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  • Is your kid part of the ‘Zombie Generation’? This bedtime rule cuts child depression risk by 25%

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    Worried about your child’s screen habits? Clinical neurophysiologist and author Dr Javier Albares has taken a deep dive into scientific research to highlight the serious impact that excessive screen time has on the sleep, development and well-being of children and adolescents. 

    This pressing issue in our increasingly digital world is a worrying reality for specialists and families alike, and the expert warns that screens are “over-stimulating” young people. 

    “The impact is incredibly broad,” says Dr Albares. “It contributes to sedentary lifestyles, higher cardiovascular and metabolic risks and a greater risk of obesity. 

    “The mental impact is even more concerning; it leads to increased anxiety, low mood and self-esteem issues. Excessive use is even linked to a higher risk of self-harm and suicidal thoughts.”

    The sleep expert argues that not only do screens open the door to cyberbullying and content that is entirely unsuitable for a child’s developing brain, such as violence or pornography, but also that screens are the great “sleep thief.

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    By age 12, many children are averaging four to five hours a day looking at a screen

    “More time on a device means fewer hours of rest,” he explains. “For children and adolescents whose brains are still developing, sleep is a non-negotiable pillar of health.”

    In your book Zombie Generation, you suggest screens can actually “slow down” cognitive development. Is there a safe limit for children and teenagers?

    “Medical organisations generally recommend zero screen time for children under six. Between the ages of six and 12, the limit should be one hour a day. From 12 to 16, we suggest no more than an hour and a half to two hours.

    “Data shows that in families with a firm bedtime, the risk of depression in children drops by 25 per cent”

    Clinical neurophysiologist Dr Javier Albares

    “The reality, however, is miles away from this. We see babies being given screens well before they are two years old. By age 12, many children are averaging four to five hours a day. One psychologist recently weighed in on how the gap between recommendations and reality has become truly alarming.”

    You are critical of tech companies for claiming today’s youth have evolved into “Homo Digitalis”. How can families fight back?

    “Families need to understand that tech marketing – the idea that these tools make children smarter – is simply not true. Studies show that the more time children spend on screens, the lower their cognitive development and attention span.

    “Digitalisation doesn’t automatically equal learning. We families to unite and demand the protection of our children’s health. It is also vital that we monitor what our kids are doing online and ensure tech companies are held to account.”

    Low angle view of three young people using mobile phones outdoors.© Getty Images
    ‘If science shows that screens are damaging physical growth, mental health and empathy, then we have a duty to pass protective laws,’ says the expert

    Do you believe we need large-scale laws to protect children from the digital world?

    “Absolutely. The law must protect children just as it does with alcohol. If science shows that screens are damaging physical growth, mental health and empathy, then we have a duty to pass protective laws. It’s also worth looking at what really happens to the body when other unhealthy habits, like poor diet and sedentary behaviour, are combined with constant screen use.”

    Young people are sleeping less and worse than ever. Can we turn this around?

    “Yes, we can. It requires a shift in our social schedules, but we can also take action at home. For example, screens should be completely off-limits after dinner. That alone would give back a significant amount of sleep.

    “Parents have to set firm boundaries. Data shows that in families with a firm bedtime, the risk of depression in children drops by 25 per cent. Setting a bedtime isn’t just a rule; it’s a parental duty. You can start with simple changes and tips to help get children to sleep more naturally.”

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    Not every child or adolescent belongs to the ‘Zombie Generation’ yet, but the warning signs are there

    What happens if young people simply join the digital world when they’re a bit older?

    “There is no downside to waiting. In fact, it’s the opposite. It means they won’t have ‘lost’ their childhood. Childhood only happens once, and every hour spent in front of a screen is an hour stolen from something else – like exercise, traditional play, music, reading or simply hanging out with friends. They miss out on quality family time and, of course, sleep. Delaying access to screens allows for healthy brain development through real-world interaction.”

    Can young digital natives ever stop being the ‘Zombie Generation’?

    “Of course. Not every child belongs to the ‘Zombie Generation’ yet, but the warning signs are there… We can’t just look the other way… It’s about integrating healthier routines that benefit the whole family. Many families have already written to me saying that by distancing themselves from screens, their children are happier, resting better and growing up in a much healthier environment.”

    About the expert

    Dr Javier Albares is a clinical neurophysiologist and a member of both the Spanish Sleep Society (SES) and the European Sleep Research Society. In his Spanish-language book, Generación Zombi (Zombie Generation), he uses scientific research to highlight the serious impact that excessive screen time has on the sleep, development and well-being of children and adolescents.

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  • Struggling to Explain the News to Your Children? We Ask an Expert For Advice – POPSUGAR Australia

    Struggling to Explain the News to Your Children? We Ask an Expert For Advice – POPSUGAR Australia

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    As I sat listening to the news of a mass stabbing – leaving three children dead and eight children and two adults injured in hospital, after attending a Taylor Swift dance workshop – in Southport, North West England, I felt numb. How is it possible three children went to a dance camp one morning and will never go home? It seems unfathomable, heartbreaking and the pain for so many is completely overwhelming. I also can’t stop thinking about all the other children in attendance, and those in the local community, who may not have lost their lives on Monday, but certainly lost a part of their childhoods that day.

    The news really hits home for me, not only as a mother of an eight-year-old and a six-year-old, both booked into camps throughout the summer so I can work, but also as a former dance teacher who ran classes and camps for ten years. Looking back I can remember all the risk assessments that would take place in the halls we hired. Looking at the fire exits, ensuring children couldn’t run out the building, first aid kits and ice packs on hands, meticulously ensuring every medical form was filled in and emergency contact information accessible. Parents send their children to camps to not only have fun or learn something, but to know where they are and that they are safe. As the person running those camps you have a duty to do everything to ensure they are confident in you. I know those teachers would have done all of the above too, yet they are both currently in a critical condition in hospital after an incident which would have been inconceivable before Monday. And my heart breaks again.

    For anyone that teaches young people it may be a business, but it is so much more than that it is a passion and a belief that you can benefit local children and communities. It is understanding that you’re giving young people a safe space to be themselves, to be happy, to be free. I can’t seem to put into words just how cruel this feels. I will never be able to get the images of those three beautiful girls out of my mind and the overwhelming feeling that somehow we have failed them.

    My daughter walked into the room as the news announced Taylor Swift’s response to the incident, once again showing she is pure class and confirming my newfound Swiftie status, her ears immediately pricked up at the mention of her idol and asked, “What is that about?” I switched off the TV instantly and tried to ignore the question and the heaviness in my chest. How could I possibly explain this to her? As a parent all you want to do is protect your children from the harsh realities of life, you want them to remain innocent for as long as possible. Don’t get me wrong, I’m all about being honest and truthful when it comes to talking to your children, but this? I can’t get my head around it, so how would she be able to. It was then I realised if I couldn’t find the right words, then there are probably hundreds, if not thousands of parents thinking the same thing. In all honestly you can only switch the news off so many times. Especially in the days of social media, where our children, or their friends, can be exposed to information without us knowing, it is not a plan.

    Related: I Took My Daughter to See Inside Out 2 – But It Taught Me More About My Emotions

    In the past when the news has been heavy I always tell my children to look for the helpers, as they will always be there. It can feel like the world is a dark place at times, and it is, but if you can offer any form of help, whether that’s just love or a prayer, then you are helping to bring some element of light. It is not possible to bring back those children or prevent the pain of those families and the local community, but if you can offer support, or even reassurance that they are not alone, then you should.

    This feels like a pin prick in an ocean of pain, but if you’re struggling to get your head around this and if you can’t find the right words to explain this to your children I feel you. For those wondering how to respond to questions, or feelings, which may or may not come I have reached out to educational psychologist Dr Patricia Britto for her top tips on how to speak to your children about this, and other hard topics.


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    Dr Patricia Britto Educational Psychologist


    “When children and young people hear about challenging incidents, it can be challenging for them to process.” Dr Patricia Britto tells PS UK. She explains that this can present itself in many ways from nightmares, to withdrawing or becoming hyper vigilant. It can also present in physical signs such as headaches and stomach aches. “It is important to validate any feelings children and young people may have about a challenging event,” she tells PS UK. “Children and young people are likely to feel safe when they feel validated, seen and heard and that their reactions are understandable and not penalised.”

    According to Dr Britto, it is not enough to just ignore or hide children from this type of news. “Adults need to be prepared as children and young people can get information from their friends, social media and others about a particular incident,” she explains. “Therefore, it is ideal to check what they already know and clarify any misconceptions.”

    She recommends thinking things through with your children and young people by exploring their worries. “Please don’t fall into the trap of trying to protect them so that you avoid talking about the event,” she urges. “Children and young people will likely benefit from talking about what’s happened as they seek reassurance, comfort and adult support.”

    Dr Britto believes children and young people need a truthful explanation that makes sense of the main facts after an incident, which are age-appropriate. “Even younger children can benefit from being given a description and explanation of what happened using drawings, age-appropriate books and role play,” she tells PS UK.

    “If someone has died, explain what that means by using visual illustration and storytelling of the scenario in a calm and nurturing way. Often, children and young people can take time to accept the reality of death, mainly if it happened in a traumatic way, and adults will need to give them additional processing time,” she explains.

    It is also important that grief and shock doesn’t just go away overnight or after an explanation, “It is to be expected for children and young people to be upset for weeks after a shocking personal, local or national incident,” she tells PS UK. “However, if negative feelings continue after some time, please seek further support from the relevant health, social care and educational agencies.”

    For anyone who would like further advice please check out Parent Action and for children struggling with grief Winston’s Wish are on hand to help.


    Lauren Ezekiel is an associate editor at PS UK, where she writes about all things beauty and wellness. With a degree in journalism and 12 years’ experience as a beauty editor at a leading Sunday supplement, she is obsessed with skincare, hair and makeup, and is often found offering advice to innocent bystanders. Her work has been published in Grazia, OK, Health and Beauty, The Sun, ASDA, Dare and Metro.


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  • Alex Batty's mum 'was involved in a CULT & allowed NO contact with real world'

    Alex Batty's mum 'was involved in a CULT & allowed NO contact with real world'

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    ALEX Batty’s mum was involved in a CULT and allowed him NO contact with the real world, prosecutors have claimed.

    Alex, who is now 17, disappeared with his mother Melanie and granddad David in 2017 but is expected to return to the UK in the next few days.

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    Alex Batty was found alive in France after vanishing six years agoCredit: Manchester Police
    He was on holiday with his mum Melanie (pictured) but never returned to the UK

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    He was on holiday with his mum Melanie (pictured) but never returned to the UKCredit: PA:Press Association

    He had gone on a family holiday to Spain and is believed to have been abducted by his 43-year-old mother to live an “alternative” lifestyle abroad.

    The teenager was found near the French city of Toulouse on Wednesday and taken to a police station in the village of Revel by chiropody student Fabien Accidini.

    French prosecutors claim Alex knew his alternative life with his mum “had to stop” after she planned to move to Finland.

    Toulouse assistant public prosecutor Antoine Leroy said Alex left the home and went walking for four days, covering around 15 miles by foot and skateboard.

    He was sleeping in the day and walking at night, fuelled by eating “whatever he found in the fields and gardens”.

    Mr Leroy added: “It is possible that the mother has gone to Finland as she planned.

    “The grandfather, who has always been with his daughter and grandson, is said to have died around six months ago.”

    Describing Alex’s lifestyle over the past six years, Mr Leroy said: “They would work on the ego, there was meditation work — there was no connection with the real world. They believed in reincarnation.”

    Mr Leroy said Alex was tired but in good health, adding: “He’s said to be intelligent even though he’s never been to school in this period.

    “He doesn’t describe any kind of physical violence, without talking about emotional violence.

    “We can’t use the term ‘sect’ as such but he talks of a spiritual community.”

    Mr Leroy suggested the group were fascinated by solar panels, and that Melanie has a fear of them.

    He added: “They were travelling from house to house with solar panels. They only used car-sharing, they didn’t have their own vehicle.”

    Mr Leroy added: “What I’m describing is what happened in Morocco, in Spain and in France — always the same way of living.”

    Alex left the UK on September 30, 2017, and was due to return on October 8.

    Stephen Devine, 42, a cousin of Melanie, said yesterday: “Alex’s mum was involved in a cult.

    “His gran became his guardian but then Melanie and his grandfather offered to take him on holiday for a week and were never seen again.

    “It is going to be a big adjustment for him. He’s probably grown up without a formal education.”

    It comes after the shack where Alex lived with his mum and granddad was revealed.

    Alex lived in a shack with his mum and granddad high up in the foothills of the Pyrenees

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    Alex lived in a shack with his mum and granddad high up in the foothills of the PyreneesCredit: Doug Seeburg

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  • Teen girl, 14, storms school with dad's shotgun shooting six pupils in rampage

    Teen girl, 14, storms school with dad's shotgun shooting six pupils in rampage

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    A TEENAGE girl opened fire on her classmates with her dad’s shotgun during a science lesson.

    She killed one student and injured five others before taking her own life after she stormed the school in Russia.

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    A schoolgirl opened fire on her classmates todayCredit: East2West
    Alina, 14, is believed to be the shooter

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    Alina, 14, is believed to be the shooterCredit: East2West

    Alina A – believed to be 14 – had been late for class at her school, Gymnasium Number 5, in Bryansk.

    It was reported that she then entered her biology lesson and began shooting with her dad’s hunting shotgun.

    The shooter rampaged between classrooms with the gun which she had hidden inside a tub.

    Police rushed to the scene and the girl is then reported to have taken her own life.

    Cops are investigating the motive – and local media reports the girl had been “bullied”.

    Horrific photos – which The Sun Online has chosen to publish – showed blood smeared across the floors of classrooms

    Bodies were seen in the school – one of which was believed to be the shooter – alongside a shotgun.

    Students told of the panic as they heard gunshots, barricading themselves inside classrooms.

    One student told local media said: “We were just sitting in English and heard gunshots. 

    “We panicked, started closing windows, putting desks on top of each other.”

    A second pupil added: “Everything was normal until the second lesson. 

    “The police came, the ambulance. That’s it. 

    “The girl carried a shotgun in her rucksack and shots were heard in the second lesson.”

    One of the wounded boys named Timofei is believed to be in intensive care as doctors fight for his life.

    He was shot in the chest, forearm and knee and lost a lot of blood – and is due to undergo emergency surgery.

    Two other victims were in a “moderate” condition.

    The Ministry of Internal Affairs for the Bryansk region issued a statement saying: “Today the police received a report of a shooting at gymnasium No. 5 in the city of Bryansk. 

    “Police officers immediately went to the scene. 

    “According to preliminary information, one of the students brought a firearm into the gymnasium building and fired several times, as a result of which three people were injured. 

    “After this, the girl committed suicide. 

    “The motives and circumstances of the incident are being established.”

    The shooting reportedly took place at a school called Gymnasium Number 5, in Bryansk, Russia

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    The shooting reportedly took place at a school called Gymnasium Number 5, in Bryansk, RussiaCredit: East2West
    Students were evacuated and the school was surrounded by Russian national guards following the shooting

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    Students were evacuated and the school was surrounded by Russian national guards following the shootingCredit: East2West

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  • Hamas 'cowards' stash AK-47s in babies' cots and 'send kids to frontline'

    Hamas 'cowards' stash AK-47s in babies' cots and 'send kids to frontline'

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    HAMAS terror troops have been hiding weapons in babies’ cots and sending children on to the frontline in Gaza, shocked Israeli soldiers told The Sun yesterday.

    Terror tunnels have been found under a kindergarten and mosques have been used to store huge stashes of weapons among fiendish tactics.

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    IDF handout pictures showing an AK47 in a cotCredit: IDS
    IDF handout pictures showing Hamas gear in a home

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    IDF handout pictures showing Hamas gear in a homeCredit: IDS

    But the most shocking ploy has been the alleged use of children as young as 10 and old folk to scout Israeli positions.

    An army captain who has spent weeks in Gaza – and lost a comrade in battle – called The Sun from north Gaza yesterday to describe his daunting task as “like fighting ghosts.”

    He described living hour-by-hour on the frontline, never knowing when elusive Hamas fighters might spring from a tunnel to attack before vanishing.

    But the 27-year-old reservist officer insisted morale remained high among troops determined to wipe out the terrorist savages behind the October 7 attacks which claimed 1,200 lives.

    The soldier – who The Sun agreed to name only as “Captain Daniel” – said: “Our enemy are cowardly – they don’t stand and fight and exposure to them is usually very short.

    “It‘s 100 per cent true that it’s like fighting ghosts.

    “Since we’ve been on the ground here there is not a single unit, not a single platoon, that hasn’t come across deeply troubling and disturbing signs.

    “There was a situation where a very old man and a boy no older than around 10 appeared in front of us.

    “They seemed entirely innocent and obviously appeared to be no threat, but it became clear very soon after that Hamas were using them to scout our position.

    “Soon after we saw them we came under heavy fire and it’s now a tactic that we have to expect all the time as we move forward.

    “Civilians are being used like this to either distract us and get our attention or tell the enemy where we are.”

    Captain Daniel, of the Jerusalem Brigade’s 7007th Battalion, told how structures including schools and mosques are also being used as terror bases.

    He said: “We went into a kindergarten with a playground with see-saws and slides outside and children’s pictures on the walls painted pink.

    “But an entrance to a Hamas tunnel was inside which linked to their underground network and we found weapons, ammunition and explosives inside.

    “Tactics like this are troubling but we are learning about our enemy and determined to finish the job here.

    “We all appreciate the importance of our mission.”

    IDF chiefs yesterday released exclusive images to The Sun which they claimed exposed their enemy’s twisted tactics. 

    The Israeli Defence Force’s 261st Division said they had unearthed an array of weaponry in “cynical places” during the recent ceasefire.

    Pictures showed a Kalashnikov assault rifle hidden under the cot mattress with explosives next to it, said to have been found in the Naveh-Said neighbourhood of Al Atatra in north Gaza.

    Other finds – which could not be verified – included explosives hidden in a container of baby formula booby trapped to a grenade.

    A 50-foot terror tunnel shaft was also pictured, said to be inside a kindergarten in the same neighbourhood. 

    A whiteboard normally used by nursery school teachers inside a mosque also appeared to have been used to sketch diagrams depicting rocket-firing tactics.

    And large caches of arms and explosives were also reported to have been recovered from two mosques in the same area by the same unit.

    Captain Daniel, from Ra’anana, central Israel also told yesterday of the personal dangers he has faced during weeks of fighting – and the pain of losing a comrade in battle.

    The officer was listening in on his radio when a firefight erupted nearby and comrade Lieutenant Yuval Zilber, 25. 

    Captain Daniel said: “Unfortunately, in the first week of our mission, my comrade Yuval Zilber was killed.

    “A terrorist appeared from a tunnel shaft and he was killed by gunfire before we engaged and neutralised him.

    “We have since named a compound that we captured after Yuval.

    “His loss was a shock to us all but we understand the reason for our mission and we do not have a choice. We must fight on.”

    An IDF handout showing the entrance to a Hamas tunnel

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    An IDF handout showing the entrance to a Hamas tunnelCredit: IDS
    An IDF handout shows explosives hidden in a container of baby formula booby trapped to a grenade

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    An IDF handout shows explosives hidden in a container of baby formula booby trapped to a grenadeCredit: IDS

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  • Mums of children kidnapped by Hamas savages weep over Sun appeal

    Mums of children kidnapped by Hamas savages weep over Sun appeal

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    THREE desperate mums of kidnapped kids dragged to Gaza wept yesterday as they saw their lost loved ones pictured in a moving appeal by The Sun.

    Distraught Renana Jacob, Batsheva Yahalomi, and Hadas Kalderon asked to see our front page showing their youngsters among 32 child hostages snatched by Hamas.

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    Distraught Renana Jacob, Batsheva Yahalomi, and Hadas KalderonCredit: Doug Seeburg
    Hadas begged for the safe return of her children Erez, 12, Sahar, 16, and their 53-year-old father Ofer

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    Hadas begged for the safe return of her children Erez, 12, Sahar, 16, and their 53-year-old father OferCredit: Facebook
    Renana said: 'The last words I heard my son say were, ‘Don’t take me. I’m too young' - pictured Or, 16

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    Renana said: ‘The last words I heard my son say were, ‘Don’t take me. I’m too young’ – pictured Or, 16

    Emotion poured out as each, in turn, spotted the smiling face of their children — now enduring hell in the terror group’s tunnel lair.

    Renana, 56, smiled then sobbed as she pointed to Or, 16, and Yagel, 12.

    The mum, who was on the phone to her youngsters as they were snatched, told The Sun: “The last words I heard my son say were, ‘Don’t take me. I’m too young’.

    “No mother should ever have to endure what we’re going through now. We don’t sleep wondering if they are sleeping.

    “We don’t eat because we think about whether they’re eating and we don’t even shower as we don’t know if they’re being allowed to wash.

    “I just want my son to do what all 12-year-olds do at home again — ride his bike and play football and bother me with phone calls.

    “But I’ve heard nothing from them for a month now and every minute that passes makes a wound which will take years to heal.

    “If they come home, we know they will never be the same again but we have to hope that they will be able to resume some kind of life.”

    Directly appealing to the monsters holding her kids amid Gaza’s bomb-blasted ruins, Renana added: “I hope they are held deep underground. And I’m hoping the people holding them, since they have mothers, are supposedly human.

    “Maybe they have children of their own and they will see their hostages as children. I hope they will treat them like children but most of all we’re begging them to release them.

    “Children and babies should not be part of this war game. They should not be a bargaining chip.”

    As Israeli bombs continued to fall last night amid mounting civilian casualties, she added: “Families on both sides are suffering and Palestinians are also hostages of Hamas.”

    Batsheva, 44, her husband Ohad, 49, son Eitan, 12, and two younger children aged ten and 18 months, were at home in the Nir Oz kibbutz a mile from Gaza on October 7.

    The family’s life became a living hell when Hamas invaded and Ohad was shot in the leg as he tried to stop them.

    She later found out he was believed to be in Gaza, grabbed while searching for his family.

    Pointing out Manchester United fan Eitan’s face on our Page One, she said: “I begged them to take me and leave our children. They ignored me.

    I want all the children home…I want my family back.

    Hadas Kalderon, mum of Sahar & Erez

    “And now I can’t bear the thought of my son in danger and alone.”

    She added: “We don’t wake up in the morning because we don’t have nights. We have nightmares. Life is a continuous nightmare.”

    Batsheva said she and her children were marched away at gunpoint and slung across motorbikes that roared off towards the Gaza Strip.

    She and the younger kids fell off a bike and fled when the terrorists were surprised by two Israeli tanks.

    She said: “Our motorbike fell and this was the last time I saw Eitan.

    “I ran away through the fields because the roads were full of terrorists — hundreds of them shooting, burning, looting and stealing TVs.

    “I can’t stand the thought that Eitan’s alone there now. It’s breaking me. We’re here in London because we want the world to hear us and understand children are no part of this and should be freed.”

    Hadas, 56, endured the agony of having five family members kidnapped from the Nir Oz and Kissufim kibbutz communities.

    No mother should endure what we are going through.

    Renana Jacob, mum of Or and Yagel

    They included her mum Carmela Dan, 80, and autistic Harry Potter fan niece Noya, 12, who were killed.

    Hadas yesterday begged for the safe return of children Sahar, 16, and Erez, 12 and their 53-year-old father Ofer.

    She survived by using all her strength to hold shut a door as terrorists tried to break in and was rescued by Israeli forces.

    Hadas said: “Hamas now have an opportunity to show their humanity, despite what they have done.

    “I want all the children home. I want to see my girl buy new clothes and jewellery.

    “I want to see my daughter like all 16-year-old girls, spending ages in front of the mirror and TikTok-ing.

    “I want to see my boy riding his mountain bike, playing football and ping pong.

    “I want to see them laugh.

    We don’t have nights…we have nightmares.

    Batsheva Yahalomi, mum of Eitan

    “Their innocence has been taken from them but I want to promise them it will never happen again.

    The mums saluted the support of Britain and Qatari go-betweens they met yesterday who are trying to negotiate their kids’ release.

    But they blasted pro-Palestinian protesters who have torn down posters of Israeli hostages in the UK.

    Renana said: “I’d urge the people tearing down the posters to think about what they would do if it was their own child.”

    On behalf of the mums, she added: “We’d like to thank The Sun for your wonderful support. That front page passes on our message to the world.”

    Each of the mums asked to take away a copy of The Sun with the Page One appeal for their loved ones.

    23 killed in strikes

    DAWN bombing raids killed 23 people in the Gaza cities of Khan Younis and Rafah, according to Palestinian health officials.

    Images showed survivors being pulled from the rubble after air strikes had ­flattened homes as Israel hunts for the butchers of Hamas.

    Ahmed Ayesh, who was among those rescued in Khan Younis, said: “This is the bravery of the so-called Israel — they show their might and power against civilians, babies, kids and the elderly.”

    He spoke as rescuers used their bare hands to try to free a girl buried up to her waist in debris.

    Israel says it is seeking to minimize civilian casualties and accuses Hamas of preventing Palestinians from leaving northern Gaza in order to use them as human shields instead.

    Renana said: 'No mother should ever have to endure what we’re going through now' - pictured Yagel, 12

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    Renana said: ‘No mother should ever have to endure what we’re going through now’ – pictured Yagel, 12
    Batsheva said: 'I begged them to take me and leave our children. They ignored me' - pictured Eitan, 12

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    Batsheva said: ‘I begged them to take me and leave our children. They ignored me’ – pictured Eitan, 12Credit: Ian Whittaker
    The faces of the hostages are projected on the Old City wall in Jerusalem

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    The faces of the hostages are projected on the Old City wall in JerusalemCredit: AP

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  • Mum’s warning over kids’ bowls with terrifying pic of near-fatal moment

    Mum’s warning over kids’ bowls with terrifying pic of near-fatal moment

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    A MUM shares a chilling warning after her baby almost suffocates with the bowl sucked to her face.

    Laci, from Texas, fed her daughter scrambled eggs from a silicone suction bowl, which prevents kids from throwing plates on the floor.

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    A child fused the silicone bowl over her head and started suffocatingCredit: Facebook
    The terrified mother had to rush to rescue a rattled baby

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    The terrified mother had to rush to rescue a rattled babyCredit: Facebook

    But in just seconds, breakfast turned into a near-death experience for the baby.

    As a child fused the bowl over her head and started suffocating, the terrified mother had to rush to remove it.

    “She placed her head in her bowl and it suctioned immediately to her face perfectly. The bowl was slick and greasy from her eating. When I leaned over the island to pull it off, my hands slipped off the bowl

    “With every scream she made, the bowl suctioned tighter and tighter. I ran around the island and was able to dig my fingers up under the bowl to break the seal and finally free her.”

    The baby was “shaken up” after the accident and the mother “shudders” at the thought of her breathless even for a few seconds.

    The mum-of-three dreads to think what could have happened if she was distracted washing the dishes or cleaning the kitchen just meters away.

    Laci said: “Thank goodness she was only without air for a handful of seconds. This could have been terrible had I not been literally watching as it happened. And it happened so fast!”  

    Laci was snapping photographs of her baby enjoying the food when the chilling incident happened.

    The camera caught the moment the screaming baby’s chest and throat caved as she was running out of breath.

    Laci said it never occurred to her that the popular bowls could be so dangerous.

    “Maybe I should have already considered this a possibility and maybe there are reports of this already that I was unaware of. I haven’t been a ‘new’ mum in many years, and my bigs didn’t have these bowls,” she said.

    The silicone bowls have a suction cup on the bottom that sticks to the highchair and prevents kids from throwing dishes on the floor.

    Laci said her daughter’s bowl didn’t adhere to the chair properly and was lifted off easily.

    She took to Facebook to warn other parents of a potential hazard.

    “I have been known to toss kitchen stuff to my babies to play with (wooden spoons, cups, Tupperware) while I’m washing dishes to keep them occupied since they like to hang down by my feet. What if I had tossed her HER bowl and I missed this happening?”

    The mum added that she feels “ridiculously awful” about the whole incident and will stay away from suction bowls in the future.

    Her post caught the attention of parents around the world who expressed their gratitude for the lifesaving advice.

    One woman wrote: “Thank you for sharing, I can’t imagine how scared you must’ve been! I’m so glad she is okay! I am a new mum after nine years, also using these bowls for the first time. I would have never thought of that being a danger.”

    Another user added: “I never would have guessed this in a million years. You’re a wonderful mama, and there’s no way you could have predicted this.”

    A third replied: “Crazy! We’ve got the shallow, smaller diameter version of these. I’m definitely going to check them out a bit closer versus our kids. Thank you for the awareness and glad everything is OK.”

    Most parents were just as shocked as Laci.

    One mum wrote: “I have the exact same bowl and never could have imagined that happening – thanks for sharing.”

    Most parents around the world were shocked at the unknown hazard

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  • CARE Counseling Generates Support for School Counselors for National School Counseling Week – Feb. 7-11, 2022

    CARE Counseling Generates Support for School Counselors for National School Counseling Week – Feb. 7-11, 2022

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    Minnesota’s school counselor to student ratio is one of the worst in the nation at one counselor per 734 students. CARE Counseling aims to gain recognition for all the hard work the counselors do.

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    updated: Feb 2, 2022

    National School Counseling Week this year is Feb. 7-11, 2022. National-School-Counseling-Week is sponsored by the American School Counselor Association (ASCA).

    School counselors have a significant role in students’ lives, making impacts on school and future success. “Having worked as a school-based therapist for more than 10 years in the public school systems, I have a tremendous appreciation for school counselors,” said Charlotte Johnson, Mental Health Professional and Clinical Supervisor at CARE Counseling. Minnesota school counselors have some of the greatest demands compared to other schools in the nation.

    While the national averages are one school counselor per 470 students, data from The Center for Advanced Studies in Child Welfare (CASCW) research state ratios report revealed that Minnesota’s school counselor to student ratio was one of the worst in the nation at one counselor per 734 students. This far exceeds the ASCA recommendations of one counselor per 250 students.

    Some of the things a school counselor does:

    • Spending time with students in visible areas such as the classrooms, hallways, and offices with doors open as sources of supports
    • Helping students navigate options with job/career and college readiness and assisting with test administration
    • Working with educators, administration, and leadership to provide student support, attend meetings, coordinate services, and working together to address issues such as racial and economic achievement gaps
    • Addressing school disciplinary incidents and promoting positive pro-social behavior
    • Providing education and preventative care support for concerns such as bullying, school safety, sexual health, mental health, and substance use
    • Providing school counseling support to students, including group supports, special education/ learning supports, and referrals to community partners for longer-term services
    • Coordinating care with students and parents/ guardians to access resources and supports to address student needs to facilitate learning.

    CARE Counseling is bringing awareness and hope that the community will take time this week to thank a school counselor who has been impactful.

    A special note to school counselors could include: “We would love to fill your bucket to help provide support in a therapeutic space. As you care for others, we also CARE about you.”

    CARE Counseling offers one-hour talk therapy services in Minnesota for all ages. Clients can schedule online by visiting care-clinics.com or by calling (612) 223-8898.

    Source: CARE Counseling

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