Father Wants To Cancel Christmas Because He Can’t Afford It: “She Won’t Know, Care, Or Even Remember”

Christmas is meant to be a time of festive cheer… but for many, that’s not the case. Some people are lonely, others are grieving. Then there are those who find themselves in a financial position that makes it near-impossible to celebrate or be happy.

A man has left people in tears after revealing that he’s considering canceling Christmas because he’s officially broke and drowning in debt. He says he feels like a failure to his wife and little girl but doesn’t see the point of putting up a tree when there’ll be nothing underneath it. There’s been a collective outpouring of kindness and support, as people try to convince the father to rethink things for the sake of his family.

How do you celebrate Christmas when you find yourself with a negative bank balance and have lost all hope?

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This husband and father feels it’s better to pretend the holiday doesn’t exist, but many disagree

Father considering canceling Christmas due to financial struggles, unable to afford holiday expenses this year.

Father wants to cancel Christmas due to financial struggles, worried daughter won’t know or remember the missed holiday.

He later revealed how he’d found out he was officially broke

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People assured the father that he’s not a failure and shared their advice

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Dozens of strangers showered the man with support, while still reminding him that his family deserves to celebrate

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Father struggling to afford Christmas considers canceling it, worrying his family won’t remember or care about gifts.

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Some suggested free ways to still have a merry Christmas

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After an outpouring of offers and messages from strangers, the man said he’d taken time to rethink things

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Father considers canceling Christmas due to financial struggles, worried children won’t notice or remember the holiday.

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Father struggling with finances considers canceling Christmas, worried his daughter won’t understand or remember the holiday.

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He also said that he’s sought professional help

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The dad gave another update 2 weeks later, and a lot had changed thanks to the collective kindness he received

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“Best update ever!”: people were thrilled and some even shed a tear

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