Best Swinger Dating Sites – Datezie

Variety is the spice of life, and let’s just say some amongst us like their lives extra spicy.

Swinging, sometimes referred to as “The Lifestyle” is when singles or couples who are in committed relationships sexually engage with others. Swingers tend to limit keep their outside relationships limited to sex only, whereas polyamorous couples look for extended romantic relationships outside of their own.

According to a study. over 2% of Americans identify as swingers, with almost 5% having identified as swingers at some point in their lives.

Apart from the sheer fun of having various sexual partners, studies have shown that swingers are often happier in their relationships than those in sexually monogamous relationships. In short, swinging may be good for you!

But whether you are wife-swapping, husband-swapping, or partner-swapping, it takes two (or three, or four) to Tango. You need to find other like-minded people to swing with, and with that in mind, we put together a list of the best swinger dating sites.

When it comes to finding the right swingers dating site, the best approach should be finding where the fish are, meaning: which sites have the greatest amount of like-minded individuals or couples looking to hook-up with others.

AdultFriendFinder is just one of those places, with over 80 million members mostly looking for casual relationships. It is also known to be a good to locate swingers groups in your area, as the majority of members specifically sign up to look for swingers and threesomes.

Using AdultFriendFinder is easy: Chatrooms and groups are available to use for free and you can browse members to add them to your personal list or browse admirers. There is also a a “Hot or Not” style matchmaking system to help you find compatible matches

Registration and profile creation are free, and pricing starts at $10 a month

Read our full AdultFriendFinder Review

For Swingers Looking For Couples With Similars Kinks: XMatch

For some people it is just about the swing, but for others the holy (or unholy?) grail is the prospect of finding other swingers who are down with the same kinks and fetishes as they are.

That is the difference Xmatch brings, as it is known to be a place where like-minded people can connect for various adventures. Finding people with the same interests is easy, as Xmatch has an extensive search functionality as well as a kink profile section. The web version is surprisingly easy to navigate, though it should be noted that the content on Xmatch is decidedly not safe for work.

Xmatch has over 96 million members worldwide (about half from the U.S.), though about 66% of its members are men and there are some bots/fake profiles. You can test Xmatch for free, but afterwards paid membership (starting at $19.95/month) is required to view profiles and message other members, amongst other perks.

Read our full XMatch Review

Best Pure Swingers Site: Swapfinder

Swapfinder is a popular adult dating site for swingers to connect for sex, friendship and good times. It has an extensive membership base of about 40 million (about 30% of members are women). The site offers cool features, like a hot or not swiping game, live webcam chats and journal blogs. Women often post enticing photos that are free to view.

Swapfinder doesn’t have a mobile app, but the web experience is easy to navigate and many languages are supported for those looking to connect with swingers internationally.

Membership starts at $19.95/month, and membership gives users the ability to read and send messages, post explicit photos to find potential matches as well as join different photo contests.

Read our full Swapfinder Review

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