How to enjoy life ? Teen’s advice.

We usually assume that we need to make drastic changes to our habits, routines or bank balances to be happy. However, in reality, that’s not the case.

Often, we already have everything we need to enjoy life—it’s just a question of prioritizing what’s really important.

1. FOCUS  ON YOU

We spend way too much time on thinking what other people think of us . The question is what do you think of yourself ? People give opinions and advices but at the end of  the day it is really just you who got your back. GET TO KNOW YOURSELF  FIRST , that’s the first step .

2.MAKE A WISH-LIST

Don’t be lazy go get a paper and a pen , write down all your desires , your dreams. [Oh but don’t dream of being a mermaid or spiderman ] DREAM IT. VISUALIZE IT. BE EXCITED. We need a catalyst to keep going in life . Make your own !!

3.CELEBRATE SMALL WINS

Appreciate yourself and every small effort that you make. It’s the small wins that lead us to the big ones.

4.SPEAK YOUR MIND

Don’t hold yourself  back.When we hold back our thoughts,desires because we don’t want to displease others, that’s when we betray ourselves.

5.RECORD HAPPY MOMENTS

Now this one is personally our favourite. Keep a diary if you like journaling or if you don’t that’s fine too. Get your camera out and record the happy moments ,random happiness -sunsets, puppies,your favourite ice cream, or even you smiling.

6. KEEP LEARNING

Come on it’s just one life , GO EXPLORE . It can be anything – A new culture , food, place,books, songs and the saga never ends [lol]. We all have  internet [well duh, or else you wouldn’t be reading this ]Make use of the internet to educate yourself on something that is out of your academic syllabus .

7. ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE HAPPY 

Many of us find it challenging to enjoy a calm, “normal” life. Give yourself permission to enjoy a drama-free existence and focus on finding pleasure in your daily experiences.

If we keep focusing on things we don’t have we will remain in the negative mindset,Let’s take it this way -if you don’t have what you want or need ,earn it . BELIEVE AND YOU ARE HALF WAY THERE. Stop stressing over things that you cannot control rather control how you view it .