Category: Family & Parenting

Un article traduit de l’anglais par Chloé Saint Guilhem, formatrice certifiée Hand in Hand

Chers parents,

 

Voici nos espoirs pour vous et pour les parents partout ailleurs :

 

Vous prendrez davantage conscience de votre propre bonté.

C’est ce que votre enfant souhaite pour vous. Votre enfant connaît votre bonté. Votre enfant veut le meilleur pour vous, malgré tous les moments difficiles et exigeants qui se produisent chaque jour. Vous êtes son soleil, sa lune et ses étoiles. Nous espérons que vous trouverez le moyen de prendre davantage conscience de votre propre valeur cette année.

Vous vous souviendrez que chaque instant que vous passez à élever vos enfants est un moment consacré à un travail essentiel, important et qui a une valeur durable.

Nous devons souvent nous rappeler les uns aux autres que l’éducation des enfants est vitale. C’est un vrai travail. C’est un travail complexe. Il faut des millions de moments pour élever un enfant. À travers le prisme d’une société qui se concentre sur les produits et la concurrence, chaque moment semble si “insignifiant”. Sécher votre enfant après son bain. Essuyer ses bottes sales avant qu’il ne s’éloigne trop de la porte d’entrée. Le questionner sur ses mots d’orthographe. Des moments comme ceux-ci ne semblent pas être des tâches vitales et dignes d’intérêt. Mais c’est pourtant le cas. Nous espérons que vous vous souviendrez de l’importance de votre travail et que vous aiderez les parents autour de vous à s’en souvenir également.

Vous découvrirez des idées intéressantes dans le monde de la parentalité, y compris les nôtres, et vous réfléchirez par vous-même.

Vous êtes le véritable expert en matière d’éducation dans votre foyer. Vous pouvez faire des expériences. Vous pouvez tirer vos propres conclusions. Vous pouvez essayer des choses et, si nécessaire, ignorer ce que disent les “experts” en matière d’éducation afin de pouvoir écouter attentivement votre intuition et votre expérience.

Vous ferez l’expérience des échanges d’écoute pour vous soulager de votre détresse et pour séparer les ombres des moments difficiles du passé de la réalité d’aujourd’hui.

La plupart des sentiments forts que nous éprouvons à l’égard des personnes et des défis de notre vie trouvent leur origine dans nos années de vulnérabilité, lorsque nous étions enfants. Ces sentiments résiduels refont surface quotidiennement et sapent notre confiance. Ils peuvent gaspiller l’énergie dont nous avons besoin pour aimer, rire et aller de l’avant. Même si cela peut sembler un peu gênant au début, nous espérons que vous ferez suffisamment souvent l’expérience des Partenariats d’écoute pour commencer à rire davantage, voire à pleurer ou à trembler et à transpirer pour vous débarrasser de vos sentiments pesants. La vie semble plus belle lorsque vous pouvez “vider votre sac” émotionnellement, avec quelqu’un en qui vous avez confiance, qui vous écoute et vous respecte. Il faut un peu de courage et de persévérance pour se lancer. Mais les récompenses sont profondes.

Lorsque votre enfant déraille, vous pouvez l’aider en fixant des limites dès le début, avec douceur, chaleur et même de manière ludique.

Votre enfant est bon, précieux et, nous l’espérons, plein d’énergie ! Si pour n’importe quelle raison, ses besoins précoces n’ont pas été satisfaits, ou si son besoin de connexions quotidiennes n’a pas été rempli, vous en entendrez parler sous la forme d’un comportement difficile. Nous espérons que vous agirez avec confiance pour fixer une limite. Les limites les aident à soulager le stress qu’ils subissent, afin qu’ils puissent retrouver leur bon sens inné et leur joie de coopérer.

Si vous êtes joueur.se votre limite suscitera des rires qui vous rapprocheront à nouveau. Si vous vous montrez doux.ce et pragmatique, il se mettra probablement à pleurer, à tempêter ou à piquer une crise. Les deux approches sont constructives. Si vous restez à ses côtés, il continuera à libérer sa tension intérieure jusqu’à ce qu’il retrouve sa capacité à écouter, à coopérer et à tirer le meilleur parti de la situation.

Vous pourrez être fier.e de votre famille, ainsi que des règles et des traditions que vous avez choisies.

Nous vivons dans une société qui incite les gens à s’isoler avec des objets brillants qui attirent, éblouissent, distraient, interrompent et fascinent. Une société qui vend de fausses nourritures, du faux confort et des divertissements, au lieu de favoriser les liens pour répondre à nos besoins réels. Nous espérons que vous essaierez de créer votre propre divertissement au sein de votre famille.

En préservant votre temps ensemble, vous trouverez régulièrement des occasions de jouer, de créer des liens et de vous détendre. Vous essaierez des règles familiales qui favorisent ce qui est bon et sain. Il faut du courage pour ignorer les coutumes et les attentes qui ne favorisent pas les liens, mais nous espérons que vous trouverez le courage nécessaire. (Même si cela signifie manger du pain grillé au beurre de cacahuète et des bâtonnets de carottes pour le dîner, ou refuser de faire des heures supplémentaires !)

Vous demanderez de l’aide. Vous demanderez de l’aide. Vous demanderez de l’aide.

C’est très difficile pour presque tous les parents, mais c’est essentiel. Le manque de soutien vis-à-vis du travail parental garantit pratiquement que vous arriverez au bout de vos forces. L’approche du “cavalier solitaire” vous épuisera, émotionnellement ou physiquement. Il n’est pas vrai que le fait d’être confronté à des difficultés parentales signifie qu’il y a quelque chose qui ne va pas chez vous.

Balivernes ! La tâche que vous accomplissez est immense. Le manque de soutien est dramatique. Nous espérons donc que vous demanderez de l’aide. Échangez de l’aide. Organisez-vous pour obtenir de l’aide. Libérez-vous du sentiment que demander de l’aide est un signe d’échec de votre part. Un bon soutien améliorera votre rôle de parent. Il est normal de demander de l’aide. Nous espérons que vous n’abandonnerez pas tant que vous n’aurez pas trouvé un bon système de soutien pour accomplir cette tâche importante.

Tels sont nos vœux pour vous. Et nous espérons vous soutenir, vous et tous les parents, afin que nous puissions tous vivre en harmonie avec nos proches.

 

Chaleureusement,
Patty Wipfler, fondatrice, et l’équipe Hand in Hand

 

An Oceanfront Location That’s Still Close to the Action

We appreciated that the Ellie Beach Resort sits just south of the busiest part of Myrtle Beach, because we love to stay at places that are close to fun stuff to do, but not so close (if you know what I mean). 

You’ll be right on the beach and only a short drive from The Market Common, Myrtle Beach State Park, and several grocery stores to fill up your fridge for a weekend stay. Plus, Springmaid Pier is literally within view, which is one of the perks if you’re looking for fun activities like fishing clinics and to see the longest pier in SC. And, if you’re looking to check out Brookgreen Gardens or Huntington Beach State Park, they are only a half hour away.

Rooms That Really Work for Families

The rooms at Ellie Beach Resort were nicely designed, and my husband and I loved that our younger kids had their own space, and the kids were super excited. They spent all of their time in the room hiding out on the top bunk, watching movies, and playing. 

Some of the resort units include a front sleeping area with bunk beds, plus a separate bedroom with a king bed that faces the ocean. They have a couple of other room designs to choose from as well. All of the decor is modern and simplistic, and everything feels clean and cared for, not fancy, but definitely comfy.

There’s space for your crew to spread out and watch TV, and our room includes a small kitchenette with a full-size fridge/freezer, microwave, and sink, so you can toss together breakfast or lunch without leaving the room. We visited during the off-season, but we were still able to hang out on the balcony and watch the waves roll in, and the birds fill up the beach shore. I am sure it is an even better view during the warmer months, because you can watch the pool crowd, kids going down the water slides, and visitors of the pier right from the balcony.

Just know that this hotel is an open-air layout, meaning that the hallways to the rooms are all out in the open rather than enclosed. It can get a little chilly going from the elevators to the rooms, so make sure you are prepared if you’re visiting during the off-season.

The warm pools were a big selling point for our visit during December, and they did not disappoint! 

When the weather warms up, the outdoor pool area comes to life. There are several outdoor pools, including a kiddie pool and splash zone for little ones, plus triple water slides would be a big hit with older kids. Lounge chairs are available throughout the deck, and many rooms look right out over the pools and the ocean.

Dining Made Simple

While we stayed at the Ellie Beach Resort, we decided to have dinner on our first night at the Ocean Blue, which is located near the check-in lobby. There are several other dining options and a lobby bar as well. My husband ordered steak and potatoes, which were delicious, while I decided to grab a burger. The burger was perfectly cooked, and we were super happy with our meals and the service. Our kids are a little picky, but they liked the cheese pizza here, and of course, were pleased with the fries. 

In the surrounding area, families can find pizza, burgers, tacos, coffee shops, and even a grocery store close by. You could easily choose to stock the fridge with snacks and takeout, and there is a Walmart Marketplace right down the street. 

Off-Season Perks: Holiday Magic + Lower Prices

Visiting Ellie Beach Resort during the off-season is not just about saving money (though you will save by alot). It’s also about enjoying a different kind of beach trip, slower, quieter, and a little less stressful. We prioritized family time, shelling on the beach, spending time at the indoor pool, and checking out some of the Christmas lights throughout town (including the beautiful tree at Broadway).

At Ellie Beach Resort during the holidays, they host Yuletide by the Sea, a fun seasonal celebration that includes crafts, kid-friendly activities, and appearances from Santa. Many local attractions stay open, and you can explore without long lines or heat exhaustion. You’ll be close by (only a 20-minute drive) to major events like Night of a Thousand Candles at Brookgreen Gardens and the MarshWalk Wonderland of Lights in Murrell’s Inlet, making the hotel the perfect home base for exploring.

The event coordinator at Ellie Beach Resort even led us on to some fun holiday events nearby, including the lights in Conway, an epic holiday wrapped Bojangles in Conway, and let us know where we could find some cute holiday ornaments for our kids’ keepsakes (The Christmas Mouse is less than a mile away)

How to Book

If your family wants oceanfront fun, multiple pools, and a more peaceful vibe, Ellie Beach Resort is a solid choice. It may not have the flashy extras of a mega-resort, but what it does offer, clean rooms, family-friendly layouts, and flexible pricing, makes it a great value, especially for larger families.

And if you’re traveling during the holidays or off-season? Even better. You’ll get lower rates, less stress, and a whole lot of festive fun on the coast. Rates start around $123 per night in the off-season, making for a sweet deal.

Ellie Beach Resort Myrtle Beach
3200 S Ocean Blvd, Myrtle Beach, SC
843.315.7100

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I am one of the hundreds, perhaps thousands of people navigating around your college students as they stumble through the waning days of their fall semester. My husband is one of their professors, and our family lives in a residential college for first years at a midwestern university. We are your student’s neighbors and sometimes their friends. We are parents ourselves, but we are not their parents.

Many students stay through the short fall break and Thanksgiving. It isn’t unusual for us to have a few stragglers over for a meal when the campus is quiet. But almost everyone leaves for the Christmas break.

For some of your kids, it is their first trip home after the frenetic drop-off at the beginning of the year. They are emotionally and physically exhausted from a long and intense few months here on campus and ready to bust out. They’ve been through a lot — hopefully primarily good things — and they are just making a break for the door as fast as possible.

But a campus is still a living and breathing place, even when the students are gone, just like your homes continue to operate when they are here with us. Every campus makes impassioned pleas to students with basic holiday departure reminders, but they are routinely ignored in the fog of finals and prolonged adolescence. We Campus Adults would like to partner with you, the Primary Adults in their lives, to ensure that some of this gets through.

9 things college students need to do before they leave campus for winter break

1. Implement some basic common-sense security.

As much as 90% of our campus security team’s time is spent removing tape from the door locks that students put there so their doors don’t latch. Somehow, as bright as they are, students haven’t figured out how to avoid losing their keys.

On many campuses, this causes significant security equipment malfunctions, especially once the students leave for extended periods. Stop doing this. Be a grownup. Lock your door, and don’t create a security risk for everyone else.

Put your room key in a safe place over break so you can easily access your room when you return. Also, close your windows and store your bike in your room. If you have a car on campus that you aren’t driving home, be sure it’s locked and appropriately parked. Be a total genius by leaving a spare key on your desk, just in case.

2. Be a total rock star and strip your bed.

Be honest- have you changed your sheets once all term? It’s ok — I’m not going to judge. Whether you are planning on taking three months’ worth of laundry home to your Primary Parent or not, it would be a great idea to leave your bed stripped and just let everything air out. And if you happened to wash those sheets or replace them with new ones, congratulations, big kid. That’s the first step in starting the next term on the right foot.

3. For the love of God, please empty your trash.

Individual trash cans can render a residential college utterly uninhabitable for the entire holiday break. I have had to unleash my beagle to sniff under doors to identify the location of an unemptied compost bin on Christmas Eve. Rid your room of trash before you abandon ship, PLEASE.

4. Put that thing away.

Be aware that the security team on your campus can access your room during the break if there is a safety issue. There are still people living on campus, and various alarms can be triggered. You might want to think about that before you leave anything sensitive and embarrassing lying around your room that you wouldn’t want your mother to see.

Our campus security chief shared several stories about having to access students’ rooms during the break for many reasons, and trust me — nobody wants to see what you’re into if they don’t have to. You have closets and drawers. Use them.

5. Your lava lamp and your monitor don’t need you.

You’ve come to college to figure out how to save the world. How about starting with saving a little energy while you’re away? There is no reason why your electronics need to stay powered up while you’re away for three weeks. Please hit those lights and pull every plug.

6. Your packages. They are everywhere. And they continue to arrive.

I bet that Amazon will start building distribution centers right on campuses. Mark my words. But in the meantime, packages pile up like that movie Wall-e, which continues while students are away. Please be sure you’ve picked yours up and take a minute to consider if you have any pending in your absence.

Maybe stop online shopping after Thanksgiving, to play it safe if you must online shop, direct packages to your holiday destination. And be sure your grandmother knows when you’re leaving campus and unlikely to receive the care package she sent. I refer you back to the trash above.

7. Your alarm clock will be disassembled.

Alarm clocks are still a thing, and it’s still not charming when they go off at all hours of the day and night. I am potentially living with 200 individual alarm clocks at the moment, and I cannot guarantee their safety if they start going off unattended on December 21.

8. If your phone rings from campus, answer it. Seriously.

It probably won’t, but if you see a number on your phone that you’re pretty sure is within your campus area code, please answer it. It could be your college calling to tell you something important.

Sometimes some emergencies require Campus Adults to reach out and find you while you are away. Please don’t make it hard for us to reach you. You’re part of our family now too, and, like your Primary Adults, sometimes we need you to pick up the phone for a second.

9. Come Back. We Really Want You To.

Sometimes, there’s a bit of a “time to go back ” thing that some students might experience at the end of the break. If you were emotionally exhausted by the year’s first half, have faith that it only gets more accessible from here. You have friends now, and you know your way around. You know what you like to eat in the dining hall, and you’ve learned most of your RA’s names.

You know the ropes, and they are all here, waiting for you. Don’t worry. Sometimes it takes the whole year for it to feel like home. By Spring, you’ll feel like you own the place. So come on back and turn the lights back on.

Those of us left behind here on campus will smile and wave as your kids leave. We love living here, but Campus Adults need a break too. Everyone here has a role that changes when the students are gone, and the whole tone of the campus changes.

We look forward to quiet evenings, abundant parking spots, and no lines at the campus Starbucks.

Their leave-taking is a much-needed break for everyone except my dog, who enters a serious depression. One of his simple joys is the buffet of discarded food in the hedges and flowerbeds that students, when they are here, leave in their wake. But, we assure him and ourselves that you will all be back soon because we Campus Adults and pets will be so happy to see you again.

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Dear Kids, Okay, for starters and the record: this promise is a re-gift. This is an example of doing unto others what was done unto you. Specifically, your wonderful grandparents, did this to your dad and me. I’m trying to repay them forward, not take some jab and get back at them. They’ve made the holidays easy for our family; the best way I know to thank them is to commit to following their lead.

 Of course, I’m making these promises well ahead of when I must keep them. Right now, they’re easy to toss around. When the time comes, I imagine I’ll break them more than once and be tempted to throw them out the window. But as one of my wisest friends says, “If you aim at nothing, you’re sure to hit it.” So I’ll aim to get this right and do my best to hit more than I miss.

Five promises to my daughters about holidays

1. I promise not to get hung up on one particular day.

Thanksgiving, Christmas, Easter, and all the rest are less dates on the calendar than they are ideas and celebrations. The heart of all the holidays should be lived out year-round, so I promise not to act like we aren’t “truly” celebrating Christmas just because we don’t do it on December 25th or like we’re faking Easter if we don’t break out the ham and coconut cake on…well, whenever Easter falls according to that formula most people (including me) don’t know.

Somewhere in the neighborhood of the actual holiday would be nice, but it doesn’t have to be an exact address.

2. I promise not to insist (or, even more maddeningly, insinuate) that our time together has to look a certain way or the same way every year.

I’m a big fan of how traditions hold families together and create a thread of shared memories that weaves itself through the years. But every old tradition was new once, so if it works out better some years for Thanksgiving to be pizza on the floor instead of turkey at the table, I’m willing to give it a go. Who knows? It could become our new favorite thing. Anyway, the “our” of all this is what I care about most.

3. I promise to remember that we are not the only people you’re trying to accommodate.

In years to come, as you widen your circle to include spouses and children and in-laws and friends who count as family, they will factor into how and where you spend your holidays. I certainly can’t blame them for wanting to spend time with you; that’s what I want, too.

4. I promise to support you as you establish your own traditions.

I hope you’ve loved some things we’ve “always done” during the holidays enough to keep doing them when you’re not living under our roof.  But I’m also looking forward to watching you do things your way.

I promise to cheer you on even if supporting your new traditions means giving up some of my old ones. (And even if your “own way” includes getting an artificial Christmas tree after more than two decades of traipsing through tree lots in search of the perfect live one. It’s fine. I’m fine. I’ll send you some pine-scented essential oil as a house — or apartment-warming gift.)

5. I promise to take you when and where I can get you with joy and gratitude.

Many years ago, when your dad and I were first married, we went to pick out a Christmas tree at a tree farm that was only a few minutes away from where your grandparents lived. We could drive past their house on the way home, so I suggested we stop by unannounced and surprise them.

We pulled into their driveway to find the house glowing with light, and when we walked into the house, your grandmother met us wearing a Christmas apron around her waist and pure delight on her face. “I’m even baking cookies!” she exclaimed in satisfaction.

It wasn’t planned. It wasn’t a tradition. It wasn’t a holiday. It wasn’t the way we’d always done things. But it was a celebration and the best kind of unexpected gift.

It’s a gift I promise to do my best to give to you. I think I’ll keep my apron handy, just in case.

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Published: December 5, 2025 | Last Updated on: December 5, 2025
| by Hema

Soft, mildly sweet, and full of goodness, These Banana Oats Choco Chip Cookies are – Healthy Homemade Treat for Kids, a fantastic guilt-free snack for kids. Made without refined sugar, these cookies get their natural sweetness from banana and just the right crunch from oats. Perfect for tiffin, evening snack, or even as a travel-friendly bite!

Health Benefits of Banana and Oats

• Provides Long-Lasting Energy- Banana provides quick energy through natural sugars, while oats release steady energy through complex carbohydrates. This helps children stay active and focused for longer hours.
• Improves Digestion and Prevents Constipation- Banana contains fiber and pectin, while oats are rich in soluble fiber. Together, they promote smooth digestion and help prevent constipation.
• Supports Healthy Weight Gain- This combination is high in natural calories and essential nutrients, making it ideal for underweight children and picky eaters.
• Strengthens Brain Function- Banana and oats are rich in Vitamin B6, iron, and zinc, which support brain development, learning ability, and concentration.
• Boosts Immunity Naturally- Loaded with vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants, banana and oats help improve immunity and protect children from frequent infections.
• Builds Strong Bones, Muscles, and Teeth- The potassium, magnesium, and plant-based protein in this combination support bone strength, muscle growth, and overall physical development.
• Keeps Kids Full and Reduces Junk Food Cravings- The high fiber content keeps children full for a longer time, reducing unnecessary snacking and junk food consumption.
• Gentle, Safe, and Easy to Digest- Both banana and oats are naturally gentle on the stomach, making them suitable for toddlers, growing kids, and even during recovery from illness.

Banana Oats Cookies Recipe

Ingredients

• Banana – 1 medium
• Oats – ¾ cup
• Wheat flour – 2 tbsp
• Jaggery powder – 1–2 tsp
• Coconut oil – 1–2 tsp
• Choco chips – 1–2 tbsp
• Cinnamon – a pinch

Method

• Mash the banana until smooth and lump-free.
• Add oats, wheat flour, cinnamon, jaggery powder and mix.
• Add coconut oil and knead gently into a soft dough.
• Fold in the choco chips.
• Shape into small cookies and place on a greased baking tray.
• Bake at 170°C for 12–15 minutes until edges turn slightly golden.
• Cool completely, cookies firm up as they cool.

Banana Oats Choco Chip Cookies are more than just a snack, they are a thoughtful choice for parents who want to offer wholesome goodness in every bite. With bananas providing natural sweetness and essential nutrients, oats contributing fiber and energy, and choco chips adding a touch of fun, this recipe strikes a perfect balance between health and taste. Whether served as a school snack, an after-play bite, or paired with milk during breakfast , these cookies fit effortlessly into a child’s daily diet. The mild sweetness and soft texture make them toddler-friendly, while older kids enjoy the choco-chip delight. A recipe like this encourages mindful snacking and proves that healthy food can be exciting too.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

Give your kids a head start in life with these practical ways to introduce science to young children! From books, tech and more, there’s a lot to try!

For most of us growing up, science was the name of a subject taught at school. It was simply another thing to study from books and then regurgitate on paper. Very few of us actually looked at science the way it should be – with excitement, joy and curiosity!

Thankfully, things are changing, and as parents and teachers evolve, our kids do too. But to truly make sure your child develops a scientific temper early and enjoys learning, it’s important to introduce science to young children – even toddlers!

When can you introduce science to young children?

Honestly speaking, there is no right age to introduce science to young children – they’re born ready! For babies and toddlers, all play is learning – that’s how they understand the world around them.

If you look carefully, you’ll notice your little one conducting experiments all the time – stacking things till they fall, throwing items to see what sound they make, or even jumping on you simply to see your reaction!

With World Science Day on 10th November and STEM Day on 8th November, we think it’s the perfect time to learn a few easy ways to introduce science to young children. And don’t worry, you don’t have to sign up for anything!

1. Encourage their questions

The first time your toddler asks you a question like, “Mommy, why is the moon moving with us?”, you smile and think about how adorable it is.

Fast forward a little, and now the incessant questions are driving you crazy! Toddlers are as curious as they come, and their increased language skills mean that the questions don’t stop.

What many parents do at this point is just try to shut it down so they can get some peace. However, this isn’t the best way to cultivate a scientific temper in your child. If you keep ignoring their questions or treat them as a nuisance, eventually your child will stop asking, and that kills their inquisitive spirit.

Instead, encourage their questions – it’s the best way to introduce science to young children. At a young age, they don’t really need complicated answers, but don’t make up stories simply to shoo them away.

2. Ask them questions

Toddlers aren’t the only ones who have a right to question – you have too! The advantage here is that you can ask questions that you already have the answers to!

Nearly every daily activity can be turned into an opportunity to introduce science to young children. At bathtime, talk about how some toys float, but some sink. In the kitchen, try weighing different ingredients. When gardening, talk about what will happen if you don’t water the plants.

Please remember that learning should be fun – don’t turn everything into a boring science lecture! A few questions throughout the day will encourage your child to look at regular tasks or things with new eyes and explore them from a different angle.

3. Find answers together

Your child may think that you’re an encyclopedia of facts, but you know that you aren’t! There’s no shame in that – there isn’t anyone on the planet with all the answers.

And that is exactly the message we want to give our children – that it’s okay not to know everything, and that there’s no shame in admitting it. Let kids learn that not knowing something is simply an opportunity to explore the subject.

So the next time your child asks you a question you don’t know the answer to, say, “I don’t know; let’s find out!” This way, you also show your child how to look for answers in books, pictures or videos. Learning together is a wonderful way to introduce science to young children, and to boost your own knowledge too!

4. Let them lead

You may love everything to do with technology, but then you find out that your child is more of a natural world person! It is natural for a parent to want to share their love of something with their children, but we need to remember that every child is their own person, with their own interests and talents.

That’s why it’s important to let them lead when trying to introduce science to young children. Let them figure out their natural interests. You can introduce them to multiple subjects, but be aware that they’re not going to be interested in all of them.

Studies have shown that when children follow their natural interests and explore through play, they are more likely to learn and understand scientific concepts better. So observe them to identify what they naturally deviate towards, and let them follow at their own pace.

5. Give them space

When your child is young, it can be natural to jump in and show them the correct way to do something. But that can actually hinder their natural curiosity and exploration, and interfere with them building their own analytical and problem-solving skills.

Science is all about learning through trial and error, and this takes time. Kids need the space to be able to think on their own, without a parent hovering over them all the time or pointing out their mistakes at every turn.

When they’re playing or exploring something, let them lead the conversation, instead of getting them to do it the ‘right’ way. Take a step back and let them experiment and try to figure things out. If they start getting frustrated, you can step in calmly, but only to redirect them – don’t take over completely!

6. Try simple experiments

When we think about experiments, we think about people in white lab coats and goggles, juggling various colourful liquids amidst a maze of beakers and test tubes. But that’s not what experimentation means when it you’re trying to introduce science to young children!

There’s no need to go out and buy a full lab kit for a preschooler. You can simply use the things you have lying at home to conduct simple experiments – water, food colouring, baking soda, vinegar and the like.

The main things to remember here are safety and your child’s developmental stage. Here are a few resources that feature science experiments for all age groups:

7. Use mistakes as learning opportunities

When you’re trying to introduce science to young children, there are bound to be mistakes – on your part and theirs! How you respond in this situation can be crucial in their attitude towards learning in the future.

First of all, show them that it’s completely fine to make mistakes – it’s just another way that you know it doesn’t work! Help them identify the reasons why it didn’t work, so they can try something new. Older kids can identify the different variables involved, and they can change one variable at a time to see how it changes things.

This is also an excellent time to ask each other questions, try to seek answers from other sources, or even talk to someone you know, like a teacher. When kids realize that making mistakes is just part of the journey, they’ll stop fearing failure and start thinking of it as another step towards success.

8. Take it outdoors

A simple 30-minute walk outdoors works better to introduce science to young children than any amount of YouTube! When you’re outside with your kids, draw their attention to small things like what plants are growing by the wayside, how the colour of the leaves looks different from last time, or new bird sounds they’re hearing.

Being outdoors is also an excellent sensory experience, as children touch leaves, listen to animals and birds, smell the flowers or feel the warm sun on their skin. Of course, toddlers jump in puddles and dig their hands in dirt without being asked, but that’s how scientific exploration begins!

You can also collect things on your walks, like leaves and rocks, or take pictures of birds and flowers. Once you’re home, you can study these more closely. It might just send you down a rabbit hole of discovery!

9. Follow up with books

We always prefer books over screens to introduce science to young children. There’s something about going through the pages of a physical book, looking at the bright pictures and hunting for an answer. Of course, we understand that this may not be practical in all cases, but books are an excellent option to introduce kids to basic concepts or famous scientists. Here are a few recommendations:

10. Use tech smartly

Despite all this talk about screen-free time for kids, it’s a truth of our times that we can’t keep our kids away from tech for too long. So why not use it for something educational, rather than just brain rot?

Let kids use a camera to take photos of a butterfly, or a rainbow, or to record a bird song or a frog’s sounds. Many apps offer interactive science games or puzzles for kids to try. Use the image search feature to find the name of a particular plant or animal. Audio books are also fun to listen to, especially when travelling.

Besides these, you can still leverage screentime to introduce science to young children through fun TV shows. Here are a few of our top picks:

We hope you’ve got lots of ideas to introduce science to young children from this post. We’ve tried to list them in order so that you can start your young kids out with the earlier tips, and move on from there as they grow. Always remember to let your child’s interests be the starting point, and don’t forget to make it fun!

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Monsoon arrives with refreshing showers, the scent of wet earth, and a natural urge for warm, comforting food. But along with its beauty, this season also brings the risk of cold, cough, fever, and low immunity. That’s when our age-old South Indian remedy becomes the perfect shield -15 Best Immune Boosting Rasam Recipes for Monsoon, a soothing, spice-rich broth packed with healing herbs and immunity-strengthening ingredients.

Health Benefits of Rasam

Rasam is one of the simplest yet most powerful traditional foods we can offer children. Light on the stomach and rich in healing spices, it supports immunity, digestion, and overall wellness — especially important during changing weather and seasonal infections. Here are some key benefits:

• Strengthens Immunity– Ingredients like pepper, turmeric, garlic, and curry leaves are natural immune boosters. They help the body fight infections and keep kids healthier during monsoon and winter.
• Aids Digestion & Prevents Gas- Rasam improves digestion and prevents indigestion, bloating, constipation, and stomach discomfort, common issues in young children.
• Helps Relieve Cold & Congestion- Warm rasam acts like a gentle natural remedy for cold, cough, and blocked nose, thanks to pepper, cumin, and garlic which help open nasal passages.
• Rich in Antioxidants- The spices used in rasam are loaded with antioxidants that protect cells, reduce inflammation, and support the body’s natural healing process.
• Hydrating & Easy to Digest- Since rasam is light, watery, and flavorful, kids accept it easily even when they are sick or have low appetite. It keeps them hydrated and nourished.
• Supports Gut Health- Cumin, tamarind, and tomatoes promote a healthier gut, support nutrient absorption, and maintain good digestion.
• Provides Essential Vitamins & Minerals- Depending on the recipe, rasam can provide Vitamin C (tomato/lemon), iron (curry leaves), protein (dal rasam), and many micronutrients required for growing children.
• A Great Soupy Meal for Picky Eaters- For kids who aren’t in the mood to eat solid meals, a warm bowl of rasam with soft rice or as a drinkable soup works wonderfully.

Immune Boosting Rasam Recipes

Amla Rasam is a unique, tangy and nourishing variation of traditional rasam, enriched with the goodness of Indian gooseberry. Packed with Vitamin C, antioxidants and natural healing properties, it works wonders for boosting immunity and improving digestion. The sharp flavour of amla blends beautifully with spices and herbs to create a refreshing, light and comforting broth.

Karpooravalli / Ajwain Leaves Rasam is a soothing medicinal rasam specially prepared to relieve cold, cough, and phlegm. Karpooravalli leaves, also known as Indian Borage or Ajwain leaves, have strong antibacterial and expectorant properties that help clear congestion and ease throat irritation.

Fish Rasam is a flavourful and nourishing adaptation of traditional South Indian rasam, infused with the essence of fresh fish. Light, tangy and mildly spiced, it is specially known for its restorative qualities — perfect for enhancing appetite, improving digestion, and providing warmth during cold or rainy days.

Herbal Rasam is a therapeutic, flavour-packed rasam made using a blend of healing herbs and spices that support immune health and digestion. This rasam typically includes ingredients like tulsi, mint, coriander, pepper, cumin, and garlic — each known for its anti-inflammatory, antibacterial, and soothing properties

Chicken Rasam is a protein-rich, comforting rasam made by simmering chicken with spices, herbs, and a tangy broth. The flavourful chicken stock forms the base, infused with pepper, cumin, garlic, and turmeric — all known for their natural healing and immunity-boosting properties.

Beetroot–Coconut Rasam is a vibrant and nutritious twist to traditional rasam, enriched with the natural sweetness of beetroot and the creamy smoothness of coconut. This unique combination not only enhances flavour and colour but also offers powerful health benefits – beetroot boosts haemoglobin and energy, while coconut soothes the system and supports digestion

Coconut Milk Rasam is a mild, creamy and flavour-rich rasam that brings a beautiful balance of spice and softness in every sip. The gentle sweetness of coconut milk blends perfectly with pepper, cumin, garlic and herbs, creating a soothing broth that cools the body while supporting digestion.

Village Style Milagu Rasam is a traditional pepper-based rasam known for its bold flavour, rustic simplicity, and healing warmth. Made with freshly crushed black pepper, cumin, garlic, and a tamarind base, this rasam is a powerful home remedy for cold, cough, and digestive discomfort. The aroma of roasted spices enhances both taste and therapeutic value, making it a comforting bowl of goodness.

Ragi Rasam is a unique, wholesome twist to the classic rasam, enriched with the nutritional strength of finger millet. Ragi is well-known for being rich in calcium, iron, and fibre, making this rasam both energizing and gut-friendly. Lightly spiced with pepper, cumin, garlic and herbs, it offers warmth, supports digestion, and helps in improving immunity.

Tomato Rasam is one of the most beloved and classic varieties of rasam, celebrated for its vibrant colour, tangy flavour, and refreshing aroma. Made with ripe tomatoes, pepper, cumin, garlic, and a gentle tempering of ghee and curry leaves, this rasam not only tastes delicious but also aids digestion and boosts immunity.

No Dal Rasam is a light, clear and quickly prepared rasam made without lentils, perfect for days when you crave something soothing yet easy on the stomach. Instead of dal, the flavour stands strong with pepper, cumin, garlic, tomatoes, and tamarind, delivering a sharp tang and comforting warmth. This rasam is ideal during fever, indigestion, or times when a gentle, detoxifying meal is needed.

Kollu Rasam is a powerful, protein-rich rasam made using horse gram, a traditional ingredient known for its impressive medicinal benefits. Highly valued in Ayurvedic cooking, kollu helps clear phlegm, reduce cold and cough. When simmered with pepper, cumin, garlic and a tangy tamarind base, it turns into a warm, deeply aromatic broth that comforts both body and mind.

Mysore Rasam is a rich, aromatic South Indian speciality known for its slightly sweet, spicy and nutty flavour. What makes it unique is the freshly ground rasam powder made with roasted coconut, dal and spices, giving a deep, comforting taste and irresistible aroma. This rasam is smooth, flavour-packed and beautifully balanced, making it a perfect companion for steamed rice or a warm evening soup.

Instant Beetroot Rasam is a quick and nutritious version of traditional beetroot rasam, perfect for busy days without compromising on health. Made with beetroot puree, tamarind, spices, and a hint of garlic, it delivers the same earthy sweetness, vibrant colour, and tangy flavour in minutes.

Lemon Rasam is a light, tangy, and refreshing South Indian rasam, infused with the zesty flavor of fresh lemon juice. Mildly spiced with pepper, cumin, garlic, and tempered with curry leaves, it not only delights the taste buds but also aids digestion and boosts immunity. This rasam is especially soothing during colds or mild fevers and works as a rejuvenating drink when served warm. Simple, nourishing, and full of natural vitamin C, Lemon Rasam is a perfect everyday wellness booster.

Rasam is more than just a traditional South Indian dish, it is a wholesome immunity booster, a natural healer, and one of the most comforting foods for kids, especially during monsoon. With its blend of warming spices, antioxidants, and digestive benefits, it supports gut health, fights infections, and keeps children energetic and nourished. Whether served with rice or sipped as a warm soup, rasam is a simple yet powerful way to strengthen immunity and make mealtime enjoyable for little ones.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

Every year we share Christmas TV ads, sometimes we order them by how much we adore them, but this year we made a full stop at Where One Lives from John Lewis & Partners.

Parents spend so many years talking; talking our kids through first steps, first days of school, first heartbreaks… And then one day, somewhere between middle school and grown-up, we find ourselves at a loss. The feelings come easily, but words don’t, not anymore, not for us or for them. 

The stakes are so much higher as our kids get older

It’s not that the love changes. It’s that suddenly the stakes feel so much higher. Our kids become teens and young adults with their own lives, their own opinions, and their own chilly distance. They pull away in the way they’re supposed to, and we are left bewildered and aching, trying to figure out how to connect without smothering them. We reach out only to be slapped away and the rejection stings. 

Even when the relationship is strong, sometimes the words we wish we could say land somewhere between our heart and our throat and never quite make it out. I miss you. I’m proud of you. I’m sorry. I see you. I love you in ways bigger than either of us. I want to connect but I’m not sure how. 

Here is where the holiday magic comes in

This is where, hopefully, the holidays work their quiet magic.

There’s something about the lights, the rituals, the annual remembering of who we are to each other, that nudges us to try again and to give voice to the things we’ve struggled to articulate all year long. And when we can’t find the words, we hope that the right gift can do the talking.

That’s the heart of the John Lewis story this year, the story of a dad and  son who’ve drifted into that liminal, silent space between parents and tees. No one’s angry, no one’s wrong, but somehow we just can’t bridge the chasm that has opened between us.

But then comes a gift. A vinyl record, simple and nostalgic. Something concrete that says, I’m thinking of you. Maybe this will connect us. Pressed onto classic 12” black vinyl, Alison Limerick’s 1990s dance anthem “Where Love Lives” becomes more than music in this year’s ad. It becomes a message. 

Side A includes the original version, beloved by generations and still pulsing with the energy of crowded dance floors and shared joy. Side B is a new reimagining by Labrinth, unmistakably modern and current. Two versions connecting past and present, father and son.

And in a world where gifts so often feel rushed, disposable, or obligatory, this one has intention and meaning. A chance to communicate, Here. This is our story. This is where our love lives.This is something we can share.

As parents of teens and young adults, we know that relationships change. They stretch and strain. They grow. But real love always finds a way. And when the words won’t come? Sometimes the right gift speaks.

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