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I want to text him, but I don’t know what to say.

Feeling nervous about texting someone you’re interested in is perfectly normal. After all, you want to make a good impression and say the right things. To some degree, the best way to approach this is just to be yourself.

Be genuine and honest in your texts, and don’t try to be someone you’re not. At the same time, it’s not unusual to feel tongue-tied when it comes time to text your crush. After all, you want to say something that intrigues and interests them, but you also don’t want to be regarded as too forward or pushy. 

The key is to strike a balance between the two. Here are some tips on how to find the right things to say:

Start a conversation that will be enjoyable for both of you. It can be helpful to think of something interesting or funny that happened recently and share that story with the person you’re texting. Or, you can ask them about their day or something they’re interested in.

It’s essential to be responsive when the other person texts back. Showing that you’re paying attention and interested in what they have to say will make them more likely to want to continue talking to you.

Keep it light and friendly. Avoid getting too personal or asking intimate questions. Instead, focus on topics that you both enjoy talking about. This could include music and movies to current events and pop culture.

Be yourself. It’s important to be genuine in your communications with your crush. They’ll appreciate your honesty, which will help them get to know you better.

Use emojis judiciously. A well-placed emoji can lighten the mood and add fun to your messages. However, using too many emojis can make you appear immature or unserious. Use them sparingly for best results.

Pay attention to timing. If you know your crush is busy with work or school, avoid sending them a barrage of texts during those times. Instead, wait until they have a break or are free to respond at their leisure.

Respect their boundaries. If the person you’re texting starts to seem uninterested or doesn’t want to talk, don’t continue to text them relentlessly. It’s important to respect the needs of the person you’re texting and give them space if that’s what they want.

End on a positive note. You want to leave the person you’re texting wanting more, so end your conversation on a high note. Thank them for their time, express your hope to talk to them again soon, or tell them you had fun talking to them. This will leave them looking forward to your next conversation.

Finally, don’t overthink things too much. If you relax and let yourself be yourself, you’re more likely to have a good time.