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  • Not Guilty

    Not Guilty

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    They tell me that ignorance of the law is not supposed to be an excuse for breaking the law. So, if you ever find yourself in court, telling the judge you didn’t know, that, by itself, won’t get you off the hook.  Depending on the conviction of the presiding judge, however, might get you a lighter sentence. I believe when it comes to your and my spiritual existence, Jesus represents the kind of forgiveness that only occurs in Family Court. The more I read scripture, the more I understand our wonderful relationship with the Almighty and the extraordinary power of His love for you and me, as demonstrated by my relationship with His only son, my Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. That blood thing is what I’m referring to. If you would allow me to use two examples to illustrate my point, let me give for your review Christ on the cross and Simon Peter’s denial of Jesus as the cock crowed. All of us know that Peter did in fact deny Jesus as predicted. We also know that Peter “wept bitterly” because of it. Now, one very good example of God’s great capacity to love His children is that this same Peter, once afraid and fearful for his own life, came to witness for the Lord with no fear about his new life whatsoever. It was Peter, who, when the day of Pentecost came, and he was filled with the Holy Spirit, spoke boldly and without fear of reprisal about the blood-bought forgiveness of sins because Christ’s death made us eternal members of God’s family. You see, Jesus is our access. He is our entrée, court-appointed attorney, and intercessor to our Father, the ultimate Judge. Peter acknowledges this when he says, “Repent, be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit” Acts 2:38.

    You see, what the Holy Spirit did for Peter is what the Holy Spirit will do for you. The key is weeping bitterly. Peter had to first accept and acknowledge his shortcomings. He had to empty himself to make room for the Holy Spirit. Those who recognize this and understand the premise know firsthand that they are truly family members, and ignorance is but a poor excuse for the ultimate acceptance of Christ as Lord. In Luke 23:24, Jesus says, “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.” From the Master’s own lips, we know even His captors and persecutors were in line for forgiveness. All anyone has to do is plead ignorance, repent, and turn to the Lord. Ain’t that something? Blood bought forgiveness, and no one, particularly God, expects you to be perfect. The expectation is that you’ll be righteous in your acceptance of Jesus and sincere in your repentance. Remember, your court-appointed attorney has already won your case. But you do have to show up in court, listen, and acknowledge that the changes are true. Your Honor, yes, I denied Him. Yes, I committed the sin. Yes, I was wrong. Guilty as charged will be the verdict. And as Jesus told the adulteress, “Go and sin no more.” He tells us that each and every day. May you and I hear and obey. May you come to understand that the shedding of Christ’s blood made you His blood brother, so to speak, and yes, God is your Father, too. That means the court convenes in the living room. What a blessing! In the meantime, may you never live in ignorance again, and may God bless and keep you always.

    This column is from James Washington’s Spiritually Speaking: Reflections for and from a New Christian. You can purchase this enlightening book on Amazon and start your journey toward spiritual enlightenment.

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  • Dads’ Resource Center Identifies 4  Common Challenges Single Fathers Face

    Dads’ Resource Center Identifies 4 Common Challenges Single Fathers Face

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    Feb 9, 2023 09:00 EST

    According to the 2021 Annie Casey Foundation Kids Count Report, 34% of children under the age of 18 in the United States live in single-parent families. Most of these 23,756,000 children live with their mothers, and all too often have limited access to their father, his parents and extended family. When this happens, these fathers need the assistance of organizations like the Dads’ Resource Center. 

    “In some cases, single fathers are less engaged in the lives of their children than we all desire,” said Dads’ Resource Center Founder Dr. Joel N. Myers. “But, in the majority of cases, the family courts, county and human service systems prevent rather than encourage fathers to be actively engaged and involved with their children. These biases against fathers have an overwhelmingly negative impact on our children, culture, and economy.”

    Since its inception in 2016, the DRC has found that these are four of the most common challenges single fathers face in their efforts to be active in their children’s lives:

    Not being able to see their children. The greatest calling for any man is to be there for his children. Too often, able and willing fathers are unnecessarily limited or completely denied access to their children by those systems meant to protect the well-being of children.  

    Being boxed in by child support systems – Most single fathers want to continue to provide for their children. However, according to the National Parents Organization, “More than 50% of obligor parents are pushed below the poverty line because of unrealistic child support obligations that prove impossible for them to meet & prevent them from fully participating in raising their children.” 

    Money issues – Most times, fathers leave the residence during a separation to ensure stability for the mother. While transitioning to a single income, dads need to maintain current obligations such as debts and vehicle payments, pay support, and if custody is contentious, pay tens of thousands of dollars in legal and lawyer fees. This often leads to:  

    Housing issues – Very quickly, a father can find himself with very little left over to secure new housing and purchase new housewares. The best a father might be able to do is have a small one-room or one-bedroom rental. When this is the case, it often is held against him being able to have overnight visits with his children.  

    About the Dads’ Resource Center (www.dadsrc.org)

    Founded by AccuWeather Founder and CEO Dr. Joel N. Myers, Dads’ Resource Center is the leading advocate for single fathers. DRC believes that father absence is a major factor in nearly every social issue our country faces and that all able and willing dads should be allowed to uphold their sacred responsibility as fathers.

    https://assets.aecf.org/m/databook/2021KCDB-profile-US.pdf

    https://www.sharedparenting.org/childsupport

    https://dadsrc.org/

    Source: Dads’ Resource Center

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  • January is Known as Divorce Month and Dads’ Resource Center Offers Tips for Newly Separated Fathers

    January is Known as Divorce Month and Dads’ Resource Center Offers Tips for Newly Separated Fathers

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    DRC helps single fathers prepare for challenges they may face.

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    Jan 4, 2023

    January is known as “Divorce Month,” and many unsuspecting fathers are not ready for the worst-case scenario. Studies show that women initiate divorces as much as 69% of the time, and the Dads’ Resource Center helps to prepare single fathers for the possibility that access to their children may be in jeopardy if their separation turns contentious.

    “Most fathers assume that custody of children will work out in a reasonable manner,” said Dads’ Resource Center Executive Director Jeffrey Steiner. “That is not always the case, and with the way court, county, and human service systems tend to work against fathers, they can very quickly find themselves in a deep hole that is nearly impossible to get out of, which most hurts their children.”

    A 2019 Dads’ Resource Center study of 700 contested custody cases found that judges awarded full or primary custody to mothers in 496 cases, fathers in 100 cases, and joint custody in 104 cases. The Dads’ Resource Center has investigated the use of protection from abuse orders to gain advantage in matters of custody as well as a lack of standards for the hiring and supervision of guardian ad litems assigned to represent children in family court matters. 

    With potential barriers such as these ahead of them, newly separated fathers should:

    Trust their gut – While most fathers are deferential to the children’s mother, if their intuition is telling them she is making business decisions, they should resign themselves to doing what they believe is in the best interests of the children. 

    Consider staying in the family home – If the decision of custody of children is placed into the hands of the court, a judge is very likely to grant an initial order to keep custody as it currently exists. This will then be the baseline moving forward. Unless absolutely necessary, don’t move out before there is a court order.

    Find good legal counsel – Understand there are good, average, and bad attorneys. The costs for contested custody battles can skyrocket very quickly, and many fathers find themselves out of money with no resolution to their situation.

    Be Your Best – Anything can be used against a parent if a custody battle is contentious. Think and act accordingly. 

    About the Dads’ Resource Center (www.dadsrc.org)

    Founded by AccuWeather Founder and CEO Dr. Joel N. Myers, Dads’ Resource Center is the leading advocate for single fathers. DRC believes that father absence is a major factor in nearly every social issue our country faces and that all able and willing dads should be allowed to uphold their sacred responsibility as fathers.

    https://link.springer.com/chapter/10.1007/978-3-319-71544-5_11

    https://dadsrc.org/research

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    Jeffrey Steiner, M.Ed., Executive Director

    jeff@dadsrc.org / 833-323-7748

    Source: Dads’ Resource Center

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