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  • Camila Cabello Gets Pussy Blocked By Lil Nas X in “He Knows” Video

    Camila Cabello Gets Pussy Blocked By Lil Nas X in “He Knows” Video

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    As the C,XOXO rollout keeps on truckin’, Camila Cabello continues to pull out the stops (one can’t necessarily say “all the stops”) by offering up yet another single with a feature on it. This time, Lil Nas X subs in where Playboi Carti was on “I Luv It.” The potentially ominous-sounding single, “He Knows,” is accordingly much more flirtatious and tongue-in-cheek. After all, this is “Montero” we’re talking about, the man who performs nude choreo in a prison setting, co-designs Satan shoes and gives lap dances to the devil. Of course things are going to be, shall we say, mischievous when he’s involved. And the video for “He Knows” proves no exception to the Lil Nas X rule. 

    With an opening that samples from Ojerime’s 2020 song, “Give It Up 2 Me” (which itself sounds like a sample of The Bucketheads’ ‘The Bomb! [These Sounds Fall Into My Mind]”), the playful tone of “He Knows” is made immediately apparent. Yet, more than just playful (and often taunting), the song radiates a sweltering quality that’s ripe for the dance floor. As such, it’s no surprise that Cabello takes us to that very location, trading out the “chillin’ at home” and occasional outdoor setting in “I Luv It” for a club one in “He Knows.” Not just any club either, but one that looks as though it was plucked straight out of the 00s (Lindsay Lohan’s “Rumors” video comes to mind). As Cabello descends a staircase and casually saunters into the fray with her crew in tow, she sizes up the clientele, eventually casting her discerning glance on one “boo” in particular as she takes a shot with her friends. 

    Director Onda then immediately cuts to the two of them writhing against each other on the dance floor as the lyrics, “She’s a provocateur/Dance floor connoisseur/Shit week, so Friday for sure/Tell the girls we’re takin’ a detour/Give him hell, yeah/Give these boys hell, yeah/Shе does it well, ah-yeah/I do it mysеlf, ah-yeah” punctuate the hyper-sexual scene. In the next moment, Cabello finds herself on the center of the floor as several backup dancers behind her join in to match the choreo she serves for the verse, “Cigarette, candy necklace on my hips/Butterfly that’s on my wrist/Put your hands on me like this.”

    If those lyrics sound filled with Lana Del Rey-inspired keywords and imagery, it’s probably no coincidence that Cabello shoved her way onto the Coachella main stage to join LDR in a rendition of “I Luv It” during the latter’s headlining performance in April. Indeed, it’s a shame “He Knows” wasn’t out at the time, as it’s a single that’s far more within Del Rey’s wheelhouse, complete with the chorus: “I think he knows (make me lose my mind)/When I play with him like that/When I say it to him like that/Have my way with him like that/I think he knows (make me lose my mind)…/That he’s comin’ right back.” Dripping with such “daddy” vibes, it would have made for a much less awkward onstage collaboration. 

    In any case, Lil Nas X is also well-suited to the sentiments as he appears on the scene with vampiric blue eyes aglow in the darkness of the club. Using those eyes to zero in on Cabello dancing with the man she thinks she has “wrapped around [her] pinky finger,” Lil Nas X interrupts their sexual grinding to, er, insert himself. He then delivers the lascivious lyrics, “He drippin’ down on my bustier like ice cream/While Ashanti playin’ in the AMG/Let it rain on me/He fuckin’ up my headboard, so I’m on my knees like, ‘Dear Lord, please pray for me’/Save the grace for me.” Around the same time, a very deliberate shot of a mannequin dressed exactly like the man both CC and LNX are pursuing is revealed, perched in an industrial-looking space. One in which Cabello and Lil Nas X appear in individually before ending up there together. 

    Before that moment, however, Cabello, after being bested by LNX, turns on her heel and stalks off in angered disbelief. Not just over the fact that Lil Nas X could pussy block her so rudely, but that she didn’t account for the potential bisexuality of this “little snack.” (Or Lil Nas X is just that alluring to all genders, regardless of their usual sexual preferences.) Back in the “secret part” of the club where the mannequin is, Cabello and LNX get into a catfight that ends up knocking over the “model” and dislodging one of its arms. Cabello turns her head toward it and shouts, “Oh my god, he’s—” Lil Nas X cuts in, “He’s bald?” Cabello sighs exasperatedly and corrects, “He’s plastic.” (To be fair, so are most people in Miami.) Lil Nas is still hung up on the bald thing, replying, “But he’s also bald.” Realizing the man they were fighting for wasn’t actually that “fire,” the two then join forces on the floor and in the weird alternate dimension room. The dance scenes get trippier and blurrier before we finally see them outside together at the valet stand. 

    As they wait, Lil Nas X declares, “Let’s promise to never fight over a boy again.” “Pinky promise?” Cabello asks. “Pinky promise,” LNX assures. But you can’t trust no twink not to pussy block again and again, nor, for that matter, someone as “ho is life” as Cabello’s “alter ego,” “C.” This much is confirmed when the same guy (as emphasized by his signature jacket) they were fighting over appears next to them to wait for his own car. The two both flash flirty lookie-loos at him as they bite down on the very pinkies they promised not to betray each other with to the point where blood is pouring out of their mouths. So much for friendship solidarity. And yes, it would seem Cabello is making a larger statement about how much harder it is for women “these days” to lock down a man (Cabello’s supposedly straight ex, Shawn Mendes, comes to mind), what with sexual fluidity being increasingly and endlessly chic. 

    Or, as Lil Nas X, warns, “On the real, I’ma take his soul (all that)/I’ma take him from his hoes (okay)/On the real, I think he knows.” Thus, Cabello’s intended “I’m in control,” empowered statement for “He Knows” is totally undermined by what LNX contributes to it sonically and visually.

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    Genna Rivieccio

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  • ‘The hookups that I had with a girl..’: Demi Lovato REVEALS song Cool for the Summer is about fling with another female celebrity

    ‘The hookups that I had with a girl..’: Demi Lovato REVEALS song Cool for the Summer is about fling with another female celebrity

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    Demi Lovato has been open about several things in her life including her struggles with anxiety, depression, and coming out as a bisexual. The 31-year-old, known for starring in Camp Rock, has been vocal about music being her outlet, like several other musicians and artists. She recently opened up about her hit pop track Cool for the Summer.

    She revealed how it was inspired by a fling of hers with another famous female celebrity. Lovato also talked about how she took a while before coming out as a bisexual since she was from a Christian household. Here’s what the former Disney star divulged about the same.

    ALSO READ: MTV VMAs: Demi Lovato reacts to Taylor Swift dancing on her song Cool for the Summer; DEETS inside

    Demi Lovato reveals song is about fling with female celebrity

    During an appearance on SiriusXM’s The Howard Stern Show, Lovato gave some insight into her hit song Cool for the Summer which was released back in 2015. “I was thinking about the hookups that I had had with a girl and decided to write this song,” the singer said. She further revealed that the muse in question was another famous woman who she was in a relationship with at one point in time, though she refused to reveal any details about her.

    Lovato pointed out that it would be disrespectful to her boyfriend, musician Jutes if she shared too many details about that previous fling. “I’m in a relationship now and I feel like that would be inappropriate. I missed the moment. Should’ve said it back then,” she added. Regardless, the actress did add that the mystery woman in question is unaware that she inspired the popular song. Lovato also disclosed that their relationship was never public.

    Demi Lovato on coming out as bisexual years ago

    “Sometimes I write songs and I just leave them, let them be,” she continued and added that she wasn’t afraid the song would affect her career. For the unversed, Cool for the Summer has bisexual themes and references. Talking about her sexuality, Lovato explained, “It was more so like coming to terms with it myself — I didn’t actually come out as bisexual until I was 24 or 25. I think coming from a Christian household made me nervous for that.”

    She also revealed that her mother Dianna De La Garza told her she just wanted her to be happy, while her stepfather Eddie De La Garza joked that he already knew about it. “My dad was like, ‘Yeah, you have a song called Cool for the Summer, like it’s obvious,’” she told Stern. Lovato recently performed at the MTV VMAs which were held on September 12.

    ALSO READ: ‘We’ve talked about it’: Demi Lovato hints at a potential wedding with beau Jutes as she opens up about him

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  • 7 Cosas Ridículas que no hay que decir a gente Bisexual

    7 Cosas Ridículas que no hay que decir a gente Bisexual

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    A lo largo de los años he sido objeto de muchas observaciones bifóbicas.

    La bifobia no es solo una expresión específica de homofobia para las personas que son “parcialmente” gays. La bifobia viene de la comunidad queer y heterosexual, y en mi experiencia, es una expresión del pensamiento y/o binario que puede ser muy destructivo para nuestro mundo en muchas maneras. Las que voy a exponer a continuación ni siquiera son las peores, solo son las más reveladoras de los perjuicios escondidos que hay contra las personas bi.

    Algunas personas dicen que “pansexual” es la identidad de elección si te atraen personas sin que te importe el sexo o el género, y por lo tanto rechazan el género binario. Abordo esta cuestión más adelante, y afirmo por qué me defino todavía como bisexual y no pansexual, mientras desafío el género binario. “Queer” puede ser también en término paraguas para la comunidad LGBTQ+, o puede ser un término más radical para una posición que desafía la heteronormatividad.  

    1. “Yo también fui bisexual una vez”

    A lo mejor para algunas personas su identidad se siente más estable en una categoría diferente a “bisexual” y pertenecer a una etiqueta diferente es ahora su preferida. Pero decir algo así es muy condescendiente e inválido. Una mujer identificada como lesbiana actualmente me lo dijo en el Club Lexington hace unos diez años. Estoy seguro de que la gente lo sigue diciendo, y hay que pararlo.  Sé que he sido bisexual desde los 16 años, y todavía soy bisexual. Me honra cómo me identifico. Punto final.

    1. “¿Pero qué pasa con la monogamia?”

    Nada en contra del poliamor, que es una identidad legítima también. Pero la bisexualidad no significa no-monógamo. Bisexual significa muchas cosas diferentes para muchas personas diferentes, algunos de los cuales son monógamos, y otros son poli. Enfrentar bi y poli es simplemente inadecuado.

    More Radical Reads: Los 4 modos in los que la ‘no-monogamia’ me ha ayudado ha sentirme mas segura y comoda en las relaciones romanticas

    3.“¿No refuerza la palabra bisexual el género binario?”

    Este asunto ha tenido mucha cola en el blog. Un gran artículo para releer para una exploración más profunda de este tópico tan complejo es:  Words, Binary, and Biphobia: Or Why “Bi” is Binary but “FTM” is Not.  Por ahora, me gustaría aprovechar la oportunidad para salir como un bisexual de género queer, y por lo tanto detonar todos sus contraargumentos por el mero hecho de mi existencia.  

    1. “Me da miedo salir con bisexuales porque creo que me dejarán por otro con un cuerpo diferente al mío.”

    No dejes que tu inseguridad arruine una relación potencialmente fabulosa con algo tan bisexual.  ¡Sabes que la bifobia es tan maliciosa que yo mismo que soy un orgulloso bisexual y lo he sido durante años, pero ahora tengo una relación con otro bisexual y estos miedo afloran en mi cerebro! La gente tiene un montón de prejuicios contra los bisexuales por cómo son tratados en el mundo de la cultura y los medios, el mayor de ellos es el mito de que somos incapaces de satisfacer sexualmente con una pareja o que negamos nuestra actual sexualidad.  Esto es específicamente bifobia y no homofobia porque el miedo de las “dos” realidades de existencia bisexual y viene de gente gay y hetero, y como he mencionado ¡de bisexuales también! Así que no te sientas mal si tienes inseguridad o miedo. Nuestra cultura es bifóbica, así que asimilarlo tiene sentido, justo como asimilar el sexismo u otro ismo tiene sentido.

    Incluso yo, que he estado reuniéndome en contra de la mierda durante años, sucumbo a veces. Estate vigilante y deshace tu bifobia interiorizada. Míralo como un acto de resistencia contra una parte fea de una cultura dominante, justo como deberías deshacer otras varias internalizaciones.

    5.“¿Pero a quién prefieres realmente? ¿Con quién crees que acabarás?”

    Un hombre gay me preguntó una vez esto, curioseando en varios niveles de mi atracción física contra la afinidad emocional hacia hombres y mujeres, por último intentando adivinar con su bola de cristal la respuesta de con quién acabaré, como si mi futura felicidad fuera más incierta que la suya y necesitara su consejo. Me preguntó por quién me sentía más sexualmente atraído, si a hombres o a mujeres. ¿Mi respuesta? Depende. ¿Con quién tengo más magnetismo? Si con hombres o mujeres. ¿Mi respuesta? Depende. El hecho de que mi deseo y vínculo emocional tenga alguna complejidad no significa que sea menos válido y sus capas no significan soledad para mi u otra persona con mi particular clase de atracción.

    6.“Intuyo que le das a todos los palos ¿no?”

    Argggg.  Todo lo que mueve el argumento. Me siento atraído por la personalidad de las personas más que por su apariencia física, aunque sienta lujuria. Hay mucha gente con la que nunca querría liarme por su comportamiento, actitud, creencias, etc. Siento que mis preferencias sexuales y románticas están muy discriminadas, pero yo no discrimino. Con esto quiero decir que distingo de quien quiero ser con ciertos estándares de compatibilidad y deseo, pero también que no corro a juzgar sobre con quién debería emparejarme basándome en su sexo asignado de nacimiento o su género.

    More Radical Reads: Four Terrible Bisexuality Tropes on TV, and Four Portrayals That Defy Them

    7.“Si te van todos los géneros, ¿por qué no dices que eres pansexual o queer?”

    Escribí un artículo: “Queer vs. Bi: Why I’m Coming Back Around to Bisexual” . Brevemente—pansexual y queer son probablemente más precisos para mí en sus estrictas definiciones, pero me gusta usar “bisexual” porque es una palabra con una importancia histórica y también actual en el mundo hetero, en el cual puede ser usada. También creo que la gente puede alejarse de “bi” dentro de la comunidad LGBTQ por la bifobia, y esto tiene que parar.

    [Imagen de portada: una foto con dos personas sentadas en una cama. La persona de la izquierda tiene el pelo corto y lleva gafas, un top azul encima de una camiseta blanca y pantalones rojos oscuros. La persona de la derecha tiene el pelo oscuro, gafas, un collar naranja, un top gris y pantalones verdes. Están sonriendo y sus cabezas se inclinan a la izquierda. Fuente: Mushpa Y Mensa]


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    Liz Green

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