We all “show ourselves” in our interactions with others. Sometimes, we truly Show Up, bringing our best self to the relationship.
Other times, we bring an angry/resentful presence to the table. Other times, it might be a cold/distant presence. And still other times, it might be a needy/desperate presence.
As you may have guessed, an angry or distant or needy presence rarely serves the relationship or the improvement of a relationship.
Maybe you think you are just responding to what is coming your way… that you are just following your spouse’s lead… or the lead of the world around you.
But we all get to choose how we will Show Up.
We get to choose how we want to be, who we want to be, in all of our relationships. We don’t have to leave it to reaction or fear, resentment or hurt. We can choose how and who we will be in life.
How do YOU Show Up?
Listen for how to Show Up the way you want to!
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Apologies and Marriage
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Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.
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