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Do you love men and being around them?
If you do, I’m sure you’ve noticed how different a man’s energy is from the feminine energy of you and your girlfriends.
The thing is, it’s so easy to assume men think and act like women . . . just with different bodies.
This way of thinking can create tremendous frustration for you when it comes to getting a date or taking it a step further, trying to get your needs met in a relationship.
That’s why today I’d like to share 3 awesome tips about men you can immediately put into action that will make your life so much easier and will help you enjoy who men really are.
And truthfully, they are pretty AMAZING once you understand them.
Tip #1… Men Love Making You Happy
That’s a shocker, isn’t it?
But men really do want to make you happy.
The secret lies in knowing how to ask them for their help so they’ll step up for you.
It’s as simple as saying these 4 Magic Words . . . “I need your help.”
Now, here’s another secret about men.
When he does step up, be careful of telling him how to do his job.
If you constantly criticize him, he will stop trying to make you happy because constant criticism makes him think that nothing he ever does is right or enough in your eyes.
If you want help from a man, graciously and appreciatively accept what he does for you even if it’s not exactly how you wanted it to look or how you’d have done it yourself.
Because the more you appreciate a man, the more he will want to give to you.
Tip #2… Men Can Only Focus On One Thing At A Time
Again here’s another area where we expect men to be like women but because of human history going back to the caveman days, we are totally different here too.
Men are single-focused.
It comes from the caveman days of hunting.
They had to focus on their prey and how they were going to bring this prey home as food for their family.
If they were distracted, they easily could have become the prey for an animal they were hunting.
Being single-focused is what kept them safe.
Keep this in mind when you ask a man to do something, and then start piling other tasks on top of it.
Most men can’t multi-focus like you can. And when you expect him to, it frustrates him because he doesn’t know which task will make your life easier.
Tip #3… Men Don’t Want You To Bend Like A Pretzel For Them
Ever get lost in a relationship, giving up honoring yourself and your desires to please the man in your life?
Want to know why you might have done this.
It’s back to the caveman days again where you did everything you could to keep your caveman happy so he would keep you and your children safe and protected.
Isn’t it interesting how this engrained part of our DNA has continued to be part of your life thousands of years later?
Now, let’s move to the present moment.
Emotionally healthy men don’t expect you to bend inside out for them or even want you to.
They actually are attracted to women who have their own interests and passions because those passions are what light you up and make you so attractive to a man.
So enjoy creating a new life with a good man but make sure you keep the qualities that attracted him to you when you met.
Kathleen is now engaged because she really used what she learned about men.
I don’t know how to say it for these ladies who want to find love to understand but I was not looking for marriage (technically I wasn’t even interested in marriage) yet, I’m now engaged. They need to listen and do exactly what you are saying about men. Even if they don’t find the relationship they want right away, using your info made my dates so much fun even when it wasn’t a match. I would say besides speaking in men’s language, the thing that I feel made the difference was that I was not desperate for a relationship and just enjoyed the night with someone new.
One of the things my guy said a while ago after I asked him the question….”What do I bring to the table for you?”. His answer: “your heart” I’m thinking that’s…..WHAT LISA SAID!! :))
his has been quite a journey and I want to thank you for helping, advising and encouraging me along the way. You really are good at your job and I don’t say that lightly. I am so in love thanks to what I learned from you. Kathleen, Texas
If you’re ready to share your heart and life with the right man . . .
You’ve been really successful in LIFE but not so much in LOVE . . .
And you’re ready to attract, meet and keep the man of your dreams NOW versus later . . .
Then I’d love to show you how it’s done.
Just click here to get started so 2023 can be your year of Love.
Believing in you!
Big hugs ~
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