’ll move forward with the request for judicial intervention… But again, we’d rather avoid that. We’re still saying: let’s sit down, break bread, talk like family…”
By July, Blige reportedly requested the suit be tossed. Additionally, she alleged Vado personally wanted out of his deal with Hylton, but teamed up with her for an apparent shakedown and payout.
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Hilary Duff‘s husband, Matthew Koma, slammed Ashley Tisdale‘s claims about her “toxic” mom group, which targeted his wife and others, including Mandy Moore and Meghan Trainor, in an Instagram Story shared on Tuesday.
After Ashley, 40, shared an essay with The Cut on Monday, accusing her mom group of acting like they were in high school by leaving her out of certain gatherings, Matthew, 38, came to the defense of Hilary, 38, by suggesting Ashley was not only “self-obsessed,” but “tone deaf.”
In a photoshopped version of an image of Ashley in The Cut, Matthew was seen with a made-up headline that read, “When You’re The Most Self Obsessed Tone Deaf Person On Earth, Other Moms Tend To Shift Focus To Their Actual Toddlers,” and featured a description that said, “A Mom Group Tell All Through A Father’s Eyes.”
“Read my new interview with [The Cut],” Matthew captioned the January 6 post.
In a message shared on Threads, Crystal gave a nod to Ashley’s essay, revealing that her childhood best friend was included in an image of Ashley and her former friends.
“Me, realizing I wasn’t mentioned in Ashley Tisdale’s ‘losing friends’ article 👀… didn’t I literally start that trend back in 2021? #14friends #rhobh #trendsetter oh and fun fact: my childhood bestie is in that photo!” she wrote on January 5.
As RHOBH fans will recall, Lisa Rinna, 62, mentioned that Crystal had lost friends on an episode of the series years ago. And, in January of last year, on an episode of her podcast, Humble Brag with Crystal and Cynthia, Crystal revealed the truth about what happened, explaining that one of the women was put off by her joining the Bravo show after encouraging her against it.
“An ex-friend of mine wanted to do the show … but her family, particularly her husband, did not want her to do the show,” she revealed. “[And] I, as her friend, said, ‘I think that’s the right decision for you guys not to do it. If he’s not gonna do it, you can’t do the show.’”
After joining the cast herself, Crystal found herself at odds with the unnamed woman.
“I told my friend who wanted to do it. And the conversation, while it wasn’t awful, it wasn’t great. It was as expected. It was, ‘Why is it good enough for you and not me?’” she shared.
Crystal then saw that her mommy and me group had been spending time without her as a result of the tension between them.
“I saw this photo, it broke my heart and I was like, ‘Okay, I’m gonna make it right.’ I sent everyone letters, flowers, every single one. I wanted my friends back. I wrote individual letters to everybody, begging, ‘Whatever I’ve done, whatever I can do as a friend, I won’t even take the show.’ No one responded,” she revealed. “I knew that there was gonna be a narrative in which I did this to her.”
In addition to falling out with her friend group, Crystal recalled being targeted with “lies and negativity.”
“It wasn’t just dropping me. It was, ‘Now we have to destroy her.’ They [even told others], ‘If you talk to her, you’re no longer friends with us,’” she stated.
Kyle Richards and Mauricio Umansky may have just celebrated the holidays in Aspen with their family, but are they back together, as a recent rumor suggested?
Following a report in which it was alleged that the 56-year-old Real Housewives of Beverly Hills star and her realtor spouse, 55, enjoyed a “touchy and warm” outing at Kate Hudson and Cade Hudson’s New Year’s Eve party, an insider is shutting down rumors of a potential reconciliation.
“They are not getting back together or rekindling their romance,” a source told Us Weekly on January 6. “[But there’s] still so much love between them [and they’re] in a really good place right now.”
“Kyle and Mau have done a good job maintaining normalcy in front of the girls especially during the holiday season,” the source explained, noting that the ex-couple, who split in 2023 after 27 years of marriage, spent the holidays together for their kids.
“The girls aren’t pushing [a romantic reunion] either,” the insider continued. “Of course it would be great if they called off their separation, but the family knows it’s most likely not going to happen.”
Rather than aim for a reconciliation, Kyle and Mauricio have made an effort to maintain their friendship while living separately — and seeing other people.
“They are genuinely friends right now and still have so much fun together,” the source said. “They have been loving towards one another but that doesn’t mean they are getting back together.”
Still, the insider went on, “everyone” in their lives “loves the dynamic right now.”
“Everyone is very happy. They have come a long way and are back in a good place,” the source added.
As RHOBH fans may have seen, Sophia shared a video on TikTok after Christmas in which Kyle and Mauricio were seen sitting next to each other in a dimly lit room and enjoying a movie.
“My parents watching their little movie and eating their little popcorn on the floor like little kids,” she captioned the clip.
“Stop it. They’re our babies,” Alexia replied.
Then, days later, an insider suggested that Kyle and Mauricio appeared to be back on at Kate’s New Year’s Eve bash.
“They were really enjoying one another’s company. They had their arms around one another and were very touchy and warm with one another all night,” an eyewitness told Page Six on January 1. “They were very obviously together and wanting to spend the party by one another’s side. If you didn’t know they had split up, you would presume they were still happily married.”
The Real Housewives of Beverly Hillsseason 15 airs Thursdays at 8/7c on Bravo.
Earlier this week, Taraji P. Henson took to Instagram to share a carousel of photos and videos with her more than 22.1 million followers. Furthermore, included in the post was footage of one of Henson’s fits, alongside photos of the ensemble. Additionally, also capped off the carousel with three photos showing her makeup-free, rocking a separate ‘fit.
In those photos, Henson donned braids, a green, bedazzled cap, a brown fur coat, a green sweatsuit, and tan boots, alongside her Louis Vuitton luggage.
Peep her carousel and her makeup-free flicks below.
Social Media Users Are Turnin’ Heads
Social media users gathered in TSR’s comment section to react to Taraji P. Henson’s makeup-free shots.
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This Isn’t The First Time Taraji P. Henson’s Posts Have Turned Heads
This isn’t the first time Taraji P. Henson has turned heads with her posts. As The Shade Room previously reported, in July, Henson shared a few bikini shots, which left social media users hyping her up.
The West Shore school board policy committee meeting came to a halt almost as soon as it began. As a board member started going over the agenda on July 17, local parent Danielle Gross rose to object to a last-minute addition she said hadn’t been on the district’s website the day before.
By posting notice of the proposal so close to the meeting, charged Gross, who is also a partner at a communications and advocacy firm that works on state education policy, the board had violated Pennsylvania’s open meetings law, failing to provide the public at least 24 hours’ notice about a topic “this board knows is of great concern for many community members interested in the rights of our LGBTQ students.”
The committee chair, relentlessly banging her gavel, adjourned the meeting to a nonpublic “executive session.” When the committee reconvened, the policy was not mentioned again until the meeting’s end, when a lone public commenter, Heather Keller, invoked “Hamlet” to warn that something was rotten in the Harrisburg suburbs.
The proposed policy, which would bar trans students from using bathrooms and locker rooms aligned with their gender identity, was a nearly verbatim copy of one crafted by a group called the Independence Law Center — a Harrisburg-based Christian right legal advocacy group whose model policies have led to costly lawsuits in districts around the state.
“Being concerned about that, I remembered that we don’t partner with the Independence Law Center,” Keller said. “We haven’t hired them as consultants. And they’re not our district solicitor.”
To those who’d followed education politics in the state, Keller’s comment would register as wry understatement. Over the past several years, ILC’s growing entanglement with dozens of Pennsylvania school boards has become a high-profile controversy. Through interviews, an extensive review of local reporting and public documents, In These Times and The Hechinger Report found that, of the state’s 500 school districts, at least 21 are known to have consulted with or signed formal contracts accepting ILC’s pro bono legal services — to advise on, draft and defend district policies, free of charge.
But over the last year, it’s become clear ILC’s influence stretches beyond such formal partnerships, as school districts from Bucks County (outside Philadelphia) to Beaver County (west of Pittsburgh) have proposed or adopted virtually identical anti-LGBTQ and book ban policies that originated with ILC — sometimes without acknowledging any connection to the group or where the policies came from.
In districts without formal partnerships with ILC, such as West Shore, figuring out what, exactly, their board’s relationship is to the group has been a painfully assembled puzzle, thanks to school board obstruction, blocked open records requests and reports of backdoor dealing.
Although ILC has existed for nearly 20 years, its recent prominence began around 2021 with a surge of “parents’ rights” complaints about pandemic-era masking, teaching about racism, LGBTQ representation and how library books and curricula are selected. In many districts where such debates raged, calls to hire ILC soon followed.
In 2024 alone, ILC made inroads of one kind or another with roughly a dozen districts in central Pennsylvania, including West Shore, which proposed contracting ILC that March and invited the group to speak to the board in a closed-door meeting the public couldn’t attend. (ILC did not respond to multiple interview requests or emailed questions.)
On the night of that March meeting, Gross organized a rally outside the school board building, drawing roughly 100 residents to protest, even as it snowed. The board backed down from hiring ILC, but that didn’t stop it from introducing ILC policies. In addition to the proposed bathroom policy, that May the board passed a ban on trans students joining girls’ athletics teams after they’ve started puberty and allowed district officials to request doctors’ notes and birth certificates to enforce it.
Danielle Gross at her communications and advocacy firm in downtown Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, on Aug. 19. Gross, who has lived in the nearby West Shore school district that her children attend for decades, has expressed concern during local school board meetings over what and how proposals are introduced and the lack of transparency to parents. Credit: Michelle Gustafson for The Hechinger Report
To Gross, it’s an example of how West Shore and other school boards without formal relationships with ILC have still found ways to advance the group’s agenda. “They’re waiting for other school boards to do all the controversial stuff with the ILC,” Gross said, then “taking the policies other districts have, running them through their solicitors, and implementing them that way.” (A spokesperson for West Shore stated that the district had not contracted with ILC and declined further comment.)
“It’s like a hydra effect,” said Kait Linton of the grassroots community group Public Education Advocates of Lancaster. “They’ve planted seeds for a vine, and now the vine’s taking off in all the directions it wants to go.”
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ILC was founded in the wake of a Pennsylvania lawsuit that drew nationwide attention and prompted significant local embarrassment.
In October 2004, the Dover Area School District — situated, like West Shore, in York County, south of Harrisburg — changed its biology curriculum to introduce the quasi-creationist theory of “intelligent design” as an alternative to evolution. Eleven families sued, arguing that intelligent design was “fundamentally a religious proposition rather than a scientific one.” In December 2005, a federal court agreed, ruling that public schools teaching the theory violated the U.S. Constitution’s establishment clause.
During the case, an attorney named Randall Wenger unsuccessfully tried to add the creationist Christian think tank he worked for — which published the book Dover sought to teach — to the suit as a defendant, and, failing that, filed an amicus brief instead. When the district lost and was ultimately left with $1 million in legal fees, Wenger found a lesson in it for conservatives moving forward.
Speaking at a 2005 conference hosted by the Pennsylvania Family Institute — part of a national network of state-level “family councils” tied to the heavyweight Christian right organizations Family Research Council and Focus on the Family — Wenger suggested Dover could have avoided or won legal challenges if officials hadn’t mentioned their religious motivations during public school board meetings.
“Give us a call before you do something controversial like that,” Wenger said, according to LancasterOnline. Then, in a line that’s become infamous among ILC’s critics, Wenger invoked a biblical reference to add, “I think we need to do a better job at being clever as serpents.” (Wenger did not respond to multiple requests for comment.)
The following year, in 2006, the Pennsylvania Family Institute launched ILC with Wenger as its chief counsel, a role he remains in today, in addition to serving as chief operating officer. ILC now has three other staff attorneys and has worked directly as plaintiff’s attorneys on two Supreme Court cases: one was part of the larger Hobby Lobby decision, which allows employers to opt out of employee health insurance plans that include contraception coverage; the other expanded religious exemptions for workers.
ILC has financial ties and a history of collaborating with Christian right legal advocacy behemoth Alliance Defending Freedom, including on a 2017 lawsuit against a school district outside Philadelphia that allowed a trans student to use the locker room aligned with their gender. ILC has filed amicus briefs in support of numerous other Christian right causes, including two that led to major Supreme Court victories for the right in 2025: Mahmoud v. Taylor, which limited public schools’ ability to assign books with LGBTQ themes; and United States v. Skrmetti, which affirmed a Tennessee ban on gender-affirming care for minors. In recent months, the group filed two separate amicus briefs on behalf of Pennsylvania school board members in anti-trans cases in other states. In both cases, which were brought by Alliance Defending Freedom and concern school sports and pronoun usage, ILC urged the Supreme Court to “resolve the issue nationwide.”
In lower courts, ILC has worked on or contributed briefs to lawsuits seeking to start public school board meetings with prayer and to allow religious groups to proselytize public school students, among other issues. More quietly, as the local blog Lancaster Examiner reported — and as one ILC attorney recounted at a conference in 2022 — ILC has defended “conversion therapy,” the broadly discredited theory that homosexuality is a disorder that can be cured.
To critics, all of these efforts have helped systematically chip away at civil rights protections for LGBTQ students at the local level, seeding the policies that President Donald Trump’s administration is now trying to make ubiquitous through executive orders. And while local backlash is building in some areas, activists are hindered by the threat that the ILC’s efforts are ultimately aimed at laying the groundwork for a Supreme Court case that could formalize discrimination against transgender students into law nationwide.
But ILC’s greatest influence is arguably much closer to its Harrisburg home, in neighboring Lancaster and York counties, where nine districts have contracted ILC and at least three more have adopted its model policies.
The rural hillside and farmland in Lancaster County, Pennsylvania, are seen on Aug. 15, 2025. The local school district, Penn Manor, adopted anti-trans and anti-LGBTQ policies presented by the Independence Law Center, a Harrisburg-based Christian-right legal advocacy group. Credit: Michelle Gustafson for The Hechinger Report
A sign is seen in a residential neighborhood in Holtwood, Pennsylvania. Credit: Michelle Gustafson for The Hechinger Report
In Lancaster’s Hempfield district, it started with a 2021 controversy over a trans student joining the girls’ track team. School board meetings that had already grown tense over pandemic masking requirements erupted in new fights about LGBTQ rights and visibility. In the middle of one meeting, recalled Hempfield parent and substitute teacher Erin Small, a board member abruptly suggested hiring ILC to write a new district policy. The suddenness of the proposal caused such public outcry, said Small, that the vote to hire ILC had to be postponed.
But within a few months, the district signed a contract with ILC to write what became Pennsylvania’s first school district ban on trans students participating in sports teams aligned with their gender identity. Other ILC policy proposals followed, including a successful 2023 effort to bar the district from using books or materials that include sexual content, which immediately prompted an intensive review of books written by LGBTQ and non-white authors. (The Hempfield district did not respond to requests for comment.)
In nearby Elizabethtown, the path to hiring ILC began with a fraudulent 2021 complaint, when a man claimed, during a school board meeting, that his middle schooler had checked out an inappropriate book from the school library. Although it later emerged that the man had reportedly used a fake name and officials found no evidence he had children attending the school, his claim nonetheless sparked a long debate over book policies, which eventually led to the district contracting ILC as special legal counsel in 2024. Two anti-trans policies were subsequently passed in January 2025, and a ban on “sexually explicit” books, also based on ILC’s models, was discussed this past spring but has not moved forward to date. (The Elizabethtown district did not respond to requests for comment.)
Across the Susquehanna River in York County — where five districts have contracted ILC and two more have considered or passed its policies — the group’s influence has been broad and sometimes confounding. In one instance, as the York Dispatch discovered, ILC not only authored four policy proposals for the Red Lion Area School District, but ILC senior counsel Jeremy Samek, a registered Pennsylvania lobbyist, also drafted a speech for the board president to deliver in support of three anti-trans policies, all of which passed in 2024. (The Red Lion district did not respond to requests for comment.)
The same year, South Western School District, reportedly acting on ILC advice, ordered a high school to cut large windows into the walls of two bathrooms that had been designated as “gender identity restrooms,” allowing passersby in the hallway to see inside, consequently discouraging students from using them. (The district did not respond to requests for comment, but in a statement to local paper the Evening Sun, school board President Matt Gelazela cited student safety and said the windows helped staff monitor for vaping, bullying and other prohibited activities.)
In many districts, said Lancaster parent Eric Fisher, ILC’s growing relationships with school boards has been eased by the ubiquitous presence around the state of its sister organizations within the Pennsylvania Family Institute, including the institute’s lobbying arm, voucher group, youth leadership conference and Church Ambassador Network, which brings pastors from across Pennsylvania to lobby lawmakers in the state Capitol.
As a result, said Fisher, when ILC shows up in a district, board members often are already familiar with them or other institute affiliates, “having met them at church and having their churches put their stamp of endorsement on them. I think it makes it really easy for [board members] to say yes.”
But in nearly every district that has considered working with ILC, wide-scale pushback has also followed — though often to no avail. In June 2024, in Elizabethtown — where school board fights have been so fractious that they inspired a full-length documentary — members of the public spoke in opposition to hiring ILC at a ratio of roughly 5 to 1 before the board voted unanimously to hire the group anyway.
In the Upper Adams district in Biglerville, southwest of Harrisburg, the school board voted to contract ILC despite a cacophony of public comments and a 500-signature petition in opposition.
In Lancaster’s Warwick district, the school board’s vote to hire ILC prompted the resignation of a superintendent who had served in her role for 15 years and who reported that the district’s insurance carrier had warned the district might not be covered in future lawsuits if it adopted ILC’s anti-trans policies.
Since then, Warwick resident Kayla Cook noted during a public presentation about ILC this past summer, the mood in the district has grown grim. “We do not have any students at the moment trying to participate [in sports] who are trans. However, we have students who simply have a short haircut being profiled as being trans,” Cook said. “It’s tipped far into fear-based behaviors, where we are dipping our toes into checking the student’s body to make sure that they’re identifying as the appropriate gender.” (A district spokesperson directed interview requests to the school board, which did not respond to requests for comment.)
But perhaps nowhere was the fight as fraught as in Lancaster’s Penn Manor School District, which hired ILC to draft new policies about trans students just months after the suicide of a trans youth from Penn Manor — the fifth such suicide in the Lancaster community in less than two years.
Before the Penn Manor school board publicly proposed retaining ILC, in June 2024 — scheduling a presentation by and a vote on hiring ILC for the same meeting — district Superintendent Phil Gale wrote to the board about his misgivings. In an email obtained by LancasterOnline, Gale warned the board against policies “that will distinguish one group of students from another” and passed along a warning from the district’s insurance carrier that adopting potentially discriminatory policies might affect the district’s coverage if it were sued by students or staff.
In a narrow 5-4 vote, the all-Republican board declined to hire ILC that June. But after one board member reconsidered, the matter was placed back on the agenda for two meetings that August.
Malinda Harnish Clatterbuck and her husband, Mark Clatterbuck, sit on the back porch of their home in Holtwood, Pennsylvania. Credit: Michelle Gustafson for The Hechinger Report
Members of the community publicly presented an open letter, signed by roughly 80 Penn Manor residents, requesting that, if policies about trans students were truly needed, the district establish a task force of local experts to draft them rather than outsource policymaking to ILC. One of the letter’s organizers, Mark Clatterbuck, a religious studies professor at New Jersey’s Montclair State University, said the district never acknowledged it or responded. (Maddie Long, a spokesperson for Penn Manor, said the district could not comment because of the litigation.)
That February, Clatterbuck’s son, Ash — a college junior and transgender man who’d grown up in Penn Manor — had died by suicide, shortly after the nationally publicized death of Nex Benedict, a nonbinary 16-year-old in Oklahoma who died by suicide the day after being beaten unconscious in a high school girls’ bathroom.
In the first August meeting to reconsider hiring ILC, Clatterbuck told the Penn Manor board, through tears, how “living in a hostile political environment that dehumanizes them at school, at home, at church and in the halls of Congress” was making “life unlivable for far too many of our trans children.”
Two weeks later, at the second meeting, Ash’s mother, Malinda Harnish Clatterbuck, pleaded for board members talking about student safety to consider the children these policies actively harm.
“ILC does not even recognize trans and gender-nonconforming children as existing,” said Harnish Clatterbuck, a pastor whose family has lived in Lancaster for 10 generations. “That fact alone should preclude them from even being considered by the board.”
A painted portrait of Ash Clatterbuck in his parents’ home in Holtwood, Pennsylvania. Credit: Michelle Gustafson for The Hechinger Report
Malinda Harnish-Clatterbuck walks a labyrinth made in 2023 by her late son Ash on their property in Holtwood. Credit: Michelle Gustafson for The Hechinger Report
Hand-painted signs that once hung on the walls of Ashton’s dorm room Credit: Michelle Gustafson for The Hechinger Report
Her husband spoke again as well, telling the board how Ash had frequently warned about the spread of policies that stoke “irrational hysteria around” trans youth — “the kind of policies,” Mark Clatterbuck noted, “that the Pennsylvania-based Independence Law Center loves to draft.”
Reminding the board that five trans youth in the area had died by suicide within just 18 months, he continued, “Do not try to tell me that there is no connection between the kind of dehumanizing policies that the ILC drafts and the deaths of our trans children.”
But the board voted to hire ILC anyway, 5-4, and in the following months adopted two of ILC’s anti-trans policies.
In anticipation of such public outcry, some school boards around Pennsylvania have taken steps to obscure their interest in ILC’s agenda.
Kristina Moon, a senior attorney at the Education Law Center of Pennsylvania, a legal services nonprofit that advocates for public school students’ rights, has watched a progression in how school boards interact with ILC.
When her group first began receiving calls related to ILC, around 2021, alarmed parents told similar stories of boards proposing book bans targeting queer or trans students’ perspectives, or identical packages of policies that included restrictions about bathrooms, sports and pronouns.
“At first, we would see boards openly talking about their interest in contracting with ILC,” said Moon. But as local opposition began to grow, “board members stopped sharing so publicly.”
Instead, Moon said, reports began to emerge of school boards discussing or meeting with ILC in secret.
In Hempfield, in 2022, the board moved some policy discussions into committee sessions less likely to be attended by the public, and held a vote on an anti-trans sports policy without announcing it publicly, possibly in violation of Pennsylvania’s Sunshine Act, as Mother Jones reported.
Across the state, in Bucks County, one Central Bucks school board member recounted in an op-ed for the Bucks County Beacon how her conservative colleagues had stonewalled her when she asked about the origins of a new book ban policy in 2022, only to have the board later admit ILC had performed a legal review of it “pro bono,” as PhillyBurbs reported.
Subsequent reporting by the York Daily Record and Reuters revealed the board’s relationship with ILC was more involved and included discussions about other policies related to trans student athletes and pronoun policy. (Both Central Bucks’ books and anti-LGBTQ policies were later cited in an ACLU federal complaint that cost the district $1.75 million in legal fees, as well as in a related Education Department investigation into whether the district had created a hostile learning environment for LGBTQ students.)
The Pennsylvania State Capitol building in downtown Harrisburg. Credit: Michelle Gustafson for The Hechinger Report
But the sense of backroom dealing reached an almost cartoonish level in York County, where, in March 2024, conservative board members from 12 county school districts were invited to a secret meeting hosted by a right-wing political action committee, along with specific instructions about how to keep their participation off the public radar. According to the York Dispatch, the invitation came from former Central York school board member Veronica Gemma, who (after losing her seat) was hired as education director for PA Economic Growth, a PAC that had helped elect 48 conservatives to York school boards the previous fall. (Gemma did not respond to interview requests.)
Gemma’s invitation was accompanied by an agenda sent by the PAC, which included a discussion about ILC and how board members could “build a network of support” and “advance our shared goals more effectively countywide.” The invitation also included the admonition that “confidentiality is paramount” and that each district should only send four board members or fewer — to avoid the legal threshold for a quorum that would make the meeting a matter of public record.
“Remember, no more than 4 — sunshine laws,” Gemma wrote.
In the wake of stories like these, Wenger’s 2005 suggestion that conservatives “become as clever as serpents” in concealing their intentions became ubiquitous in coverage of and advocacy against ILC — showing up in newspaper articles, in editorials and even on a T-shirt for sale online.
“I think it’s very obvious,” reflected Moon, “but if something has to be taking place in secrecy, I’m not sure it can be good for our students.”
But the lack of transparency shows up in subtler ways too, in the spreading phenomenon of districts adopting ILC policies without admitting where the policies come from. That was the case in Eastern York in 2025, where board members who had previously lobbied for an ILC pronoun policy later directed their in-house attorney to write an original policy instead, following the same principles but avoiding the baggage an ILC connection would bring.
In Elizabethtown (which did contract ILC), one policy was even introduced erroneously referencing clauses from another district’s code, in an indication of how directly districts are copy-pasting from one another.
In 2025, ILC attorney Jeremy Samek even seemed to acknowledge the trend, predicting that fewer districts might contract ILC going forward, since the combination of Trump’s executive orders on trans students and the general spread of policies similar to ILC’s meant “it’s going to be a lot easier for other schools to do that without even talking to us.”
In the face of what appears like a deliberate strategy of concealment, members of the public have increasingly turned to official channels to compel boards to disclose their dealings with ILC. Mark Clatterbuck did so in 2024 and 2025, filing 10 Right-to-Know requests with Penn Manor for all school board and administration communications with or about ILC and policies ILC consulted on and any records related to a set of specific keywords.
Thirty miles north, three Elizabethtown parents sued their school board in the spring of 2025, alleging it deliberately met and conferred with ILC in nonpublic meetings and private communications to “circumvent the requirements of the Sunshine Act.”
In both cases, and more broadly in the region, ILC critics are keenly aware that, by bringing complaints or lawsuits against the group or the school boards it works with, they might be doing exactly what ILC wants: furthering its chances to land another case before the Supreme Court, where a favorable ruling could set a dangerous national precedent, such as ruling that Title IX protections don’t cover trans students.
“They’re itching for a case,” said Clatterbuck. To that end, he added, his pro bono attorneys — at the law firm Gibbel Kraybill & Hess LLC, which also represents the Elizabethtown plaintiffs pro bono — have been careful not to do ILC’s work for it.
Largely, that has meant keeping the cases narrowly focused on Sunshine Act violations.
But in both cases, there are also hints of the larger issue at hand — of whether, in a repeat of the old Dover “intelligent design” case, ILC’s policies represent school boards imposing inherently religious viewpoints on public schools. After all, ILC’s parent group, the Pennsylvania Family Institute, clearly states its mission is to make Pennsylvania “a place where God is honored” and to “strengthen families by restoring to public life the traditional, foundational principles and values essential for the well-being of society.” And in 2024, the institute’s president, Michael Geer, told a Christian TV audience that much of ILC’s work involves working with school boards “on the transgender issue, fighting that ideology that is pervasive in our society.”
In the Elizabethtown complaint, the plaintiffs argue that district residents must “have the opportunity to observe Board deliberations regarding policies that will affect their children in order to understand the Board members’ true motivation and rationale for adopting policies — particularly when policies are prepared by an outside organization seeking to advance a particular religious viewpoint and agenda.”
The public has ample cause to suspect as much. Five current and former members of Elizabethtown’s school board are connected to a far-right church in town, where the pastor joined 150 other locals in traveling to Washington, D.C., on Jan. 6, 2021. Among them were current board members Stephen Lindemuth — who once preached a sermon at the church arguing that “gender identity confusion” doesn’t “line up with what God desires” — and his wife, Danielle Lindemuth, who helped organize the caravan of buses that went to Washington. (Stephen Lindemuth replied by email, “I have no recollection of making any judgmental comments concerning LGBTQ in my most recent preaching the past few years.” Neither he nor his wife were accused of any unlawful acts on Jan. 6.)
Another board member until this past December, James Emery, went through the church’s pastoral training program and in 2022 served as a member of the security detail of far-right Christian nationalist gubernatorial candidate Doug Mastriano.
The West Shore School District Administration Center, where school board meetings are held, in Lewisberry, Pennsylvania. Credit: Michelle Gustafson for The Hechinger Report
School board meetings in Elizabethtown have also frequently devolved into religious battles, with one local mother, Amy Karr, board chair of Elizabethtown’s Church of the Brethren, recalling how local right-wing activists accused ILC’s opponents of being possessed by demonic spirits or a “vehicle of Satan.”
In Penn Manor, Clatterbuck similarly hoped to lay bare the “overtly religious nature” of the board’s motivation by including in his Right-to-Know requests a demand for all school board communications about ILC policies containing keywords like “God,” “Christian,” “Jesus,” “faith” and “biblical.”
For nearly a year, the district sought to avoid fulfilling the requests, with questionable invocations of attorney-client privilege (including one board member’s claim that she had “personally” retained ILC as counsel), sending back obviously incomplete records and protestations that Clatterbuck’s keyword request turned up so many results that it was too burdensome to fulfill. Ultimately, Clatterbuck appealed to the Pennsylvania Office of Open Records to compel the board to honor the request.
This fall, Clatterbuck received a 457-page document from the board containing dozens of messages that suggest his suspicions were correct.
In response to local constituents writing in support of ILC — decrying pronoun policies as a violation of religious liberty, claiming “the whole LGBTQ spectrum is rooted in the brokenness of sin” and calling for board members to rebuke teachers unions in “the precious blood of Jesus” — at least three board members wrote back with encouragement and thanks. In one example, board member Anthony Lombardo told a constituent who had written a 12-page message arguing that queer theory is “inherently atheistic” that “I completely agree with your analysis and conclusions.”
When another community member sent the board an article from an evangelical website arguing that using “transgendered pronouns … falsifies the gospel” and “tramples on the blood of Christ,” board member Donna Wert responded, “Please know that I firmly agree with the beliefs held in [this article]. And please know that heightened movement is finally being made concerning this, as you will see.”
To Clatterbuck, such messages demonstrate the school board’s religious sympathies, as well as how Christian nationalism plays out at the local level. While national examples of Christian right dominance, like Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth’s Crusader tattoos or Supreme Court Justice Samuel Alito’s “Appeal to Heaven” flag, get the most attention, Clatterbuck said, “this is what it looks like when you’re controlling local school boards and passing policies that affect people directly in their local community.”
But the local level might also be the place where advocates have the best chance of fighting back, said Kait Linton of Public Education Advocates of Lancaster.
Speaking ahead of a panel discussion on ILC at Elizabethtown’s Church of the Brethren last June — one of several panels PEAL hosted around Lancaster in the run-up to November’s school board elections — Linton emphasized the importance of focusing on the “hyperlocal.”
“With everything that’s happening at the national level,” Linton said, “we find a lot of folks get caught up in that, when really we have far less opportunity to make a difference up there than we do right here.”
PEAL’s efforts have been matched by other groups at the district level, like Elizabethtown’s Etown Common Sense 2.0, which local parent and former president Alisha Runkle said advocates against the sort of policies ILC drafts and also seeks to support teachers “being beaten down and needing support” in an environment of relentless hostility and demands to police their lesson plans, libraries and language.
They’re also reflected in the work of statewide coalitions like Pennsylvanians for Welcoming and Inclusive Schools, which helps districts share information about ILC policies — including a searchable map of ILC’s presence around the state — and resources like the Education Law Center, which has sent detailed demand or advocacy letters to numerous school districts considering adopting ILC-inspired policies.
This past November, that local-level work resulted in some signs for cautious hope. In Lancaster County’s Hempfield School District — one of the first districts in the state to hire ILC — the school board flipped to Democratic control. Among the new board members are Kait Linton and fellow PEAL activist Erin Small.
Across the river, in West Shore, the departure of three right-wing board members — one who resigned and two who lost their elections — left the board with a new 5-4 majority of Democratic and centrist Republican members. After the election, the board promptly moved to table three contentious policy proposals, including the anti-trans bathroom policy the board had copied from ILC and a book ban policy that drew heavily on ILC’s work.
While in other Lancaster districts — including Elizabethtown, Warwick and Penn Manor — school boards remained firmly in conservative control, there are also signs of growing pushback, as in Elizabethtown, where Runkle noted the teachers union has recently begun challenging the board during public meetings and local students have gotten active protesting book bans.
Similar trends have happened statewide, said the Education Law Center’s Kristina Moon, who noted that voters “were so concerned about the extremist action they saw on the boards that it was kind of a wake-up call: that we can’t sleep on school board elections, and we need to have boards that reflect a commitment to all of the students in our schools.”
While reports of ILC’s direct involvement with school boards seem to have waned in recent months, said Moon, that “does not mean the threat to our public schools is over. We see continued use of those discriminatory policies by school boards just copying the policy exactly as it was adopted elsewhere. And it causes the same harm in a district, whether the district is publicly meeting with ILC or not.”
Plus there are now Trump’s anti-trans executive orders, which have spread confusion statewide. And just this December, a legal challenge brought by another Christian right law firm, the Thomas More Society, is challenging the authority of Pennsylvania’s civil rights commission to apply anti-discrimination protections to trans students in public schools.
As a consequence, the Education Law Center has spent much of the past year trying to educate school and community leaders that executive orders are not the law itself, and they cannot supersede case law supporting the rights of LGBTQ students.
“We’re trying to cut through the noise,” Moon said, “to ensure that schools remain clear about their legal obligations to provide safe environments for all students … so they can focus on learning and not worrying about identity-based attacks.”
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Yaya Mayweather took the homemade route to celebrate her son KJ on his fifth birthday. She shared sweet footage of a cake they baked together. The mommy duties moment comes after Yaya seemingly shaded NBA YoungBoy for allegedly being in the same state as Kentrell Jr. and not visiting him. Meanwhile, her mom, Melissa, dropped an adorable social media post celebrating her grandson’s birthday.
Even with a dad worth $300 million, there’s nothing like homemade magic. That’s exactly what Yaya Mayweather created when her son, KJ, requested a homemade cake for his 5th birthday. On her Instagram Stories, she revealed that her mini-me wanted to bake the treat at midnight. And Mama Mayweather made it happen! One video shows her and KJ’s hands cracking an egg into the mix. R. Kelly’s song, ‘It’s Your Birthday’ is playing over the sweet clip. Another video shows KJ smiling at a kitchen island, while loved ones, including Yaya Mayweather, circled around him to sing him ‘Happy Birthday.’ That clip, like the egg-cracking one, has no audio because Yaya added Anita Baker’s song ‘You Bring Me Joy’ to it. It does show KJ blowing out his fifth birthday candle while rocking a Spider-Man t-shirt. The cake he and his mom baked was in a rectangular shape and covered with half white and half light red frosting. Watch the two sweet clips below.
Mommy Mayweather Puts Daddy YoungBoy On Blast
Yaya Mayweather’s special birthday moment with KJ came after she allegedly popped off on NBA YoungBoy. While she didn’t name-drop her ex, she took to X with several posts about favoritism and her son’s hurt feelings.
In one post, per ItsOnsite!, she wrote, “The favoritism is crazy.” In another she added, “I’ve never heard of someone going to the same state their child lives in and doesn’t see them.” A third post, seemingly in response to another X user, said, “No it hurt my son’s feelings, and it’s up with anyone about my child.” Since tweeting the apparent shade toward NBA YoungBoy, Yaya has seemingly deactivated her X account.
No additional details are available at this time about Yaya and NBA YoungBoy’s co-parenting agreements. Last month, she thanked him on the same platform for surprising Kentrell Jr. with a puppy for Christmas.
Grandma Melissia Shares Birthday Dump For KJ
While Yaya Mayweather handled birthday cake duties, Grandma Melissia hopped online to shower him with the same loving energy. On Instagram, she penned the cutest caption with three studio photos of Kentrell Jr.
“Happy Happy Birthday to my favorite person in the world. I can’t believe you’re 5 already where has the time gone…? GOD gave him to my daughter at the perfect time. He healed all of us in so many ways & has been the Biggest & Best Blessing to our family. He is the smartest, sweetest, most caring baby. I knew from the 1st time I looked into his eyes right after he was born that he’s going to be a star & somebody very special. The way he calls me MyMy, holds my hand & doesn’t play about me that’s my baby! I love you Bubb Bubbz HBD 🥳🎂🎁🎈 @kjmeezymayweather”
Grandpa Floyd Mayweather has also entered the chat behind his grand-legacy! The duo have been stealing hearts for the last few years with their boxing workouts and adorable interactions. On his Instagram Story on Monday, Floyd shared three posts celebrating KJ’s birthday: one shot of them in the gym, another of them skating and a third of KJ chilling in his lap. Each post had KJ’s IG account tagged.
PEACHAM, Vt. — Early on a chilly fall morning in this small Vermont town, Principal Lydia Cochrane watched a gaggle of kids chase one another and a soccer ball around their school recess yard. Between drop-off and first bell, they were free, loud and constantly moving.
With only about 60 students in prekindergarten through sixth grade, Peacham Elementary is the sort of school where all the kids know one another and locals regularly respond to calls for supplies and volunteers for field trips and other school activities. Cochrane gestured at the freshly raked wood chips around the swings and climbing structures, one of many tasks Peacham families completed at a recent community workday.
“With a small school, the families know how crucial it is to support it and ensure it succeeds, and so they show up for it,” said Cochrane.
Peacham is also a type of school that’s disappearing nationwide, as education systems grapple with plunging enrollments and rising costs. Amid declining birth rates and growing competition from private-school voucher programs, the number of students in U.S. public schools dropped about 2.5 percent between 2019 and 2023, according to the most recent federal data. Fewer students leads to higher per-pupil spending, because district staffing and other expenses largely remain in place despite enrollment drops, and states are increasingly trying to escape the education budget crunch via school consolidation: In the past three years alone, at least 10 states have considered measures to mandate or incentivize district mergers.
Lydia Cochrane is the principal of Peacham Elementary School, in Peacham, Vt. Credit: Oliver Parini for The Hechinger Report
These pressures are especially keen in rural areas where the smallest schools predominate and play an outsized role in community life. Vermont, the nation’s most rural state, has lost about 20 percent of its K-12 public school student population in the past two decades. That’s helped push per-pupil costs and property taxes to the breaking point. Early in 2025, the state’s governor and education secretary released a plan to overhaul Vermont education, proposing massive district consolidation as the foundation for sweeping changes in school funding, curricula and academic standards.
The Legislature responded with its own comprehensive plan, which passed last summer as Act 73, calling for a minimum of 4,000 students per district, a threshold now met by only 1 of the state’s 119 districts.
District mergers are not the same as school closures, but one invariably leads to the other, as they have in Vermont’s other recent waves of district consolidations. The scope of Act 73’s proposals have ignited intense pushback from people fearing the loss of local control over education, even from a majority of the task force created to map options for bigger districts.
This month, the state Legislature will consider whether to push forward or completely rethink the process, a debate that will be closely watched by rural education advocates nationwide. Backers of school consolidation maintain that the crises of declining enrollment, falling test scores and tight education budgets demand a bold response and that consolidating schools is necessary to control costs and more equitably distribute resources and opportunities.
Opponents say the evidence that widespread school consolidation saves money — or helps students — is mixed at best, and that success depends highly on local context. They want any mergers and closings to be voluntary and done with a clear-eyed accounting of what’s to be gained and lost.
Vermont’s student-teacher ratio of 11 to 1 is the lowest in the nation, and the state now spends nearly $27,000 per student, second only to New York State. That has triggered spikes in local taxes: In 2024, Vermonters facing double-digit property tax increases subsequentlyrejected nearly one-third of school budgetswhen they next went to the polls.
The school budget revolts led Republican Gov. Phil Scott and his recently appointed education secretary, Zoie Saunders, to propose an education overhaul in January 2025 that would have divided the state into five regional districts serving at least 10,000 kids each. That plan was then superseded by Act 73, which created a redistricting task force of lawmakers and education leaders to map options for the Legislature to consider when it returns to work this month.
Saunders argues that school consolidation is key to the broader education transformation that Vermont needs in order to tackle several interconnected challenges, including rising student mental health issues, falling test scores and stubborn achievement gaps. “Many of these issues are hard to solve unless we address our issues around scale and funding,” she said in an interview. “We had to think about reform in a way that was going to focus on funding, quality and governance, because they’re all connected.”
The state has consolidated schools several times before. Most notably, in 2015, Act 46 triggered several years of mergers — first voluntary, then required — that eliminated dozens of districts and led many small schools to close.
Jessica Philippe, a Peacham parent who was on the school board at the time, recalled the worry that the district and its elementary school would be swallowed up. Many of Vermont’s smallest districts, including Peacham, operate only an elementary school and cover the higher grades by paying tuition for students to attend public or certain private schools outside the district.
Third and fourth grade students work at their desks at Peacham Elementary School, in Peacham, VT. Credit: Oliver Parini for The Hechinger Report
“It seems like this is a cycle we have to go through,” she said. “Every five or 10 years, we have to fight to keep this place, because people from away think, oh, that’s just a few kids we have to disperse.”
The Peacham school board fended off that threat by showing the state board of education ample data that Peacham Elementary was viable and that there wasn’t much money to be saved from a merger. In fact, the state has never done a full financial analysis of Act 46. At the very least, the mergers failed to stem the spending and tax hikes that triggered Act 73.
The only comprehensive accounting of Act 46 was done by a Vermont native, Grace Miller, for her 2024 undergraduate thesis at Yale University where she studied economics and education. In her analysis of 109 districts between 2017 and 2020, she found that mergers did yield some savings, but it was soaked up by new spending such as higher salaries in newly combined districts and higher costs to bus students to and from schools farther away.
Meanwhile, some of the fastest-growing educational costs in Vermont are arguably outside school and district control, such as skyrocketing health care premiums, which account for about 15 percent of district spending. According to data from KFF (formerly the Kaiser Family Foundation), Vermonters pay the highest “benchmark” health care premiums of any state, nearly $1,300 a month, almost double what they paid just five years ago. The state has also shifted other financial burdens onto districts, such as capital construction costs for schools, which the state hasn’t funded in nearly two decades.
“We need to be focused on those core cost drivers,” said Rebecca Holcombe, a Vermont state representative and member of the redistricting task force, “not because there aren’t small schools that are inefficient and might not make it, but because even if we addressed them, we’d barely touch the real problem.”
Holcombe, who was the state’s education secretary when Act 46 passed, believes some school consolidation makes sense for Vermont, but not mandated mergers, especially at the scale proposed by Act 73. She was among the eight of 11 task force members who voted not to include maps of new, bigger district options in their final report in early December.
Instead they proposed a 10-year plan to create five regional “cooperative education service areas” where districts would pool resources to coordinate services — such as transportation, special education and professional development — and generate savings through scale. It also proposed that the state offer financial incentives to districts that voluntarily merge, centered on creating or strengthening high schools to serve students from combined districts and beyond.
Speaking to reporters, Gov. Scott admonished the task force a few days after its members voted to forward only the shared services plan to the state Legislature without mapping options for consolidating districts. “They didn’t redraw the lines,” he said. “They failed.”
When lawmakers reconvene on Jan. 6, it’s unclear how they’ll handle recommendations from a task force that arguably rebuked its founding legislation. They could ignore the task force and create their own maps of 4,000-student districts. They might amend Act 73 to fit the task force’s proposal.
Seated in her office at Doty Memorial School in Worcester, a small Vermont town north of Montpelier, Principal Gillian Fuqua choked up when explaining her change of heart — from opposing to supporting a plan to close the school she’s overseen since 2019. Doty has about 60 K-6 students this year, and Fuqua slides a paper across her desk showing projections based on town birth records that enrollment could drop to 40 by the fall of 2028.
“It’s absolutely heartbreaking to me,” she said. “But we have to think about what we want for our kids, and we’re not in a good place right now.”
Worcester is one of five towns merged into a single district by Act 46 in 2019. For two years in a row, the district has considered closing Doty, which would require voter approval. Last year, the plan was shelved without a vote after residents protested. But now a vote has been scheduled for February 10.
This past fall, when the district restarted consolidation discussions, Fuqua joined the “configuration committee” and dropped her previous opposition to closing the school. It already must combine two grades in classrooms to meet state minimums for class size. Fuqua worried that if classes shrink further, teachers might struggle to foster soft skills such as teamwork, collaborative problem solving and navigating a diversity of opinions. A larger school, she continued, could also support a full-time instrumental music teacher instead of the one-day-a-week instructor that Doty kids get, as well as a full-time librarian.
Doty Memorial School, which could close depending on the results of a vote in February. Credit: Oliver Parini for The Hechinger Report
The town of Worcester, Vt. Doty Memorial School (center) is visible in the foreground. Credit: Oliver Parini for The Hechinger Report
Indeed, there is ample evidence from Vermont and other states that merged schools can expose students to more and varied learning opportunities. A report released in 2024 by the Vermont Agency of Education, based on surveys and superintendent interviews from seven districts that merged early in the Act 46 era, highlighted merged districts saving, adding or restarting school offerings such as literacy intervention services, world languages and after-school extracurricular activities.
Nevertheless, education researchers stress that sending students to a bigger school with more resources doesn’t necessarily mean improved academic achievement or well-being. “These students are often experiencing an enormous transition, and there are a whole bunch of factors that can affect that,” said Mara Tieken, an education professor at Bates College who studies school consolidation.
School closings tend to be in more disadvantaged areas, for instance, and students there now take longer bus rides that cut into time for studying, sleep and after-school programs. Another variable is whether students from a closed school all transfer to the same new school, or are “starburst” out because no single school can accommodate them all. Tieken said it takes serious planning “to smooth that transition for new students, to create a culture that’s welcoming.”
“The answer to virtually every question about school consolidation is: It depends,” said Jerry Johnson, director of the Rural Education Institute and professor of educational leadership at East Carolina University, who has researched school consolidation for decades.
Whatever might be gained from a merger, many Doty parents (and students) remain opposed. In interviews, several said their tiny school provides something incredibly valuable and increasingly rare: human connection and community. In places like Worcester, a local school is one of the few spaces that regularly brings folks together and serves as a magnet for the young families that sustain small-town life.
Rosie Close, a fifth grader at Doty, described a tradition of students making and serving soup at the town’s free “community lunch” held every Wednesday at the town hall. “If they closed Doty,” she said, “that would kind of take away part of the town, too.”
While some Doty families had deep roots in the area, others moved to town more recently, including Caitlin Howansky, mother of a third grader. Howansky grew up in New York City, where she went to an elementary school with more than 30 kids per class.
“Nobody outside of that classroom necessarily knew my name or knew me as a whole person. I was just one of the crowd,” she said.
By contrast, Howansky said, the teachers at Doty “know every kid’s strengths and weaknesses across the whole building.”
That doesn’t mean that she and her neighbors are blind to demographic or economic realities, especially when housing, health care and so much else is getting more expensive. Early in December, for instance, Vermonters learned that property taxes would likely be spiking again next year, by nearly 12 percent on average.
“A lot of people are saying, if we fight this again, are they just going to come back and try again next year?” Howansky said. “And is it fair to the children to live under this constant threat and this constant stress of not knowing?”
She still thinks the fight against a merger is worth it, but said, “Everyone has to figure out where to draw their individual line.”
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Whew, Roomies! Mariah The Scientist is making it clear that she’s stepping and standing ten toes down behind her fiancé Young Thug. That’s the energy she had when she peeped Hazel E leaving a random comment under a video of her man.
Mariah The Scientist Clocks Hazel E’s Comment Under Video Of Young Thug
Chileeee, Mariah The Scientist wasn’t having it after Hazel E dropped a comment under a video of Young Thug. The clip, posted by @shotbymoneymeech on Instagram, shows Thug flexing in a fresh fit while walking amongst a fleet of luxury whips. Hazel peeped the post and dropped three fire emojis, but Mariah slid in quick asking, “Which part is fire?” Hazel E came through with her own clap back though basically saying its not that deep and nobody’s checking for Thugga, writing, “he shot me too and I commented on the photographers page about the aesthetic of his work. lil girls be showing they insecurities girl nobody want this man but her.”
Social Media Erupts After Mariah Puts Hazel E On Blast
The Shade Room comment section was split! Some fans said they don’t play just like Mariah, while others sided with Hazel, saying when it comes to Young Thug he’s all for Mariah. Peep some of the reactions below.
Instagram user @alexandriaslife_ wrote, “That ring got Mariah acting different 😂”
Instagram user @thenotoriousjaz wrote, “Now Mariah, hunny……”
While Instagram user @sam.colon wrote, “Can’t put nothing past her, she gave Bluetooth a shot 😭😭😭😭”
Then Instagram user @olivirahhhhh wrote, “Oh Mariah it’s really not that deep.”
Another Instagram user @brokeasxfemale wrote, “Mariah is me cuz be specific before I get mad.”
Instagram user @meechsmommy wrote, “So no one can ever comment emojis on young thugs posts again? Tf lol.”
While another Instagram user @72shawtyysweets wrote, “Now Mariah 🙄”
Then another Instagram user @glamstar14 wrote, “Mariah…please…the year just started….you really gotta bffr…”
Finally, Instagram user @prettyface.laiii wrote, “LMAOOOOOO no shade mariah is meee😂😂”
Heavy On Don’t Play About Him! Mariah Spills Tea On Her REAL Reaction To Thugga’s Proposal
When it comes to not playing about her man, fans get it — especially after Young Thug went all out and proposed to Mariah during his “Hometown Hero” concert in Atlanta in December. Thug popped the question right after Mariah hit high notes and then slid a big pink diamond ring on her finger. Mariah said in an interview that she kind of had a feeling he was going to propose. “If you know me, you know that I have powers, actually. I actually predicted it earlier in the day.” And when asked if a lil’ mini-me Thug and Mariah would be coming soon, she made it crystal clear that a baby would definitely be “a post-wedding vibe, not before.”
As Meredith, 54, defended herself against claims made by Mary Cosby, 53, by suggesting that certain cast members were determined to hurt her and cause a divide between her and Lisa, 51, which has led her to draw back from them, Lisa explained why Meredith acted as she did and shared why she often comes to her rescue.
“I have plenty going on that I don’t share with the group, because why would I be vulnerable with people who are looking to hurt me?” Meredith asked during a December 30 interview with Bravo HQ.
According to Meredith, she feels she’s “calm” and “composed,” despite her castmates’ antics against her.
“These women have a long goal of making me get upset. And they like to poke and prod and poke and prod and poke and prod and wrongfully accuse me of all kinds of things, and they’ll set me up with this one saying, ‘You should talk more.’ So, you start talking. The next one’s like, ‘Don’t talk,’” she explained.
Meredith also called out the cast for “trying to put a thorn in between [her] and Lisa” for “years and years.”
“I don’t know why they are so afraid of us being friends. It’s so weird. I don’t care who’s friends with who. I hope they’re all friends with each other, whether I get along with them or not. You should be friends with whoever you want to be friends with. Who cares? If you’re somebody’s friend, you’re not looking to decimate them in a group,” she noted.
Meanwhile, in her own interview with Bravo HQ, Lisa denied that Meredith had acted erratically in Greece.
“When you’re in a group of girls, and you know that your friends are not being your friend, you put up a different kind of wall. She’s reacting emotionally to what they’re saying and doing to her,” she reasoned. “That’s all I see happening. She’s like, feeling your negative energy and [putting] up a wall about it.”
Looking back at the attacks she and Meredith have sustained from their RHOSLC co-stars, Lisa said that the two of them have faced similar drama.
“I’m sick of my marriage being talked about. I’m sick of my business, my marriage, my face, my faith, all of it, I’m sick of it. Put yourself in Meredith’s shoes. She’s going through the same thing. They do the exact same thing to her,” she noted, explaining, “That’s why I jump in, and I’m like, ‘This is wrong,’ and then all of a sudden, they’re like, ‘Oh, we can’t take Meredith down because Lisa’s here so now we’re gonna target our energy at Lisa.’”
Admittedly, Lisa sticks up for Meredith “a lot,” which she feels “bothers” her castmates.
“They don’t want me sticking up for Meredith. They want her isolated, alone, so she feels even more on the outs with everyone. I don’t like it. I don’t think it’s nice,” she concluded.
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Amanza Smith offered an update on her ex-husband, former NFL player Ralph Brown, during an appearance on Harry Jowsey‘s podcast at the end of last year.
Nearly seven years after Ralph, the 49-year-old Selling Sunset realtor whom Amanza was married to from 2010 to 2012, disappeared after dropping their kids off at school, Amanza revealed that she recently heard from the police about her former spouse.
On the November 4 episode of Boyfriend Material with Harry Jowsey, via The Tab, Amanza shared that she’d gotten confirmation that Ralph was still alive from the authorities, who told her they now have a physical address for her ex, which means he’s no longer considered “a missing person.”
As Selling Sunset fans may recall, Ralph disappeared while she was filming an early season of the Netflix reality show.
“So we got a divorce when the kids were one and two, and then for seven years they would go to their dad for a week and me for a week like clockwork,” she recalled. “He was good. He was a good dad, and then he dropped them off at school on a Monday, August 26th, 2019, and never came back and he filed a paper to the courts a few months later, relinquishing all rights and responsibilities and we didn’t see that paper for like two and a half years because of COVID, and it was like the lockdown.”
“The family courts were closed, so we were like, you know, I was convinced that we could find him and maybe he needed help … It was really sad,” she continued. “My kids were seven and nine at the time. My son just turned 14 yesterday, and my daughter’s 15.”
According to Amanza, regardless of the latest update, she has gotten no closure on Ralph’s disappearance.
“Nothing. Literally nothing. I mean, he filed a paper to the court writing all these, you know, reasons why he could no longer care for the children,” she explained.
Wiz Khalifa has fans feeling real old after he dropped a new pic with his son, Sebastian Taylor Thomaz. Folks instantly lost it over how grown Sebastian looks, and can’t believe how fast time flew by.
Time Flies! Wiz Khalifa’s Son Sebastian Has Everyone Feeling Old
Wiz Khalifa just dropped a photo on social media with his son Sebastian, whom he shares with Amber Rose. The father-son duo rocked matching black fits, prompting Wiz to caption it, “WHAT’S POPPIN TWIN.” In the now-viral pic, they dapped each other up while Sebastian, aka Bash, stares right at the camera. The internet immediately lost it over how grown Sebastian looks. Some folks were so shook they started mistaking him for rapper Cordae.
More About Wiz Khalifa & Amber Rose’s Kids
Fans know Wiz Khalifa isn’t just a dad to Sebastian. He also has a daughter, Kaydence Amelia Thomaz, with Aimee Aguilar, whom they welcomed in July 2024. Amber Rose also has another son, too, Slash Electric Alexander Edwards, with her ex A.E. Edwards.
Fans Can’t Get Over Wiz’s Son’s Glow-Up
The minute Wiz dropped the new photo of him and Sebastian, The Shade Room’s comment section lit up. People couldn’t get over how grown he looks, while others threw it back to his viral translucent video from when he was little. Peep some of the reactions below.
Instagram user @theycalllmetheo wrote, “Awww he lost is cute little chubby baby weight 😭😩🥹 he growin up on us.”
Instagram user @moore_telly5 wrote, “Omg he got so big.”
While Instagram user @sportyvixen wrote, “Nah that’s amber twin for sure.”
Then Instagram user @iamkhadijahhh.___ wrote, “His mother twin ♥️🥹🫶🏾🫶🏾”
Another Instagram user @valdoesit wrote, “I could cry right now look at Bash !! 😍😍😍”
Instagram user @toujours_lareine wrote, “He’s not Baby Bash no more 😭❤️”
Then another Instagram user @mz_candice_edwards wrote, “Omgnesss!!! he done slimmed up and lost the baby face! ❤️”
While another Instagram user @kassswithak wrote, “Am I old?!!! 😭”
Finally, Instagram user @theezodiacstore wrote, “No way look at Baby Bash!?!!”
Stefon Diggs is speaking out after his former private chef accused him of strangulation. As The Shade Room previously reported, Diggs now faces criminal charges, including felony strangulation, suffocation, and misdemeanor assault and battery, all tied to an incident that reportedly went down on Dec. 2.
Stefon Diggs Addresses Alleged Strangulation Accusations From Former Private Chef
The NFL star chopped it up exclusively with reporters inside the New England Patriots locker room on Friday, Jan. 2. He kicked things off by apologizing for being MIA the past few days. He admitted it’s been a tough time and said he couldn’t get into much about the case. “It’s been a very emotional time.. taken back by some things that’s been going on. It’s definitely an open case so he can’t say anything about it.”
When it comes to football, Stefon Diggs said he plans to keep putting in work and finish the season strong. “Regarding football I’m going to continue to be the guy I’ve been. Trying to finish the season off strong.” In more footage CBS News shared from his interview, Diggs added that he’s been leaning on his family and his team during this time.
“We all deal with life stuff, family stuff, being a football team is hard. You band together, you lean on your brothers, you lean on your people that you spend the most time with,” Diggs continued.
More About Diggs’ Charges
News about Stefon Diggs’ charges dropped at the end of 2025. On Dec. 16, his former personal chef filed a police report, accusing Diggs of assault and trying to choke her. According to TMZ, she said Diggs stormed into her bedroom on Dec. 2, got angry during a conversation, and slapped her. She said the argument escalated following a text convo about money she claimed he owed her. When she tried to push him away, she said he grabbed her neck and tightened his grip. She added that she struggled to breathe and feared she might pass out.
She told police she didn’t take any photos of her purported injuries but her upper chest area was red. At the time of the incident, she said she didn’t receive her monthly paycheck. She began working for Diggs in July, with the gig planned to run through the 2025 NFL season. They originally agreed on weekly pay, but reportedly later switched it to a monthly schedule.
Stefon’s Lawyer & New England Patriots React To Allegations
After the allegations against Stefon Diggs surfaced, his lawyer David Meier emailed the Associated Press, saying the football player “categorically denies these allegations.” Additionally, Meier called the claims unsubstantiated and uncorroborated.
“The timing and motivation for making the allegations is crystal clear: they are the direct result of an employee-employer financial dispute that was not resolved to the employee’s satisfaction,” Attorney Meier wrote.
The New England Patriots also spoke out, saying they stand by Diggs while adding that they planned to fully cooperate with authorities and the NFL.