How ‘Couples Therapy’ Will Take On Modern, Messy Love in Its Next Act

Couples Therapy finds authentic suspense in its structure—a credit to its cinematic bona fides. “We really don’t know what’s going to happen,” cocreator and executive producer Kriegman says. “There’s a formless reality to the process where we’re trusting our gut, and then really excited to see what comes of it. That’s the joy of this filmmaking.”

Having now gone through several seasons, Kriegman and his team have a better sense of what they need to work: They see hundreds of couples—the estimate in our interview for how many they saw and considered for this installment alone is 400—and rather than outsource the casting, do it all in-house themselves. Once the ensemble is finalized, the producers give Guralnik the space to conduct her sessions and progress the therapy without interference, but do speak with her regularly during production. She’s not isolated from the process. 

As Kriegman puts it, “We have conversations about how the work is going, but very much through the lens of the therapy and less through the lens of the filmmaking.”

“Never in my life as a professional have I had such close scrutiny and supervision of my work as I’ve had in the last [several] years,” Guralnik says. “I did a PhD and then I did another 10 years of analytic training…. But in every [Couples Therapy] session I have people watching the session while I’m doing it, and I have then editors and directors peering over the material and trying to understand it—and talking to me about it later, both session by session and then period by period.”

This season, Couples Therapy brought on Joshua Altman, an award-winning documentary veteran (All These Sons, Minding the Gap), as a new director. He stepped into a well-oiled machine, but also imbued it with fresh perspective. “To find couples that I felt had this push and pull of genuine love for each other, and at the same time, this dynamic between them that as an audience you’re like, ‘Man, these two should split up’—those feelings are real things that all couples go through,” Altman says. “As I watched other seasons again, I was like, ‘Okay, yeah. How can we pull that out?’”

One way was through Guralnik directly. For the first time in the series, she’s confronted with a couple she believes, to some extent, she cannot work with, and agonizes over whether to terminate the treatment. The struggles between the pair resonate, initially, as a portrait of a couple in crisis. “But [Altman] was able to say, ‘Oh, no, the story here is as much Orna’s story as it is the couple’s story,’” Kriegman says. “That was a really great insight that took the season to a place that we’ve never been before.” Adds Altman: “We have the benefit of watching things and rewatching things and starting to look at patterns and offering those to her—not as a way to steer her, but to bring up questions and to raise ideas. Sometimes she shuts them down, and sometimes she’s like, ‘That’s really interesting.’”