Category: Dating & Love

Hey, hey, May is National Masturbation Month! This is a great opportunity to talk openly about masturbation. There is so much shame placed on exploring your body, but masturbation is neither “disgusting” nor “sinful.” It’s completely normal and even healthy!

In honor of National Masturbation Month, here are some more reasons to feel good about masturbating.

Sexual Self-Care

Many people masturbate, regardless of gender identity, sexual orientation, race, age or cultural background. Not only is it a great way to get to know your body and de-stress, it’s also a safe way to have sex without risk of pregnancy or sexually transmitted infections. Self-pleasure is a way to give yourself some love. Think of it as sexual self-care.

It Isn’t New

Over the years, people have spread misinformation about masturbation. You might have heard that “masturbation will make you go blind,” or “lead to erectile dysfunction,” but these claims are not based on facts.

These misconceptions lead people to believe that masturbation is wrong and against our nature when in reality, masturbation is nothing new! Not only was it depicted in prehistoric cave paintings but also as a ritual of honor in Egyptian mythology.

The long history of self-pleasure is just one of the many pieces of evidence that show masturbation comes naturally to us. It’s a biological urge that can make us feel good.

Physical and Psychological Benefits

Masturbation can lead to a release of endorphins (hormones that promote positive emotions), which may be helpful if you’re stressed or just want to clear your mind. It can also help reduce menstrual cramps and promote better quality sleep.

Masturbation can also be a helpful tool in learning to love yourself and increasing confidence in your body. When you masturbate, you’re putting aside time to understand your body better and what you do and don’t like.

Being comfortable in your own skin can then allow you to feel more comfortable when with a partner. Getting to know what you enjoy can help you communicate that clearly to someone else as well as set boundaries about what you don’t want. In other words, building a healthy connection between you and your body can lead to more fulfilling relationships with others!

 

So, this month and any month, know that masturbation is completely normal. If you choose to try it, that’s great. If you choose not to, that’s fine, too. It’s up to you. But know that there’s no shame in getting to know your body better.

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I have good news and bad news out of Wednesday’s federal appeals court hearing on attempts to pull mifepristone from the marketplace.

Let’s start with the good news first.

No matter what decision comes from the Fifth Circuit Court of Appeals hearing, mifepristone—one of two drugs used in medication abortion—will remain legal and safe to use for the immediate future. The legal risk to medication abortion is real, but the potential harms from this fight are delayed. That’s because the order issued by the Supreme Court in this case last month prevents any lower court decision from taking effect until the justices ultimately weigh in—a process that could take months, if not longer. Practically speaking, mifepristone access is safe through at least the fall.

Now the bad news.

It would be hard to choose a panel of judges more hostile to abortion rights and access than the three on the Fifth Circuit—two of whom are Trump appointees—who heard Wednesday’s arguments. I’ll start with the non-Trump judge on the panel, Jennifer Walker Elrod. While she may not be a Trump appointee, she’s as openly hostile to abortion rights and access as any judge on the federal bench right now. A George W. Bush appointee, Elrod has a long history of opposing both abortion rights and federal regulatory power as a Fifth Circuit judge.

Then we have the two Trump appointees. Judge Cory Wilson was appointed to the Fifth Circuit in 2020 and is a former Mississippi appeals court judge and Republican member of the state legislature with a deep record opposing abortion rights. Second, Judge James Ho is a former Texas solicitor general and Justice Clarence Thomas law clerk who has referred to abortion as a “moral tragedy” in one of his judicial opinions.

Don’t think for a second this panel of ideologues was ever interested in a debate on the merits—or complete lack thereof—of Alliance for Hippocratic Medicine’s legal arguments over the mifepristone case. They weren’t. Instead, they were looking for the clearest path toward an opinion that at least five Supreme Court justices can endorse to upend medication abortion access.

Judge Wilson is incredulous that a nurse-midwife could ever be in a position to provide mifepristone — love it when the stigma and sexism just cozy up in public like that

— Rewire News Group (@RewireNewsGroup) May 17, 2023

It could be months before the Fifth Circuit issues a ruling, but when they do, I suspect they’ll find a way to at least turn medication abortion access back to the pre-2016 era, when more onerous restrictions existed. Elrod asked several questions suggesting the possibility of it—Justice Samuel Alito had also suggested he would be amenable to it when he dissented from the Court’s previous stay in this case. Elrod also seemed very upset with how Judge Matthew Kacsmaryk’s district court order had been characterized by attorneys for Danco (one of the manufacturers of mifepristone) in their briefs, going so far as to call it a “personal attack” (which, truly, there’s no response to that nonsense). The attorneys called Kacsmaryk’s decision unprecedented—which it is. That’s a statement of fact, not a personal attack.

But what really stood out from the arguments was how partisan they were. The Fifth Circuit panel’s disdain for the Biden administration specifically and Democrats generally was palpable. They were openly hostile to the FDA’s attorney while having a nice leisurely chat with Erin Hawley, the Alliance Defending Freedom attorney arguing to pull mifepristone from the market—and yup, Sen. Josh Hawley’s wife. We may not have the Fifth Circuit’s decision yet, but the writing is on the wall.

I cannot stress this point enough: Mifepristone approval will not be upended immediately, but it may be eventually. The conservative legal movement has gone rogue and taken much of the federal judiciary with them. These are lawless power grabs emboldened by the success of the overturning Roe v. Wade and blessed by the most corrupt elements of a captured Supreme Court. Nothing about the challenge to mifepristone approval is legitimate. We don’t need to treat it as such.

There are lots of options available to you when you are feeding your new baby, and working out which one is right for you comes down to your personal choice and preference. Breastmilk is ideal for your baby as it gives them natural protection and increased immunity from the moment that they are born. If you are looking at pumping exclusively to give your baby breastmilk, you may have questions. 

Getting all the information that you need at the start of the process will allow you to make the right choice with confidence, so read on for some helpful advice on breastmilk and using a pump to ensure you maintain an adequate supply for your baby.

Why Breastmilk is Best for Your Baby

Breastmilk is sometimes referred to as liquid gold, and this is because it contains properties and antibodies that are hugely beneficial for a new baby. Breastmilk is best for your baby—especially in those early weeks and months—as it contains the right amount of sugar, fat, and protein that they need to grow.

Key Moments and Establishing a Supply

When your baby arrives, your supply may take a little time to come through. In those first few days, your body will produce colostrum, and this is enough for your baby’s tiny stomach. However, as they grow, they need more and this is why it is important to establish a supply. 

When you are looking to breast pump exclusively, those first few weeks are crucial for your supply. Pumping at least every three hours both day and night will help you get the quantities your baby needs. It will also hopefully help you produce enough for you to store (to use as and when needed).

Getting in Touch with a Lactation Consultant

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Even though you might know you want to pump exclusively, it is always beneficial to reach out to a lactation consultant. These are useful, especially if you are a first-time mom. Lactation consultants can guide you through how to use a pump, and they can tell you how to get the most out of your milk. This extra help and support will ensure that your baby has the best start in life.

Looking at Breast pumps

Breast pumps can be positive for the health of the mother and the baby, as they allow the baby to take all the key nutrients and nutrition the mother is providing them. Breast pumps allow breast milk to be given if there are health concerns, or restrictions that stop the mother from breastfeeding. 

Pumps such as the Elvie Stride feature new technology that allows them to be used easily and discreetly, and they can be used while a new mom is getting used to caring for her new bundle of joy. Wireless pumps mean that you have flexibility when and where to pump. This is key, especially if you are looking to exclusively pump and feed.

Choosing a Pump

When you are choosing a pump it is important to look at reviews. See what other moms have had to say about a particular brand or model; see if a pump will meet your expectations. 

There can be an overwhelming choice of models and brands on offer, and it is important that you choose one that is trusted and reputable. When you are choosing a pump think about cleaning, and think about use, and how you want to pump. For example, do you want to always pump hands-free? Is it easy to clean after use? How noisy is it when in use? Some pumps can be very noisy and loud, and this can disturb your baby.

Why You Should Use a Breast Pump?

Breastfeeding can be hard both mentally and physically as everything your baby needs is coming from you. It is very demanding on your body, especially in those first few weeks, and anything that you can do to ease the strain and pressure is important. 

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When you use a breast pump (ideally a double one) you take control of your milk supply, and you relieve some of the stress and anxiety you may be feeling surrounding breastfeeding. You also give other people the opportunity to help you feed your baby. 

Another reason for using a breast pump is if you are looking at going back to work (but still want your baby to have breast milk). When you pump, express, and then bottle feed your baby they get used to taking milk from a bottle, which is good for you as it will free you up.

How Long Should You Pump For?

If you are wanting to build up a constant supply of breast milk, you will find that regular pumping is essential. As previously mentioned, ideally, you will be pumping every three hours for at least 15 minutes (if not longer). 

Regular pumping will help to stimulate your milk production and helps keep a healthy supply flowing. If you are not pumping for long enough your supply will change. It will most likely decrease as your breasts don’t think as much milk is needed. If this happens you will find that your baby will be unsettled and hungry (as you are not giving them enough milk). 

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Once the milk supply has decreased it can be hard to build up again, so make a conscious effort to pump enough. Set an alarm on your phone that reminds you when you need to pump—and for how long.

Storing Breast Milk

Sometimes when you are pumping, you may find that you have an excess supply of breast milk. To stop this from going to waste you can look at storing your breast milk. It can be stored in the fridge for up to five days, or for several months in the freezer. 

When you are storing breast milk for use at a later date, you must always ensure health and safety is a top priority. Milk storage bags and containers can easily become cross-contaminated. Therefore, make sure all bags are new, and straight out of the packaging when being used for the first time. 

Incredibly there are things that we can learn about a person’s character by looking at their taste and choice in artwork.   What we learn can prove very important.

5 ways to measure personality types

There are five major yardsticks for measuring a person’s personality type.  These are:

• Openness
• Conscientiousness
• Extroversion
• Agreeableness
• Neuroticism

These are referred to as the Ocean.  These ways of measuring someone’s personality type have been around for years, and a person’s character is measured according to these concepts but along a sliding scale.   So, it is fun to learn where you and your personality fit in this Ocean of characteristics.

If you are at all interested in art shows then you are at least somewhat prone to openness. Also, playing at a Golden Euro Mobile Casino could be an indication.   However, the type of art that interests you may also have some bearing.  If we look at the ‘meaning’ of art, it can help to determine conscientiousness and colors, whether strong colors or soft tones can tell us something about extroversion. Whether you exhibit strong emotional responses of praise or dislike towards certain art can tell us about your agreeableness or your neuroticism.

Do you prefer traditional art forms or more avant-garde?

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Your character is going to impact whether you prefer traditional or avant-garde art. That being said, there will always be exceptions to the rule.    But assuming you were looking to purchase artwork for your home.  Are you likely to go for modern, minimalist, or more classic, traditional forms?

Generally speaking, the more open you are, perhaps more liberal-minded, the more likely you will choose modern pieces, perhaps more complicated with underlying meanings. Someone with a more traditional conservative personality is more likely to choose more traditional pieces that “make sense” when you view them.

The Journalist, Brianna Randall agrees when she says “Open personalities are partial to more complex paintings while conservative personalities like more straightforward, traditional pieces.”

Also Read: This 24 Year Artist Opened the Milan Art Institute, A Virtual Online Art Program

Would you be considered agreeable?

The type of artwork that you favor may reflect how agreeable you are as a person. If we use the Ocean model – are you attracted to more ‘agreeable’ solid and consistent pieces or more abstract, unusual forms of art that often require you to ‘figure them out’.

90,000 people were studied in 2005 and it was found that people who “were less agreeable and more neurotic tended to like abstract, jarring and unusual artwork…” People who preferred more traditional artwork, impressionism, for example, tended to be more agreeable.

How do you perceive the world?

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The way you see the world is also reflected in your taste in art. This also explains much about you, about your character and personality traits.

The Journal of Eye Movement Research carried out a study in 2018 and learned that the majority of people view art by focusing first at the top right-hand corner and then moving their eyes across the painting, from right to left. This makes sense as we know that the right side of the brain is in charge of understanding and processing visual and spatial things.

There were people in the study who began looking at the painting or art form from the left-hand side, and they were found to be more anxious and neurotic personality types. So, we are able to learn more about someone’s personality by the way in which they actually physically view art and not only their personal taste in art.

Is a piece of artwork meaningful to you

Your taste in art can also reflect your personality and character by how much meaning it has for you. A painting can have different meanings for different people, depending on what in the painting you are focused on or interests you.

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For each person looking at the same painting, it will likely be very different. Looking at Renoir’s painting “Luncheon of the Boating Party” will mean different things to different people, depending on their personalities. They will focus and be drawn to different aspects of the painting.  The way you interpret a painting will say a lot about you and the way you think. There is no right or wrong.

The author, Ilona Polinovsky says, “When we see a piece of art that catches our attention on a street, in a store, or at the doctor’s office, we try to understand it by analyzing details and try to grasp the idea behind the painting. Everyone has their unique interpretation and very often this interpretation is based on our personality and emotional intelligence.”

There has been a lot of research done into why people choose particular types of art but it is not absolutely conclusive. There are those that say that the Ocean model, the Big 5, is suitable only for people living in the developed world.

Another criticism is that the studies that have been carried out focus on art in the form of paintings and don’t look at the many other forms of art currently on display all over the world. It should also be noted that our preferences do change as we grow and develop and are faced with a multitude of life experiences.

We all see, feel, and think differently. The Rorschach Test, introduced by the Swiss psychoanalyst in the 1920s, looks at the way in which people perceive images of ink blotted on paper. In this way, he was able to analyze a person’s emotional state of mind by the way in which they perceived these images. These tests are still used today.

From this, it would be fair to extrapolate that your taste in art goes beyond a superficial liking but is connecting with something about you on a much deeper level.

Have you ever found yourself wondering what holding hands means to a guy? Imagine you are on a first date and he suddenly holds your hand while he is driving. Does this mean that there is something special cooking between you two? Do you have someone specific in your life vis-a-vis whom you’d like to crack this mystery? Look no further!

We’re here to tell you all about what holding hands means to a guy, covering different scenarios, stages of a relationship, and intimacy. Because it can have different connotations. For instance, the answer to what does it mean when a guy holds your hand and you are not dating isn’t the same as what it means when your boyfriend of five years holds your hand while driving. So, let’s explore what this gesture signifies and what it means for your future with this fine fella.

Broadly put, holding hands is a form of reassuring someone by affirming your presence in their life. However, it could have more than a million interpretations which could leave you confused. While decoding all of them would be impossible, let’s try to find out what it means when a guy holds your hand, especially the one you have in mind!

What Does Holding Hands Mean To A Guy? 

Intimacy comes differently to all of us. Everyone chooses to show their affection in a different way or form. What holding hands means to a guy is a question we’ve all asked ourselves at least once, especially at those initial stages of a relationship where you don’t know where you stand and where things are going to lead.

For instance, the question of what does it mean when a guy holds your hand and you are not dating is sure to keep you up at night, as you come up with different interpretations of this fleeting but unmistakably intimate action. Holding someone’s hand could be for the most intimate or the most platonic reason that there is. Being one of the mutual attraction signs, we look for the one we love, to hold onto when we’re scared or feeling low. It gives us comfort, security and a sense of being home.

“Can somebody tell me what holding hands means to a guy?” asked Jocelyn, a reader from Alabama. Adding, “It was just our second date, and it honestly didn’t seem like he was too interested. To my surprise, he decided to lock his fingers with mine while he was walking me home. I was left baffled, more so because it took him a day to text me after that!” Similarly, understanding what it means when a guy holds your hand while interlocking fingers can get a bit confusing. Especially if he throws in some mixed signals with it as well.

Whose hand do you look for when you desperately need someone? What does it mean when he looks for yours? What does it mean when a guy holds your hand? Does holding hands mean dating? Or is he just doing it without thinking much of it? Let’s look at different circumstances and try to understand what holding hands means to a guy and answer all your questions:

1. Have you noticed if he holds your hand in public?

Don’t we all hope for people in our lives who are proud of us and want to show us off to the world? We all deserve someone who screams off roof-tops about their love for us. Okay, not literally, because that might be a little overboard. But you get our point, right? Getting a guy who isn’t afraid to hold your hand in public isn’t a lot to ask for.

Does holding hands mean anything? It sure does, especially if it’s out in public. Public display of affection can be intimidating for a lot of people and not everyone can or wants to engage in it. While that is understandable and quite normal, if a guy usually seems to show no hesitation in displays of affection with his friends, he shouldn’t shy away and must hold your hand in public at the very least. Right?

Holding the hand of the one you love in public proclaims your love for them louder than you think. It shows other people that you’re comfortable with accepting your love and that you are confident about it. Think about it, would a guy hold your hand if he wasn’t interested, that too in public? Most definitely not! So, if he reaches for your hand when you’re surrounded by people, count it as a sign that he’s fallen for you, head over heels.

Pro tip boys: Do not ever let go of her hand in public, especially if she reaches out for yours!

2. Is your guy holding your hand while driving?

Does he often reach out for your hand while he’s behind the steering wheel? That has to be one of the best feelings ever, right? According to us, if you have someone who holds your hand while driving and humming his favorite tune to himself, you’ve got yourself a keeper!

When you’re trying to figure out what holding hands says about your relationship, the situation it’s happening in can tell you a lot about what’s going on. If he holds your hand while driving, it probably means he thinks about you subconsciously as well. Maybe he thinks of you as a particular song comes on the radio and he grabs your hand without a second thought.

Men who hold onto your hand even as they switch gears are guaranteed to never switch their lovers. He’s definitely in it for the long haul. You may even count it as a sign he wants to marry you someday. Okay, that might be taking it too far, but how can you not get blown away at this romantic gesture?

If your guy is into holding your hand while driving, the next time you go out on a drive, take his hand in yours as a gesture to show that you notice the little things too. Couple holding hands while driving is a flex. You know as well as we do that it’s one of the best feelings ever too. So soak it in, cherish it. Maybe make holding hands while driving your ritual as a couple.

Related Reading: 21 Undeniable Signs That He Likes You

3. When a guy holds your hand while crossing the road…

A little extra care and love never hurt anyone, did it? Crossing busy roads can be confusing and scary but if there’s someone who holds on to your hand amidst the chaos, it feels easier. If he holds your hand while crossing the road, it tells us how much he cares for your well-being, even in confusing situations. If the vibe is right, crossing the road can also be the perfect opportunity for holding hands with someone you’re not dating.

If you want to test the waters and see if he’s crushing on you as hard as you’re on him, maybe try reaching for his hand the next time you’re in the middle of a busy street. If he reciprocates and clutches your hand right back, you know you’ve got yourself a love story in the offing. After all, would a guy hold your hand if he wasn’t interested?

Of course, if he doesn’t reciprocate or initiate it, maybe you’ve got to pay a bit more attention to the question, “What does holding hand mean to a guy?” Perhaps he doesn’t like doing it, or maybe he doesn’t see you in that way. So, if he holds your hand almost every time you get down the car to cross the road, you’ve got to thank your lucky stars. This would definitely be someone who would always be there for you as a situation goes out of hand or messy.

So, what does it mean when a guy holds your hand while walking? Judy said, “I knew he was the one for me as soon as he held my hand while crossing the road and switched sides with me to shield me from the heavy traffic.” For her, it was the ultimate declaration of love and care.

4. When a guy squeezes your hand while holding it…

As children, we often clung to our parents’ hands after watching a horror movie and squeezed them tight. When a guy squeezes your hand while holding it, it signifies just how much you mean to them or that they’re afraid to lose you in the future. If your man squeezes your hand while holding it, you should try asking him if everything is okay, since the answer to, “What holding hands means to a guy?” could have very different meanings for the guy.

It could just be his way of expressing the intensity of his love for you, but it never hurts to check in. Moreover, studies suggest that holding hands with someone can decrease stress and relax a person. So when you’re wondering what holding hands means to a guy, you must consider the possibility that perhaps he just needed some comfort.

If you feel that something is amiss, a few follow-up questions are always good in a healthy relationship. Needless to say, when someone gives your hand a gentle squeeze, you should return the romantic gesture if you feel the same way.

Maybe if he’s holding hands while driving and then squeezes it tightly, you can pull this hand closer and plant a kiss. It is one of the many ways to show how close you are to a person or how intimate your relationship is. When your feelings for each other are genuine and intense, you don’t always need words to express them.

So, the next time he holds your hand and squeezes it a bit, don’t concern yourself with questions like, “Does holding hands mean anything?” he’s clearly trying to be as cute as he can, go ahead and give his hand a little kiss.

5. When a guy holds your hand while interlocking fingers…

Interlocking your fingers with someone has to be the most intimate form of holding someone’s hand. If a guy holds on to your hand and interlocks the fingers, he’s all over you! We reach out to our friends for a lot of reasons, but when someone holds on to your hand and interlocks the fingers after a while, it cannot be subconscious. If it’s your boyfriend, there isn’t a surprise why he’d want to interlock the fingers.

If you’ve ever wondered what does it mean when a guy holds your hand while kissing, pay attention to how he’s holding it. If you’re in the midst of an intense makeout session, in all likelihood, he has his fingers interlocked with yours. This is a clear sign of passion and desire. He wants to be closer to you, and not just physically.

What does holding hand mean to a guy? Well, if someone you’ve just started dating is holding your hand with your fingers interlocked, it definitely means they feel good with you and want to establish some sort of physical contact to convey that. If it’s a guy you’ve had your eyes on for a while, it’s good news. In all likelihood, the feelings are mutual. However, it is always good to be sure about what the other person wants by clearly communicating your feelings to avoid any future awkwardness.

6. What does it mean when he holds your hand while sleeping?

Amelia said, “I do not remember a time when John did not hold my hand while sleeping. I thought it would only last a couple of weeks, but it has been eight years, and here we are, he’s still doing it.” Amelia is a lucky, lucky girl, we’d say. After all, if he holds your hand while sleeping, it can mean only one thing — you both share a deep attachment that can stand the test of time. A fact reinstated by a poll that tells us that more than 80% of people consider holding hands to be romantic.

What holding hands means to a guy can be tricky to understand in certain situations but if he holds your hand while sleeping, there isn’t a sweeter way to let you know how much he cherishes your company. A lot of couples also stated that it was their way of showing their partners how much they’ve missed them the entire day at work. It’s a sign that you’ve successfully fostered different forms of intimacy in your relationship and truly connected to one another.

Regardless, if your man holds your hand while sleeping, let him, and don’t worry about what holding hands says about your relationship. Trust us, it’s the cutest sign ever. It talks of their innocence and a simple need for a physical touch even as they’re dozing off after an exhausting day. It might also indicate that they’ve had a rough day and want your support to get through it.

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7. When he holds your hand around family…

A guy holding your hand around family hits different. A lot of girls we spoke to reiterated this. A display of affection in front of our families may or may not be welcome. This puts a lot of pressure on you if you’re the one meeting his family for the first time, no?

If you’re lucky enough, your man will help you navigate your way into his house and help you connect with everyone present. What’s to notice is if he holds your hand through the process. Holding your hand around his family could tell you a lot about how sure he is of your relationship. Perhaps, this means he is ready for an exclusive relationship.

A couple holding hands while driving, interlocking fingers in their private space, or even holding hands in public is one thing, but him holding your hand in front of his family, there is not a shred of doubt that his feelings for you are genuine and intense. He’s not embarrassed to express how he feels about you and doesn’t care if his siblings and his mom are going to tease him about it over the next five Thanksgiving dinners.

Claire said, “My dad loved the way my sister’s boyfriend held her hand as she went around introducing herself to his family members.” It gives a sense of support and validation in a foreign environment. Holding your hand in front of his family shows that he is fully committed to you and would never let you down.

8. What does it mean when a guy holds your hand on the first date?

It isn’t uncommon for people to hold hands the first time they meet. It isn’t the 1950s anymore! However, there’s still a lot that can be concluded about the future of the relationship when he holds your hand on the first date. Holding hands generally shows affection and a gesture of welcoming someone into your personal space. Moreover, studies suggest that holding hands with someone can help reduce any nervousness or anxiety. So, if he’s the kind who is suffering from first date nerves, he could be holding your hand to calm himself down.

Does holding hands mean dating? Though the answer to that requires a conversation instead of just holding hands, it’s definitely a good sign. Some people find the act of holding hands more intimate than anything else. When a guy holds your hand on the first date, it signifies his comfort with physical touch. It tells you that he is a confident individual, who is not afraid of showing his affection. He is communicating that he is into you and would love to go out again. The question is, are you?

If you’ve been wondering what does it mean when a guy holds your hand and you are not dating, the same logic holds. Given that he is making such an intimate gesture, it’s safe to assume that it is with the intent of conveying his interest in you. Now is the time to have a conversation with him and see where you stand.

Related Reading : Dating Etiquette – 20 Things You Should Never Ignore On A First Date

9. What it means when he holds your hand and rubs his thumb…

When he holds your hand and rubs his thumb, girl, allow your heart to skip a beat. This is usually when the guy you’re with cares about you deeply and wants you to know that he’s there for you. If a guy you’re close with, holds your hand and rubs his thumb, it could be seen as a physically intimate gesture, signaling that he is into you and isn’t afraid to show his interest.

Ruby, who has been with her boyfriend for over 5 years said, “When Daniel held my hand and gently rubbed his thumb on our second date, I was elated. The chemistry felt electric. He got me there.” Holding hands with someone you’re not dating or have just begun dating is without a doubt a sure-fire way to speed things along.  

What does it mean when a guy holds your hand while walking and rubs his thumb? It’s a clear way of showing that he cares about you and that he wanted to communicate that via a physical touch. Enjoy it while it lasts, holding hands with someone is criminally underrated, we’d say.

See how simple and easy that was? We hope we have solved the question of what holding hands means to a guy for you. So the next time he starts grazing his hand over yours or slips his fingers between your hand, you will know exactly what is going on in his mind and heart. 

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Isn’t it crazy the kind of impact those three little words have? It can sweep you off the floor or shake you to the core. When a guy says I love you over text or in person, it can even leave you breathless. It’s a phrase that can’t be thrown around lightly because it carries a lot of meaning and depth to it. However, you can’t be sure about his feelings and intent if he said I love you for the first time over text.

You are at a loss for words and you don’t know how to deal with the situation. You don’t know if he is being serious, if he’s being friendly, or if he is just trying to get into your pants. To help you ease your current predicament, let’s find out the meaning behind his message and what to say when someone says I love you over text.

When A Guy Says I Love You Over Text — What Does It Mean?

When you meet someone new, the first few weeks are laced with excitement and anticipation. In an attempt to get to know each other better, you both start texting constantly. And bam! There it is. He drops the L-word. An important reason for confessing your love over text is sensitivity to rejection. It’s a lot less overwhelming and feels a lot safer to be rejected through text than in person. But there are other reasons too. And it’s time to clear your confusion. 

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1. It’s the love hormones talking 

Oxytocin, serotonin, and dopamine are all often referred to as “love hormones.” When you meet someone new and find yourself drawn toward them, these three feel-good hormones go bonkers. According to research, when you are falling in love:

• Your brain releases dopamine
• Your serotonin levels increase 
• Oxytocin is produced 

These hormones are the reason that you feel a surge of positive emotions when you are attracted to someone. If he said I love you for the first time over text, then it’s because of these hormones. If you want to find out how he really feels, wait for a couple of months and see how he still feels about you. 

2. He is too shy to confess in person 

If he said I love you for the first time over text and you’ve been dating him for a while, then it could be because of his shy nature. Here are some more signs of his love if you aren’t sure about a shy guy’s feelings for you over text: 

• He is quick to respond to your texts
• He sends you good morning and good night text messages
• He sends you funny, relatable, and romantic memes 
• He checks up on you from time to time
• He is curious about your life and asks questions to get to know you better
• He opens up to you over text 
• He encourages you to do the same
• He remembers tiny details about you 
• He compliments you on your no-filter or no-makeup selfies 

3. He is genuinely in love with you 

If your long-term boyfriend randomly texts I love you, it means he really loves you and has no intention of breaking up with you. He isn’t holding his feelings back because he believes in the power of words of affirmation and the constant reassurance of love. He wants to keep the relationship alive by expressing his admiration for you. 

Research in neurobiology shows that emotional safety is one of the most important aspects of a satisfying connection in a loving relationship. Humans need to feel secure to keep a relationship strong. If he really loves you through text, he will say affirming words like “I love you” and “You’re amazing” to cultivate mutual emotional safety with you.

4. He wants to have a physical relationship with you

A study from the University of Michigan has found that some men say “I love you” in order to gain a woman’s trust to have sex for the first time. The catch here is that this move could be a conscious or an unconscious attempt from the guy’s side. 

If you really want to know what it means when a guy says I love you over text, it could be because he wants to have a physical relationship with you. If your gut is telling you the same and you don’t want to have a sexual relationship with him, you can let him know that you are not interested in him sexually.

5. He wants to take things forward 

Each relationship progresses over time. When a guy says I love you over text, he is trying to imply that he wants to take your relationship to the next level. Here are some examples:

• If you were casually dating him, then perhaps he wants to date you exclusively
• If the two of you were dating exclusively, then maybe he wants to move in with you 
• Maybe he wants to introduce you to his family 

6. He sees a future with you 

This is a biggie! If your boyfriend randomly texts I love you all the time, it’s a clear sign he sees a future with you. He wants to share his life with you. If you want to be sure before saying it back, here are some sureshot signs your man wants to build a future together:

• He isn’t afraid of commitment 
• He has already introduced you to his friends and family
• He deeply cares about you, your thoughts, opinions, and perspectives
• He trusts you
• He is an open book and doesn’t hesitate to be vulnerable with you
• He makes you feel prioritized privately and among others
• He appreciates your presence in his life
• He respects your boundaries

7. He meant it platonically 

A platonic friendship is where two people have a good friendship where there is no sexual activity whatsoever. They aren’t dating or in love with one another either. When a guy says I love you through text, it could just be platonic. He adores you as a friend and wants you to know that. In this case, if you feel the same way, you can just say it back. 

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What To Do When A Guy Says I Love You Over Text 

Now that we know what he means by those words, you are wondering: How do you respond to I love you without saying it back? This depends on how you feel about it. Do you love him romantically? Do you want to get to know him better? Or do you have zero romantic feelings toward him? We can help you out here.

1. What to do if you like him?

What to say when someone says I love you over text? If you find yourself falling for his charm and caring nature, then you can say it back. You can start with something as simple as “I like you” for the first time and then build it up to “I love you” a few days later. You can ask him to meet you and the two of you can confess your feelings in person. Falling in love is undoubtedly one of the most beautiful experiences ever. Don’t let that go to waste by hiding your emotions for him or playing hard to get. 

Is it weird to say I love you over text, though? When asked on Reddit, a user replied, “It can be just as special over the phone as in person, so just say it if you feel it. I remember when my girlfriend first told me over the phone and I said it back. It was just as impactful for me to hear those words as it would have been in person.”

2. What to do if you don’t like him back?

Is it weird to say I love you over text? A little, if your feelings aren’t reciprocated but it’s better than facing rejection in person. So, when someone says I love you but you don’t love them back, it’s best to reply to that text as soon as you can. There is no point in leading them on as it will seriously hurt them down the lane. However, you can be gentle with your response. Here are some things to say if you don’t love him back:

• I really care about you but I don’t see us being in a romantic relationship 
• You are an amazing person but I am not looking to be in a relationship at the moment. Can we please stay friends?
• Thank you for telling me that, it’s so flattering. But I am sorry, I don’t feel the same way about you 
• I’m sorry, I don’t have the same feelings for you. I hope you understand. If you don’t want us to be friends, I completely understand. I will respect your decision 

3. What to do when you are unsure?

When you love him, you know what to do. You know what to do when you don’t love him as well. But what to do when you are unsure about your feelings? That’s where it gets tricky. You want to keep talking to him but you are also confused about taking things to the next level. 

If you are not sure about him, ask him to give you a little more time to reach a conclusion. Till then, you can hang out with him as friends and get to know him better. Once you are sure that you like him romantically or platonically, you can be clear in your response and let him know how you want to take things further.

If you don’t know what to say when someone says I love you over text, you can try to alleviate the awkwardness by telling them you need some time to respond and then talking about something else. You don’t have to let awkwardness ruin a great friendship.

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What are the factors you consider non-negotiable when it comes to choosing a partner? Is love what makes your world go round? Or are you open to the idea of marrying for money? Is it more important to share likes and values? Or are you a practical person who understands that future wealth and marrying well are more crucial to a lasting relationship? 

Emotions and feelings aside, it takes maturity and experience to understand that life can be incredibly difficult, and many of these difficulties can be solved by an unlimited spending limit. Whether you want to escape the tedium of your middle-class life or you have your hopes pegged on marrying a millionaire, there’s no shame in playing the money game in the marriage market. Marrying for money is nothing to be ashamed of, and it’s time we were more vocal about such a transactional relationship. 

Marrying For Money – An Age-Old Practice

“Don’t you know that a man being rich is like a girl being pretty? You wouldn’t marry a girl just because she’s pretty, but my goodness, doesn’t it help?” This famous quote by Marilyn Monroe expresses the driving force behind marrying someone for money. According to her, having money outweighed the decision to marry for love simply because it makes life easier. And we have to agree. Today, with issues such as job uncertainty, rising costs of living, inflation, soaring real estate prices, and debts and loans, it’s not surprising that marrying for financial security is a growing trend. And not necessarily a bad one either.

In the Love and Money Survey by Money Management International, reports showed that a majority of married couples from a higher income bracket said they were happier as compared to married couples from a lower income group. More than 60% of unhappy couples regard financial issues as the main source of marital problems. Many of us have seen our parents struggle and don’t want to repeat the same cycle. If one has to pledge forever to another, why not make financial security one of the reasons to do so?

Marriages based on wealth and family connections are a tale as old as time. In the past, royal families, and in the present context, business scions only marry into other wealthy families. Arranged marriages for money are still set up based on dowry and the amount of wealth brides bring to their husband’s families. At the turn of the century, women could not work, and marrying an older man for money was an acceptable solution. None of this is news. Money and marriage continue to be a perfectly acceptable combination for many, regardless of sexuality or gender.

People marry for money for several reasons, and the decision to do so comes with its own set of unique benefits and challenges. And while several surveys claim that women would choose love over money, there is also a contradictory claim where more than 70% of women said they would reject a potential mate if he was unemployed. Women marry for money for the stability it grants them. Men that marry for money may do so for career prospects. Marrying into a rich family may be the only way to get out of a life of debt. Like any relationship, a financial marriage is not a place to comment and pass judgment. 

The Pros And Cons Of Marrying For Money

As with everything in life, there’s a good and bad side to marrying for money, so be careful. This list of pros and cons comes with no judgment. Marriage is a lifelong (hopefully) commitment, and who you marry and why are deeply personal decisions. We are laying it all out in black and white for you to decide independently, hoping there will be no divorce papers to sign or horrible marriage to complain about. And to all those people braying, “But you should marry for love!”, here are some cold hard facts to think about when it comes to marrying for financial stability. 

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The Pros Of Marrying For Money 

Let’s look at the best parts of marrying for security rather than love. If you are happy with the decent life you’ve been living and plan to tie the knot, isn’t it better to know what you are in for before you agree to anything? 

1. More money = Fewer chances of divorce

Does money buy happiness? That’s what statistics seem to imply, at least. A recent study indicated a direct correlation between how much money you make and the chances of getting divorced. Maybe this has something to do with the watertight prenup one signs if one is marrying into wealth. Maybe having money really can buy you happiness. Or maybe it’s just a case of being grateful for what you have and not wanting to rock the marriage boat. Whatever the reason, these types of financial marriages seem to go the distance. 

2. The days of struggle are over 

Never underestimate the appeal of leading a life of ease and luxury. While we are in no way implying that you can’t or won’t create your own wealth, it doesn’t hurt to get a leg up on the socio-economic ladder by marrying into a very wealthy family. Let’s not even get into other marriage benefits such as health insurance, free medical benefits, college fees, etc. Plus, your children are also born into an advantageous position when you marry for money, not love. 

3. Money opens doors

Having a rich husband or wife opens doors for you. Ones that would be impossible to open without the backing of wealth and prosperity. Apart from cold hard cash, your spouse will have valuable business connections to help you advance your career path. Besides, your children will get to attend the best schools, interact with wealthy individuals, and enter the workforce with an inbred advantage. So much money is not always a bad thing. 

4. A luxury lifestyle is worth it 

Let’s not pretend that staying in five-star hotels is not better than saving up for a two-star holiday. Or that flying first or business class is not more enviable than being forced into cattle class. Marrying for money vs love allows you to experience a lifestyle of luxuries in terms of clothes, cars, homes, holidays, and hobbies. Where’s the difficulty in choosing this? 

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The Cons Of Marrying Rich 

A simple internet search about ‘how to marry up?’ or ‘how to marry rich men?’ can be eye-opening, to say the least. Some Wiki pages give you a step-by-step list of how to marry rich men. There are books written about how smart women marry for money or how rich men and their wives can avoid being taken advantage of financially in a relationship. The hows are clearly mentioned.

So, if you are interested in knowing where the millionaires are and what you need to do to nab one, delve right in. However, if the shoe is on the other foot and you are the wealthy one in the relationship, then you need to keep an eye out for the signs that she’s marrying for money vs love or he loves your moolah more than you: 

• Your partner only is happy when the gifts are extravagant and expensive 
• If her friends only date older, richer men, this is one of the signs that your girl is marrying you for money as well. Likewise, if he was a serial dater and has had a string of relationships with older, richer women, the writing is pretty much on the wall
• He/she asks many questions about your financial situation early on in the relationship
• They use sex and looks to get their way 
• He/she never offers to pay 
• They associate marriage with money and are not ashamed to say it 
• They are obsessed with class and status and obviously trying to climb the social ladder 

Now let’s look at the downsides of the age-old question, “How to marry well?”

1. The need to prove that you are good enough 

Low self-esteem can be a b*tch, and when it comes to marrying a richer man or wealthier woman, your mental health may take a beating. By this, we mean that the wide economic gap between you and your spouse could lead to low self-esteem behaviors and resentment. When someone controls your purse strings, it can be extremely disempowering, so make sure you aim for some sort of balance by holding on to some facets of independence and personal wealth. 

2. Living according to society’s rules 

The rich live by certain rules. And by entering the realm of the wealthy, you will also have to follow these rules. It could affect all facets of your life – from your personal style to your friend circle. You will be scrutinized and judged even more closely since you hail from a different background. When you get into a contract marriage, these are the rules, and you must now live by them. 

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3. You will need to develop a thick skin

Don’t be shocked when people call you greedy or a gold digger. The larger the gap between the economic status of your spouse and you, the nastier the gossip. Even if you truly love your partner (and are doing pretty well for yourself), the insults will always simmer away. 

At the end of the day, the decision to marry into wealth is yours and yours alone. But beware of the pitfalls and peaks involved. Love and money aside, the one thing that is a surefire recipe for marital success is respect and admiration. If you plan to marry for money and not love, at least, be sure you respect your spouse and vice versa. 

Relationship experts suggest doing the following to increase the chances of a successful marriage: 

• Retain your independence as much as possible. Just because you don’t need to work for money doesn’t mean you shouldn’t work at all. Climbing your career ladder is a big self-confidence booster 
• Maintain your own hobbies and interests. Don’t capitulate completely to your new lifestyle so that you forget who you are and where you came from 
• Similarly, keep in touch with your family and old friends. Don’t drop them as soon as the new flashier ones come around 

Pros of marrying for money	Cons of marrying for money
You may have a better shot a successful marriage	You have to live according to the new societal rules of the very rich
You have a better chance of getting ahead in your career	You may have to struggle more to prove yourself in your career
Your children (and family) have the upper hand with regards to wealth and privilege	There will be a lot of judgment about your decision to marry for money
The advantages of a luxury lifestyle are undeniable	But there is also increased scrutiny, which may not bode well for everyone
Your days of struggling to make ends meet are over	It can be disempowering to have someone else hold the purse strings

Marrying For Money – Is It the Right Choice for You?

I think the issue is more about whether you are making an informed, educated decision before you agree to marry someone than just bringing it down to marrying for financial stability. Men and women who marry wealthy but also financially intelligent, ambitious, hard-working, and secure people choose a partner who aligns with their values. When you marry someone who appreciates what money can buy AND encourages you to be independent, you know you have struck relationship gold. Ask yourself the following questions to know if marrying for money is the right choice for you:

• Does my partner share the same relationship values as I do regarding saving, spending, and work ethic? 
• Does my partner treat money as a crutch or a tool to advance?
• Do they take their wealth for granted? 
• Will my partner allow me (and encourage me) to retain my own independence? 
• Will I continue working or following my passions and dreams? 
• Will my decisions and spending habits be respected? 
• Will I have to ask my partner or their family how I spend my time or money? 

There is no shame in taking control of your future and making choices that will make life easier. If you are ready to take responsibility for your financial decisions and are unafraid to be open about it and get married for money, kudos!  Times are changing, and people are more practical about being in a financially-motivated marriage. As people marry later, they tend to have seen more of life and are ready to make more weighted decisions regarding their life partners.

According to a recent study, more than 51% of people claim that they value financial security over infatuation and love. When asked whether they would choose $1 million a year over finding the love of their life, more than half the survey respondents chose cash. Further investigation indicated that one of the reasons for this choice may be the “feelings of uncertainty regarding their future” that over 70% of respondents reported. So, the fact that in the battle of love and money, money wins over love in most demographics is unsurprising. 

How To Make A Financial Marriage Work

As mentioned before, many couples enter such transactional relationships without fully understanding their implications. When two people from differing socio-economic backgrounds enter a relationship, it can bring unique challenges. The greater the discrepancy of wealth, the greater those challenges can be.

If left unaddressed, these differences can get magnified and, over time, cause resentment and even destroy a partnership. So, arming yourself with the good, bad, and ugly can give you the ammo required to power through the tough times and emerge victorious (and wealthier). Here are some ways you can be proactive and identify future threats to handle and minimize them immediately:  

1. Talk it out 

The key to any successful relationship is to talk openly and be honest with each other. Accept the fact that obstacles will crop up, and the only way to get past them is to be open to discussions. 

2. Get clarity about roles and responsibilities 

From the get-go, be clear about who is responsible for what in your relationship. If one partner is the breadwinner, the other one’s role has to be clearly defined, and vice versa. Ensuring both are on the same page can help keep expectations realistic and resentment in check. 

3. Don’t overlook financial planning

Just because there is a lot more wealth doesn’t mean it doesn’t need to be budgeted. Agree upon a monthly or annual budget and discuss all expenses and spending that will come up. 

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4. Put all your cards on the table 

By this, we mean to be honest about how much you know about investing and business, how much you are willing to learn, and how involved you would like to be. This is especially important if you are marrying into generational wealth or to a partner who comes from old family money. 

5. Bring in a third party 

Sometimes, having an impartial arbitrator is the easiest way to agree upon things. With their help, write down all that is agreed upon. You can even decide upon actions to take when and if circumstances change. Being prepared for any eventuality is never a bad thing. 

“Our habits of expense make us too dependent, and there are not many in my rank of life who can afford to marry without some attention to money”. – If Jane Austen in the early 19th century could write this in her famous novel Pride and Prejudice, it is a true testament to the fact money has been a guiding force in marriage – and continues to be. At the end of the day, there are a lot of advantages to understanding your economic situation and financial obligations before entering any partnership.

Be it a business partnership or a romantic relationship, spelling out what both parties bring to the table may sound heartless but is, in fact, practical and more conducive to longevity. As humans, we will continue to fall in love with multiple people. And when faced with a choice between two people – except one earns more than the other – and you have to ask yourself, “Should I marry for love or stability?”, there is no question about what you need to do. Always go for someone who will help you lead a more comfortable life. Go ahead and get married for money – you won’t be the first or the last to do so! 

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The physical signs a woman is interested in you are far from revealing. They are subtle and graceful. Perhaps a friend of yours is laughing at your lamest jokes or making eye contact a little too often in your conversations. Or, when a girl stands close to you in a crowded place like in a bar and your fingers brush against each other. In those moments, you can’t help but wonder, “What does it mean when a woman touches your hand? Is she flirting?”

Women drop these hints quite often – that is if they are interested in you. But sometimes you misread the signs she is smitten with you and embarrass yourself by making the first move. And sometimes, you don’t pay close attention to catch the subtle hints from a woman dripping with sexual interest. Men, especially, are often silly when Cupid strikes – almost borderline awkward.

Naturally, you keep hunting for obvious physical signs she has a crush on you because you still can’t figure out whether her inviting body language is an indication of romantic interest or it’s all in your head. Well, don’t you worry! We are here to help you decode all these nonverbal signs and read the mind of your mystery woman!

What Are Physical Signs Of Attraction? 

The general dating dynamic suggests that in most cases, the man would make the first move, initiate a conversation, and pursue a woman for a romantic relationship. But we often miss out on the subtle body language signs coming from a woman to fuel the man’s actions. These physical signs of attraction basically refer to certain facial expressions, body movements, and gestures that happen to be absolutely delicate and minimalistic.

From a quick glance to a genuine smile to looking deliberately enchanting to turn the charm on you or slight changes in her behavior around you – it could be anything of the sort. Because women are a little nifty that way, they manage just fine to hide these flirty moves from everyone but the guy she’s attracted to. Since these clues are shrouded, how can you tell when a woman is interested in you?

Psychologist Monica M. Moore conducted a study on 200 female subjects to observe these signs of attraction and cataloged 52 such nonverbal cues that reveal physical attraction. We can quickly scan through some of the frequent ‘flirting behaviors’ a girl would exploit to draw attention of a guy:

• Short darting glance
• Flipping her hair
• Licking her lips or lip biting
• Laughing often and giving you a coy smile
• Prolonged eye contact
• Gently touching you on your face, arm, or leg
• Leaning toward you while talking
• Holding your hands or giving you a shoulder hug

Now guys pay attention here! Reading female body language love signals might go wrong on many levels. So, we share our pearls of wisdom to assure you make the right move at the right moment and don’t overwhelm a girl with your big romantic gestures when she’s not into you in reality:

• Read the room first: Don’t rip these body language signs from the context. One of your classmates smiling at you as you cross paths in the hallway or giving you a hug to thank you for the notes doesn’t guarantee anything. If you look around, you might see that she is naturally touchy-feely and super nice to everyone. You can’t isolate her gestures as a strong sign of romantic interest until she is more explicit about her intentions
• Don’t take a one-time cue for the holy grail: Bonobology told you lip-biting is one of the signs a woman is sexually attracted to you and now you can’t stop thinking about that cute girl who bit her lower lip staring at you that one time! Yes, it’s a good sign for sure but have you seen any other advancement on her part since then? If not, we think it’s better you drop the matter now. One signal, one time is not substantial enough to validate her feelings for you

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15 Physical Signs A Woman Is Interested In You

What does it mean when a woman stretches in front of you? We bet that’s got to be a tricky image to wipe off your head. Women are an enigma to men – full of mysteries, difficult to interpret. Perhaps she won’t talk to you but maintain eye contact the whole time you are in the same room and it’s simply electrifying!

Women’s body language when attracted to a man isn’t always very overt. Some of these signs are subtle, while others you can figure out easily. Let us help you in decoding some signs of female body language attraction that have puzzled you. It will only make you more confident on the dating front – someone who doesn’t knock at a girl’s door with a ring because she touched his arm for five Mississippi.

1. She fiddles with things 

When people are nervous or uncomfortable, they fidget. For instance, some men play with their collars and some women brush their hair with their hands. So, if a woman fidgets with things when she is around you – it is one of the clear signs a woman is sexually attracted to you.

She may gently caress the rim of the wine glass in her hand, tap her fingers on the table, or even steal glances while doing so. However, you need to follow a trail of nonverbal signs of falling in love because this alone could also mean she was merely anxious at that moment.

2. She makes an effort to look great in front of you

Dressing up like a minx to hypnotize you with her appeal – that’s page one of a woman’s playbook! When you are trying to figure out signs of seduction from a woman, you may want to pay attention to how she dresses up. Tell me if these sound relatable to you:

• Has she suddenly started putting more thought into her outfits – maybe even wearing slightly revealing ones?
• Does she remove her jacket when you are around?
• Do you think she is spending extra time on a special hairdo or putting on a lustrous lip gloss so you find her irresistible?
• Is she constantly fixing her hair or reapplying makeup to look perfect when you are there?

If yes, you may want to step up your game too because it seems like she is hoping to break the physical barriers and get closer to you!

3. She will sit next to you

How to tell if a woman is attracted to you but hiding it? She may not express it with so many words but she would try to enjoy your company in close physical proximity. If the woman likes you, she will come and sit next to you. And if she has been doing that often, like even rushing a little ahead so that she can reserve a seat for you, or, if the girl brushes against you on purpose at the lunch table, you may want to give her a little attention too. It is definitely among the physical signs a woman is interested in you.

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4. She will lean toward you if she is fond of you

Leaning in is often considered a subconscious sign of female attraction. I mean, just imagine, a beautiful woman whispering softly into your ears, so close that you can feel her breath on your shoulder! She is not going all the way but clearly setting the ground for impending physical contact. By tilting slightly forward, a woman denotes that she is comfortable in your personal space and, at the same time, respects it. Don’t overlook these physical signs that indicate attraction if you want to ask out that beautiful woman.

5. She maintains eye contact 

What does it mean when a girl turns her head to look at you? Or you suddenly look at the other side of a room and see a woman already staring at you! There’s no doubt that nothing builds such strong chemistry as eye contact attraction. This is one of the huge signs a woman is attracted to you. Here’s how you pick an eye contact cue:

• If she has a crush on you, she will certainly steal glances at you a little too often
• During conversations, she will engage in prolonged eye contact, but not to the extent of gawking
• When you talk to others in a crowd, you may find her neck slightly tilted and her gaze dreamily fixed on you
• A girl looking down as you catch her staring or feeling a little shy and looking away after maintaining eye contact for a while is one of the signs she likes you but is hiding it

6. Twirling of hair is among body language signs she’s attracted to you

If you aren’t so well-versed in girly body language signs, let’s break it to you – twirling her hair is a classic move to get a man attracted to her. Playing with the locks, curling a strand with a finger, or softly stroking through the hair to tuck it behind her ears – all textbook signals that a woman desires more intimacy and physical contact. It won’t be so over the line to see if she would want to have a coffee with you sometimes. We know it will be a ‘yes’!

7. She will blush around you if you make her heart flutter

Blushing and coyness are big-time female body language love signals! If a woman blushes every time she sees you – gets a rosy flush on her face or just smiles shyly – it could mean that she likes you. Blushing is among the physical signs a woman is interested in you because it is an involuntary response of the body to a situation. Nervousness could set it off. It is possible that she feels nervous around you and therefore, blushes. So, what do you say? Want to make someone blush? (wink!)

8. She nods while talking to you 

It’s always pretty evident in the body language when someone likes you and you will know it when a girl is actively indulging in conversations with you. For instance, she will nod as you speak and might listen to you intently without so much of an interruption. Her interested face and eyes locked in yours will tell you how much she is enjoying your warm company.

Her efforts to keep the conversations going will be quite obvious and you just know that you have her full attention. This effort and curiosity make for clear signs of female attraction. If you notice these signs, you may want to reciprocate her feelings. No harm done in taking a step forward – just saying! 

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9. Her face lights up to see you

Isn’t that the sweetest female body language sign of all? We have all had that special someone in our life whom we wait patiently to see the next time, even if for a few moments. And the moment they come into our sight, our face lights up in joy and the world suddenly becomes a beautiful sunnier place. We tell you how to catch that light in the face of your mystery lady:

• There’s a big broad smile on her face and it barely vanishes as long as you are there
• Her eyes will wander all around the place looking for you
• When you are close to each other, you will notice her pupils dilated because that’s what oxytocin does to a person in love
• Her nostrils will be flared and if you notice closely, you might see she is breathing faster than usual

10. She will touch you

What reveals attraction more than physical contact? Does it seem like she looks for opportunities to touch you? That’s one way to understand if she is sending you the signal, “How many times do I have to touch your arm before you ask me on a date?” These touches may not always be overtly sexual, could be a normal pat on the back. But you better not ignore these physical signs a woman is interested in you:

• She might casually graze your arm and hold your hands during a conversation
• She would give you a shoulder hug when you are upset
• She would intentionally brush herself against you as you walk past each other
• If she is a little too much into you, she might touch your thigh when you are driving or sitting next to her
• Playing footsie in a restaurant is always a classic sign of attraction
• When a woman’s feet are pointed toward you, it says she wants her next destination to be in your arms

11. She is dorky around you 

You can always tell it from the body language when someone likes you. And one of the huge signs a woman is attracted to you is when she lets her guard down and starts acting differently around you. Let me guess, until now you have always seen one side of this woman – the polite, poised version.

But you know she has a thing for you when she shows you her dorky side. She will act silly or goofy and won’t be afraid of being judged. This dorkiness, stemming from comfort, is one of the clear female body language signs of attraction. She is not inhibited around you, she feels free. Allowing her to feel liberated can create a window for you to ask her out on a date.

12. She copies your movements 

When a person tries to mirror the movements of another person, they may be trying to connect subconsciously. If you are wondering, “How to tell if a woman is attracted to you but hiding it?”, keep an eye out if she exhibits any mimicking body language. You could try this while sitting at a cafe or on a date.

Do some things deliberately, like sipping your drink and leaning to your side. She might involuntarily mirror these movements because deep inside she likes these gestures a bit too much. You could also observe if she has picked up a catchphrase that you often use. These physical signs a woman is interested in you aren’t always so easy to spot unless you pay good attention to her.

13. She will blink more

Rapid blinking is linked to psychological arousal. It means you have the person’s attention or they fancy you in a naughty way (wink!). Thus, eye fluttering is among the obvious body language signs she’s attracted to you. However, don’t jump to conclusions simply based on a woman batting her eyelashes. She could do it out of irritation, sarcasm, or just because she likes a little drama. 

Related Reading: 21 Flirting Signs From A Woman You Never Knew About

14. Her voice will change 

When men are around people they like, they groom themselves well and even get a baritone to their voice. The opposite is true with women. If you notice her talking to you in a high-pitched voice and smiling a lot, take it as a positive sign! Do observe if she speaks in the same voice with others. If you notice a difference, you have a clue on your hands. It’s one of the subconscious signs someone likes you because chances are she isn’t even aware of her changing tone in your presence.

15. She bites or licks her lips

It’s one of those pretty evident sexual body language signs of women that you can’t miss. Last night at the party, did that woman lick her lower lip seductively? If she was biting her lips while dreamily staring at you, you caught it right. She was very much into you and was totally leading you on! These actions are not teasing or vulgar, but rather, playful. So, do perceive these cues of female body language attraction lightly and not as a direct invitation to her bed.

So, how confident are you feeling after getting such thorough insights on the physical signs a woman is interested in you? Just remember, all these hints that we just discussed are to be analyzed with a little bit of introspection. These are all clues and not direct invitations. Liking is just the first phase of a union between two people; it is not a ticket to a whirlwind affair. So tread carefully, friends. If you think a woman is interested in you, treat her kindly and reciprocate with decency and affection.

This article has been updated in May, 2023. 

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We applaud a joint FDA advisory committee for its unanimous vote in support of making a birth control pill available over the counter, the first ever in the United States and a historic advancement in contraceptive access.

The work that led to this moment a week ago has been decades in the making and reflects commitment to principled partnership and centering the voices of people most impacted by barriers to contraception access. In particular, we must acknowledge the role the reproductive justice (RJ) movement has played in ensuring we’re always centering the voices and needs of those who our health-care system is not serving and that this transformative change in contraception access really leads to improved access for all of us.

At Free the Pill, a coalition-driven campaign to educate and engage the public in support of OTC birth control pills in the United States, we recognized the impact an OTC birth control pill would have and how it could revolutionize access to contraception. And we knew that we wanted to do things differently—we wanted a different kind of switch that prioritized access for everyone.

In adopting an RJ framework, which was created by Black women, we embraced a human rights framework that demands an intersectional approach to race, gender, and socio-economic systemic inequities, focusing on the ability to prevent or end a pregnancy, and the right to parent children in safe environments where they can thrive. We recognize an OTC birth control pill is about agency and self-determination, and so we built a coalition of RJ organizations, advocates, researchers, and regulatory experts to support in moving a birth control pill OTC, an important advancement that could transform contraception access, especially for those facing the most barriers.

Together, we identified critical questions and conducted research to make the case for the interest in and benefits of an OTC switch, and we committed to doing our work through a reproductive justice lens.

We also recognized that a critical part of adopting an RJ lens was reckoning with the history of the development of the pill and sexual and reproductive health more broadly. We realize that we cannot talk about access to birth control without acknowledging the painful history of the birth control pill. When contraception was being tested 60 years ago, hundreds of Puerto Rican women were enrolled in clinical trials and experimented on without their consent.

These experiments are a stark reminder that when it comes to advancement in the health-care field, it’s often Black and brown people whose bodies are exploited for the sake of progress. Today, communities of color still experience structural racism in the health-care system and are disproportionately impacted by barriers to birth control access. And while the birth control pill has been available for more than 60 years, access to it remains inequitable.

With both the history in mind and a reproductive justice framework put into practice, we built consensus among the coalition that our work would be focused on three key goals: Any OTC birth control pill needed to be affordable, fully covered by insurance, and available to people of all ages—core goals that continue to guide our work.

The FDA advisory committee’s recommendation that a birth control pill be available over the counter stands in line with the decades of robust data on safety and effectiveness of birth control pills, and we look forward to the FDA following the committee’s recommendation and approving an over-the-counter birth control pill.

The powerful testimony that members of our coalition—including reproductive justice advocates and young people—gave during the open public hearing portion of the hearing was mentioned by many on the committee as compelling and important to their vote to support OTC access. But we know that our work isn’t done until every single person who needs contraceptive care can get it without facing barriers.

We are committed to ensuring that no one who needs care is left behind because of how much money they have, how old they are, or where they live. Through our years of work at Free the Pill, in coalition with our RJ community and other partners, we have shown that it’s possible to envision a different kind of Rx to OTC switch—one that’s driven by people’s needs while elevating their leadership and amplifying their voices. We are proud to continue this work to ensure OTC access to a birth control pill transforms access for everyone.

Surprising your loved ones is an unofficial love language. It is a cute and romantic way to show their importance in your life but how to surprise your boyfriend with something he truly appreciates? 

Of course, one of the ways to surprise your boyfriend is to organize an activity/event that he would love. Should be easy since you know him inside out. However, if your relationship is new and you don’t know each other too well, or if you have been together for a while and are looking for something different, then finding surprising gifts for your boyfriend could get a little challenging. 

In times like these, you can count on us to provide you with 25 ways to surprise your boyfriend and make him feel special.

25 Cute And Sweet Ways To Surprise Your Boyfriend

Contrary to popular belief, men don’t have the ‘tough and macho’ personality all the time. After all, they’re humans, and they want to be appreciated and treasured. However, it’s not always easy to find romantic things to surprise your boyfriend with. Most ideas are mainstream and have been done and overdone before, so how can you surprise him a little differently?

The key is to add your own twist. Innovate, brainstorm, and make even the mainstream popular ideas your own. Personalize it to fit the two of you and we assure you, it will be one of the special ways to surprise your boyfriend. Nevertheless, if you are confused, our list is guaranteed to help with the ‘how to surprise your boyfriend’ conundrum.

1. Cook for him

While this idea is contradictory to the words before, a dinner date is a timeless classic for a reason. It helps the two of you connect and is definitely up there when it comes to cute surprises for your boyfriend at home. However, instead of ordering takeout and setting it up, a nice and intimate way to make the gesture more personable is to cook it yourself.

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Women are definitely attracted to men who cook but a man also appreciates it when his significant other shows their effort and love by making him food. There is no shortage of recipes on the internet, gourmet or simple, and it gives you the chance to explore your inner Julia Child. This makes it one of the sweetest surprises for him when he gets home. If you are like me and are absolutely terrified of cooking, I assure you, even the simplest meal you make would be met with the utmost love and gratitude.

2. A fun and sweet way to surprise your boyfriend is to gift him a video game or a console

Who isn’t into games nowadays? With games like Call of Duty, Fortnite, Minecraft, and Roblox in the market, every other person is a gamer now. So when it comes to ideas to surprise your boyfriend, game-related gifts are definitely the way to go.

“My fiance has always been into gaming,” says Alison, a 25-year-old law graduate. “With our anniversary coming up, my head was filled with the thoughts of “How can I surprise my boyfriend?” which is when I came up with the idea of gifting him the new PlayStation 5. I have never seen him so happy in all the years we’ve been together.”

3. Get him tickets to his favorite event

Whether it’s his birthday, your anniversary, or “just because,” making your boyfriend feel happy and special is always a good idea. One of the best gifts you can get him is tickets to his favorite event. He’ll appreciate the thought you put into it and it definitely solves the ‘how to surprise my boyfriend for no reason’ conundrum. 

If you’re unsure of what type of event to get tickets to, find out what he is passionate about and what he loves doing in his free time. It could be a concert, a sports game, a theater show, or an art exhibit. As long as it’s something he enjoys and is interested in seeing, he will be thrilled to receive the tickets. It’s sure to be a great day for both of you, and you can create more memories together by planning a fun day around the event.

4. Get him professional massage coupons

Massage therapy is known for its numerous health benefits and getting massage coupons for your partner is a romantic gesture. A professional massage is a great way to show someone how much you care, especially when it’s your boyfriend and his well-being, especially if he has been having a stressful time at work.

The massage coupons could be for a local spa or for a home massage service. Your boyfriend will surely appreciate the thoughtfulness and generosity of the gift. This is a great idea for the next time you‘re looking for relaxing surprises for him when he gets home.

5. Do an activity he loves

If you’re wondering “How can I surprise him?’’, do an activity you’ve never done before. If your boyfriend loves music, why not join him for a jam session? Or if he loves exploring the outdoors, take a hike together. Doing something he loves can be a great way to show your care and appreciation when you’re thinking of how to surprise your boyfriend.

Relationship activities are an enjoyable opportunity to learn something new, have some fun, and are a great way to bond. A few activities that you can do are:

• Cook a meal together
• Get him to teach you an instrument he knows but you don’t
• Learn the sport he loves
• Read up on topics that interest him
• Go on a road trip 

6. Surprise your boyfriend by picking him up from work

If you’re looking for a few surprise visit ideas for your boyfriend, picking him up from work is definitely a fun one. This gesture has a simple yet meaningful message – that you love spending time with him and that you’re always there for him. This is a fun answer to the ‘how to surprise your boyfriend’ question. This type of support is essential for a strong, healthy, and loving relationship and will be sure to make him feel special. 

“My partner always works late, leaving barely any time for us to connect after a long day,” shares Patrick, a 35-year-old financial consultant. “Ever since I started picking him up from work, our relationship has improved to another level. Sometimes, I meet him for tea. Even if we only have ten minutes to chat, it’s refreshing and gives him a much-needed break from his busy day.” 

7. Play party games with just your boyfriend

Date nights are a fun, special way to connect with your man at home. One cute date night idea to surprise your boyfriend with is to go back to your middle school/high school selves and play party games. If your relationship is new and the two of you are still in the getting-to-know-each-other phase, these kinds of games will help you strike a rapport with each other. 

Some things the two of you can play to connect with your inner child are:

• Truth or dare 
• Pictionary
• Cards against humanity
• 2 truths, 1 lie
• 7 minutes in heaven (put your own twist to this) 

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8. Plan a year’s worth of dates

Whether you want to surprise your boyfriend online or face-to-face, after a point, you begin to run out of ideas. For these situations, planning out a year’s worth of dates is the way to go. It ensures you never run out of date ideas. Explore the classic options as well as think outside the box for innovative and exciting memories for both of you.

If you are crafty, you could create small chits with date ideas written on them and put them in a decorated jar. From thrilling outdoor experiences to cozy movie nights to date ideas for Friday nights, surprise him with meaningful moments that show how much you care. The key to success is to mix it up, keep things spontaneous, and always put thought into what he would enjoy. 

9. Give him random compliments to uplift his mood

Random but sincere compliments have the power to lift a person’s spirits. This is especially true for romantic relationships. Giving him unsolicited compliments can make his day, and random compliments make men feel happy, appreciated, and loved. Speaking from personal experience, it’s surprising how quickly a few kind words can turn someone’s day around.

It can be anything, from telling them they look nice, to telling them they’re intelligent or acknowledging something they’ve done for you. Praising your significant other isn’t just a way to make them feel good; it will also strengthen the bond between the two of you. 

10. Get him flowers!

The fact that men love flowers is something that is often overlooked. Flowers are a simple way to show someone that you care because of their aesthetic appeal and symbolic meanings. It is also important to think about the occasion. Is it for a special event, like a birthday or anniversary? Is it to show that you are thinking about him? Or is it just to let him know you care?

When it comes to the actual gift, you don’t have to break the bank. Whether it’s a single rose or an extravagant bouquet, getting your partner flowers speaks louder than the price tag. A few examples of flowers (with their meanings) you can choose for him are:

• Red chrysanthemums: They symbolize love and passion
• Red roses: Classic. They are the ultimate symbol of romance
• Gerbera daisies: They symbolize cheerfulness and loyal love
• White hydrangeas: They symbolize abundance
• Orchids: They symbolize pride and maturity

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11. Give him a bottle of his favorite liquor as a surprise gift

“My husband is a connoisseur of whiskey,” says Alicia, a 46-year-old reader from Hampshire. “After 20 years of marriage, it gets a little tiring to find new things to surprise him with. This anniversary, I decided to gift him a bottle of Macallan, one of his all-time favorites. His expression was priceless!”

Dating a connoisseur of alcohol may get a little expensive but when you’re wondering “How do I surprise my boyfriend for no reason?”, saving up to buy him his favorite bottle of liquor can definitely pay off.

12. Have a self-care sesh with him

Self-care sessions are always relaxing for everyone involved. They are super comforting and are a fun escape to center yourself and get your thoughts on track. Such sessions are one of the cutest surprises for your boyfriend, at home, or even at a spa. It’s a great way to show him how much you care about him and make him feel valued.

Consider massages, facials, a mani/pedi, and a bath. Make sure you choose a place that would be comfortable for him and create an ambiance of relaxation. Light a few candles, play some relaxing instrumental music, have a few snacks ready, and just enjoy. It will definitely make him feel loved and cherished, making this one of the sweetest ways to answer the ‘how to surprise your boyfriend’ mystery.

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13. Take him on a surprise shopping spree

Has your partner been complaining about getting new clothes? But he is always too busy or too confused to actually do it? If that’s the case, treat him to a shopping spree! This way, the two of you will get to spend some quality time together and also get the job done.

When you’re looking for sweet ways to surprise your boyfriend, these kinds of date ideas usually slip one’s mind. But taking him shopping is one of the most wholesome ways to treat him. Make it a fun experience – be his personal fashion consultant! He would love to have your opinion because, after all, you’re the one he’ll dress to impress.

14. Indulge his inner adrenaline junkie

How to surprise your boyfriend when he is an adrenaline junkie? Looking for a truly special experience for your adrenaline-loving partner can be a challenge, especially if you’re, well, not so thrill-seeking. However, when you want to amaze your boyfriend, indulging in his affinity for outdoor adventures might be the way to go.

It sends the sign that you’re willing to get in on the fun with him, and endears you to him even more. Of the several thrilling adventures you could try, a few are:

• Bungee jumping
• Mountain climbing
• Zip lining
• Rafting
• Skydiving

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15. Organize a boys’ night with his friends

Sometimes, giving your boyfriend space to spend some time with his friends helps in improving your relationship a lot. After all, you don’t want to be Andie from How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days and actually end up losing him. Organizing a chill night for your boyfriend with his friends could help him relax and appreciate you more.

Get them some pizza and beer, and set up the TV for them to watch some movies or play games. This way, he can have his fun boys’ night while you go out and spend some time with your girlfriends. Your willingness to give him space and trust him enough to do his own thing will be appreciated. It will show him you understand his needs and make him realize your worth as well.

16. Indulge in random acts of physical affection

Whether you want to surprise your boyfriend in the morning or at random points during the day, sudden acts of physical affection could definitely leave him speechless. Physical intimacy in relationships is a beautiful way to show your love and if you want to make your boyfriend feel desired, these small acts go a long way to prove your point.

Here are a few random acts of affection to surprise your boyfriend with:

• Give him a hug when he least expects it. This is a cute way to show he’s on your mind even at trivial points during the day
• Surprise him with a small kiss on his head or cheek. This is sure to make him feel all soft inside and make him love you even more
• Pull him in for a slow dance. Play some soft music and just sway to the rhythm. Put your head on his shoulder and watch him fall even more in love with you

17. Surprise him by signing him up for a class

Has your partner always wanted to learn something? Maybe he wanted to learn to play an instrument, or how to paint, or join a biker’s club, or learn a new language – the point is that he’s wanted to do something for the longest time but just hasn’t had the time or energy for it. In this case, the ‘how to surprise my boyfriend’ question becomes really easy to answer. Just sign him up for a class!

Look up his schedule, find a bit of time that can be utilized for a class, and sign him up for it. Give him the chance to explore something that he might just end up loving. Some classes the two of you could take together are:

• Learn a new language
• Learn pottery
• Take a mixology class 
• Learn a new dance
• Join an acting class

18. Make a collection of your memories

You create memories every time you spend time with your significant other. However, we often forget to document them. And even if we document them, they get lost in the recesses of our phone storage. To relive your good memories, a sweet way to surprise your boyfriend would be to make a collection of all the times you’ve spent together.

You could create a collage or a video or even a photo album and unleash your craft skills. Decorate it with elements of your relationship, wrap it up, and gift it to your boyfriend on his birthday, your anniversary, or even when you want to surprise him for no reason. It would be one of the more sentimental gifts for your boyfriend and would remind you both how the two of you fell in love and the journey you have taken together.

19. Plan virtual movie dates

If you’re in a long-distance relationship, organizing date nights can get hard. For times when you want to surprise your boyfriend online, set up a fun movie date with him. 

Order some food for him, choose a cozy, feel-good movie or something horror or action if that’s what floats your boat, and enjoy! With most streaming services offering watch parties, you could even see each other react to the movie, making the experience all the more fun. 

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20. Plan an at-home movie night to surprise your boyfriend

Take ‘Netflix and chill’ to another level with this idea. If you’re looking for romantic things to surprise your boyfriend with, an in-home movie night can be a great way to spend quality time with your boyfriend. Load up the couch with soft blankets and plenty of pillows for maximum comfort. You can even make a canopy to give it a Pinterest vibe. 

To make the at-home date night even more special, you can opt for a projector and screen, or just use a TV. Don’t forget the popcorn and candy – they’re essential! Once you’ve settled in, it’s time to pick the perfect movie. Whether it’s a classic, a box-office hit, or a feel-good indie flick, make sure it’s something you both will enjoy. When the credits roll, you’ll come out of it feeling closer than ever, and with memories that you’ll hold dear.

21. Take care of something he has been putting off

“Our first anniversary was coming up and I kept thinking: How do I surprise my boyfriend?” says Sandra, a 23-year-old activist from Long Island. “I remembered Clarke complaining once about not having the time to give his car for a wash. So one day, we exchanged cars and I took his for a wash and a wax. I even filled up the tank. Needless to say, that was the best surprise I could have ever thought of.”

This little act of love will leave him astounded and he will definitely appreciate your help.

22. Take him on a picnic

A fun way to surprise your boyfriend is to take him out on a romantic outdoor adventure. Going on an outing can be a great surprise for him and lets the two of you spend some quality time together. 

Some picnic ideas for the two of you are:

• Rent a canoe and take in the beauty of nature
• Head out to the beach 
• Go snorkeling or deep-sea diving
• Plan a romantic picnic dinner with some of his all-time favorite songs playing in the background
• Go to a lantern festival

23. Gift him his signature cologne (or your perfume)

Smell is one of the key ways to get someone attracted to you. And if your boyfriend smells great, you know you will feel great too. So the next time you notice his cologne running out, take the initiative and surprise him by getting it for him. Or if he loves the way you smell, you could get him your perfume so that he keeps you on his mind every time he takes in the scent. After all, it’s all about the pheromones!

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24. Relive your first date

How to surprise your boyfriend when you have been together for a while? When you know your boyfriend in and out, surprising him could become a task and you might end up running out of ideas. In times like these, one adorable way to surprise him would be to relive your first date.

You could wear the outfit you wore long ago and make reservations at the same restaurant. Or if it was a drive-in movie date, you could organize a small, intimate one for just the two of you. Reliving your first date is a fun way to regenerate your spark and fall in love all over again.

25. Learn his native language

“I didn’t know how to speak French until I met Gabriel,” says Charles, a chiropractor from Texas. “His accent was the sexiest I’d ever heard and I knew I wanted to learn his language. And I did! The first time I held a conversation with him in French, his eyes almost popped out.” Do we even need to say more?

When you’re looking for ways to surprise your boyfriend, it can get a little confusing, especially if you’re looking for innovative ideas. However, the one thing that you should remember is to personalize the surprise you plan. With a little bit of personal touch, everything you do could become special and make your boyfriend realize how lucky he is to have you in his life.

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Are you tired of the same old Zoom dates with your LDR partner? Is keeping the spark alive in your long-distance relationship proving to be quite a task? We understand that no matter how badly you crave it, you cannot meet your loved one and melt in their arms whenever you want. This can lead to boring texts, repetitive conversations, and dry spells in the sheets. But, worry not, because we’ve got the perfect solution for you – long-distance relationship games! That’s right, you both can be in two different parts of the globe and still bond over these games.

In this article, we will give you 25 such games to play in a long-distance relationship. Most of them are free of cost, super easy to learn, and do not require intensive planning. These virtual couples’ games are mostly aimed at intimacy building. They help you relax and reconnect with your partner.

25 Long-Distance Relationship Games You Can Bond Over

According to a study published in the Journal of Leisure Research, playing long-distance relationship games is a great way to connect with your partner. The inquiry was led by Brigham Young University and included 349 couples. It showed that couple games enhanced the closeness in a relationship. Couples that shared a common interest in playing games were more satisfied and displayed a higher level of intimacy in relationships.

Now, what kind of online games for long-distance couples are there? Kinky games to play long distance. Games to play with long-distance boyfriend/girlfriend. A fun quiz for long-distance relationships. Text games to play with long-distance boyfriend. You name it, and we’ve got you covered. Play these virtual games together and spend quality time with your LDR partner. So, go through these 25 games to play in a long-distance relationship and pick the ones that seem the most fun!

1. Never Have I Ever

The rules are simple: say something you’ve never done in your life and if your partner has done it, they take a sip of their drink/do a shot. For example, you say, “Never have I ever been handcuffed during sex.” If your partner has been handcuffed in bed, even once in their life, it’s time for them to chug. Now, how can you play Never Have I Ever long distance? Well, you can do it either over a video call or via text messages.

If you’re looking for a drinking game for couples, this is the perfect way to get tipsy. But since you’re adding a virtual twist to a classic game, feel free to bend the rules. For instance, if you’re playing over text, instead of drinking, you can send pictures of yourself to your boo – and vice versa. By getting creative with the pictures you share, you can also turn Never Have I Ever into one of the naughty games to play with your boyfriend online.

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2. Truth or Dare

Maybe you want a freaky game to play over text. Maybe you’re looking for cute things to do for your online boyfriend/girlfriend or just some fun things to do in an online relationship. Romantic, kinky, long-distance – the possibilities of truth or dare questions are endless. You can also play truth-or-dare online multiplayer games with your LDR partner.

Now, how do you plan a game of truth or dare for long-distance relationships? The rule is, you just have to pick an option: truth or dare. Depending on your choice, your partner will ask you a question and you have to respond with honesty. Or give you a dare, and you have to complete it. After this, it is the other person’s turn to choose between truth or dare.

Such online activities for couples allow you to ask your loved one anything that’s been on your mind. It can, in turn, strengthen your bond and help you connect on a deeper level. To help you get started, here are some questions you ask your partner while playing truth or dare:

• Have you ever hidden our long-distance relationship from anyone?
• What was the best/worst time you spent with me from a distance?
• What is the best LDR surprise I can give you?
• Google a sexual position you don’t know and imitate it with objects
• Deliver me my favorite meal next week
• Send me a long handwritten love letter by post

3. Charades

Looking for the best LDR online date options? Wondering how long-distance couples can create lovely moments using only their phones? If you and your partner are movie buffs, try playing a round of charades. It can be one of the most fun things to do over Facetime.

Video call your partner and enact a movie without saying a single word. Make your partner guess the title of the movie within a limited time frame. Then, it is the other person’s turn to do the same. You can also include a few friends or other couples to make this all the more exciting. The bonus is, such fun games for long-distance couples do not require any money or planning.

4. Guess Where I Am

Are you tired of missing your long-distance partner? Even when you’re hanging out with your friends in a different city, this game can help you feel closer to your loved one. It is a great romantic game for couples. Without giving away too much, describe your present location and make your partner guess where you are.

This is one of the best long-distance relationship games to play over text. If your current location holds a special meaning for you as a couple, this couples intimacy game can bring back some warm memories. It will remind your partner how you both had your first kiss on that bench or said “I love you” for the first time in that museum.

5. ATLAS

ATLAS is one of the best games for couples who travel. Typically, you have to start with the letter A, but you can also start it with any letter, for example, R. Now, say the name of a place (city, country, continent, district, or island) that starts with R. For example, Russia. Then your partner has to pick the last letter of the word (A in this case) and name a place starting with that letter. Let’s say, America.

You keep going back and forth until one of you runs out of places to name. Such fun games for long-distance couples can be a great way to build intellectual intimacy in a relationship. You may also get your next couple of vacation destinations out of this game!

6. Two Truths and A Lie

You make three statements, of which two are true and one is a lie, and your partner has to guess which one is the lie. This is one of the online games for couples that you can easily play on a video call with your LDR partner. The statements do not have to be serious or deeply intimate. They can revolve around hobbies, pets, or travel experiences. You may also include some fun punishments or tasks for every wrong answer. This can be a fun quiz for long-distance relationships.

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7. Pictionary

Looking for exciting long-distance relationship games? Try Pictionary, one of the best phone games for couples long distance. After video calling your partner, get ready with a notebook and a pen or pencil for drawing. You may also use the Google feature on your phone for Pictionary word ideas. Set up a timer to draw the word and have your partner guess what it is. If the answer is correct, they win a point. You can also draw as many words (ranging from a piece of furniture to a Hollywood actor) as you can within the time you’ve set. Your partner has to guess the correct answers.

The final winner is the one who gets the maximum number of words right. Through such online games for couples, you can share a hearty laugh with your partner. Because, trust me, there will be times when you draw a prison cell and your partner thinks it is a barbeque grill machine.

8. Roleplay or celebrity roleplay

Do you remember Clive and Julianna? With their demanding careers and three kids, mmmmmmm Phil and Claire from Modern Family reconnect in their own special way. They have created alter egos to spice up their love life: Clive Bixby and Julianna. Julianna, the mysterious temptress, never fails to surprise Clive, the businessman by day and lover by night. But, who said that roleplay is just for couples who live together? It can also turn into one of the best games for long-distance couples.

So, do you want to spice things up with your partner through a freaky game to play over text? Are you looking for ways to rekindle romance in your relationship? Wondering about naughty games to play with your boyfriend online? Or maybe bring some life to a mundane online date night? Try roleplaying with your partner! It is one of the best kinky games to play long distance and to explore your fantasy persona. Plus, it can boost your virtual sex and make orgasms a whole lot better!

9. Uno

Couples that game together stay together. If you are interested in playing a multiplayer game for long-distance couples, Uno would be the perfect pick for you. Play this online card game the conventional way or feel free to explore new versions. It comes with in-built talk and text functions which allow you to speak to your partner while you play. Uno apps offer a super exciting experience. Give it a try, and you’ll realize it is still one of the best games for long-distance couples.

Related Reading: 35 Best Conversation Topics If You Are In A Long-Distance Relationship

10. Checkers or chess

Checkers and chess are long-distance relationship games that can boost your intelligence. The rules of both these relationship board games are quite similar. Work on your strategy-making skills and impress your partner through healthy competition. Have fun with such phone games for couples long distance.

11. Scrabble

Wondering how to build a relationship over the phone? Have you ever played romantic Scrabble? If you and your LDR partner are fond of relationship board games, scrabble can be a perfect element for a virtual date night. To add a romantic twist to the game, form words that hold a special meaning in your relationship.

And if you and your long-distance partner fall in love with this game, you already have a sweet and fun way to propose for marriage. Many couples have successfully pulled off a super romantic Scrabble marriage proposal, and you can be one of them!

12. 8-ball Pool

Maybe you and your partner live far away from each other and do not get a chance to partake in your hobbies and shared interests together. For instance, you cannot play pool at a table together on a Saturday night. Interactive games for long-distance couples to the rescue! You can try the virtual version of the 8-ball Pool that allows you to compete with your partner. With some friendly teasing and healthy competition, such long-distance relationship games can be a great bonding experience.

13. Scavenger hunt

Many of us have gone on scavenger hunts with our friends in school. But you can turn this into a couples’ intimacy game that can be enjoyed virtually as well. Prepare a list of riddles for your partner and ask them to solve these. The answer to each riddle leads to the next, ending with a thoughtful gift at the end. You can make it as elaborate, fun, or exciting as you like.

14. Ludo

What are some good mobile games for couples long distance? Or interactive games for long-distance couples? Long-distance relationship games you can play with your partner, anytime, anywhere? Or online games for couples that won’t burn a hole in your pocket and are easy to play? There is a one-stop answer to all of these questions – Ludo! Quite an internet phenomenon during the lockdown, Ludo is also a popular LDR game. Give it a try, and relive some of your childhood memories with your SO, albeit virtually.

Related Reading: Learn How To Tackle Boredom In Relationships

15. Bingo

Imagine you had a long day at work. Returning home, you want to do something fun and relaxing with your partner. Maybe play a number game for couples. But your partner stays miles away. What do you do in such a situation? How can long-distance couples like you create lovely moments using only their phones?

The answer is simple. Play a few rounds of Bingo and spend some quality time with your bae. You can play this number game for couples through an online app or using a pen and paper.

16. Fill in the blanks

This simple conversation-stirring game can be the key to solving long-distance relationship problems or keeping them at bay altogether. All you need to do is start a sentence and ask your partner to complete it. This fun game can help you understand how well your partner knows you.

For every wrong answer, you can decide on some fun punishments. You can try these online trivia games for couples while texting or video chatting. Here are a few fill in the blank prompts to help you get started:

• Your ___ is my favorite thing about you­­
• ___ is the best gift you’ve got me ­­
• ___ is your most annoying habit
• My favorite sex toy is ­­___
• I know you love me because you ­­___

17. This or That?

Whether you have just started dating or you’re in a long-term relationship, you can never stop learning new things about your partner. Many long-distance relationship games can help you understand your partner’s preferences and improve your bond. Couples that game together stay together, after all.

The rules are simple, you give your partner two choices and ask them to pick one. This is one of the simplest virtual couples games that you can turn to whenever the conversation seems to be dying down. Here are a few examples to help you get started:

• Texting or video calling?
• Mountain or beach?
• Beer or wine?
• Early relationship or long-term love?
• Books or TV?
• Candlelight dinner or dancing?
• Flowers or chocolates?
• Planned date or spontaneous?
• Early morning or late night?
• Dogs or cats?
• Date night in or out on the town?Outdoors or indoors?
• Sexy time in the morning or at night?
• Gifts or cuddle time?
• Hugs or kisses?

18. Guess the song

Looking for fun things to do over FaceTime? Try your hand at a round of ‘guess the song’. A lot like charades, except instead of movie names, you have to enact a song here. Guessing the song can be one of the best mobile games for couples long distance. Use an unconventional song or one that holds a special meaning in your relationship to amp up the excitement. You can play such online games for couples with your long-distance partner anywhere, anytime, even over an online pizza date.

Related Reading: 35 Best Gift Ideas For Music Lovers And Musicians In Your Life

19. Ask what-if questions about love

If you’re looking for intimacy-building games for couples, we’ve got something simple and super fun for you. Ask your partner a question beginning with “what if” and follow it up with a prompt. Allow your partner to ponder over this hypothetical question and then give you an answer. Take turns and explore the fun.

Now, when and where can you ask these what-if questions? You can ask them anywhere through text messages or video calls, it doesn’t matter. Just make sure your partner is comfortable answering them and enjoy the classic game! Here is a list of questions you can use to make such situation quizzes more fun and exciting:

• What if an ex texted you at midnight and said they want to meet you in person?
• What if we had a fight and stopped talking to each other?
• What if my parents don’t seem to like you?
• What if you had to pick between car sex and shower sex with me?
• What if I asked you to move in with me?

Self-disclosure is crucial in long-distance relationships. It leads to deeper intimacy with your partner. When you and your partner share your inner thoughts, you can be vulnerable and feel closer to each other. This makes your long-distance love stronger than ever. A quick round of what-if questions about love for couples can fill your relationship with giggles, joy, and clarity.

20. Virtual escape rooms

Do you want to bring adventure to your love story? Of course, you are miles away from your significant other. But this does not mean that you cannot experience a rush of adrenaline together. And the best way to get this adrenaline rush is in virtual escape rooms. It is one of the most thrilling online activities for couples. This long-distance relationship game can help couples build patience and improve communication in relationships.

21. Poker

I know what you’re thinking. Strip poker, right? It is, without a doubt, one of the most exciting kinky games to play long distance. Of course, you must try this sexy game for couples at least once in your life. Don’t worry if your partner is not right in front of you. You can always try the online version. Watch each other striptease on a video call and make the most of this naughty game for couples. Playing poker with this sizzling twist can certainly reignite your long-distance sex life. 

If you want to play a round of group strip poker, we’ve got news. There are strip poker online game channels and chat rooms that can help you connect with people looking for a similar experience. However, keep your comfort level in mind before you proceed.

Related Reading: 30 Fun Texting Games For Couples

22. Send mystery pictures

As an LDR couple, your gallery is probably filled with each other’s pictures. Now, what if you could use pictures to play online games for long-distance couples? Text message your partner some pictures of random, mysterious objects. Apart from unidentifiable gift items, you can send them pictures of local places and eateries. If your partner can accurately identify the picture, they win a point!

23. Battleship

Looking for fun things to do as a couple? Wondering how to build a relationship over the phone? Want to know the best long-distance relationship activities and remote dating ideas? Give Battleship a try. It’s a strategic online game, and the rules are simple: you have to sink the ship of your enemy before they sink yours. In this case, the enemy would be none other than your long-distance partner. A great way to spend a weekend bonding with your partner, we’d say!

24. Translate The Emojis

You have guessed it from the name, haven’t you? This is one of the long-distance relationship games to play over text. Use a combination of emojis to describe a certain word or phrase to your partner. You can use these emojis to depict anything – a city, a famous personality, an animal, or a movie. Let me give you a quick example to make it clear. Use a combination of three emojis: a spoon, a pair of folded hands, and a red heart. Which movie does it suggest? Hint: Julia Roberts.

25. Finish the Lyrics

Nowadays, everyone seems to be playing Finish the Lyrics on Instagram reels. If your partner loves the idea, why not turn it into a long-distance game? And if you are a couple that loves music, this can be the perfect activity for a date night. Test whether your partner has heard the latest song by your favorite singer. See whether they remember the lyrics of the first song you danced to together. Through such online games for long-distance couples, you can create some new memories or relive a few old ones.

It’s true that your long-distance relationship can feel mundane and strained at times. However, with the right tools, your LDR can be full of joy, growth, healing, and excitement. The games listed in this article can help you communicate and spend some quality time with your loved one who lives miles away. When the distance feels unbearable on some nights, these games can lead to giggles, spark a conversation and act as a comforter.

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Are You Training Men NOT To Help You?

 

You can read the blog below or watch it on YouTube by clicking here.

I always love telling airplane stories because they are the perfect example of how men step up for women.

Recently, I shared an airplane story that may sound similar to the one in this blog.

Stay with me because you’re going to get even more insight into men and how you might be training them to stop stepping up for you.

Last year I was on a plane to California.

I was struggling trying to lift my bag into the overhead compartment.

A man standing behind me said, “Can I help you with that?”

I looked at him, smiled with relief and gladly said YES!

I was so grateful he came along because I was beginning to worry I might drop my overfilled suitcase on the head of the lady sitting right below the overhead bin.

This kind man took my suitcase and lifted it up as if it was light as a feather.

I thanked him and told him how much I appreciated his help. (I’m sure that lady was grateful to him as well because she’d been looking at me with fear in her eyes and her hands over her head before this man had stepped up)

At this point in the story, magic happened as it always does when you thank and appreciate a man.

His whole body puffed up with pride and joy and I truly believe if there’d been room in that aisle, he’d have strutted his stuff down to his seat in the way only men can do.

And it’s all because a woman allowed him to help her and then expressed gratitude for what he’d done.

Before working with me, many of my clients with successful careers would have told this kind man, “No thank you, I can do it myself.”

And I guarantee that man’s whole body would have caved in from being pushed away from something he was wired to do and that is to help you.

Learning to balance the fine line between doing it all yourself and allowing someone to help you is one of the biggest problems my clients face.

Why? Because they’re calling the shots all day long and they think they’ll look weak if they let a man help them.

The problem is when you don’t let a man help you you’re training him to do less for you and you’re losing his cooperation.

And a man’s cooperation is something you need and want especially in a relationship.

When I work with clients, I always ask them to think about how they can make space in their lives to need a man.

(Want to know more about how my clients are attracting, meeting, and keeping the right man and how you can too? Apply for a Complimentary Love Breakthrough Call Session with me by clicking here and let’s see what’s been holding you back and what you need to do to make this dream come true.)

Men are wired to fix for you and to keep you safe, protected, and provided for.

This makes men feel needed.

If there is one takeaway from today’s blog, I want you to really get, it’s that men need to feel needed.

 If a man doesn’t feel needed, he moves on.

When I share this concept with my professional alpha clients they get silent because they can’t imagine what this would feel like.

For so long they’ve had to do everything for themselves.

They tell me they’re tired of doing it all alone and they’d love to have a partner who could do some of the heavy lifting both physically and emotionally.

In the past, many of them had been married to Beta males who expected these women to make all the decisions in their relationship.

Over time, this exhausted them and they began dreaming of the Alpha Male who would come into their lives and just take over.

Not as easy as it seems.

To make room for an Alpha Male to come into your life, you have to be willing to let men help you.

It means allowing yourself to receive from men.

This means making space in your life for a man to feel needed by you in some way.

So here’s your homework….

• Give some thought as to why you would need a man in your life . . . not just why you want him.
• An easy way to learn to receive is to start asking men for their help on a daily basis whether it’s opening the door for you or picking up something you dropped.
• Thank and appreciate men when they help you and watch their body language shift before your eyes.

I want to share this quick note with you and it’s similar to many I’ve gotten from men who just want to make you happy.

Thank you Lisa for giving women several important guideposts in breaching the gulf between women and men. It is so refreshing to see a relationship expert who has an understanding of what men want and need and writes it in a direct and understandable way that women can use. I find your blogs very helpful to me, and very sound advice to those of us trying to navigate the “mature” dating scene.  John, Indiana

Believing in you!

Big hugs ~

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On May 17, 2023   /   Dating Advice Over 50, Mistakes Women Make Dating After 50, Successful Single Women over 50, Understanding Men after 50  

Are You Training Men NOT To Help You?

 

You can read the blog below or watch it on YouTube by clicking here.

I always love telling airplane stories because they are the perfect example of how men step up for women.

Recently, I shared an airplane story that may sound similar to the one in this blog.

Stay with me because you’re going to get even more insight into men and how you might be training them to stop stepping up for you.

Last year I was on a plane to California.

I was struggling trying to lift my bag into the overhead compartment.

A man standing behind me said, “Can I help you with that?”

I looked at him, smiled with relief and gladly said YES!

I was so grateful he came along because I was beginning to worry I might drop my overfilled suitcase on the head of the lady sitting right below the overhead bin.

This kind man took my suitcase and lifted it up as if it was light as a feather.

I thanked him and told him how much I appreciated his help. (I’m sure that lady was grateful to him as well because she’d been looking at me with fear in her eyes and her hands over her head before this man had stepped up)

At this point in the story, magic happened as it always does when you thank and appreciate a man.

His whole body puffed up with pride and joy and I truly believe if there’d been room in that aisle, he’d have strutted his stuff down to his seat in the way only men can do.

And it’s all because a woman allowed him to help her and then expressed gratitude for what he’d done.

Before working with me, many of my clients with successful careers would have told this kind man, “No thank you, I can do it myself.”

And I guarantee that man’s whole body would have caved in from being pushed away from something he was wired to do and that is to help you.

Learning to balance the fine line between doing it all yourself and allowing someone to help you is one of the biggest problems my clients face.

Why? Because they’re calling the shots all day long and they think they’ll look weak if they let a man help them.

The problem is when you don’t let a man help you you’re training him to do less for you and you’re losing his cooperation.

And a man’s cooperation is something you need and want especially in a relationship.

When I work with clients, I always ask them to think about how they can make space in their lives to need a man.

(Want to know more about how my clients are attracting, meeting, and keeping the right man and how you can too? Apply for a Complimentary Love Breakthrough Call Session with me by clicking here and let’s see what’s been holding you back and what you need to do to make this dream come true.)

Men are wired to fix for you and to keep you safe, protected, and provided for.

This makes men feel needed.

If there is one takeaway from today’s blog, I want you to really get, it’s that men need to feel needed.

 If a man doesn’t feel needed, he moves on.

When I share this concept with my professional alpha clients they get silent because they can’t imagine what this would feel like.

For so long they’ve had to do everything for themselves.

They tell me they’re tired of doing it all alone and they’d love to have a partner who could do some of the heavy lifting both physically and emotionally.

In the past, many of them had been married to Beta males who expected these women to make all the decisions in their relationship.

Over time, this exhausted them and they began dreaming of the Alpha Male who would come into their lives and just take over.

Not as easy as it seems.

To make room for an Alpha Male to come into your life, you have to be willing to let men help you.

It means allowing yourself to receive from men.

This means making space in your life for a man to feel needed by you in some way.

So here’s your homework….

• Give some thought as to why you would need a man in your life . . . not just why you want him.
• An easy way to learn to receive is to start asking men for their help on a daily basis whether it’s opening the door for you or picking up something you dropped.
• Thank and appreciate men when they help you and watch their body language shift before your eyes.

I want to share this quick note with you and it’s similar to many I’ve gotten from men who just want to make you happy.

Thank you Lisa for giving women several important guideposts in breaching the gulf between women and men. It is so refreshing to see a relationship expert who has an understanding of what men want and need and writes it in a direct and understandable way that women can use. I find your blogs very helpful to me, and very sound advice to those of us trying to navigate the “mature” dating scene.  John, Indiana

Believing in you!

Big hugs ~

Love this article? Sign up by clicking here to receive my weekly blog.

Copyright© 2023 Lisa Copeland. All rights reserved.

On May 17, 2023   /   Dating Advice Over 50, Mistakes Women Make Dating After 50, Successful Single Women over 50, Understanding Men after 50  

What is a Forex Broker and its role in diversifying an investors portfolio?

Many people have started to get involved with making investments, buying stocks, or exchanging foreign currencies to make additional profits aside from their full-time jobs. The exchange of foreign currencies is called Forex trading; however, as with many other investments and trades, it is important to trade Forex using secure platforms.

Forex trading nowadays is done using online platforms, which can put the trader at risk of losing confidential data to external parties. Thus, to ensure that the data provided to the online platform is secure, it is important to create accounts on regulated Forex Brokers. Regulatory bodies in Forex trading provide and require these financial intermediaries to follow numerous rules and regulations to ensure users that their accounts are secured. 

On the other hand, it is important to use Forex trading platforms that offer numerous currency pairs. When a Forex Broker provides numerous sets of currency pairs for customers to trade, it gives more freedom for the traders to make profits. So, ensure to do prior research on what types of accounts are offered on a platform; in the meantime, discover more about Forex brokers with AUD accounts that are regulated and offer fair trading conditions. 

So, by ensuring that there are numerous currency pairs offered by a Forex Broker, one will be able to diversify their investor’s portfolio and earn more from their foreign currency trade. 

Why is it important to diversify your investment portfolio?

As mentioned above, diversifying an investor’s Forex trading portfolio is done through the strategy of buying and selling different currency pairs. 

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For instance, when a trader sticks to trading with the U.S. Dollars and AUD pair, their risks will be higher at making a loss. However, when a trader buys and trades with the USD – AUD pair, USD – EUR, EUR – AUD, etc., their risks of losing profits will be reduced. 

This is because the foreign exchange industry is volatile and sometimes unpredictable. So, by investing in multiple currency pairs will decrease the risks of losses that come from the volatility and unpredictability of the different foreign exchange rates.

Thus, before committing to a Forex Broker and opening an account, it is best to follow the following steps to guarantee high chances of diversifying one’s investment portfolio:

1. Researching Different Forex Brokers

As mentioned, the diversification of an investment portfolio is achieved through the purchase of different currency pairs. For that, it is important to research and get as much information about Forex Brokers available for you as possible. 

There are numerous platforms that offer in-depth analysis of different Forex Brokers, alongside providing information regarding their regulatory bodies, leverage, minimum deposits, and much other information that is needed for a Forex trader. 

2. Creating Demo Accounts on different platforms 

Numerous Forex Brokers provide their new customers the chance to test their platform by allowing them the opportunity to create a Demo Account. A demo account in Forex is used to determine whether a certain Forex Broker is the right fit for you, has a user-friendly platform, and whether the offered currency pairs are enough to make a profit.

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So, by using a demo account, one will be able to understand the offered currency pairs and, afterward, understand whether they will be able to diversify their investment portfolio without having to lose their money, as demo accounts do not require any real deposits or investments.

3. Analyzing the Forex Trading Market

Since the Forex market is volatile, analyzing the trading market and understanding what currency pairs are best to trade with is important to diversify one’s investment portfolio. 

On the other hand, by analyzing, one will be able to understand the right trading times, allowing them to trade at hours when the profits will be the highest. 

4. Having a risk management strategy

Having a risk management strategy is an important aspect of trading and investing – thus, having a risk management strategy will allow Forex traders to make the most out of their trades.

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For instance, diversification is one risk management strategy in Forex. On the other hand, calculating the risk-reward of trade is another method.

Hence, find the risk management strategies that work best for you and integrate them into your trading. 

5. Choosing the right currency pairs to trade

Some currencies are more volatile than others, and knowing which ones are more volatile is important when trading Forex. When a currency is more volatile, chances are high that the trader will make more profit from it. 

To further elaborate, whenever someone purchases a certain currency with a currency that fluctuates a lot, they will be able to sell that currency afterward with a much higher price than they had bought it, allowing them to make profits. 

Conclusion 

To conclude, it is important to create an account and trade with regulated and trusted Forex Brokers to ensure that the trades are done smoothly and that all data provided to the broker is safe.