Is Your Boyfriend Still on Dating Apps? What It Means and How to Respond – Couples Therapy Inc.

Dear Dr. K,

Do you think it’s right for your live-in boyfriend to have a dating site on his phone? 

App-rehensive Girlfriend

Dear App-rehensive Girlfriend,

If this happened to you, you’ve just been given a gift.

If you thought you were in a committed relationship, you aren’t. You don’t have to fight about it. You don’t have to argue for the “goodness” of relationship.

Your partner has told you that “you aren’t the one,” but he’s still looking for “Ms. Right.”

If you want to stay on those terms, that is your option. If you are curious, you might want to ask him to sign in to see when he was last on it.

If not:

Thanks for writing.

Dr. K